On a scale from one to ten, how gay/bi/straight are you?
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ExistentialLuv said:
Yanno, that's funny in a weird sort of way. Don't know if it's because of me being Bi or who I am. But I NEVER feel used by you in our relationship. Not that I wouldn't like to be.....~silly ass grin~
Ours is a healthy relationship.....from afar. But it's real and I love and care for you and PJ.
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I'd say it is hard to pin me down to a number. I love my guy, so I'm happy where I'm at. I always wanted kids, but when I found my fertility was VERY low my desire to be with women went down. Imagine wanting to be GI Joe, but all you could ever shoot was guns loaded with blank bullets. A military career would probably be a poor choice.
The limited experiences I had with women, I didn't find it repulsive. There were some things that seemed "unusual" to me. Subconsciously, I think I get turned off by the thought of pedo sex. I think maybe because I always wanted to be a parent, and I find the pedo topic repuslive...
I remember one time I got it on with a guy who had to buy clothing in the "boy's" section of clothing stores. After sex, I fell asleep with him on top of me. [Do you know how you can sometimes wake up and be disoriented? Like seeing the sun set, but thinking its sun rise?] Anyway, his small body was on top of me when I woke up during the night, and for a moment, I thought I had a naked child on top of me. It really freaked me out...
Anyway, this one girl was a friend of mine, and we slepted together once. We started to fool around, but her hands were small, her lips were small, her bones (arms/legs/shoulders) were small. Those same feeling about being with a child came back, and I just couldn't do it. Two other things seemed wrong, but I think it was just her. She had long hair that she had starched, so it felt weird like it was plastic sheeting. She also seemed VERY warm almost to the point of a fever -- I had to throw the sheets/blankets off... We really only had foreplay, so there isn't much more to say.
Another woman I tried it with was with her husband. He really wasn't bi, he just liked seeing his wife get turned on. The main thing wrong here was the sex with her was VERY loose. Some gay friends that I shared this story with said I was just too used to gay anal sex, and that vaginal sex with a woman was by nature loose. Since my female experiences are limited, I am not going to make that generalization. I should add that this couple was middle aged (I was in my 20's at the time) and the wife had given birth to about 3 children. All I know is I could have gotten more friction if I had gotten it on with a fluffy pillow.
There are examples of women that I had found very hot over the years. I thought Xena was SO hot. I think it was because she was so beautiful, strong, and because (at least on TV) she looks like she is large in stature. I don't mean obease, just not small boned, frail, or child-like... There also used to be a TV show called "Hill Street Blues". The captain was kind of nice looking, but his girlfriend was VERY attractive. I think it was because she was emotionally a strong person as well as beautiful. She had a beautiful tan, nice figure, beautiful face, and piercing blue eyes.
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Now on the subject of men. Not all men turn me on. It amazes me how many gay guys and bi guys just are SO turned on to penises. As long as you have one, and it works, they are hot to get it on. Well the following fact is why its so hard for me to give myself a number between 1-10 on the gay/straight scale... I really do NOT have a penis fettish. When I see a big cock I do not desire it in me or whereever. I do wish mine was that size, but that is the extent of my admiration. I never liked one in my mouth nor my ass, and I never craved on in my hand. I don't care to jack on one for hours on end, etc.. I think they are nice to watch when they shoot in a moment of passion. I also do not like the taste of cum on 99% of the guys I have been with over the years. Now, pre-cum on the other hand is wonderful. The only problem there is most guys don't make much. Luckily, my guys isn't too bad on that...
Most of my sexual/emotional stuff is with guys, but as you can tell I'm not the typical gay/bi person. The kind of guys that turn me on are rather specific. I do not care for the boy look. I have a BIG turn on to body hair, muscles, and masculine guys. Sexually, I love being inside a guy. If I were fertile, and m2m could reproduce, I'd keep a guy bareassed and pregnant. I love kissing, hugging, and sleeping cuddled up. I don't understand why so many guys are hung up on oral sex. I have no sexual desire to be scrapped by teeth. Also, you cannot kiss while doing oral. Oral looks hot, but in practice it sucks and is over blown as a diserable act (puns intended). To receive oral is very plesant, but its nothing more than that -- I don't remember the last time I ever reached orgasm that way.
As to my lack of penis obcession, I love the man -- not the penis. Men come with penises (pun intended), so I make sure they get off because I want my partner to be satisfied. Luckily, in this word there are men who literally "get off" on pleasuring others. In my mind, a masculine guy who is like that, is probably an angel from heaven. There is nothing hotter than seeing a guy using his mouth or ass to please another person -- male or female. When I look at m2m porn action, I'm looking at the mouth/ass of the person doing the pleasuring. If I see straight porn, I want to see the man going down on the woman, or taking a strap-on. I don't see myself as wanting to be that guy, I just admire him for "taking it".
