Older women, younger men
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Hi Pink,
Just browsing through this thread and wanted to offer my thoughts. I'm 38 now but when I was your friends age, like most young guys, spent an inordinate amount of time dreaming about this. Very exciting.
When it comes to the oral on you, you just need to be outward and tell him what you have in mind. It's not that he doesn't want to try, he's likely afraid hea hasn't got a clue what to do or that you may not be receptive. Don't just wait for it to work out, make it more like a fun project sort of thing.
Enjoy it while you can, sooner or later you will have equipped him with the knowledge that he wants and he'll go out there and to put it to use on women closer in age for a while. There's lots of young guys out there and I wish I'd have met a woman like you when I was that age.
Cheers!
Just browsing through this thread and wanted to offer my thoughts. I'm 38 now but when I was your friends age, like most young guys, spent an inordinate amount of time dreaming about this. Very exciting.
When it comes to the oral on you, you just need to be outward and tell him what you have in mind. It's not that he doesn't want to try, he's likely afraid hea hasn't got a clue what to do or that you may not be receptive. Don't just wait for it to work out, make it more like a fun project sort of thing.
Enjoy it while you can, sooner or later you will have equipped him with the knowledge that he wants and he'll go out there and to put it to use on women closer in age for a while. There's lots of young guys out there and I wish I'd have met a woman like you when I was that age.
Cheers!
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I've been with a younger man. I will have to say that stamina is definitely their forte. I love their curiosity and their enthusiasm for everything. They love to please and would do anything. But, their lack of experience sometimes leads them to hesitate doing anything. Don't push, just enjoy your time together.
The guy that I was with was 12 years younger than me. He had *some* experience, but not a whole lot. He was sweet and was a one time deal. But, it went on for hours ... only because they can. Oh ... what I would give.
The guy that I was with was 12 years younger than me. He had *some* experience, but not a whole lot. He was sweet and was a one time deal. But, it went on for hours ... only because they can. Oh ... what I would give.
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Based on my memory of what teenaged boys were like when I was a teenager, the idea that you are coercing them to do anything that will get them off seems rather hard to swallow. I mean, it's like the idea that a nine-month-old labrador retriever has to be coerced into romping through a mud puddle and then shaking dry over your good rug.
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Oh, I got that, P.O. You told us, when you said that he was of the age of consent to have sex but it would be a couple of years before you could legally buy him a beer. I might have had to take Algebra and Calculus twice, but simple math I can do just fine.
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PinkOrchid said:
All I can say is GO FOR IT... as you might know...I'm prbly the oldest on lit...71 and proud of it...and have had younger lovers for the last 2 yrs...the youngest being 28 and my regular is 53...it's sort of my thing too
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BTW, happened to catch an old thread that asked the question of why younger men find older women attractive...I have a few theories (being one who has always hankered after older women)...
1) The myth or promise of being 'taught' by a woman with 'more experience' (also true of female-male May-December romances?)
2) The 'scientific' finding that women reach their sexual peak at a later age than men, so this kind of pairing is just 'natural'
3) The belief (and no offense intended or implied by this) that older women must be more 'desperate' for sexual attention and therefore will be more aggressive lovers (again, this is not MY belief but I think a cultural stereotype)
4) The simple attraction that some guys have to women who show more maturity than young women, and the feeling that older women are less likely to 'play games' with young male suitors...
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Roman
1) The myth or promise of being 'taught' by a woman with 'more experience' (also true of female-male May-December romances?)
2) The 'scientific' finding that women reach their sexual peak at a later age than men, so this kind of pairing is just 'natural'
3) The belief (and no offense intended or implied by this) that older women must be more 'desperate' for sexual attention and therefore will be more aggressive lovers (again, this is not MY belief but I think a cultural stereotype)
4) The simple attraction that some guys have to women who show more maturity than young women, and the feeling that older women are less likely to 'play games' with young male suitors...
Any comments?
Roman
I am a 19 year old guy and I can only tell you how I perceive this situation. Probably you and the guy just want to have hot time with each other. He is probably scared because you're older, so if I were him I'd be very happy if you assured him that it's ok and it's just between him and you and that you there are no long term bonds or whatever. As long as you're both honest with each other about STDs or whatever. I mean, one of you might have them and it wouldn't be nice if one of you got it too.
Zigmund Freud would say that the guy has a hidden attraction to his mother, but because he can't do it with her he has an attraction to a woman who resembles his mom from his memory the best. Probably most males who were raised by mature moms would find mature women sex (not their moms)
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PinkOrchid said:
Believe me, wisdom is in such short supply, folks will take anything that LOOKS like it!
Or maybe I'm just a cynical thirty-something
But I definitely agree about the impatience thing...can't stand people who think that game-playing is a form of foreplay. We could all use a bit of self-confidence to just say what it is that we want, and find out if we can get it...but those damned insecurities keep getting in the way!
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Pink Orchid would love to chat with you
Orchid, Where are you from? I am 20 yrs old, and seeking a beautiful mature woman, to have discreet sexual encounters with. I am 5'7 brown hair, and eyes, average build, I have pictures of myself, if you are interested. Please get back to me as, i would love to hear from you and get to know you better.
Orchid, Where are you from? I am 20 yrs old, and seeking a beautiful mature woman, to have discreet sexual encounters with. I am 5'7 brown hair, and eyes, average build, I have pictures of myself, if you are interested. Please get back to me as, i would love to hear from you and get to know you better.
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hmmm.....SXCRgirl
and just what would you give???????
SXCRgirl said:I've been with a younger man. I will have to say that stamina is definitely their forte. I love their curiosity and their enthusiasm for everything. They love to please and would do anything. But, their lack of experience sometimes leads them to hesitate doing anything. Don't push, just enjoy your time together.
The guy that I was with was 12 years younger than me. He had *some* experience, but not a whole lot. He was sweet and was a one time deal. But, it went on for hours ... only because they can. Oh ... what I would give.
and just what would you give???????
