Not getting it on so many levels...

[Evil_Geoff]

My current unlaced measurements are (roughly) 35/29/38.

My corsetted measurements are (generally) 36/25½/39 (to 40).

I prefer to be laced when wearing dresses or skirts; a 14" (ish) differential in hip to waist measurement throws most pencil skirts right out the window. for example, I tried on a *KILLER* 1947/48 wool suit with a pencil skirt today, and I could lace down small enough to fit it through the waist, but the seams were straining at the hips, and I couldn't bring the zipper up.

Cutie, I can't speak for anyone else, but _I_ would be tickled pink to have you on my arm for an evening out, vanilla or kink, heels or flats, laced or unlaced. You are intelligent, charming, attractive, with a winning smile, lovely family and a good heart.

What man (in his right mind, either vanilla or kinky) would NOT find you to be a treasure? ? ?

And yes, I like the bohemian/beatnick/librarian look. But the entire package seems very nice to me, not just your physical attributes. But then again, I'm not intimidated by an intelligent, strong, woman either.

Just stalkin... uhhhhh... errr... saying.

 

[zuzub]

So I went over and checked out collarme. Interesting. I only floated around for awhile, but those people are kind of mean to other! I thought I was judgemental....

I don't think it's the best place for me to figure things out. Plus, the sheer volume of people is a little disorienting...

Is that unfair?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Cutie, I can't speak for anyone else, but _I_ would be tickled pink to have you on my arm for an evening out, vanilla or kink, heels or flats, laced or unlaced. You are intelligent, charming, attractive, with a winning smile, lovely family and a good heart.

What man (in his right mind, either vanilla or kinky) would NOT find you to be a treasure? ? ?

And yes, I like the bohemian/beatnick/librarian look. But the entire package seems very nice to me, not just your physical attributes. But then again, I'm not intimidated by an intelligent, strong, woman either.

Just stalkin... uhhhhh... errr... saying.

What he said. Damn. I wonder if he and I were twins separated at birth. Except for the red hair and fair skin part, as opposed to the no hair and not-fair skin part.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

collarme has it's share of asshats just like any other website.

If you like vicious, nasty interaction, check out the General Board here on Lit...

There is some good information to be gleaned on CM, and some good people. There is a lot of chaff to sort through though, because collarme is more of a personals/hook up site. The discussion boards are an afterthought.

 

[zuzub]

There is a lot of chaff to sort through though...

I guess that's true, but at this point aren't I part of the chaff? <grin>

Also, what is troll? Am I one of those too? You might as well tell me, I'm going to find out... <shifty eyes>

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Height, weight, shape - not a big deal to me. Actually, my wives were, in order: 5' 2", 5' 6" and 5' 8 1/2" - I'm 6' 3". Non-wife LTRs were 5' 4", 5' 7", 6' 1", 5' 4", 5' 8", 5' 3". Weights - from 125# (5' 6") to 230 (5' 2") to 280 (5' 8") to 148 (6' 1"). With none of them did I ever feel uncomfortable slow-dancing, walking with them on my arm, hugging, kissing, etc. - whether they were barefoot or in heels of whatever size. (And the 6' 1" loved her 4- and 5-inch heels, which made her taller than I - not because they made her taller, but because they showed off and emphasized her yards and yards of legs, which were beautiful... and I loved her in them, and being with her when she wore them.)

Much more important to me with each was our compatibility (as I saw it at the time - as one can see, I might be considered somewhat fickle, lol), and our ability to mesh mentally and emotionally. (The longest of those relationships was 15 years - and 5 of those we weren't really "together" <sigh> - just legally married and living in the same house.) I guess I'm one of the prime demographic for the Short Attention Span Theater. Or is that off the air now?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I guess that's true, but at this point aren't I part of the chaff? <grin>

Also, what is troll? Am I one of those too? You might as well tell me, I'm going to find out... <shifty eyes>

No, zuzub, you're not a troll. (Even if you did call me an Ebola carrier, lol.) You think and actually pay attention to what is said in response to your posts. And you have a sense of humor.

 

[zuzub]

No, zuzub, you're not a troll. (Even if you did call me an Ebola carrier, lol.) You think and actually pay attention to what is said in response to your posts. And you have a sense of humor.

But what is a troll? I assume it involves trolling around, but for what?

blushes. thx. Not sure the large and incredibly active mouth is such an asset in this community. I foresee potentially long and painful training sessions...

