Ok serious , curious question for the guys

[lost5pints]

It is a power thing. Restraints make it more fun though.If he argues or whines to much just tell him your way or no play.

oh i forgot the ball gag incase he starts to complain to much......not nessasary but a nice touch.......also while hes restrained i also recomend the blindfold and feather tickle technique.....vary the sensations for a good 45+ minutes and keep him in a bit of overload till he is putty in your hands.

 

[Guest]

It is a power thing. Restraints make it more fun though.If he argues or whines to much just tell him your way or no play.

and if i ever got that i would turn over and go to sleep.Then when she is asleep i would simple jack off.

I don't like that half assed stuff, either you want it or not. If you do want it then yeah maybe that would fly, but playing games like that bothers me and turns me off. Granted it doesn't take much to get me going.

I must say fingering can be quite fun. The "g-spot" is rather easy to find though. Eh oh well.

 

[Domcop]

Are there men out there that actually DON'T like going down on a woman? I know most will say "oohhh I love it! Or Yeah I like doing that to a woman.." But are there men out there who actually aren't that fond of performing oral??

honestly- i love to go down on a woman. i enjoy the look, feel, taste and smell of the hole (pun intended) area.
while im there, anything goes- i will give attention to every part of the area with my tongue and fingers. using toys while im down there is also an extremely exciting activity.
it is a wonderful thing to be able to bring a woman to orgasm this way- its especially sweet when we are both intertwined holding each other, pleasing each other with our mouths and hands- the cyclical effect does it for me- the better i make her feel, the better she makes me feel- ok, i have to go spank it now- this has gotten me wayyyyyy too horny lol.

 

[Guest]

ok so it looks like where going to have to sit here and watch every guy say something. I am still waiting for other guys who don't care for it, this i love going down is getting old. I think every guy is just saying it to save face?

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[SexyChele]

But the fact of the matter is many (most?) sexually oriented men (hey, even some women), like licking a woman, and the taste for this generally increases with age and experience.

I've been sexually active almost as long as you've been alive, and I've only had ONE partner who was hesitant about it. Curiously, he's very young and inexperienced. And he has recently changed his opinion about it.

You bring up an interesting poing, Orchid. I've discovered as I've gotten older that men who are in their 40s and 50s (sorry, haven't gone beyond that!) are almost insistent on mutual oral sex. When I was in my 20s, dating men in their 20s, most of men avoided oral sex with a woman as much as they could. Or they could do the obligatory 3 licks and call an end to it.

Just curious to know if anyone else has noticed that or if it's just me being slow as usual?

**Sorry for the minor highjack!**

 

[Void]

I used to be hesitant but then curiousity got the best of me. Curiousity killed the cat. Satisfaction brought it back. Hell if I could make a living off of this I would. Plasma, you should quit your bitching about this thread and stop paying attention to it. Noone forced you to read it or respond to it and noone forces you to continue you on this thread so either become a silent observer or quit your whining.

 

[dizzy]

I think that plasma was trying to keep the original intent of the thread going which was for guys who didn't like to lick the kitty to speak up and say why not and answer some other questions. Instead the thread was hijacked by a bunch of guys who love to express how much they like to eat pussy. So, while plasma was bordering on rude about it, I don't blame him for trying to keep the thread on track. If you guys want a "I love to eat pussy and here's why!" thread then make one.

Dizzy

 

[lost5pints]

as I stated in my first post on this thread I seriosly doubt you will find very many in this community who does not get at least a little joy out of giving their ladies oral pleasure.

 

[CE64]

I'm a licker

I realize you don't need yet another guy saying "I do! I do!", but I'm gonna anyway.

I really enjoy it. I did it the night I lost my virginity and haven't stopped since. Sometimes I merely enjoy it, other times I completely lose myself in it. Depends on how I respond to the woman's taste and smell as well as how deep my feelings are for her.

My ex....I didn't care if she had been sitting in pantyhose sweating her labes off for the whole freaking day, I loved her taste and scent and really got into her pussy. Other women's scent and taste has not been quite that appealing for me. I've even....and this will likely gross some out...done it when a women was having her period. It's all good. Sometimes it's absolutely great!The very first time I ever got a women to squirt was by going down on her. Wow! That tasted really different too.

