Ladies - the type of woman that attracts you

[Night_Jasmine]

Well, it was mostly for the ladies but that's fine too.

I was sick over the weekend and spent time on the couch, vegging and trying to combat a fever. It was during that time, watching DVDs when I had an epiphany. I want a female version of Vincent from Beauty and the Beast. I want her to have his caring, empathy, and wisdom.

You think there's such a lady out there?

 

[Tymeless]

Well, it was mostly for the ladies but that's fine too.

I was sick over the weekend and spent time on the couch, vegging and trying to combat a fever. It was during that time, watching DVDs when I had an epiphany. I want a female version of Vincent from Beauty and the Beast. I want her to have his caring, empathy, and wisdom.

You think there's such a lady out there?

hmmm i don't know? possibly

 

[ItalianGoddess]

Sense of humor, honest, respectful, has goals in life, weight and race dont matter... but a girl who shares some of the same interests as myself and can kiss good lol

 

[Filly Gal]

Lithe, lean, sexy,smart, athletic!

 

[Silentslut]

Type of Woman I like

I like the kind of girl that looks like the one in Filly Gal avatar! WOW!!

 

[RebeccaRose]

Sense of humour, intellegent and all that regular stuff. Hmmm I can't say I like the 'perfect', you know those girls that think themselves the best thing in the world for no real reason. I think someone said, inperfections were a turn on for them, I agree, whats wrong with a little flaw, thats what makes someone beautiful in my eyes, dfference ...but with that confidence, the I don't care, I am who I am sort of attitude.

My past "friends" as it were, have been the dark hair 'girly(ish)' beauties. I mean I don't believe in 'types' as such but I guess if I had one she would have to be what I just described hehe.

Mind you, thats when I'm in a particularly gay mood or whatever.
For me, if the person has that 'certain something', no matter what gender, I could fall in love, with them.

And thats the end of what turned out to be a bit of a long post on my behalf

 

[mother_in_law]

Hi

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Wanted 21-29 bi girl, petite and feminine.
We are a couple of bi females who are having a relationship. We are in our mid fifties but you would not guess it. I am widowed and my girlfriend is divorced. Looking for a young woman that would love to go to dinner and dancing and come home with us on weekends. If interesred contact me.
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[alltherage]

It is always something in the eyes. I love women who love to be in control but not controlling. I love women who love women it seems to me that we understand and appreciate our bodies in ways that guys never get. I love red hears. I even get a kick out of freakles. Atheletic, strong, confildent, assured and smart all are a major plus.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

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Wanted 21-29 bi girl, petite and feminine.
We are a couple of bi females who are having a relationship. We are in our mid fifties but you would not guess it. I am widowed and my girlfriend is divorced. Looking for a young woman that would love to go to dinner and dancing and come home with us on weekends. If interesred contact me.
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Mother-in-law, as much as I am glad to see you take an interest in our thread, I do suggest you take this type of thing to the BGLT personals. You should get the response you're looking for there.

As for the other answers, I think they're wonderful. I wouldn't mind someone who would take control in the bedroom. I can be submissive and it'd be wonderful to have a lover that could fill that need. It wouldn't have to be all the time because I enjoy the slow tender love making as well.

 

[inmyanonymity]

attraction

Well, the first girl I fell for (and didn't know what was going on) was an art instructor (ok, mine). She had this incredible smile, and her eyes lit me up. She was a little shorter than my 5'6" and liked to wear button up blouses that were a little see-through (and I could imagine undoing those buttons one at a time). She had a great ass that I appreciated everytime she wrote on the board. And she wore those black rimmed glasses that just made her look more sexy. My second crush was a girl with a cherub face and long wavy auburn hair. She looked like she should be in all those nude paintings you see in museums. For me it's the total package. I like variety. There are a lot of hot women and what turns me on in one girl may not be the same thing that gets me hot with another.

 

[Fallenfromgrace]

Well i figured i'd better get myself out there in the LGBT forum summore

Ok, well im still ickle and inexperienced so to completely pigeon hole what kind of woman does it for me seems reductionist at best.

BUT, i will attempt to explain a few things.

I want a woman who can lead, someone who is patient enough to handle me but will take charge mostly at first (this may be due to my inexperience and age). For this reason, older women, managers, teachers- basically those with socially constructed authority over me and i am like jelly. The age one is a sexual experience and worldly wisdom based turn on.

I need her to be an understanding person, when i say that there are just some things i am not comfortable discussing, doing, showing etc, i need her to be understanding. I also need her to be understanding of what i need to do to get through- if for example i can only communicate how i feel with a painting then to not be upset or angry that i wont talk.

God...im being so specific.

Someone who can make me laugh and will laugh at my stupidity.

Someone who is up for just a snuggle on the couch.

A saturday morning lazing in gowns together, with coffee, the paper and the cat.

Someone who is willing to expain things that i know jack about.

