On a scale from one to ten, how gay/bi/straight are you?

[brokenbrainwave]

Hmm, I am simply not sure.


15 years ago I would have said I'd kicked a gay child out of the house nor would I have admitted that I found another man attractive even though I'd already had a same sex experience-in high school I let another male kiss and masturbate me while I was stoned.

Nowdays I can look at a man and think "God, he's fuckin hot" when he is, but I really have no desire to sleep with one, at all. I've also noticed that gay porn, when done well, can turn me on occasionally.

I suppose I am at a point in my life where I'd give myself a 7, maybe a 6. Honestly having to deal with my wifes bisexuality admission has forced me to face my own repressed feelings.

 

[bvoltaire]

Hmmm 3.5.....i am not repulsed by gay male relationships but certainly wouldn't be in one...i love women for the sex and for the emotion....that being said...i do like my women to fuck my ass and would love to suck a cock under the right circumstances...

 

[jlocke]

Prolly an 8. I like women, I'm very attracted to women, bond on an emotional level with women. With men, I like the sex, but I'm not physically attracted to the male body.

 

[timberwolf05]

10!

One being that you're only interested in members of the same sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of heterosexual sex repulses you.

Ten being that you're only interested in members of the opposite sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of homosexual sex repulses you.

I'd consider myself a 2. I'm only interested in women when it comes to sex and I find it difficult to bond emotionally to men. I can fantasize about what having sex with a man would be like but know being in that situation would repulse me.

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10! opposite sex ONLY!

the wolf

 

[queen_of_cups]

5

I consider myself to be evenly balanced between both sexes, both in terms of sexual and emotional attraction.

I am married to a man, love and want him very much, but am equally attracted to women and am currently fostering a female love since we opened our marriage and began pursuing a poly lifestyle several months ago.

 

[cpicass0]

the scale...

1 or 2. I am a woman who is attracted to other women, but I'd hate to close myself off to even the remotest possibility.

 

[Sanitysux]

Maybe I sound too "straight" and not "bi" enough?

I've had the same problem.
I wonder if maybe I'm not really as Bi as I like to think I am,
or maybe I'm actually more gay than I think I am.
Or,... maybe I'm just boring and un-appealing to men and women !