Ok serious , curious question for the guys

[Guest]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman? I know most will say "oohhh I love it! Or Yeah I like doing that to a woman.." But are there men out there who actually aren't that fond of performing oral??

 

[DuckLover]

I'm sure there ARE some insensitive, selfish, unenlightened guys out there... I think any sensitive guy who cares about his partner, and sees how much she enjoys it, will come to enjoy giving her that much pleasure, even if the act itself doesn't do much for him.

 

[much2much]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman? I know most will say "oohhh I love it! Or Yeah I like doing that to a woman.." But are there men out there who actually aren't that fond of performing oral??

I love going down. I can't get enough of it. I remember early on I had a girlfriend who started fucking at a pretty young age but for some reason wouldn't let me go down on her. I never figured out what that was all about.

 

[Eagle70]

Personally, i love going down...when the lady i'm with will tell me what to do...each is different...talk and communicate...thats the key. god do i love the taste of pussy...

"I am the master of the clit! Lemme tell ya something, wherever you see a clit, you're gonna see this fucking face! i am the clit commander!!"
Jay-jay and silent bob strike back

 

[abiamarie]

Personally, i love going down...when the lady i'm with will tell me what to do...each is different...talk and communicate...thats the key. god do i love the taste of pussy...

"I am the master of the clit! Lemme tell ya something, wherever you see a clit, you're gonna see this fucking face! i am the clit commander!!"
Jay-jay and silent bob strike back

Good movie quote.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman? I know most will say "oohhh I love it! Or Yeah I like doing that to a woman.." But are there men out there who actually aren't that fond of performing oral??

i love it! all i gotta say to those guys is your missing out on a hell of alot

 

[Lust Engine]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman? I know most will say "oohhh I love it! Or Yeah I like doing that to a woman.." But are there men out there who actually aren't that fond of performing oral??

I'm sure there are for all kinds of various reasons. Unfortuantely for them (in my opinion), they don't see the wonderful joy it can bring. Their partner's loss I guess.

 

[Void]

Great Quote Eagle well I personally love to go down on a woman but just like some women don't like to give head some men don't like performing oral....if only the fools knew what they were missing out on.

 

[lost5pints]

Im sure that there are some nimrod out there that dont enjoy it. At first I was a little apprehensive but the effect it has on a women and the "WHOA I CAUSED THAT" factor made it a real turn on. I doubt you will find many men(or should i say boys) on these boards do to the openminded nature of most here on lit.

 

[Guest]

when a woman is enjoying sex, that makes me happy. Her pleasure is mine. How can anyone NOT love the kitty? I could spend an hour down there.

 

[peachykeen]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman? I know most will say "oohhh I love it! Or Yeah I like doing that to a woman.." But are there men out there who actually aren't that fond of performing oral??

Yes. Sadly, I am married to one.

He will do it, if I ask, but it's hardly a turn on for me to know he is just down there 'putting in time', and not enjoying it. Knowing that he is thinking "How much longer do I have to do this?" doesn't exactly push me to the heights of ecstasy. So there came a point where I had to just decide to leave it be for now, not push the issue, and maybe revisit the topic again in the future, as I'm sure nagging him about it isn't likely to make him any more inclined to want to do it, you know?



*edited to add, my husband is neither selfish, nor unenlightened, nor a nimrod. I think those are very judgemental comments. Not everybody is going to like all the same things. Although I certainly wish it was an activity he took greater interest in, I have no wish to demean him as a person - he is an individual who is entitled to his own likes and dislikes. Would it be fair to describe a woman who doesn't want to have anal sex as being a selfish, unenlightened nimrod because she is denying her man something that would please him?

 

[Eagle70]

<tips my hat with flourish>

I'm glad my quote went over so well. Its the truth though

 

[Sabledrake]

Peachy > oh, lordy, I know _exactly_ what you mean! I have been in that situation a time or three. Except that in my case, the problem's usually mine: I get it into my head that he's 'putting in the time' as you say, and there goes my mood right out the window. I have some esteem issues in that regard.

Sabledrake

 

[melligrl]

My ex was one. He would always talk about what he would do to me and make these huge promises about "when we got home . . ." but it never happened.

That's not why we broke up though. I wouldn't say he was insensitive, or any of those other things, he just wasn't interested in sex all that much.

