Let's talk about sex baby...

Sup girl, I like the way you think. *winks and tries to look sexy*



Does someone else have a name? Inquiring minds and what not ... ;)

Why yes, yes he does. :D

Just sayin', fantasies are always better when I'm not doing things by myself in them.
 
You prompt a confession from me pal. Decades ago. Guess I was 19. Field trip with my Architecture class, perhaps 18 lads we went to a disco and found there a coachload of lasses from an art school. All of us had a wild time on the dance floor and at the bar but I hooked up with the same lass all evening and wow was she a grinder on the boner. Gals had a long journey back on this damn coach so it was a rather early call for them to say goodbye. Frankly I had noticed that I was the only one of the 18 of us that had made a catch that could have gone places so I thought a public finale was in order. She was the last on the coach, my 17 pals stood around us on the pavement, and boy did we snog and feel each other up and a whole load of tongue while the driver's calling out 'I'm gonna shut this door on you missy! A show? you bet. Did I enjoy it? I think I did. My pals in a grump after that? Most yes!

I shall give you special dispensation for this one.... Damn good story!

Are your hands in her pants? Don't get me wrong, I love PDA and am a vouyer to boot. I've also witnessed some questionable acts performed by people I'd rather not sexualize. That's where PDA gets too much for me. But- I do normally have the ability to just walk away.

And that's just it, right? We like to see certain people displaying things, but not others. And everyone thinks they look good. Sometimes it's about looks. But sometimes too, it's about who the people are and who we are or were to them and them to us.

#102. What do you feel is the hottest fantasy to masturbate to?

Apparently the right answer is ones about the ladies at Lit.
I will simply say that I have, and there is a lot of truth to that.

For me it does have to be about "someone" and its usually doing "something specific" with them, but that changes.
 
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Still on #101 PDA

I was at a loose end in one of those Garden Centres which sell all sorts of household goods and ornaments, nice cafe etc. In the aisle a bit ahead of me a couple, early 30s? She most petite and shapely, oh tight tight jeans and a pretty top. High heels yet still tiny next to this X-shaped over 6' gym-fit hunk whose arms were long enough for him to comfortably caress the lass's butt as they slowly walked, stopped, looked at things, wandered on. She was looking up at his face as much as she was looking at anything. The sway of her hips and ass was mesmerising. And this big hand always there, slowly moving, on the delicious undulating curve of her denim from hip to thigh. This grin of satisfaction on his face.

PDA? I reckon in was a PD of "Yeah, guys, she blew me before I got out of bed this morning and we're gonna fuck like crazy soon as we get home."

Another confession: There was a bit of a PD going on on the front of my jeans and there was not a lot I could do about it! :D
 
#102. What do you feel is the hottest fantasy to masturbate to?

I think masturbation is a great opportunity to let your mind go to the more wild, ridiculous places you can't get to in reality. It's your own personal porn movie!

Love, emotion, personal pleasure, pleasuring others is amazing in real life, but yanking it (for me) tends to be about the more primal stuff. One recurring theme is about "performing", in some way, in front of multiple women. Stripping, being stripped, posing, getting caught, and then having it turn into a wild, out of control orgy where everyone is laughing and having fun---that gets me every time. :cool:
 
#103. Does anything sexual surprise you? What’s taboo? Is anything taboo? You can find almost anything on the internet if you know where to look. Everyone has their own known kinks and desires. It doesn’t seem like anything surprises me anymore. It doesn’t seem to matter if it is illegal or not. What do you think?
 
To be honest, after not having sex for two years ANY position would be welcome to me!!!!
 
#103 prompts me to ask some questions. They are about rape. OK, horrendous. But my questions are very specific:

Guys who are lovers, can you even imagine having the capability to be erect in a situation where you know the woman does not want you sexually? Am I unusual among men, in knowing that I would go flaccid in the situation of attempting sex with someone who didn't want it? IS there a "potential rapist in every man"? Or is that just not true at all?
 
#103 prompts me to ask some questions. They are about rape. OK, horrendous. But my questions are very specific:

Guys who are lovers, can you even imagine having the capability to be erect in a situation where you know the woman does not want you sexually? Am I unusual among men, in knowing that I would go flaccid in the situation of attempting sex with someone who didn't want it? IS there a "potential rapist in every man"? Or is that just not true at all?

I'd be limper than a wet noodle.
Taking charge, yes.
Being aggressive, yes.
"Taking" a woman, you betcha.
But a "rape" scenario, never.
 
#103. Does anything sexual surprise you? What’s taboo? Is anything taboo? You can find almost anything on the internet if you know where to look. Everyone has their own known kinks and desires. It doesn’t seem like anything surprises me anymore. It doesn’t seem to matter if it is illegal or not. What do you think?

I can't say I'm surprised as much as perplexed. Nothing seems to shock me, but there are still things that make me think "That's a thing?" I'm also sometimes surprised when I find out who is into these things. I'm not talking about illegal stuff, just bizarre, at least bizarre to me anyway. Then again, I probably like stuff that other people would think is weird.

That's what lead me to come up with my "general rule for sex":

As long as you're not hurting anyone,
And no one is hurting you,
Have as much fun as you can and never look back.
 
#103. Does anything sexual surprise you? What’s taboo? Is anything taboo? You can find almost anything on the internet if you know where to look. Everyone has their own known kinks and desires. It doesn’t seem like anything surprises me anymore. It doesn’t seem to matter if it is illegal or not. What do you think?

um....pedophilia, bestiality, both still surprise me.

Frankly, too, some of the harsher BDSM stuff, still surprises me.

I think that I'm generally a "live and let live" but things that look like abuse to me, still seem wrong.
 
#104. We have all seen and read the posts on here, where someone gets burned by another litster. What does one have to do to gain your trust? What’s the best way to ensure they are who they say they are? Is there a way to 100% protect yourself? Or are you the type to just accept people as they say they are and not give a damn?
 
Yeah. I'm surprised and disgusted when kids and animals are involved. That's just too far for me.

Agreed.

I'm not into bodily functions either...

um....pedophilia, bestiality, both still surprise me.

Frankly, too, some of the harsher BDSM stuff, still surprises me.

I think that I'm generally a "live and let live" but things that look like abuse to me, still seem wrong.

Y'all left out necrophilia.....
 
#104. We have all seen and read the posts on here, where someone gets burned by another litster. What does one have to do to gain your trust? What’s the best way to ensure they are who they say they are? Is there a way to 100% protect yourself? Or are you the type to just accept people as they say they are and not give a damn?

I've got a pretty good bullshit detector and tend to look for consistency in what someone says. If they're honest from the get-go, conversation runs more smoothly and chemistry can develop. I understand discretion and partake in it myself, but there are ways to be honest and open. The best relationships that have developed from here started that way, and I look forward to speaking with those people when I can. Consistency in the long run is difficult to maintain when you're a liar.
 
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