Lit Friendships

[WistfulWanderer]

Lurking here in the Personals section of the forum, I noticed an interesting trend. Amongst the folks looking for LTR, NSA, etc., there are plenty of people who just want a plain old friendship.

I would guess that they post here because they expect people to be less judgemental about their sexual sides.

Because you lot (platonic-friend-seekers) are in the minority, your threads go to the bottom of the heap unless you continue to bump to the point of ridiculous-ness. (Is that a word?)

So post here and increase your chances of finding what you seek. Others who post here will bump the thread higher on the list, increasing the number of readers of your posts as well as their own.

The more, the merrier.

 

[WistfulWanderer]

Proof that this thread (even a subforum) would be useful.

These are some quotes taken only from personals that were on the first page as of few minutes ago.

I am often on here and bored off my ass. I just want someone to hold up a conversation with. Doesn't have to be dirty, and it doesn't even have to be a girl just a person will at least seemingly interesting things to say.

Well, I can't promise I have riveting conversation: I am... shall we say... a wee bit eccentric. But I'm also bored out of my skull rather often and would be more than happy to make friends with random people online. PM me if that seems at all what you're looking for, and unless you completely blow the creepiness scale or something, I'll give you my instant messenger tags.

Either way, have a gorgeous day, everyone!

Ria

yeah, it is hard to find people who want to carry on an actual conversation. Love the dirty chat. Don't get me wrong. But there's something to be said about being able to have an intelligent conversation.

Hello, I'm looking for a platonic female friend. The reason I am looking on here (it's not because I want it to lead to sex), is because I would like someone who is as open minded to these kind of taboos as me. I don't want to share it with them, I would just like to not have any "skeletons" if you know what I mean.

I get lonely a lot, and I just like to have friends, even though I don't have many. I come online to meet a few online friends, maybe, someone to talk to when I get home, someone who just likes a nice chat.

I'm a big fan of movies and books. I'll probably talk your ear off on the subject.

I would like friends of all ages, closer to my age or older, I enjoy people as a whole and learning about them.

PM me if you're interested.

Hey there,
I have been a member here for a few years and frankly am tired of being HIT on. I was just hunting some one to chat with and share my life experiences with and make friends, not have cyber or phone sex like so many guys want.
A little about me.
I am very open minded about life and its context. I believe things that others don't. I can explain that to you on a personal level because most would not be open to my insite.
I am 41, divorced, have kids older and younger than you.
I have done many things in my life time that some people only wish they did, and I have no regrets!
I am bold and brash, a Big Beautiful Woman, but what matters is the intellegence and the maturity level of ones personality. Inner peace and beauty is more than outer.
I read, write, and live life.
If your intrested, drop me a line.
If not, good luck in your search.
You can find my profile here and you can also link to my writings at:

http://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=913928&page=submissions

I am always up to making new friends. I am a 30yr old female, in a relationship, mother of 2 and work from home so plenty of time to enjoy a nice chat. Send me a Pm i think i finally got it working,lol.

It would just be nice to have someone to chat with on a regular basis.


I'm online a few nights a week and would enjoy some online company. As the title suggests, the conversation doesn't have to be sexual but if it goes in that direction I can deal with it, lol

I have a great sense of humor, am intelligent and open-minded. I will listen to anything you'd like to share and hope that I can make some good friends

Hope to hear from any takers.

A

Ok well I am going to try this one more time. I am looking for friends. Not just sex talk friends.. I want friend friends. People you can chat with. Not just on lit but on yahoo. I wish there was a site where you just made friends.

I am married, have kids, a stay at home dad. Most of my friends live down south and I relocated for the marriage. I do get lonely at times and wish I had friends to just chat with. Stay at home moms know what I am talking about. Yes I have kids who are adults and I ended up with a surprise and so now I am doing this all over again.

If you want a friend...someone to talk about life, kids, grandkids... Hey I talk about everything... let PM me and let me know.

That is all I am looking for.. is friends... I hope I hear back from you guys who want a good friend...

 

[jenamapat]

Excellent idea Wistful!

 

[ThunderCatVoB]

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[makeUcum4me9988]

I agree with you

It would be nice to find some folks who just like to discuss how things are going. I'm always up for good conversation unless I'm busy working but even then need a break now and then too.

Great Idea!

 

[Crawlingchaos]

Here Here, i am up for any kind of chat a sexy woman would like, i am not concerned with alot of the sexual side of things, as most of the times i don't really pick up on things like that lol, (i know my fault), I would be happy to chat about anything at all

 

[andrewgoogle]

Hi, my name is Dru and I'm from Virginia. I would love to have some more friends to chat with - platonic or not. Two of the reasons that led me to the forums are 1) to meet new people, and 2) to explore my own sexuality more. So I'm basically here to get to know others and get to know myself. PM me if you have more questions, or contact me at Yahoo IM - andrewgoogle2006.

Cheers!

 

[londonfun1]

I met a great friend on here after lurking for a while and finding someone I thought I had a lot in common with! We talk/chat almost every day and I think partly b/c we met where we did I feel I can tell her anything! I'm glad there is finally a venue for this now! Good Thread!

 

[milyf]

I heartily echo everything you all have said! There are so many of us who want to learn about each other in a not-so-pornographic way. Don't get me wrong...a dose of porn now & then is just what the doctor ordered, *grin* but I want to know what people are thinking without wondering if their conversation is simply foreplay.

 

[pink]

One can never have too many friends. Great thread idea.

