Missionary Position

Everything is trial and error and I think men need to understand women’s bodies as much as their own impact on those bodies. But heterosexual sex is often deemed as simple as “the penis goes in the vagina and everyone has a good time”! You’re not broken if you can’t cum from penetration alone. Most women can’t. But also, most men will claim they understand women’s bodies and they also do not.

For example: I’ve had many men tell me they could make me squirt. Exactly one has been able to do it. Men will claim that they’ve read the research and then aggressively go at the g spot trying to force it out of you. And does a little come out when they’re hammering or pressing on my belly? Yes but it also was a little painful.

The only time I would say it actually worked was with this guy, who made the same claims as others but didn’t act like it. Sex started normally, he went down on me, I had an orgasm, we started fucking, he “put me into position” and started fingering me and then: holy fuck! All of a sudden I was squirting all over his body, my own face and the wall next to us! I couldn’t explain how he did it right now if I tried. But it was different. He could do something the others couldn’t. And he said the same thing, “guys just need to do their research” but there’s a difference between reading where to put your fingers and how much pressure to use, etc and actually understanding.

I didn’t think I could squirt until I absolutely ruined his couch… and wall and clothes and got it in my own mouth by accident. It is possible but not all the men that claim to know how to do it can ACTUALLY do it.
Like you said!!! Everything is trial and error!!! You just need to find that special way everyone has to make them go over and above and make her cum hard!!!
Playing with the clit and penetration always does the job for my partners.... and give me the greatest view when they cum!!!
 
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