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I avoid physical characteristics because i am attracted to such a varied collection of women.

 

[WynEternal]

Generally, I tend to be drawn to confident, intellegent women. She has an inner strength and is sensitive to others. She has to be mature, tho not necessarily older. Physically, not too fem or too butch. I tend to like the Linda Carter/Wonder Woman/Amazon types. All this is not to say that I cant fall for any other woman. I can develope feelings for anyone I have an emotional connection with.

 

[Terra_Cide]

Hope it's OK for a male to make comments here.

I always loved the Audrey Hepburn-type, too. You didn't mention her tiny titties, though. Do you love that, as well?

My first wife was small and had very tiny titties and the dark hair and eyes.

Sorry, not genetically predisposed to focus on tits.

 

[Dyke_Writer]

Hmmm, firstly hey ladies!

From experience, the type of woman that attracts me is the self obsessed, drama driven, selfish, cheating bitch.

Personality wise, I love a confident almost to the point of arrogance woman who knows what she wants and doesnt shy away from getting it. Funny, honest, caring but tough and not afraid of who and what she is but at the same time has to be soft and sensitive and not afraid to show emotion and be open. Shes gotta be able to kick some arse and cry at something silly... but not everything.

Physically, around the same sort of height as me, slim/average build and in proportion. Most importantly, she must have killer eyes, the sort that you could just get lost in for the rest of your life and not even care that you're lost.


My god, add in drug riddled and I've just completely described my partner/lover/whatever the hell she is to me.


Oh yeah, and honest, loyal and FAITHFUL!!! a word that seems to be lost on everyone I know.
I just want someone that wants me as much as I want her... and well, that just isn't the way it is.... Im going to become celebate I think... just me and my toys.. at least they don't cheat on me, then again, thats only coz they're locked up.... hmmm.... maybe I should do that with the lover... she does look great in handcuffs. lol.


My apologies for the downer!

 

[neonflux]

wide range...

I am attracted to a wide range of women, from high femme to elegant butch or boi. (I adore K.D. Lang but am also smitten by Angelina Jolie, LOL) What is more important than gender-presentation is lesbian energy (I know, bad since I'm bi and don't always project that). I am continually amazed by the number of high femme women celebrities that I find attractive only to later hear/read the rumors that they are queer.

Style is important.

Body - I like women who are a little more "rounded" than what is considered perfect by today's standards, but also want fitness - I had a woman lover once who was very, very large and also extremely firm everywhere - she was sooooooo sexy. she looked like a goddess with her clothes off.

Age - I am usually more attracted to women who are between early 40's to mid-50's - whose faces show that they have "lived." Usually, when I see a really cute woman who is younger these days, I find myself thinking, "Gee, I would have gone for her when I was younger!" Strangely, my last 2 women lovers were both in their early 30's and they pursued me! So age doesn't seem to be that big of a deal...

What I value most - confidence, compassion, consideration, wit, intelligence, a love of the arts/music, involvement in the world. Those things are sexy... (plus a little kink )

*sigh*

Neon

 

[neonflux]

Hmmm, firstly hey ladies!

From experience, the type of woman that attracts me is the self obsessed, drama driven, selfish, cheating bitch.

Personality wise, I love a confident almost to the point of arrogance woman who knows what she wants and doesnt shy away from getting it. Funny, honest, caring but tough and not afraid of who and what she is but at the same time has to be soft and sensitive and not afraid to show emotion and be open. Shes gotta be able to kick some arse and cry at something silly... but not everything.

Physically, around the same sort of height as me, slim/average build and in proportion. Most importantly, she must have killer eyes, the sort that you could just get lost in for the rest of your life and not even care that you're lost.


My god, add in drug riddled and I've just completely described my partner/lover/whatever the hell she is to me.


Oh yeah, and honest, loyal and FAITHFUL!!! a word that seems to be lost on everyone I know.
I just want someone that wants me as much as I want her... and well, that just isn't the way it is.... Im going to become celebate I think... just me and my toys.. at least they don't cheat on me, then again, thats only coz they're locked up.... hmmm.... maybe I should do that with the lover... she does look great in handcuffs. lol.


My apologies for the downer!

*big hugs* Neon

P.S., Goddess! That photo in your sig line!

 

[skittles_lm]

Hmmm, this one is hard for me. I'm attracted to all kinds of women.

I mostly like a little butch in my girl. Short hair, sports bra, tomboyish...

Dominant and confident, doesn't mind being naked, thoughtful and demanding.

Awesome in bed (ha ha) and open to experimentation.

Someone who can be feminine once in a great while but mostly leaves that to me.

Honest. Not prone to drama.

Perfection, really.

I'm lucky, I struck pretty damn close with VQ.



I love reading what everyone has written here. thanks for sharing, ya'll!