The only bad thing is I don't have a partner to share my enthusiasm with right now.

So, my advice to the guys is...if you're hesitant, have your lovely lady take a bath (not a shower), remember how much you love her and then give it a second chance....and pay special attention to how she responds while you're doing it. Notice how hot it gets her and how much she's enjoying it. Maybe encourage her to vocalize what she's feeling. It might just help you get past any reluctance you might be experiencing.

What's the difference between pussy and parcley? Nobody eats parcley!

 

[mrerotica03]

going down?

I love going down on an clean trim/shaved woman. I love the taste, the smell and having to give her the oral pleasures makes me totaly hard. Best foreplay!

 

[CharleyH]

Lived out the first 8 years of my sexual life with no guys going down on me. Didn't even know what orgasm was - since then? My relationships with men? Well, you go down on me first baby, and then we'll see what happens, if of course you wanna get off. Otherwise take a hike. Mmmm never had a problem with men going down on me after that. But of course, I am a bit selfish!

As for going down on women . . . Some women don't actually like being gone down on! It makes them feel wierd, scared.

Some bi-women/ gay women just want to be fucked - don't want you to even touch their clit, get close to it etc. Same with some lipstick lesbians . . .

Do I like going down on a woman? Yes and no.

Why?

Yes becuase it tastes creamy. I love the folds of a womans pussy, the bulb of her clit. I love making a woman cum. I love her hips pulsing up and down, as I grab her ass, under the touch of my tongue, my lips.

But every woman is different, likes it differently, and so I like the exploration of finding out what a woman wants - needs - desires.

Now no, because the woman is too agressive, or forcing my head down. Quite frankly, that makes me upset, and doesn't turn me on, even though I enjoy the force of a woman who is attractive to me (lets qualify that) orgasming when my tongue is pressed wet against her clit, my fingers deep inside her pussy, and she is holding my head and moaning.

I would get into the nitty gritty of what I like, don't like about going down on a female, but you can personalize an email if you wanna know anything more. I don't want to offend others on what it means to me to not like going down on a woman!


Charley

 

[SlickTony]

I've discovered as I've gotten older that men who are in their 40s and 50s (sorry, haven't gone beyond that!) are almost insistent on mutual oral sex.

And that's one of the very best things about that age. I don't suppose we should shout down the guys who don't like it--we might as well let 'em speak up so we women will know which ones to avoid.

 

[Guest]

waaaaaaaaa!!!

I am not being bitchy. Like dizzy said i am trying to keep with the theme.
As for being rude, hardly its very hard to show emotion on a thread. Plz remember that when readin my posts ok. I am a strait to the point kind of person, and if you don't like it tuff. You can use that same option and skip this thread.

They where looking for guys who didn't like to go down on girls. I happen to one of them. I gave my reasons. It gets annoying when you see these other men come on here it make the ones who don't look like retarded clowns. HEHE. This may not be what they are after, but i can't say. WE KNOW the most guys like it.

Most people on this board aren't hesitant about expressing their tastes, and if there are other men out there who don't like eating pussy, I really don't think most of us will really give a shit, other than general interest in his (or her) point of view.

Then what the hell is the point of this thread, unless i am reading this wrong?

I've been sexually active almost as long as you've been alive,

Great, I am so happy for you. Does this make you right...no..but heres a quarter have some fun ok.

Besides people if i didn't voice MY OPINION then who else would do it? Most of the people are pussy lickers. Then this would become a repeatitive thread. Got to keep it somewhat real and not one-sided.

Oh and void shhhhhhhhhhhh!!

 

[Guest]

waaaaaaaaa!!!

I am not being bitchy. Like dizzy said i am trying to keep with the theme.
As for being rude, hardly its very hard to show emotion on a thread. Plz remember that when readin my posts ok. I am a strait to the point kind of person, and if you don't like it tuff. You can use that same option and skip this thread.

They where looking for guys who didn't like to go down on girls. I happen to one of them. I gave my reasons. It gets annoying when you see these other men come on here it make the ones who don't look like retarded clowns. HEHE. This may not be what they are after, but i can't say. WE KNOW the most guys like it.



Then what the hell is the point of this thread, unless i am reading this wrong?



