Making him more comfortable with going down on me?

[Lust Engine]

My apologies for not posting to your thread sooner on this subject matter, sheath. It's always been a near & dear subject matter with me. I've always enjoyed going down on a woman & delving between her legs to give her that special pleasure.

But from the sounds of things, you've seemed to have resolved quite a few issues already in re-assuring him of your desires. Your willingness to encourage him speaks volumes of your concern for him too. It's not just about YOU YOU YOU even though it is to a certain degree. You already want him to be a major factor in your pleasure and don't seem to be afraid to let it be known.

You've got some wonderful suggestions here by the masses and I thibk you've already taken the most important steps toward achieving that pleasure.

Again, my apologies for jumping on late but you've already got my adoration & best wishes!

 

[sheath]

Again, my apologies for jumping on late but you've already got my adoration & best wishes!

The adoration is mutual, you sexy engine, you.

S.

 

[Lust Engine]

The adoration is mutual, you sexy engine, you.

S.

Awwwww shucks!

(where's a blushing emoticon when you need one?)

 

[ApplesMcgee]

hrm...

.....

 

[!rebeccakohl!]

I'm not all that confident about my body sometimes, when I take in all the flaws...but when he's with me, he makes me feel like the most beautiful woman on the planet. Maybe that's part of why I am so eager for him to go down on me. I have never felt as lovely and seductive as I do when he looks at me with that passion in his eyes.

Glad you suggested it...he WOULD like a copy of this thread, wouldn't he?

S.

Let us know how things worked out for you, Sheath. Call me soppy but I want a happy ending to this story.

 

[Lust Engine]

Let us know how things worked out for you, Sheath. Call me soppy but I want a happy ending to this story.

You & me both!

I want to know good tidings from this as well!

 

[Lust Engine]

Let us know how things worked out for you, Sheath. Call me soppy but I want a happy ending to this story.

And rebecca...we'd never call you soppy on this thread!

 

[!rebeccakohl!]

And rebecca...we'd never call you soppy on this thread!

Just "slippy".

 

[!rebeccakohl!]

bumpity bump

 

[Dweezil44]

I don't expect to come the first time...but damned if I almost did when he tried it last weekend! I might surprise us both...

S.

If you can orgasm from his hand, you should be able to oragasm from his mouth. If nothing else, intense focus on your clitoris (side to side, then up and down, repeat as necessary) should work.

If he needs to have his mind on something, have him lick the alphabet. Seriously. You may be laughing now, but you won't be later . . .

Hope it all works out.

D--

 

[sheath]

Let us know how things worked out for you, Sheath. Call me soppy but I want a happy ending to this story.

And a happy ending it is!

Friday night...his first night here with me...we were wandering through the satellite channels and decided to watch porn. Of course, the first scene? A man giving a woman oral.

I watched for a while, then told him point-blank, "I want you to do that to me. I really, really want it. Please?" And of course, all of my 'please' were punctuated by kisses and touches in all the right places.

Within minutes, we were in the bedroom...and he was nervous as hell. But he took his time, we talked all the way through, and he finally relaxed enough to do it.

And...Oh. My. GAWD. I damn near fell apart. I came so hard, I cried like a baby when it was over. Neither of us had expected me to orgasm from it, but I did...and he told me later that I was so wet, he knew I loved it, and that was all the proof he needed.

It wasn't as difficult to talk him into it as I thought it would be...and he did it more than once this weekend. I absolutely LOVE the feeling of being able to orgasm with his mouth. I felt so vulnerable, completely open and trusting, and I really did let myself go. It is something I hope to repeat again...and again...and again...and....



I'm a very happy lady. Thanks, all!

S.

 

[Dweezil44]

Hooray!

D--

 

[lovinanalandy]

Let us know how things worked out for you, Sheath. Call me soppy but I want a happy ending to this story.

Well alright! I'm a sucker for a sappy soppy ending!

 

[!rebeccakohl!]

