Married Women Steppin Out

[toys_em_us]

Have you, Do you, or would you cheat on your spouse?

 

[elizabeth22673]

I convinced my husband to swing. It's the best solution for MY relationship IMO..cuz then I don't have to cheat and still enjoy another man's company

 

[toys_em_us]

Great idea... Mine wont even consider that so I am out of luck there.

 

[toys_em_us]

I have found that I prefer a married woman to have a clandestine meeting with, its so intense...

 

[MsTexas]

What would be the point in cheating if you're married?

 

[toys_em_us]

What would be the point in cheating if you're married?

Because your not having enough sex at home and the fact that you having sex with another mans wife is erotic.

 

[MsTexas]

Because your not having enough sex at home and the fact that you having sex with another mans wife is erotic.

Since when did cheating become erotic?

 

[toys_em_us]

It is for me

 

[MsTexas]

It is for me

Nice marriage you must have then.

 

[toys_em_us]

not really, thus the stepping out for what i crave, and what it seems that so many others crave as well

 

[MsTexas]

not really, thus the stepping out for what i crave, and what it seems that so many others crave as well

Forgive me if I dont understand why you're married if you want to cheat on the one you say you "love" and made vows to.

 

[toys_em_us]

things changed in the bedroom and while i love her and her company, she cant satisfy me in bed

 

[MsTexas]

things changed in the bedroom and while i love her and her company, she cant satisfy me in bed

~shakes head~

I guess I will never understand.

 

[toys_em_us]

if your happy in your marriage, then no you wont, but others know what i mean i am sure

 

[MsTexas]

if your happy in your marriage, then no you wont, but others know what i mean i am sure

I'm not married, I got divorced after my husband cheated on me with another.

So, hence ... I will NEVER understand.

 

[toys_em_us]

ahh i see

 

[MsTexas]

ahh i see

I'm sure you dont.

 

[sandraxdav]

is he allowed to be there lol,if so yes

 

[MsTexas]

is he allowed to be there lol,if so yes

No one said he wasnt allowed to be here

 

[toys_em_us]

I'm sure you dont.

Oh but I do, I have been on both sides of the coin.

 

[SecretLove69]

Have you, Do you, or would you cheat on your spouse?

YES, YES, YES

I went outside my vows and it caused me a lot of guilt for a while until I realized he wasn't full-filling his vows to me - To Have and To Hold...............he neither cares to have me nor to hold me.

If I could afford to leave on my own I would but I don't have the luxury of a full bank account.

When you are left alone - physically and mentally you reach out - desperate times call for desperate measures and since I wasn't willing to shut off my life just because he did - I cheated.

I don't expect everyone to agree with what I am doing or what anyone else who goes outside their marriage is doing but I do expect that you not come here and throw stones. To each his/her own and until you walk in my shoes or sleep in my bed you have no right to judge.

If this thread or the people that post here piss you off.....dont read it.

 

[toys_em_us]

YES, YES, YES

I went outside my vows and it caused me a lot of guilt for a while until I realized he wasn't full-filling his vows to me - To Have and To Hold...............he neither cares to have me nor to hold me.

If I could afford to leave on my own I would but I don't have the luxury of a full bank account.

When you are left alone - physically and mentally you reach out - desperate times call for desperate measures and since I wasn't willing to shut off my life just because he did - I cheated.

I don't expect everyone to agree with what I am doing or what anyone else who goes outside their marriage is doing but I do expect that you not come here and throw stones. To each his/her own and until you walk in my shoes or sleep in my bed you have no right to judge.

If this thread or the people that post here piss you off.....dont read it.

And with agreement on everything said, I think we need to explore the common lack of fulfillment.

 

[MsTexas]

YES, YES, YES

I went outside my vows and it caused me a lot of guilt for a while until I realized he wasn't full-filling his vows to me - To Have and To Hold...............he neither cares to have me nor to hold me.

If I could afford to leave on my own I would but I don't have the luxury of a full bank account.

When you are left alone - physically and mentally you reach out - desperate times call for desperate measures and since I wasn't willing to shut off my life just because he did - I cheated.

I don't expect everyone to agree with what I am doing or what anyone else who goes outside their marriage is doing but I do expect that you not come here and throw stones. To each his/her own and until you walk in my shoes or sleep in my bed you have no right to judge.

If this thread or the people that post here piss you off.....dont read it.

Perfectly said SecretLove.

~hugs to you~

 

[borg3of4]

YES, YES, YES

I went outside my vows and it caused me a lot of guilt for a while until I realized he wasn't full-filling his vows to me - To Have and To Hold...............he neither cares to have me nor to hold me.

If I could afford to leave on my own I would but I don't have the luxury of a full bank account.

When you are left alone - physically and mentally you reach out - desperate times call for desperate measures and since I wasn't willing to shut off my life just because he did - I cheated.

I don't expect everyone to agree with what I am doing or what anyone else who goes outside their marriage is doing but I do expect that you not come here and throw stones. To each his/her own and until you walk in my shoes or sleep in my bed you have no right to judge.

If this thread or the people that post here piss you off.....dont read it.

I agree with everything you have said . My situation is very much the same , and my lover's situation is very much the same . The part about the spouse not fulfilling their end of the vows is dead on. Thank you Secret.

 

[lovemonster]

I convinced my husband to swing. It's the best solution for MY relationship IMO..cuz then I don't have to cheat and still enjoy another man's company

I'm in a similar position.....love my hubby very much but sometimes just want a bit of fun.....so we both have our fun outside of the home and share things together too....