Our FLR journey

[hiker1234567]

Communication is everything. Expressing your desires without being to pushy. Keep showing her the benefits of you in a bit of a submissive role. Maybe one night get her off with your oral skills and just go about your day or go to sleep. And if she asks if you want to get off just tell her no I just wanted you to have some pleasure. Non sexually, take chores off her plate. Do the cleaning, laundry, dishes. When she asks what goy into you just let her know she deserves to be able to just relax. Just a couple ideas as we ourselves are still evolving into our own dynamic.

Thanks for responding. I am very oral and do a lot of chores. But getting her to order me to my knees, collar me or peg me just does not seem in the cards. But talking about it here is nice

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

It takes time. My wife is not dominant by nature too. I've been asking for years(we've been married 14) just the last year we've really been exploring it. She still has trouble telling me what to do, but we communicate about it and she's working on. She realizes she loves it when she does but she still has trouble doing it for some reason.

 

[swflabimale]

When I explained to my wife some of the things I went through with my gay cousin and how he seduced me for 4+ years, she suddenly wanted to hear more. She became interested in gay porn, questioned me to give her details and it drove her crazy... crazy GOOD! All of a sudden she realized what I craved without me asking for anything. She knew I was submissive and game for anything, plus she was very inventive. She knew my likes and dislikes and if one of my dislikes was something she wanted to do, she told me I had no choice, there were plenty of restraining devices and she naturally got her way. I was restrained on more than a few occasions. Unfortunately, an unexpected surgery and a premature fall into menopause for her destroyed everything.

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

Wife's new favorite thing is have me cuddle up to her. Dry hump her as a play with her tits and I end up uncontrollably moaning in her ear. 9 days with out an orgasm I almost came in my cage this morning doing this. I thought I did. She reached down stuck her finger in the cage and said nope, laughed at me and said no orgasm for you yet. Then I ate her pussy until she told me to get the dildo. Fucked her with the dildo, and as always she tells me to clean it off. Where I hold it against her pussy like it's her cock and lick and suck it clean.

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

Yesterday was 2 weeks. The longest wife has kept me from an orgasm. I was allowed one yesterday, kind of. As I cuddled her, I dry jumped her and played with her tits. Just as I had basically all week as it seems to be one of my wife's favorite things. As I got close to the edge. Which blows my mind I'm able to get there from dry humping amd caged on top of that. I tell her I'm close and stop humping. She tells me not to stop. Somehow I started squirting out my little caged cock. It was such an odd feeling. As I thrust into her the cage would block as I pulled out it would leak. Felt like this happened for about 10 thrusts. I would relate it to a ruined orgasm as I deffinately didn't get a full released orgasm but it was also different in it's own sense. It was a odd but thrilling feeling. Wife and I a both happy that we found a new release without an actuall orgasm.