oneoffAkind
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About 6" myself but we have two dildos we like to play with - a 9" with a bit of girth one and an 11" slim. They fit us both nicely.
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We talked about a dildo for her but she seems to have lost interest a bit
MissMarie32
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I agree. Smaller cocks, hit all the right places
Amy0Pete
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To my liking? that would be a firm yes and may I add - there is no such thing as a penis too big only the penis that is too small
My ~6" compared to my wife's co-worker's 9(+).
https://ibb.co/23yN47F9
She said, it was definitely an experience trying a huge cock... It felt uncomfortably full. She had to ease down on him to take it... Her explanation... "it felt good once the shock of it was over, but it's not something I would want regularly."
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My wife had a well hung old bf, she was nervous the first time they had sex and said that it was uncomfortable at first, after a bit it felt amazing, but after a while it became uncomfortable again. Not sure if she was trying to spare my feelings or being honest.
My wife said similar... In fact, the last experience she had with him back in December. It was a single overnight company trip. He fucked her 3 times... Once after work. Then they went out to dinner with the others in their group. After she had a little alcohol, he fucked the shit out of her, two more times before going to sleep. He tried again, the next morning as they were waking up. Her sore and swollen pussy just wouldn't take him. She told him that it was hurting but he kept trying... she did not like that.
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Carolinaguy45
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Such a hot post! Thanks for sharing. So insanely hot
For comparison, look at her clit in the 2 pictures... his girth has her stretched out...
Carolinaguy45
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Ohhhh I definitely saw that…significant stretch! Just hot af! Would love to see my wife the same way
That does not look to be 9+ inches - looks more like seven (which is still very long). I firmly believe that very few people measure correctly, which is where we get all these wild estimations of length.
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This all makes sense to me
Claudia6
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The optics are important, but the size is not so necessary, I have a small pussy!
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I’ll have to take your work for it on size and penetration…
TheVegasMark
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How about 8.5"L by 6.25 G....Not mine..Another guy....Looked like a baseball bat...Says more women have a tough time with his size than enjoy his size....Think he is telling the truth.. ?
Yes, he's telling the truth. Ignore the idiotic gaslighting you get from Porn.
Even on a porn set, my dick is enormous - properly measured, it's 8 1/8" long and 6 1/4" around (girth) the entire length. According to CalcSD.com, my penis volume (func of girth/ length) is very rare - less than 1 in 10,000 men. Which is less common than a man who is 6' 9". The girth is the bigger problem; a partner doesn't have to take the entire length of my penis, but there's no way to take just part of its girth.
And yes, it's been more of a problem than an advantage with all of my partners. BJ's cause jaw pain and scraping teeth, anal is pretty much a non-starter (not every woman's thing, but some do enjoy it), and even PIV can become overwhelming. And lube is always a must. Plus, because of my length, I'm always having to be very careful to not bump her cervix, which is unpleasant for both of us. And having to always be so careful detracts from the fun.
Do you or your wife know any OBGYN's or Sex Therapists? If so, ask them if there are women who complain of pain during sex b/c a partner's penis is too big. So, yeah, it's a thing. Again... Ignore the idiocy of porn.
If your dick is close to average, be happy with it and focus on other aspects of your attractiveness.
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subdudeme13
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I am about average and always find the right places in foreplay. I prefer you have at least one orgasm before I enter you.
My wife read your post and agrees 100%
ArseGratiaArtis
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So much confusion about size, but I don't see anywhere the correct way to measure. I have always thought it was along the dorsal (top) surface from the public bone to the tip. For girth, use a measuring tape such as a seamstress uses and measure the thickest part.
I don't think most people really want to measure their partner's (or their own) dick correctly. Instead, they'd rather make their partner feel good by measuring from whatever angle gives the best result.
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YourSecretDesires
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It's a silly topic. The problem is dick size gets weaponized by both men and women to belittle men and give them dysmorphia. Porn doesn't help of course.
Truth is most men fall into the average length. Outliers are rare. For every person on Lit who says they once enjoyed a 9 incher, assume they just don't know what 9 inches looks like. Most women IME aren't good at eyeballing these things and most men lie about their size. A woman will brag about her man's size when they're together and belittle it if he dumped her or cheated. Etc. etc.
Take everything with a grain of salt and just enjoy the variety. I mean I love tits of all sizes and pussies of all shapes. Spice of life.
Truth is most men fall into the average length. Outliers are rare. For every person on Lit who says they once enjoyed a 9 incher, assume they just don't know what 9 inches looks like. Most women IME aren't good at eyeballing these things and most men lie about their size. A woman will brag about her man's size when they're together and belittle it if he dumped her or cheated. Etc. etc.
Take everything with a grain of salt and just enjoy the variety. I mean I love tits of all sizes and pussies of all shapes. Spice of life.
These penis size threads always remind me of a female comedian who said to a guy who hit on her at a bar and mentioned his big penis to close the deal…
“If I am not attracted to you, the idea of an extra large amount of you inside of me is only more disgusting. Now take your big dick and go elsewhere.”
“If I am not attracted to you, the idea of an extra large amount of you inside of me is only more disgusting. Now take your big dick and go elsewhere.”