 

[Isid]

I like this idea... not even sure what I am looking for... just spend time lurking and surfing the boards at the end of a busy day... pretty much the extrovert during the work day (wears me out) and yet when I come home... mostly the introvert...

 

[Stillstiff]

I like this and I'm always looking for more friends..like to chat and no it doesn't always have to be dirty...I'm a 52 year old male

 

[milyf]

I like this idea... not even sure what I am looking for... just spend time lurking and surfing the boards at the end of a busy day... pretty much the extrovert during the work day (wears me out) and yet when I come home... mostly the introvert...

Me too, Isid. Feel free to PM any of us to tell us about your day. At least, I hope I can assume anyone who's posted on this thread feels the same way?

 

[Jenny_Kawaii]

Great thread! I have met a few good people here whom I chat with regularly.

 

[asian_princess]

Hi, I'm Appy.

I'm moody, demanding, whiny, selfish, thoughtless and needy.

I don't return PMs or e-mails and never ever show online on Yahoo or MSN in case you message me and, frankly, I just don't want to talk to you.

When I do catch you on IM, the chances of me disappearing mid conversation are 99.999%. There was one time in 2004 that someone had a blackout and left before me. It's possible he was only pretending, but that option is ow-y to my ego so we shan't entertain it.

Once a week/fortnight, I'll expect you to be there when I get home on a Friday night to try to decipher my drunk typing. There will be many exclamations of love and also cursing men and humans in general. I'll expect you to join in. On non drunk days, my typo-ing will be just as bad, but no, I don't fix them so don't bring them up. I will, however, mock you mercilessly for yours. Once in a blue moon, a typo, however, will have a hilarious meaning, so don't say I never bring anything to the relationship.

I like violence. Pinching and thwacking you will be a predominant way of expressing how I feel. Some people send e-cards and chocolates when you’re sick, but I find there’s nothing like a poke wherever you’re hurting to show you I care…I’m showing I know exactly where you’re hurting, aren’t I? Violence aimed towards me, however, will be met with sulking and the silent treatment. My email is appyisagoodfriend@hotmail.com you can send the ecards there when you’re ready to apologise.

I will take great care to listen to you when you’re down.

So I can bring those things up again when you’re up, to show you what a horrible decision maker you are and how you should’ve listened to me. But don’t worry *smiles* I won’t ever say “I told you so”, the t-shirt that says "I told you so" I’m wearing in the picture I make you carry of me in your wallet is all the reminder you’ll ever need.

Lastly, being as I care so much for the goings-on in your life, I will expect to be updated at 5 minute intervals on what you’re doing. There are no exceptions, “I have a date”, “I’m in the doctor’s office”, “the police officer says to get off the phone” are flimsy excuses, and if nothing else, are obvious signs that you need my presence even more at the particular moment in your life.

It’s all because I cares.

And I give huggles.

Lots of them.

To the point of annoyance.

And at the detriment of your breathing.

But at least the last thought you’ll have is “Aw, Appy loves me so much she is huggling me literally to death…so glad…I…left..her…everything…in my…wil-…*thump*”

Be my friend?

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*giggles*

I just being honest!!

Lovely idea for a thread, Wisty And I'd say you’re right, many of us here are here for friendship and conversation. The bumping of our naked sweaty baby oiled up bodies is just a great ice breaker. *nods* You should try it!

Have a wonderful day, everyone.

And may you all find someone here, or elsewhere, who can help you fill the days with laughter and friendship... they're around, trust me, I've found mine.

 

[quitealady]

I think this a good idea for a thread. I have made some friends on lit and we talk about anything and everything. Not just sex. I can always use more friends...

 

[Isid]

To Appy - thank you for the laugh - could just use "LMAO" but didn't seem to quite fit the bill..

 

[asian_princess]

To Appy - thank you for the laugh - could just use "LMAO" but didn't seem to quite fit the bill..

That's because you missed the F in LMFAO

I should've mentioned I enjoy cursing, but that might be rude and offensive to people who frequent a sex forum

*hugglegropes... and pats your F-ing A*

 

[ZipBlockBloodie]

Yeah I have met a few people on this site, this is a good idea though, My name is Latawn Nice to meet you all.

I love chatting on yahoo, I am a total nerd/geek. So if your interesting in wanting to know more about me just PM me.

 

[Isid]

Me too, Isid. Feel free to PM any of us to tell us about your day. At least, I hope I can assume anyone who's posted on this thread feels the same way?

That's because you missed the F in LMFAO

I should've mentioned I enjoy cursing, but that might be rude and offensive to people who frequent a sex forum

*hugglegropes... and pats your F-ing A*

LMFAO

 

[sereneone4u]

Great thread.

 

[jenniferbaby]

It's interesting, I feel totally comfortable accosting or being accosted by random strangers to engage in online sex. But the thought of looking for friends...that daunts me just a little. In any event, I'm throwing in my support to keep this thread alive. I might get the guts to PM someone, but in the meantime, feel free to PM me about anything or everything.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

always happy to make new friends

 

[smoochmycooch]

Great thread. Glad I'm not the only one thinking this way, though I've gotten a few PMs judging me for the fact that I'm NOT looking for sexual chat. I don't judge you for what you're into, please don't judge me for what I'm not. Besides, getting to know someone, engaging their mind with intelligent conversation is something I find extremely sexy. Who knows, if you can get into my head, maybe you can get into my bed!

 

[Vinde]

i also would like to find new friends to chat with. Great idea.