Emotionally, I think I could be happy with either gender, but I couldn't imagine a household that didn't include another man. I think that is because its so easy to go out of the home and have close relationships with women. I am friends with a lady down the street. I guess you could classify her as a lesbian, but she really doesn't like labels (I feel the same way). Anyway, I find it easy to get an emotional shoulder or visa versa with a woman even if you don't live under the same roof. With guys, you almost have to be around them all the time to find those moments. (For some reason, sex does help to get a guy to open up (no pun intended).)
So in conclusion, I just find it hard to pin myself to a number from 1-10. I'm definately not straight (10). However, even though most all of my sexuality has been m2m, it just doesn't seem right to be on the other extreme (1). There are very few gay/bi guys who don't crave cock. [Maybe I was a lesbian in a prior life.] However, I suppose I need to have a number more on the gay side as I crave being inside a guy. Its not about getting off, I love the "connection" as much if not more than the rush to the finish line...
The limited experiences I had with women, I didn't find it repulsive. There were some things that seemed "unusual" to me. Subconsciously, I think I get turned off by the thought of pedo sex. I think maybe because I always wanted to be a parent, and I find the pedo topic repuslive...
I remember one time I got it on with a guy who had to buy clothing in the "boy's" section of clothing stores. After sex, I fell asleep with him on top of me. [Do you know how you can sometimes wake up and be disoriented? Like seeing the sun set, but thinking its sun rise?] Anyway, his small body was on top of me when I woke up during the night, and for a moment, I thought I had a naked child on top of me. It really freaked me out...
Anyway, this one girl was a friend of mine, and we slepted together once. We started to fool around, but her hands were small, her lips were small, her bones (arms/legs/shoulders) were small. Those same feeling about being with a child came back, and I just couldn't do it. Two other things seemed wrong, but I think it was just her. She had long hair that she had starched, so it felt weird like it was plastic sheeting. She also seemed VERY warm almost to the point of a fever -- I had to throw the sheets/blankets off... We really only had foreplay, so there isn't much more to say.
Another woman I tried it with was with her husband. He really wasn't bi, he just liked seeing his wife get turned on. The main thing wrong here was the sex with her was VERY loose. Some gay friends that I shared this story with said I was just too used to gay anal sex, and that vaginal sex with a woman was by nature loose. Since my female experiences are limited, I am not going to make that generalization. I should add that this couple was middle aged (I was in my 20's at the time) and the wife had given birth to about 3 children. All I know is I could have gotten more friction if I had gotten it on with a fluffy pillow.
There are examples of women that I had found very hot over the years. I thought Xena was SO hot. I think it was because she was so beautiful, strong, and because (at least on TV) she looks like she is large in stature. I don't mean obease, just not small boned, frail, or child-like... There also used to be a TV show called "Hill Street Blues". The captain was kind of nice looking, but his girlfriend was VERY attractive. I think it was because she was emotionally a strong person as well as beautiful. She had a beautiful tan, nice figure, beautiful face, and piercing blue eyes.
...
Now on the subject of men. Not all men turn me on. It amazes me how many gay guys and bi guys just are SO turned on to penises. As long as you have one, and it works, they are hot to get it on. Well the following fact is why its so hard for me to give myself a number between 1-10 on the gay/straight scale... I really do NOT have a penis fettish. When I see a big cock I do not desire it in me or whereever. I do wish mine was that size, but that is the extent of my admiration. I never liked one in my mouth nor my ass, and I never craved on in my hand. I don't care to jack on one for hours on end, etc.. I think they are nice to watch when they shoot in a moment of passion. I also do not like the taste of cum on 99% of the guys I have been with over the years. Now, pre-cum on the other hand is wonderful. The only problem there is most guys don't make much. Luckily, my guys isn't too bad on that...
Most of my sexual/emotional stuff is with guys, but as you can tell I'm not the typical gay/bi person. The kind of guys that turn me on are rather specific. I do not care for the boy look. I have a BIG turn on to body hair, muscles, and masculine guys. Sexually, I love being inside a guy. If I were fertile, and m2m could reproduce, I'd keep a guy bareassed and pregnant. I love kissing, hugging, and sleeping cuddled up. I don't understand why so many guys are hung up on oral sex. I have no sexual desire to be scrapped by teeth. Also, you cannot kiss while doing oral. Oral looks hot, but in practice it sucks and is over blown as a diserable act (puns intended). To receive oral is very plesant, but its nothing more than that -- I don't remember the last time I ever reached orgasm that way.