And...Oh. My. GAWD. I damn near fell apart. I came so hard, I cried like a baby when it was over. Neither of us had expected me to orgasm from it, but I did...and he told me later that I was so wet, he knew I loved it, and that was all the proof he needed..... I absolutely LOVE the feeling of being able to orgasm with his mouth. I felt so vulnerable, completely open and trusting, and I really did let myself go. It is something I hope to repeat again...and again...and again...and....

Oh, that is sooo cool. You've almost got me crying, babe.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[sheath]

Woo-hoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm guessing there will be plenty of repeat performances!!!!!!!

What a great way to start off an engagement!

Ahhhhh...

I'm still reeling from the thrill of it.

And yes...if I hadn't said yes before, I would be the one proposing NOW! lol

S.

 

[Goodnaturedguy]

I might be wrong, I usually am,BUT theres more here then he is telling you. Some of the things that popped into my head are:

You have a strong smelling pussy. I've found the darker a womans skin is, the stronger the scent and the more acidic it tastes. If this is you, douch everyday and shave.

He doesn't have as much experience as he has reported and now he's afraid you'll figure that out.

Do you ejaculate heavily? Maybe he finds having his mouth filled with honey as distastefull. I don't like the taste of female ejaculate myself, so I use my hand to redirect it away from my mouth. Some women really cum too, like a pint!! Maybe you do.

But the main point I would make is, in my opinion he is making excuses for one reason or another. Just my opinion, not meant to be mean or anythiung and I sure don't want you to get all hung up on it.

 

[sheath]

I might be wrong, I usually am,BUT theres more here then he is telling you...

But the main point I would make is, in my opinion he is making excuses for one reason or another. Just my opinion, not meant to be mean or anythiung and I sure don't want you to get all hung up on it.

Thanks for your advice on the matter, Goodnaturedguy. My man and I had already figured out the problem...and making excuses was NOT the problem.

My question was for advice on how to reassure him and make him more comfortable, given the situation we were in, which was made clear by my first post. We've done that, (with thanks to the literoticans who offered wonderul advice and ideas) and are well on our way to enjoying ALL facets of our sexuality.

Thanks, though.

S.

 

[DuckLover]

Congratulations again Sheath! Both on the engagement and the oral sex! I hope both just continue to get better!

 

[!rebeccakohl!]

You have a strong smelling pussy. I've found the darker a womans skin is, the stronger the scent and the more acidic it tastes. If this is you, douch everyday and shave.

That is such crap, Goodnaturedguy. That's the kind of hoohah the pharmaceutical companies have been trying to make us believe for years. A woman's pussy is naturally acidic. That's how it stays healthy. If a guy can't handle the taste or smell of a woman's pussy, I have to wonder if he actually likes women.

Just my opinion. Not meant to be mean or anything.

 

[sheath]

That is such crap, Goodnaturedguy. That's the kind of hoohah the pharmaceutical companies have been trying to make us believe for years. A woman's pussy is naturally acidic. That's how it stays healthy. If a guy can't handle the taste or smell of a woman's pussy, I have to wonder if he actually likes women.

Just my opinion. Not meant to be mean or anything.

S.

 

[!rebeccakohl!]

LOL. Sorry. That just always winds me up.

 

[Harry Kunst]

Hahaha. You go, girl!

Harry's Angels:
My Pics & Vids

 

[likkit_there]

I dont know if he spends much time on line or not, but you may have him read my on line journal.... It has tons of normal oral sex accounts. I am a 41 year old woman and have always been addicted to oral sex, and lately I have been on a role. You may both find some very helpful and stimulating advice and adventures. Its not a porn or paysite, just my regular online journal. Here is the link...http://likkit.diary-x.com

Enjoy!

 

[DisGirlisNutz]

With out reading everyones post's I would dominate him in the heat of sex and tell him to lick your pussy right now!

Or tell your about to cummmmm and for him to lick it before the feeling goes away. That might cure him!


Just a thought..... Sorry if it sounds forceful...however it seems you have talked about it and the only way it to get him to do it is to catch him off gaurd. He will probably do with out having to think about it!


DGN