Ok serious , curious question for the guys

[RomanHans]

My ex husband hated to go down on me. Absolutely hated it. It made me feel like there was something wrong with me, and so...I began to feel like the problems with sex were my fault.

Then I got out of that marriage...realized he is, and always was, selfish as hell, in and out of bed...and realized, there is nothing wrong with me. All my lovers since then have loved going down. Some of them had to be forcibly pulled away after a VERY LONG TIME, and they were still ravenous for more!

I didn't want to let a man go down on me, for a long time...like I said, my ex husband made me feel like there was something wrong with me. But then I allowed it to happen, and the guy got so deeply into it, he came while he did it. That told me that maybe...just maybe...it was ex hubby's problem, NOT mine.

Then I got my revenge with the cucumber salad....

S.

Sheath--Just wanted to mention, please feel free to serve me your 'special' cucumber salad anytime!

Roman

 

[Mstrskey]

I've never been with a guy who flat out wouldn't go down on me, but I have been with a few who made it as brief and fleeting an event as possible. The perfunctory lick lick lick...ok I'm done now lets fuck! For the longest time I thought that was what cunnilingus was! I never saw what the big deal was given that my experience with it was not earth shattering in any way at all. Then I met my husband. He would always try to go down on me and I would always steer his attentions away from it not wanting to get bored or turned off. One day he went down on me while I was asleep. I woke up to find him happily feasting on my pussy and me as horny as I can remember being. I was hooked from that point on and finally understood why so many of my female friends raved about having it done. Since then if a guy won't give...he doesn't recieve either!! Seems only fair to me!

 

[sheath]

Sheath--Just wanted to mention, please feel free to serve me your 'special' cucumber salad anytime!

Roman

Ah, how refreshing...a man who would actually ENJOY that special salad!

S.

 

[SexyChele]

I've had my fair share of partners, and I've only had 2 who really enjoyed going down on me. All of the partners I had in my 20s either refused or would do 3 swipes of their tongue and call it quits. I finally met a man when I was 29 who seriously enjoyed eating pussy, but by then I had the hardest time imagining that any man really liked it. At first I would only put up with it for a short time, then pull him away thinking I was doing him a favor. We had a long conversation about this, but it still took me a long time to understand that he was really enjoying himself.

My current partner is wonderful at it, and truly surprised me - pleasantly!

I know that most men on here (all??) will state how much they love eating pussy, but it's been my experience that most men will avoid it if they can. A man who truly enjoys having his face between a woman's thighs is a good and rare catch indeed!

 

[bikenjeep]

I really do love it... My only current problem is the lack of a place to put my tongue. Will be taking applications for any sexy female interested in the 'position'. Heh heh heh.

 

[KraZyCisco]

I love going down on a woman. Honestly, I don't mind just going down on a woman. I had a friend that made a bet w/ me cuz she didn't think I could do it. I was eating her out continuously for 5hrs. Needless to say, she was exhausted after. I really do love eating a woman, specially when her pussy is really juicy. Though, I haven't eaten a woman yet who squirt their cum and believe me, i'm looking. Any volunteers

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I've had several lovers who had not a clue what they were doing down there. But that tends to go away with age and experience. Current lover learned from 2 old lesbian bikers. (its quite a story actually!) But god bless those 2 women - if I ever meet them I'll buy them a few beers! They certainly were GOOD teachers. I think the biggest problem is its hard to teach your current lover that stuff. Easier to teach a friend I think!

 

[Lust Engine]

With one lover I had before, she was shocked that I enjoyed going down on her that much. She was very hesitant at first but when I didn't shy away, feel awkward and quite frankly didn't stop... she realized the situation, relaxed & came upon a huge wet orgasm. She had explained to me that her previous lover hated the idea of being so close to her "uglies" with his face.

How sad is that!

Needless to say I felt a huge boost to the ego knowing that I had performed such a valiant task.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Lust Engine]

Fire-engine guy to the rescue again!