 

[graceanne]

First off, I have never said 'why wear heals' to a tall woman. I always say 'oh, wow you look so great'. I think women say that to make those pretty tall women feel bad. Heels look better on tall slim women.

My cousin who's nearest in age is 6' tall. Her husband is 6'6". The met cause she was the only girl in the room that he wouldn't look ridiculous dancing with. lol He was, quite frankly, thrilled with her height. She wears heals all the time and looks GREAT. Skinny bitch. (Just kidding, she's one of my favorite cousins.)

And on the bright side for you all - no one walks into you in a crowd and then pretends they didn't. And you can reach things in the kitchen. Me and K's most often fight? When I find he's put something I use on a regular basis ON THE TOP FUCKING SHELF. It's just inconsiderate. Plus, when I drive I've gotta sit right up next to the steering wheel. My last car accident I cracked a rib from where I ran into the steering wheel. With my back problems their are very few chairs that don't hurt me. Why? Cause my feet don't touch the ground. So I gotta try and reach, which throws off my hips, which makes my back arch, which makes it HURT.

PLUS, do you know how uncomfortable it is to carry a 9 lb baby when their's literally 1/2 an inch between the bottom of your ribs and the top of your hips?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Geoff and Sir_W, both of you are sweet.

Just like Winnie?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[museofdragon]

I still don't know what to think, but I've been checking out the library. Nice.

To add to the complications, it sounds like you're telling me that everything is 'customized' to each couple/individual, so it's hard to find a baseline, if you know what I mean.

Sneaky of us, isn't it? Being all individualistic and stuff. Just remember that labels are for packages and pigeonholes are for pigeons.

muse

 

[zuzub]

Sneaky of us, isn't it? Being all individualistic and stuff. Just remember that labels are for packages and pigeonholes are for pigeons.

muse

You ARE tricky.

Brief aside - if I go to the library, can I find a menu?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

You ARE tricky.

Brief aside - if I go to the library, can I find a menu?

CutieMouse, this is your territory

 

[Sir_Winston54]

CM: Sweet? Moi? <Blink>
AA: TFF... and CM's right - you're a wicked wicked man. That's probably why I like you.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I guess that's true, but at this point aren't I part of the chaff? <grin>

Also, what is troll? Am I one of those too? You might as well tell me, I'm going to find out... <shifty eyes>

Troll = shortened form of troglodite = a lower form of life often characaterized by semi-human appearance but with sub-human mating habits. Their mating cry is an IM or PM that starts with "on your knees, bitch!" or some other equally tender, seductive term of endearment.

Trolling = the practice of sending out indiscriminate messages seeking sex, cyber-sex, phone sex, or some other form of gratification without much regard to who answers. The troll is a wanker and doesn't care where the wanking fodder comes from.

Hope that helps!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

... Not sure the large and incredibly active mouth is such an asset in this community. I foresee potentially long and painful training sessions...

*waggles his eyebrows and grins impishly*
A large and incredibly active mouth might be a very, very good asset in this community!

Long and painful training sessions? Oh be still, my beating heart!

You're being such a tease zuzub!

 

[zuzub]

You're being such a tease zuzub!

It's funny how you can embrace shameless so quickly! Who knew?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

It's funny how you can embrace shameless so quickly! Who knew?

We did.

 

[graceanne]

Troll = shortened form of troglodite = a lower form of life often characaterized by semi-human appearance but with sub-human mating habits. Their mating cry is an IM or PM that starts with "on your knees, bitch!" or some other equally tender, seductive term of endearment.

Trolling = the practice of sending out indiscriminate messages seeking sex, cyber-sex, phone sex, or some other form of gratification without much regard to who answers. The troll is a wanker and doesn't care where the wanking fodder comes from.

Hope that helps!

You forgot to mention the ones who aren't looking for waking fodder, but to piss people off. They're the ones who start racially derogative threads, or come on here and start flaming everyone.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[AngelicAssassin]

You forgot to mention the ones who aren't looking for waking fodder, but to piss people off.

Ah ... where is good ol' Bytor? Think he finally gave in and visited a gloryhole?

 

[graceanne]

Ah ... where is good ol' Bytor? Think he finally gave in and visited a gloryhole?

LOL I was thinking of him when I made that post! Maybe he got finally got it up the ass, and chilled out.

 

[CutieMouse]

*****