 

[SometimesNever]

Hmmm, I like this thread. It makes me introspect just a little. Kind of a brush up on what I already know

First off, I am attracted to natural beauty. Someone that is just as beautiful in my eyes when I wake up in the morning next to them and gaze upon them as they sleep and still find them beautiful. Someone who can get all dolled up or be just as comfortable in jeans and a T-shirt playing in the dirt.

I love the expressions and emotions in eyes. I like mouths that easily form expressions, smiles, pouts. I like to see cared for teeth. To see someone's heart on their sleeves, is a great one for me. Stature is important to me, someone with good posture is a plus.

Athletic physiques always go over well with me. Be it that they have wonderfully tone bodies, thinner and less muscular, or just a lil bit of something to round out the curves, is attractive to me. If she is fit she is more likely to have the endurance, agility and flexability I look for.

Me being 5' 11" about and pretty athletic with a touch of softness, most women are smaller than me anyways, which attracts me.

Wit and humor are a must for me. I look for someone who is interested in sharing all life has to offer and its emotions with me.

Someone who feeds off my dominating and commanding nature. Someone who is not afraid to come to me out of trust to talk about ANYTHING. Someone who goes out of their way to please me and be with me and isn't afraid to say so. Someone who respects my thoughtful, caring, nurturing ways but does not take advantage of them for they are a strength of mine and not a weakness.

Some one respects and enjoys me wanting to watch over her, guiding her, protecting her. Someone one who comes to me first and foremost. Hmmm I just love it when I am ran to...

I like to see life, a lil fire, perhaps some sassiness. Playfullness and teasing has its points on me but with that she must be ready for when my emotions take me and I in turn take her. Youth attracts me even those less experienced as they can be trained.

Someone who is cultured but wouldn't shy away from the experiences of lesser activities. Someone who can enjoy theater, art and on the flip side a serene and quiet stint with mother nature. Someone knows how to weigh the fact that there is a place and time for everything.

Here is a biiiig one. A woman who can move! Someone who can dance sensually or erotically. Its not a must but its a sure way to get my attention. If she is able to move her body like that I am more assured of her capabilities in other areas.

A good self awareness is a plus in my book. Someone who is true to herself about her hopes, desires, fears...who she is and what she is looking for.

Scents and smells are a huge one for me. I love the scented oils, lotions, incenses, perfumes, etc. Good hygiene is soooo important. Although the more natural scents of sweat and sex are quite appealing in the moment.

She must be honest in everything, I am VERY accepting on many things but I do not enjoy being lied to. It excites me to know that she wants to share everything with me.

We have to share many interests, beliefs, desires, etc. Share tastes in movies, books, foods, music, etc. The connection between two people is a turn on although enough differences to feed off each other is best in my opinion.

Wow! Well that turned out to be pretty darn long. So much that attracts me to a woman! I felt like I was putting out a personal add, hehe.

 

[Gi_Venus]

I love a woman that is , intelligent, gentle, playful, witty with a little bit of a strong personality, that has a lot of interests. Ahem....that will tolerate my chaotic nature....just nudge me in the right direction if you will. *sigh!*

 

[skittles_lm]

Wow! Well that turned out to be pretty darn long. So much that attracts me to a woman! I felt like I was putting out a personal add, hehe.

Hmmm...so, are you putting out a personals thread?

I cannot be the only one with this question running thru my mind, so I figured I would just ask.

For the sake of others, of course.

I'm taken.

but if I wasn't...

 

[Night_Jasmine]

I don't know if it's just my mood but reading over this today, I kind of feel inadequate. That's certainly not what I wanted to do when I started this. lol

 

[Chicklet]

hmm...

I *love* curvy women. Larger than average, with great asses and large breasts, but slightly slimmer waists. Sometimes I go nuts for the BBWs with the really gorgeous faces, and with facial piercings

I don't identify as bi, so this is all just to use the poor girl for sex.

 

[SometimesNever]

Hmmm...so, are you putting out a personals thread?

I cannot be the only one with this question running thru my mind, so I figured I would just ask.

For the sake of others, of course.

I'm taken.

but if I wasn't...

Hehe, as of right now I am not placing any personal ad and am not sure if I even will. I plan on just participating here in threads and keeping my eyes and ears open.

If someone finds interest in me I am sure they will PM me. If I find interest in someone, I am SURE I will PM them. It doesn't hurt to chit chat a little if there is interest. When the time and person is right, all will fall into place. Not quite in place to start anything serious, I have my own "closet to clean" and rearrange right now.

 

[playwithlezli]

Having a partner that doesn't play mind games is a must.

Mean what you say, say what you mean, and while talk is great, can you do the walk when the time comes?

You should be willing to move outside the 9-5 box and want to explore the world.

Sorry, not too coherent, keep thinking about having rainbow skittles for a nice, wet snack.

 

[Gi_Venus]

I don't know if it's just my mood but reading over this today, I kind of feel inadequate. That's certainly not what I wanted to do when I started this. lol

*warm hug* Oh my lovely sister you have much that is desirable...be good to yourself.