Susano
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BethAnne said:so Susano...if i understand you correctly (and please feel free to say i don't...)
men are scared of commitment because they
1) prefer freedom
2) and that since the only constant is change...it's preposterous for us to expect men to commit because to do so means that they are acting against a natural law...so therefore, do not commit, since it's not possible to stay committed.
now you correct me if that isn't what you were trying to say!
but can i just say...
that no one said the committment had to be irrevocable...
and
if both parties are changing and growing, it's not unreasonable to think they can remain together
and
healthy relationships do allow for individual freedom
so
i don't think that's the problem
i think temptations just hasn't met the right man yet
and when she does
they will committ to each other
unconditionally, totally, and completely!
Oh, for sure she'll meet the right man, and he'll think differently than that! I can no more speak for every man than I can for every computer geek, or everyone who wears t-shirts.
Just giving my own reasons, since I hadn't heard them yet, and they're good ones--for me.



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