As to my lack of penis obcession, I love the man -- not the penis. Men come with penises (pun intended), so I make sure they get off because I want my partner to be satisfied. Luckily, in this word there are men who literally "get off" on pleasuring others. In my mind, a masculine guy who is like that, is probably an angel from heaven. There is nothing hotter than seeing a guy using his mouth or ass to please another person -- male or female. When I look at m2m porn action, I'm looking at the mouth/ass of the person doing the pleasuring. If I see straight porn, I want to see the man going down on the woman, or taking a strap-on. I don't see myself as wanting to be that guy, I just admire him for "taking it".
Emotionally, I think I could be happy with either gender, but I couldn't imagine a household that didn't include another man. I think that is because its so easy to go out of the home and have close relationships with women. I am friends with a lady down the street. I guess you could classify her as a lesbian, but she really doesn't like labels (I feel the same way). Anyway, I find it easy to get an emotional shoulder or visa versa with a woman even if you don't live under the same roof. With guys, you almost have to be around them all the time to find those moments. (For some reason, sex does help to get a guy to open up (no pun intended).)
So in conclusion, I just find it hard to pin myself to a number from 1-10. I'm definately not straight (10). However, even though most all of my sexuality has been m2m, it just doesn't seem right to be on the other extreme (1). There are very few gay/bi guys who don't crave cock. [Maybe I was a lesbian in a prior life.] However, I suppose I need to have a number more on the gay side as I crave being inside a guy. Its not about getting off, I love the "connection" as much if not more than the rush to the finish line...
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I'd rate myself as a 7. I'm in a loving relationship with a male, but have found in my limited experience that I love to play with women in a physical sense, but can't see myself getting emotionally involved with one except as a very good friend.
I would say an 8. I'm a man who has had several relationships with women, and they were fulfilling at the time. At this point in my life, however, I'm interested primarily in men, and I rarely actually want to start something with a woman. I usually identify as gay when the subject comes up, but in reality it's a bit less clear-cut than that: Many of my fantasies involve heterosexual sex, and occasionally a woman does takes my breath away. So go figure! 
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I guess I would be more of a 3 I am more interested in women than men..Althugh men are good too...But it takes a woman to really get me going.....
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You are Evil Never. This is a haunghting question. Edit: A woman can change her mind
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I'm probably a 7.
I really like women for reasons I can't really begin to explain. I have been married twice, both times to deceptive women. Although they both came from divorced families where there was hostility between the parents.
I really like the softness of the female body. I like being able to get them off. I remember eating my last girl friend as she floated in the hot tub. She came a lot.
But I have dreams of having sex with men. I had one last night where I was going down on this guy. I really wanted him to cum in my mouth and that is when I woke up. The night before, I was hooking up with someone I knew in high school, a woman I always liked, and we had great sex together. The night before that, I had a dream where I was getting fucked by this guy next to a pool. I was naked on a lounge chair. He walked up naked before me and I spread my legs, knowing he was going to have me. And I always wake up just before the orgasms. Bummer.
Since I have never had sex with a man, I would put myself on the het side of that spectrum, but I think I am going to check out the gay side of the spectrum as well and see if there is anything to all of these dreams that I have.
I really like women for reasons I can't really begin to explain. I have been married twice, both times to deceptive women. Although they both came from divorced families where there was hostility between the parents.
I really like the softness of the female body. I like being able to get them off. I remember eating my last girl friend as she floated in the hot tub. She came a lot.
But I have dreams of having sex with men. I had one last night where I was going down on this guy. I really wanted him to cum in my mouth and that is when I woke up. The night before, I was hooking up with someone I knew in high school, a woman I always liked, and we had great sex together. The night before that, I had a dream where I was getting fucked by this guy next to a pool. I was naked on a lounge chair. He walked up naked before me and I spread my legs, knowing he was going to have me. And I always wake up just before the orgasms. Bummer.
Since I have never had sex with a man, I would put myself on the het side of that spectrum, but I think I am going to check out the gay side of the spectrum as well and see if there is anything to all of these dreams that I have.
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How bi am I?
I would say I range from 4/5. I love women more on a sexual level. The orgasms they give me are earth shattering and it's the psychic pull between two women that truly gets me going. But sometimes the drama that erupts in girl/girl relationships really puts me off.
But- - -I LOVE MEN. I love a good, powerful man. I love jacking off a guy and sucking him off, and when he gets rough. I love to laugh and share stuff with a guy, and sometimes just being laid back with him.
