Mine doesn’t always work….

[intothewoods]

He's right you know.

I know from experience. My ex was 17 years my senior. He needed it sometimes.

Aren't you, like, barely legal? So your ex was, what, 37?

 

[midwestyankee]

Aren't you, like, barely legal? So your ex was, what, 37?

I did the same math. Made me wonder if too much time spent watching 80's television had an adverse affect on someone's pecker power.

 

[Homburg]

I did the same math. Made me wonder if too much time spent watching 80's television had an adverse affect on someone's pecker power.

Um, right. 37, that hurts my brain. It should still work fine at 37. I hope it still works fine at 37.

 

[Shankara20]

Um, right. 37, that hurts my brain. It should still work fine at 37. I hope it still works fine at 37.

now-now-now

as some of us know all too well, it doesn't always work, at least not as the-one-to-whom it is attached would like

we must all be kind to our brothers out there fighting the good fight with less-then-cooperative equipment.

 

[intothewoods]

I did the same math. Made me wonder if too much time spent watching 80's television had an adverse affect on someone's pecker power.

I was hoping the answer was, heck no, I'm 25! Twenty-five is my lower limit. Well, was, when I was on the prowl.

 

[Shankara20]

Twenty-five is my lower limit.

ohthankgod I'm over 25




waaayyyy over

 

[Homburg]

now-now-now

as some of us know all too well, it doesn't always work, at least not as the-one-to-whom it is attached would like

we must all be kind to our brothers out there fighting the good fight with less-then-cooperative equipment.

I'm saying that because I'm not all that far away from 37.

It worries me to think that a 37yr old guy would need the little blue pill, especially when dealing with the rampant hotness that is satindesire.


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Yes, HC, I'm talking to you. You better fucking work at 37.

 

[intothewoods]

ohthankgod I'm over 25




waaayyyy over

Hot. But you'll play my leather boy for me if I ask nicely, right? No? What -- too kinky?

 

[satindesire]

Aren't you, like, barely legal? So your ex was, what, 37?

*fwap!*

I'm 23, sister! *muttermutter* And as I side note, I'm turning 24 in less than a month.

He was 35 when I met him. You do the math.

 

[satindesire]

I'm saying that because I'm not all that far away from 37.

It worries me to think that a 37yr old guy would need the little blue pill, especially when dealing with the rampant hotness that is satindesire.


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Yes, HC, I'm talking to you. You better fucking work at 37.

Rampant? Holie Canolie.

*Blushing madly*

As a side note, he was addicted to porn (one of the myriad reasons we split) and had a hard time achieving boner-hood unless he was parked in front of the laptop.

I was young, super fit, blonde and naive, a porn star in the making. He preferred girls with big fake ta-tas I guess??

 

[intothewoods]

*fwap!*

I'm 23, sister! *muttermutter* And as I side note, I'm turning 24 in less than a month.

He was 35 when I met him. You do the math.

Sweet, call me when you're 25.

 

[Homburg]

Rampant? Holie Canolie.

*Blushing madly*

As a side note, he was addicted to porn (one of the myriad reasons we split) and had a hard time achieving boner-hood unless he was parked in front of the laptop.

I was young, super fit, blonde and naive, a porn star in the making. He preferred girls with big fake ta-tas I guess??

Ah, gotcha. He had an issue that had nothing to do with functionality, and everything to do with porn overload.

I am on the other end of the spectrum. Porn does little to nothing for me thse days. I don't particularly tug it much at all any more. Pixellated plastic chicks just don't do it for me. I prefer my naked, willing ladies to be naked in my presence and willing towards me, not a camera.

"I was young, super fit, blonde and naive, a porn star in the making." is all the viagra I need.

 

[satindesire]

Sweet, call me when you're 25.

*wags eyebrows suggestively*

Is that a promise or a threat?

Umm, *shifty eyes* wait, hopefully it's both, right?!

RIGHT?!

 

[satindesire]

Ah, gotcha. He had an issue that had nothing to do with functionality, and everything to do with porn overload.
*Snip*

It was a very difficult time for me, sexually. On one hand, he was quite a bit older and FAR more experienced than me and shagged like a DEMON(I think I had had a total of what-five partners before him?!), on the other hand his libido plus addiction meant he was yanking the pepperoni more than he was shagging me.

And THAT, my friend, is a problem.

 

[Homburg]

It was a very difficult time for me, sexually. On one hand, he was quite a bit older and FAR more experienced than me and shagged like a DEMON(I think I had had a total of what-five partners before him?!), on the other hand his libido plus addiction meant he was yanking the pepperoni more than he was shagging me.

And THAT, my friend, is a problem.

I agree. Rosey Palm and her ugly sisters are a piss-poor substitute for the real thing.

 

[Shankara20]

hmmmm, some new info here

"Obtaining a good sexual history requires practice. Firstly, it is important to define of which sexual dysfunction the patient is complaining. It is not uncommon for patients to confuse impotence with other sexual dysfunctions such as premature ejaculation, retarded orgasm, or even retrograde ejaculation. Defining a patient's (and partner?s) expectations and goals is also of value as some patients present purely to obtain information, others? interest lies only in oral therapy while others want ?whatever it takes? to resolve their problem.