 

[DuckLover]

Re: Re: Ok serious , curious question for the guys

*edited to add, my husband is neither selfish, nor unenlightened, nor a nimrod. I think those are very judgemental comments. Not everybody is going to like all the same things. Although I certainly wish it was an activity he took greater interest in, I have no wish to demean him as a person - he is an individual who is entitled to his own likes and dislikes. Would it be fair to describe a woman who doesn't want to have anal sex as being a selfish, unenlightened nimrod because she is denying her man something that would please him?

Touche'. I concede the point and stand justly chastised.

My comments were not intended so much for men who don't get excited by cunnilingus, but more for those who refuse to TRY it. I apologize for my poor choice of words.

 

[Guest]

Please keep your thoughts coming in. Ladies I should have included you in this as well , sorry again. I want to hear ALL sides.

 

[pointless]

i've known several friends who were dead set against it. most complained about smell, taste, yada yada. personnally, i think they were just too lazy to do it. if you knew my friends, you would think the same.

 

[rosie70]

I must have had a talent for finding some loser guys, becuase every guy I dated (before I met my hubby) never did it. Even though I was giving them blowjobs left and right. Ahhhh, the stupid innocence of youth!
One complained of taste/smell and the others....well, I don't really know why. Maybe they thought that a pussy would bite back!
Then I met my husband and the first time we slept together, as he was going down on me, I remember thinking "Wow, this is incredible! I have to marry this guy!" And 2 years later, I did!

 

[lost5pints]

Re: Re: Ok serious , curious question for the guys

*edited to add, my husband is neither selfish, nor unenlightened, nor a nimrod. I think those are very judgemental comments. Not everybody is going to like all the same things. Although I certainly wish it was an activity he took greater interest in, I have no wish to demean him as a person - he is an individual who is entitled to his own likes and dislikes. Would it be fair to describe a woman who doesn't want to have anal sex as being a selfish, unenlightened nimrod because she is denying her man something that would please him? [/B]

Im with duck lover here. I Just was refering to those who refuse because of reasons that I dont understand. Nothing is more important to me then the pleasure I give to my Lover.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[sexcandy]

I am not a guy but I do not enjoy "going down" on a guy so I guess if a guy doesn't enjoy "going down" on a gal that is okay too.

 

[acer144]

WOW how can i do that

met my husband and the first time we slept together, as he was going down on me, I remember thinking
"Wow, this is incredible! I have to marry this guy!"

how can i make my GF say that pls tell us what happind weth you
!!!

 

[Lust Engine]

I've always considered going down on a woman a pre-cursor to better things to come.

There was one lover who absolutely enjoyed me going down on her as much as fucking. It might've seemed a little selfish on her part looking back at it, but at the time I didn't mind one bit. I just loved the way she tasted & smelled. I was at times an absolute animal as I devoured her. She also had some of the best responses with her squirms, heaves & gyrations as she came. I just had to be patient as she recovered & I eventually got my share of loving. At times it did take some of the wind out of her sails & dampened the initial enthusiasm.

I even remeber on the night we officially we broke up, she asked me to eat her out as a momento.

 

[Carnus]

I had actually done that a number of times before I ever had sex myself. I was young and a older girl who I thought was the greatest thing in the world told me if I got good at that then I could have sex with her. I was 14 so it sounded like a good plan to me, hell getting to touch a woman in any way sexual at 14 is a good plan heheh, but I have known friends who didn't enjoy it, or just wouldn't do it. One guy I know said that the reason he didn't enjoy it was that he could not stand salty tastes, either in food or anything, so that one I can kind of understand. He explained that as a kid his mother was a horrible cook and over salted everything and as he got older he got where he just couldn't deal with it any longer. So there might be hidden reasons for it, be inquisitive and ask, or try to find out somehow, for me I know that in most cases lavish sexual attention is returned in kind so I love it, knowing I am causing that much pleasure and likely to get it in return.


Patrick

 

[sheath]

My ex husband hated to go down on me. Absolutely hated it. It made me feel like there was something wrong with me, and so...I began to feel like the problems with sex were my fault.

Then I got out of that marriage...realized he is, and always was, selfish as hell, in and out of bed...and realized, there is nothing wrong with me. All my lovers since then have loved going down. Some of them had to be forcibly pulled away after a VERY LONG TIME, and they were still ravenous for more!

I didn't want to let a man go down on me, for a long time...like I said, my ex husband made me feel like there was something wrong with me. But then I allowed it to happen, and the guy got so deeply into it, he came while he did it. That told me that maybe...just maybe...it was ex hubby's problem, NOT mine.

Then I got my revenge with the cucumber salad....

S.