Older women, younger men
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PinkOrchid said:Oh my, he was a little more experienced than I anticipated. Incredible energy, and stamina...well, we went at it for the better part of 4 hrs. Ususally, I do most of the work, this time I got to kind of sit back and enjoy it part of the time, wasn't always quite sure what to do with myself. Gave him his first taste of anal, and apparently the best BJ he's ever had. He still has a little to learn about the female anatomy, though. But there's time to work on that...
LOL It takes a while to learn how to do a great BJ
Girls his age haven't had time to perfect their method.
Teach him well. {As long as you and his mom aren't friends that is.}
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Good for you....
I just read your thread today and I'm glad you went for it..
Men have been enjoying a fresh young thing since the beginning of time..
Don't even think about feeling bad about being a sexy hot woman....
Life is too short, my friend; go for all that life has to offer you...
I thought the same thing 11 years ago ...
I even broke up with the guy for a minute...
But then I thought who cares what anyone else thinks ....
It is only important what you think and what you enjoy.....
Keep enjoying life ......
And great sexy !!!
I just read your thread today and I'm glad you went for it..
Men have been enjoying a fresh young thing since the beginning of time..
Don't even think about feeling bad about being a sexy hot woman....
Life is too short, my friend; go for all that life has to offer you...
I thought the same thing 11 years ago ...
I even broke up with the guy for a minute...
But then I thought who cares what anyone else thinks ....
It is only important what you think and what you enjoy.....
Keep enjoying life ......
And great sexy !!!
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Jeez!
Who needs to read the stories on here when we have a hot situation like this unfolding right in front of our eyes?!!
I'm sure this guy is in heaven right now and sounds like you are coming to terms with it - good for you. Keep us posted on develpments...
Who needs to read the stories on here when we have a hot situation like this unfolding right in front of our eyes?!!
I'm sure this guy is in heaven right now and sounds like you are coming to terms with it - good for you. Keep us posted on develpments...
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what's age?
I think age only matters if one is illegal!
I've been with one 23 years older than me and now am experiencing 11 -12 years younger than me. I would take the younger anyday.
My experience was that the older ones, are so clingy! Mine was insecure, possessive & jealous..always wanted more, and when we were together, he had to be hugging me or mauling me ALL the time.
In the end, he also felt he needed to tell everyone, to make himself feel lke a man. He told me I was his "trophy girl".
That was the end of him.
The younger..now that's where it's at. I'm in my 30's and dating in the 20's..somehow we have lots in common, besides sexually I mean. I don't look my age either, which helps. I find the guys now in their 20's sexually confident and outgoing. Not afraid to go for what they want, which is great!
You are on the money with the technique comment-I find they are a little less 'knowledgeable' in the oral & manual techniques. Nothing that can't be taught with a little time though. I don't think they fully understand the build up phase for women.
As for what to wear-I tend to go trendy. Low-riding jeans are always good, and for some reason white shirts are a sure bet. I always have a tight top on, that goes over well. I like the casual, appraochable look. I know some men like the business suit type..but you are less likely (I think) to be approached as the youger ones get intimidated sometimes.
Live & have fun..NV
I think age only matters if one is illegal!
I've been with one 23 years older than me and now am experiencing 11 -12 years younger than me. I would take the younger anyday.
My experience was that the older ones, are so clingy! Mine was insecure, possessive & jealous..always wanted more, and when we were together, he had to be hugging me or mauling me ALL the time.
In the end, he also felt he needed to tell everyone, to make himself feel lke a man. He told me I was his "trophy girl".
That was the end of him.
The younger..now that's where it's at. I'm in my 30's and dating in the 20's..somehow we have lots in common, besides sexually I mean. I don't look my age either, which helps. I find the guys now in their 20's sexually confident and outgoing. Not afraid to go for what they want, which is great!
You are on the money with the technique comment-I find they are a little less 'knowledgeable' in the oral & manual techniques. Nothing that can't be taught with a little time though. I don't think they fully understand the build up phase for women.
As for what to wear-I tend to go trendy. Low-riding jeans are always good, and for some reason white shirts are a sure bet. I always have a tight top on, that goes over well. I like the casual, appraochable look. I know some men like the business suit type..but you are less likely (I think) to be approached as the youger ones get intimidated sometimes.
Live & have fun..NV
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Advice, please!!!
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You sound like every 18 y/o's fantasy. Keep going!
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Advice would be to get him a little intoxicated first, and perhaps work a shower into the equation. Tasting yourself first with lust in your eyes won't hurt either, perhaps while teasing him and making him horny...
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Has he noticed your scent? Does he appreciate it? Is he OK with it? If so, then try glazing a fingertip with your juice and slicking it onto his lips, or stick it into his mouth, so he can see how you taste. Like oysters or single malt scotch, it's a taste you sometimes have to acquire, but it's a mature man's taste and something he needs to make every effort to cultivate. A man who not only goes downtown, but enjoys himself while he's down there as well as performing well while he's down there, can call the world his oyster.
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Hmmm, hot story. I don't know what to say about getting the guy to go down on you, since my tongue has always been attracted to a female's crotch, like flies to week-old potato salad.
Maybe introduce him to some 69 action (if you haven't already).
I have heard of some guys who just won't put their faces near a vagina, and I really don't understand this, since giving oral sex is far more enjoyable and memorable than receiving.
Maybe introduce him to some 69 action (if you haven't already).