With regard to erectile dysfunction (ED) the key questions include duration of ED, degree of ED, erectile spontaneity, erectile sustaining capability, early morning/nocturnal erectile function, timing of last sexual intercourse, and whether the erectile dysfunction is situational or not. The definition of erectile dysfunction is ?the consistent inability to obtain and/or maintain an erection sufficient for satisfactory sexual performance,? therefore, consistency of ED is important. While the definition of consistency is somewhat debatable most authorities believe that a man with the three-month history of ED warrants treatment. Defining whether the patient has primary problem with spontaneity or sustaining capability may give the clinician an idea as to the etiology of the problem. One of the great myths in sexual medicine is that the presence of a rigid early morning erection indicates psychogenic ED. This is a false concept, as many men with significant arteriogenic ED wake up with good erectile rigidity. The presence of good early morning erections is suggestive only of adequate venocclusive function. The hallmarks of psychogenic ED are sudden onset erectile problems and intermittency of function, therefore assessing these factors by history is also important. Furthermore, defining if the erectile dysfunction is situational, such as a discrepancy in erectile function between partners or between a partner and masturbation, may help support a diagnosis of psychogenic ED.

Even in patients who present with erectile dysfunction, questions regarding ejaculatory function, orgasmic function and libido are important. The goal of the clinician should be to allow the patient to return to satisfactory sexual relations, and while resolution of erectile dysfunction is an important start, addressing and treating any secondary sexual dysfunctions such as premature ejaculation and/or loss of libido will likely be necessary to maintain patient satisfaction. It is not uncommon for patients with long-standing ED to have a significant reduction in their sex drive and furthermore, they are also at risk for developing premature ejaculation particularly if they have problems with maintenance of erectile rigidity. Correcting a patient's erectile dysfunction may have a positive effect on the patient?s secondary premature ejaculation."

link

 

[Homburg]

My most consistent affective factor is temperature. If it is too hot, it is an almost guarantee that I will not achieve orgasm. I'll fuck all night, and sweat like a beast. Not a fun combo. Get it hot enough though, and I won't even be able to maintain rigidity. I hate the heat.

In the end, good, working AC is a sexual aid for me.

 

[Shankara20]

I have been asked about the use of cock rings to help maintain an erection for an older gentleman. Here is the information I offered -

We do use cock rings and I would be more then happy to share my experiences - they do help.

Mr S Leather at mr-s-leather.com has a great selection - I suggest something like the "Plain Leather Cock Strap, 5 Snap" as a starter to find out what size works best for his equipment. When I use my rings I like to have my cock and balls included, I do know some guys who just use stretch bands at the base of their cocks and not include their balls and they get rather good results. There are devices on the market for that like the Love Ring sold at goodvibes.com.

I do not know of a web site with a tutorial about using them, but I am sure there is info around.

I welcome any questions.... I will even post pics of how to put on a non-snap cock ring if it will help - they can be a challenge until one figures out how to slip balls through one at a time.


Plain Leather Cock Strap, 5 Snap

Stainless Steel Cock Ring

How I put on a solid cock ring...

slide cock through and one ball - the ball can be gently encouraged into the ring by pushing it in from the back

while pulling the ring as far as possible to the other side gently encourage the second ball into the ring by pushing behind the ball - this is the part that takes a little time to learn but it is neet how a ball will just sorta all of a sudden jump in.

once in place do what you do to get the reluctant cock excited - the ring will prevent the blood now flowing into the cock making the hard-on from flowing out of the cock thereby helping sustain an erection.


Hope this helps

 

[Homburg]

I'd been wondering how that works. So how do you size a ring that is intended to encompass shaft and balls? And what is the difference between this style, and one that just slides around the shaft?

 

[unpredictablebijou]

really good things about cock rings:

1. They're simple and easily used
2. They're very, very effective
3. They're completely organic. No drugs necessary
4. There are a thousand different styles, materials and profiles - and you can make your own relatively easily
5. Putting them on is actually sexy to watch
6. They tell your partner you care enough to send the very best
7. They're infinitely adjustable, so there's a ring to fit everyone
8. They look really good. Really good.
9. They address several different issues well, including ED and premature ejaculation.
10. You can ask someone else to put one on you and that's sexy too


signed

a fan

 

[intothewoods]

I have been asked about the use of cock rings to help maintain an erection for an older gentleman. Here is the information I offered - <snip>

Errrrr, sorry, what? I'm distracted ....

 

[Shankara20]

I'd been wondering how that works. So how do you size a ring that is intended to encompass shaft and balls? And what is the difference between this style, and one that just slides around the shaft?

I suggest using a snap strap cock ring so the best size can be found by trial-and-error. One the right size if figured out a measurement can be made if a solid ring is desired.

I have never uses a shaft only device but know of guys that use simple rubber bands

Here is some more info about shaft only bands.

"venous leakage

Definition: (VEE-nus) An erection is produced when blood to the penis compress the veins in the corpora cavernosa so the blood cannot leave. If these veins do not close well enough, the blood leaves (leakage) and the erection is lost. See anatomical drawing at erection.

One solution some men use is a constriction ring."

 

[Shankara20]

really good things about cock rings:

1. They're simple and easily used
2. They're very, very effective
3. They're completely organic. No drugs necessary
4. There are a thousand different styles, materials and profiles - and you can make your own relatively easily
5. Putting them on is actually sexy to watch
6. They tell your partner you care enough to send the very best
7. They're infinitely adjustable, so there's a ring to fit everyone
8. They look really good. Really good.
9. They address several different issues well, including ED and premature ejaculation.
10. You can ask someone else to put one on you and that's sexy too


signed

a fan

indeed - yes indeed

 

[Shankara20]

Errrrr, sorry, what? I'm distracted ....

well, next time pay attention....

 

[intothewoods]

well, next time pay attention....

Oh, I'll pay you some attention.