Great, I am so happy for you. Does this make you right...no..but heres a quarter have some fun ok.

Besides people if i didn't voice MY OPINION then who else would do it? Most of the people are pussy lickers. Then this would become a repeatitive thread. Got to keep it somewhat real and not one-sided.

Oh and void shhhhhhhhhhhh!!

LOL

 

[Psia]

Wow! I really enjoyed reading this thread. Fuel for my fantasies, but unfortunately that's about it. I too, am married to one of the few who don't like it. He seemed eager to do it all the time when we were dating, then after the honeymoon (3 years ago) he's gone down once. I cried I was so happy.

He said it just doesn't turn him on. It's funny because I actually don't really like fellatio all that much, but I do it frequently because I love the way it makes him feel. I don't get it.
But I agree with women who posted earlier on that it's no fun if you feel like you are having him do something he doesn't enjoy.

Advice to the single girls, though. Make sure you find out whether he really likes it before you get married! (not that it would have changed my decision, but it would have saved some heartache later on).


Psia

 

[Guest]

LOL

MistressRain whats so funny dear?

 

[voetstep]

On the flip-side of that coin, i dated a guy once who did not care for blowjobs...

go figure. people are people, eh?

 

[voetstep]

I think that plasma was trying to keep the original intent of the thread going which was for guys who didn't like to lick the kitty to speak up and say why not and answer some other questions. Instead the thread was hijacked by a bunch of guys who love to express how much they like to eat pussy. So, while plasma was bordering on rude about it, I don't blame him for trying to keep the thread on track. If you guys want a "I love to eat pussy and here's why!" thread then make one.

Dizzy

here, here, Dizzy! People, don't be so sensitive. Pay attention to the thread and try to keep things ON TOPIC. There's really no need to go jumping down other people's throats because you missed the point. This is a FRIENDLY site, remember?

 

[SexyChele]

They where looking for guys who didn't like to go down on girls. I happen to one of them. I gave my reasons. It gets annoying when you see these other men come on here it make the ones who don't look like retarded clowns. HEHE. This may not be what they are after, but i can't say. WE KNOW the most guys like it.

Plasma, your efforts to keep the board "on track" are fine. Sometimes wording gets in the way because, as you've admitted, it is difficult to read emotions.

And just between you and me and the flies on the wall? I don't think all that many men like to go down on women. Hell, the first time I went down on a woman, the thought that ran through my mind was: "What the hell do I do if I don't like this?" (I found out that I did, so my fear was for nothing!)

I think a major consideration here is we don't know the ages of the men who are responding. Just my experience only, but it seems that younger guys just don't get into it. Of course, younger guys have other advantages. It just seems, to me anyway, that when men get older and they begin to experience a slow down with their sexual equipment, they turn to other avenues to please a woman.

You might not enjoy it now, but that's not to say that in 20 or 30 years you won't. It could also be that a lot of the men responding here are in their 30s, 40s, or 50s. Just something to keep in mind.

Also, it is easy for people to exagerate things on the 'net. Not saying anyone here is doing that, but it does happen. I applaud your honesty. As I said earlier, it takes a lot to stand up and not follow the crowd.

 

[Void]

I'm 21 Chele oh wow this is also my 100th post ::goes to find his avatar::

 

[Guest]

MistressRain whats so funny dear?

I just loved the way you posted I know the thread was for those who DON'T like to.. and you answered honestly. Thank you ....
But I don't mind those who respond that do too. Everyone is welcome with me ...

 

[VincentFloyd]

On the flip-side of that coin, i dated a guy once who did not care for blowjobs...

go figure. people are people, eh?

hey! that's a song!

"people are people so what should it be..."

 

[Guest]

well i am glad thats out the way lol.

rain your welcome anytime

sexy i am 22 and i doubt that will happen. I am pretty strait forward when i say things. So if i don't like it now. then most likely never. But there ae always otherways around it.


Roof roof lol.

 

[Guest]

well i am glad thats out the way lol.

rain your welcome anytime

sexy i am 22 and i doubt that will happen. I am pretty strait forward when i say things. So if i don't like it now. then most likely never. But there ae always otherways around it.


Roof roof lol.

lol never say never ....

And I hope you keep posting ....