My son is bi because ..

[Somehowyou]

OK I am weirded out but at the same time i have a raging hard on. I do not understand this?

You are a sexy woman. I would like to play out this fantasy with you.

 

[Bystander]

i don't get how having an experience with his mother turned him bi. People tend to come pre-wired in their orientation. And in anycase an experience with a women is not going to send a man running in the other direction unless it was horribly scarring or something. A guys hardware either responds to a certain stimulus or it doesn't. That' all there is to it. Honestly I think most of us are bi, we just tend to bury that stuff deep down in us.

 

[durrell]

i don't get how having an experience with his mother turned him bi. .

If this is going to happen it will be probably occur while the boy is still an adolescent and still under her motherly control. This is what happened to me. In my case my mother touched me whilst drying me in the bathroom when I had unexpectedly, and unintentionally, got a hard on. She then quickly made an excuse to leave me to finish off, and I was left knowing what she had done and feeling intensely aroused. I felt desperately in need of finding a sexual partner, but was inexperienced and still shy of girls, so I visited a public toilet with a reputation for guys hanging around looking for sex and met an older guy who did me the favour I was looking for. This was the first step to my becoming bi. It was this incident with my mother that triggered this off, so it can happen.

 

[Shywong]

I can think of 5 ways a Mother / Son relationship could lead him to being bisexual.

1. There was another dick present besides his.
2. He found one of your sex toys and started playing with it.
3. You did something to his ass such as fingering it or pegging him.
4. If you ever had conversations with him about your other male partners it made him curious about being with a man.
5. While watching porn together your interest in the men rubbed off on him [ie: talking about how much you'd like to suck that guys cock, etc.]

Oh yeah, and he ever played dress-up with your clothes, I hear that can lead to GID issues down the line.

 

[gloriann]

You can't "turn" anyone gay, straight or bi. Althought they may exhibit tendencies of these orientations for one reason or another, it is IMPOSSIBLE to TURN anyone ANYTHING OTHER THAN WHAT THEY ARE.

I have huge problems with incest, so I'll end the post here.

 

[dwc12345x5]

hot

that was the hottest thread i have ever read. i came three times

 

[dwc12345x5]

35 male

that was so hott. i came three times. wonderful.

 

[1tim]

yes u did it to him my mom did it to me the first time i ever said that

 

[nitoc88]

how did she do it to you tim

 

[Palba_Noruda]

Personally I think being bi is better than being straight (or gay). If you think about it, there are more 6 billion people in the world, isn't kind of sad to say that half of them you would never ever be attracted to just because they're the wrong gender? Or if one is an artist, art is built on appreciating the beauty of the human form, you're almost handicapped as an artist if you can only understand one variety of that form.

Being bi isn't always real easy.

Take coming out, for instance. One school of thought suggests that when you come out, it is best to be very sure of yourself and don't waffle and waver and don't allow room for doubt and confusion.

However, bisexuality is in its nature rather mysterious. Sexuality is mysterious. Homosexuality is mysterious. Bisexuality is doubly mysterious. So when you are all set to come out, saying I'm bisexual is so damn complicated and mysterious that it breaks the rule of concreteness.

PS Thank you for sharing your experience, Tim. I know it wasn't easy for you. You should be proud of yourself. I hope you know that you are not alone.