If you ever need rescuing Orchid, I'll be sure to bring my hose.

 

[sheath]

With one lover I had before, she was shocked that I enjoyed going down on her that much.

<<SNIP>>

She had explained to me that her previous lover hated the idea of being so close to her "uglies" with his face.

Good Grief. If a man doesn't want to go down, does he have to put it THAT WAY? Makes me want to track him down, yank down his pants, and tease him about his pencil dick.

But anyway...

Kudos, Lusty, for coming to her valiant rescue.

S.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Lust Engine]

Good Grief. If a man doesn't want to go down, does he have to put it THAT WAY? Makes me want to track him down, yank down his pants, and tease him about his pencil dick.

But anyway...

Kudos, Lusty, for coming to her valiant rescue.

S.

Sometimes I'm ashamed to admit that my gender can be so idiotic at times. Yes I know that blood can only rush to one of heads at a time, but I was pretty appalled too.

And thank you for the kudos, but I'd have to say I benefitted from the exchange as well!

 

[sheath]

I remember a while back hearing of services where you could anonymously send some one dead rats or dog shit. Sheath, I think you should start a similar one to send cucumber salad to men who are rude about going down on a woman.

<If you thought you'd never live that one down, you are correct!>

LOL I should do that!

And yeah...I'm realizing that the cucumber thing is becoming like my 'lit signature'. But hey...it could be worse, right?

S.

 

[Lust Engine]

LOL I should do that!

And yeah...I'm realizing that the cucumber thing is becoming like my 'lit signature'. But hey...it could be worse, right?

S.

I'm not so sure we'd want to explore how much worse it could get but it would be pretty darn funny!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I just love the cucumber story!

 

[J.T.Spalding]

That was how I felt about going down on a woman when I was in my teens and early twenties. I was like a puppy dog, full of enthusiasm but no idea how to give pleasure to my mate.

After all you have to admitt ladies, that in some ways you have it easier than we do when it comes to giving head. Your equipment can be down right confusing to a newbie in the darkness and the heat of passion.

But as I actually matured, if a man can actually do that, I started to listen to what woman wanted. And the late Sam Kinison's advice to lick the alphabet helped. I have always loved seeing the pleasure I could give to a partner by going down on her.
I agree with the posts here, for goodness sakes if you are going to do oral, wether you are a woman or a man, be enthusiastic about it. Nothing worse than a bored person between your legs !!

 

[Lust Engine]

LOL I should do that!

And yeah...I'm realizing that the cucumber thing is becoming like my 'lit signature'. But hey...it could be worse, right?

S.

Don't tempt me like that!

 

[sheath]

Don't tempt me like that!

You know I'm a tease.

Cucumber, anyone? It's great with salad.

S.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Lust Engine]

Um, don't mean to be picky, but that's a zucchini.

Geeze, LE, what would Julia think?

I'd hope that she'd forgive me for not recognizing it as a zucchini! The texture would be interesting though...!

Is this better??

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[father matthew]

The only partner I've discussed it with enjoyed the experience but did not like the idea of it for a couple of reasons. Firstly she preferred going down on me as it meant she had control of proceedings. Secondly she did not understand why a man would want to go down there (unadventurous previous partners) and would not have paid special attention to hygiene in that area.

I personally like going down on a woman, but hate picking pubic hairs out of my teeth. My advice to women looking to encourage their partners to indulge is to shave or otherwise remove hair from the area where you want the mans mouth to go. Completely clean shaven is nice, but I think a well groomed bush is particularly attractive.

 

[Lust Engine]

Oh, yes!

Thank you, LE!

For you & the dear sheath... anytime I can be of service.

 

[Mr Incorrigible]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman?

Sorry to disappoint you, MistressRain, but I love to lick my fiancee's pussy. I particularly like to have her straddle my mouth and let me slip my tongue into her to lick inside.