I have heard of some guys who just won't put their faces near a vagina, and I really don't understand this, since giving oral sex is far more enjoyable and memorable than receiving.
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>>it's legal for me to fuck him but it will be 2 years before I can give him a drink.
Mm, mm! Way to go!
As for guys that don't want to go near a vagina with their mouths, I've had Middle Eastern/Asian guys try to tell me that cunnilingus is not usual in their countries, but they're usually from urban-prole or small-town backgrounds. I've exchanged correspondence with Hornypaki and he assures me that not all guys from his part of the world feel that way.
Mm, mm! Way to go!
As for guys that don't want to go near a vagina with their mouths, I've had Middle Eastern/Asian guys try to tell me that cunnilingus is not usual in their countries, but they're usually from urban-prole or small-town backgrounds. I've exchanged correspondence with Hornypaki and he assures me that not all guys from his part of the world feel that way.
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Difficult one...
If he's already asked you to show him how to pleasure yourself with his fingers then he's obviously interested in giving you a good time.
For you to "naturally" progress to him going down on you without you taking control or pushing him in that direction is going to be difficult. So far, no help right?! How about putting on a hot film when he comes round where the girl is getting incredibly worked up from cunnilingus or a 69 scene. The 69 maybe the way forward - great suggestion. I don't think any guy forgets his first 69 & it's something that you are very "aware" of when young. Sort of the next thing to do after losing your virginity.
Are you shaved below? This is always much more appealing. If you aren't then maybe go for it & see if he gets the hint! Hope that was some help. Good luck...
If he's already asked you to show him how to pleasure yourself with his fingers then he's obviously interested in giving you a good time.
For you to "naturally" progress to him going down on you without you taking control or pushing him in that direction is going to be difficult. So far, no help right?! How about putting on a hot film when he comes round where the girl is getting incredibly worked up from cunnilingus or a 69 scene. The 69 maybe the way forward - great suggestion. I don't think any guy forgets his first 69 & it's something that you are very "aware" of when young. Sort of the next thing to do after losing your virginity.
Are you shaved below? This is always much more appealing. If you aren't then maybe go for it & see if he gets the hint! Hope that was some help. Good luck...
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Liquor is a bad idea. Bad, bad, bad.
The tasting was great idea, but since he feels weird, it would help if he could talk to someone he knows who does oral, preferably a male. It's something that he has to want to do, like you said, but just keep telling him how much you LOVE it. Hopefully, he'll come around.
Question - This is off the track a little but has he tasted his own cum?
The tasting was great idea, but since he feels weird, it would help if he could talk to someone he knows who does oral, preferably a male. It's something that he has to want to do, like you said, but just keep telling him how much you LOVE it. Hopefully, he'll come around.
Question - This is off the track a little but has he tasted his own cum?
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idea
How about this..be talking to him on the phone one night..get yourselves all hot & bothered...y'know..some phone sex.
Then, while you are moaning on about things you 'd like to be doing to each other..slip in the line.."I want to feel your tongue inside me"..or, "I want you to lick my p**sy, baby"..and just keep on talking.
Hopefully the next time you are WITH each other you can re-live the ideas you talked about on the phone.
At least then he has some idea of what you're wanting.
Good luck! NV
How about this..be talking to him on the phone one night..get yourselves all hot & bothered...y'know..some phone sex.
Then, while you are moaning on about things you 'd like to be doing to each other..slip in the line.."I want to feel your tongue inside me"..or, "I want you to lick my p**sy, baby"..and just keep on talking.
Hopefully the next time you are WITH each other you can re-live the ideas you talked about on the phone.
At least then he has some idea of what you're wanting.
Good luck! NV
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maybe go kink?
About guys and oral sex...
for myself, it took a while before i felt comfortable with going down on a woman. For me... it was the taste. I just couldn't handle it for long periods of time. After a while, i got used to it and grew to like it. This is a fear for a lot of guys... getting down there to start, but not being able to handle it.
However, you might try to make it interesting for him. If he's into kink, maybe something like whip cream or chocolate syrup would turn him on to it to start. Another possiblity- if he's worried about taste, is to have him suck on ice cubes for a while. This will make his tounge really numb, and he will very gradually come back to normal feeling. However- if you're not into coldness down there, i wouldn't suggust it.
however- if your realtionship strays away from kink in general, this may make things weird for you if you're not really interested
have fun
-oh- and i have to say that he is a crazy lucky guy. I would do anything to be in his shoes
About guys and oral sex...
for myself, it took a while before i felt comfortable with going down on a woman. For me... it was the taste. I just couldn't handle it for long periods of time. After a while, i got used to it and grew to like it. This is a fear for a lot of guys... getting down there to start, but not being able to handle it.
However, you might try to make it interesting for him. If he's into kink, maybe something like whip cream or chocolate syrup would turn him on to it to start. Another possiblity- if he's worried about taste, is to have him suck on ice cubes for a while. This will make his tounge really numb, and he will very gradually come back to normal feeling. However- if you're not into coldness down there, i wouldn't suggust it.
however- if your realtionship strays away from kink in general, this may make things weird for you if you're not really interested
have fun
-oh- and i have to say that he is a crazy lucky guy. I would do anything to be in his shoes
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Pink, it's been a few days and I was wondering how things were going and whether you've received the oral attention from your young stud that you so crave!
Did you try the movie idea or some other form of subtle hint yet? Hope you are well and still having fun...
Did you try the movie idea or some other form of subtle hint yet? Hope you are well and still having fun...
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