my own personal waffling bdsm thread

[Sir_Winston54]

i'll keep an eye out for tacky bags

Which of my first two ex-wives are you keeping an eye out for? And why?

 

[Quint]

...........

 

[Netzach]

To shy's credit, I totally read it the same way. It was twisted but I went with it.

Y'all are sick.

 

[dolf]

when you have shapes cut out of a paddle, will it leave those shapes in unbruised amid the bruises?

 

[WriterDom]

when you have shapes cut out of a paddle, will it leave those shapes in unbruised amid the bruises?

Butt of course!

 

[dolf]

Butt of course!

yays!

 

[dolf]

can you tattoo over fresh welts/bruises?
should you avoid laying bruises/welts on a fresh tattoo?

 

[m wisdom]

can you tattoo over fresh welts/bruises?
should you avoid laying bruises/welts on a fresh tattoo?

I have heard that tattoos (new and old) can "blur" if you bruise them too much, but I don't know for sure.

 

[dolf]

I have heard that tattoos (new and old) can "blur" if you bruise them too much, but I don't know for sure.

hmmm.
thank you

 

[HottieMama]

can you tattoo over fresh welts/bruises?
should you avoid laying bruises/welts on a fresh tattoo?

No...you don't want to tat over bruises. The ink won't stick. you body will reject it and you will bleed it all out.

YES...please avoid laying bruises/welts on fresh ink. You will completely damage the tattoo. A tat should heal undisturbed for about 2 weeks.

 

[dolf]

No...you don't want to tat over bruises. The ink won't stick. you body will reject it and you will bleed it all out.

YES...please avoid laying bruises/welts on fresh ink. You will completely damage the tattoo. A tat should heal undisturbed for about 2 weeks.

thank you

once healed, could repeated bruising cause it to blur?

like...would one on an arse that got frequently spanked/caned/paddled be a poor placement?

 

[HottieMama]

thank you

once healed, could repeated bruising cause it to blur?

like...would one on an arse that got frequently spanked/caned/paddled be a poor placement?

Repeated bruising could cause it to blur as well as the healing process of the bruise/welt could damage the color by causing it to spread or even bleed out.

i wouldn't recommend tattooing anywhere you expect to also have impact play.

 

[dolf]

Repeated bruising could cause it to blur as well as the healing process of the bruise/welt could damage the color by causing it to spread or even bleed out.

i wouldn't recommend tattooing anywhere you expect to also have impact play.

noted.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

thank you

once healed, could repeated bruising cause it to blur?

like...would one on an arse that got frequently spanked/caned/paddled be a poor placement?

Ex-wife/sub #3 had a nice tat on her left buttcheek, right where the downstroke of the floggers landed. After a couple of years, it was noticeably blurred, much more so than one around her ankle that she had gotten the same week.

 

[the captians wench]

Ex-wife/sub #3 had a nice tat on her left buttcheek, right where the downstroke of the floggers landed. After a couple of years, it was noticeably blurred, much more so than one around her ankle that she had gotten the same week.

guess the "spank me" tat across my ass wouldn't be a good idea so.

*giggles*

okay really I'm not thinking about tats at all, totally needle phobic....but I'm starting to think about piercing my belly button again.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

guess the "spank me" tat across my ass wouldn't be a good idea so.

*giggles*

okay really I'm not thinking about tats at all, totally needle phobic....but I'm starting to think about piercing my belly button again.

Just move it up a little bit to the lower back (verboten for any substantial impact play!), with arrows pointing downward.

 

[the captians wench]

Just move it up a little bit to the lower back (verboten for any substantial impact play!), with arrows pointing downward.

see this is why I keep domly types around me, sometimes they have good ideas.

 

[midwestyankee]

guess the "spank me" tat across my ass wouldn't be a good idea so.

<snip>

Exactly. After a few years it might start to look like "Shank Me" and we all know what kind of mischief that might invoke.

 

[the captians wench]

Exactly. After a few years it might start to look like "Shank Me" and we all know what kind of mischief that might invoke.

ya know....I don't think I'd mind that too much either.

 

[shy slave]

call the land line!
my reception is shitty at home.

i'll keep an eye out for tacky bags

I worked too late to call.

Will call tonight, I am out all night with work, but will call before I am too tipsy to work a phone!

As for tacky bags, please make sure you don't bring one of Sir_W's ex's back....I would hate cast offs lol

 

[dolf]

shy

how often does subbiness & self destructiveness go hand in hand?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

how often does subbiness & self destructiveness go hand in hand?

Self destructiveness, or self-harming (e.g., cutting), or self-punishment (e.g., auto-flagellation, etc.)?

 

[dolf]

or just general stuff.
life patterns.
modes of thought.
realtionships.
diet.
the whole kaboozie.

 

[ecstaticsub]

or just general stuff.
life patterns.
modes of thought.
realtionships.
diet.
the whole kaboozie.

I don't know if there is any relationship. I am a submissive but I have never been self-destructive.

 

[saw_man1]

The evidence is overwhelming

how often does subbiness & self destructiveness go hand in hand?

More often than one might think. It usually manifests itself in the form of overspending on shoes, bags, and shiny things.