Above all, I guess I just like giving my mouth a work out, which can be done with either sex, but I can deal better with a man afterward.
Hope this makes sense.
*Kharis*
I would say I range from 4/5. I love women more on a sexual level. The orgasms they give me are earth shattering and it's the psychic pull between two women that truly gets me going. But sometimes the drama that erupts in girl/girl relationships really puts me off.
But- - -I LOVE MEN. I love a good, powerful man. I love jacking off a guy and sucking him off, and when he gets rough. I love to laugh and share stuff with a guy, and sometimes just being laid back with him.
Above all, I guess I just like giving my mouth a work out, which can be done with either sex, but I can deal better with a man afterward.
Hope this makes sense.
*Kharis*
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I'd have to rate myself as a 1. I love the female body and I can only develop deep emotional sharing with another woman.
I don't hate men. I just don't want to have sex with them. There is nothing about a man sexually that interests me and I was never able to form a deep bond with a man other than friendship.
I don't hate men. I just don't want to have sex with them. There is nothing about a man sexually that interests me and I was never able to form a deep bond with a man other than friendship.
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69forever said:Yanno, that's funny in a weird sort of way. Don't know if it's because of me being Bi or who I am. But I NEVER feel used by you in our relationship. Not that I wouldn't like to be.....~silly ass grin~
Ours is a healthy relationship.....from afar. But it's real and I love and care for you and PJ.
Thank you Forever.
You and one other male on here have been the only ones I have formed a friendship with. Both of you have made the wife and I always feel comfortable in chat and there has never been any pressure for more. We connected and I am happy we did. You are a good man with an Old Soul.
That person I was I have worked hard changing because she was a evil seducttress.
Thanks for helping my love grow in another direction.
An if you want abuse we will tie you to a chair in the corner why we seduce your lady
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ExistentialLuv said:
Pollyjean
I wish you had not missed this post. I am sorry I have not told you enough how much I love you. I still fluff you about the boards. I am not always a flirt whore
This was before we met our wonderful friend. She compliment's our life. At least we have her friendship and love. My drinking came close to fucking everything up. I have to live with what I have done. Respecting her man is so hard but we know right from wrong. It is her decision to make know matter how much we want her in our arms.
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She's a solid 5. I'd rate a 8.375482
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Definitely a 5. Have lived with both men and women and find things I love about both.
Overall I find women to be more romantic, more affectionate, and better kissers. I like men because they're less complicated than women, they're so much easier to figure out.
Overall I find women to be more romantic, more affectionate, and better kissers. I like men because they're less complicated than women, they're so much easier to figure out.
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Dont be fooled by the nickname.
I would rate myself an 7 or an 8.
Even though I have fantasized about things, my experience is very limited.
I would never be anything less then a 4 because I will always be attracted romantically and physically towards women.
I would rate myself an 7 or an 8.
Even though I have fantasized about things, my experience is very limited.
I would never be anything less then a 4 because I will always be attracted romantically and physically towards women.
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I'm a 5 I love sex equally with men or women.
a 7, Being a man I love sex with woman. I love having sex with women, but I can't put ten because I am so curious about what it would be like have sex with a man. I did once 27 years ago, when I was 18. I enjoyed that and maybe that is why I am so curious to try it again. Maybe someday I will change the 7 to a six or a five. I wouldn't want to make any changes until I've experienced the sex again.Uh, I guess I'd say a 9? I mean, I'm happily married to my wife and I have issues with the idea that straight guys should be able to say they can find a guy attractive if they really don't but the concept of homosexual sex doesn't repulse me.
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I think I'm a 5
but I have noticed lately that I'm more sexually attracted to men than women...
i feel like i have more of an emotional connection with women...
but I have noticed lately that I'm more sexually attracted to men than women...
i feel like i have more of an emotional connection with women...
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Five.
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I'm a ten.
I love every part of a woman. I love her physical attributes, her intellectual viewpoints that often help me clarify and understand my own because she sees them from a different perspective. I love her sensitivity and natural graciousness. I love the way she makes me feel like a man.
I enjoy camping, hunting and building things with my circle of guy friends, but I have no sexual attraction to any of them.
Roadie
I love every part of a woman. I love her physical attributes, her intellectual viewpoints that often help me clarify and understand my own because she sees them from a different perspective. I love her sensitivity and natural graciousness. I love the way she makes me feel like a man.
I enjoy camping, hunting and building things with my circle of guy friends, but I have no sexual attraction to any of them.
Roadie
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