Personal Question.

[missgreekgeek]

there's a difference

Maybe to smooth
Sex is about confidence, which coincides with clothes.
If you're sexy and you know it, flaunt it

 

[smoothg103rd]

Maybe to smooth
Sex is about confidence, which coincides with clothes.
If you're sexy and you know it, flaunt it

All women look better naked anyway.

 

[missgreekgeek]

All women look better naked anyway.

I laughed out loud for that one!

 

[smoothg103rd]

Don't get me wrong I like to look good too. I just don't take 8 hours to do it. 5 hours shopping and 3 hours getting dressed. Men just are simpler. We like it we buy it, we buy it we wear it.

 

[missgreekgeek]

Don't get me wrong I like to look good too. I just don't take 8 hours to do it. 5 hours shopping and 3 hours getting dressed. Men just are simpler. We like it we buy it, we buy it we wear it.

It takes me an hour usually to get ready which includes, shower, shaving, makeup, hair, and get dressed.
And brushing, flossing and rinsing in the last five minutes.
So that's a record for most women.
Which usually does take them 5 hours.

 

[pink]

My first love was my best lover. I was a virgin too, btw.

 

[smoothg103rd]

It takes me an hour usually to get ready which includes, shower, shaving, makeup, hair, and get dressed.
And brushing, flossing and rinsing in the last five minutes.
So that's a record for most women.
Which usually does take them 5 hours.

I know it must be brutal waiting for yall. I'll say one thing, when a woman get all dolled up, there isn't a better view in the world. The dress that fits your curves, jewelry that compliment the dress, shoes that compliment their legs and a bag that compliment the shoes. Perfume smelling good and making up looking good. A woman dolled up is better site than Times Square to a foreigner.

 

[smoothg103rd]

My first love was my best lover. I was a virgin too, btw.

My first was just the best lover at that moment. Once a got a taste of other women I never looked back.

 

[duranman]

Yes. It's meant at the time even if that's not necessarily the case at other times.

 

[parodyluvr75]

I'm still young so hopefully one day I'll get the opportunity to test this theory. Love just haven't happen for me yet.

Maybe it's happen and you didn't realize it? It helps to be open to it, but sometimes it sneaks up on you and you don't realize it until it's gone. Keep your eyes and heart open.

 

[Noor]

I think I get the strange men or I train them somehow.

Byron and I used to test each other in the beginning, he seemed to want to see how far he could push me before I would explode or need to suddenly be somewhere without coverage and I let him see me at my worst. I edited nothing.

I had a broken leg, I couldn't really get around much and I didn't didn't care.
For the first couple months he only saw me in only huge ratty t-shirts from conventions that I had removed the neck bands from so they would fall off one shoulder or another, loose skirts and my leg splint for the break. This is basically what I wore around the clock for the first 6 weeks after the break.

I was clean but I didn't do anything with my hair, never wore makeup (I don't usually), underwear or a bra. I would just have skype running and he could see/watch me. I would fall asleep, wake up, take a cam with me around the house.

The morning I woke up and he said "wow, you really don't have any tattoos" I figured I might be going too far, but I couldn't resist telling him "you missed a piercing" there was a long silence and then finally "you are teasing me, right?" and I said "yes" he was very relieved.

He was good at clothes, I let him see what I have and he would pick out stuff to wear when I was too tired to think about it. It was kind of funny because he had very few clothes and only wore a few colors.

I could take him shopping with me on Skype. I don't shop much unless I absolutely need something.
I do "snoop" shop which basically means checking out what high end designers are doing, maybe trying it on, and sketching a technique I like with notes so I can knock it off for myself or a friend. I didn't take him with me on those, although his clothing vocabulary was getting better and he did learn all about sewing machine needles-shanks, sizes, points, systems at one point

 

[Noor]

Don't get me wrong I like to look good too. I just don't take 8 hours to do it. 5 hours shopping and 3 hours getting dressed. Men just are simpler. We like it we buy it, we buy it we wear it.

Men seem to take a huge amount of time showering and getting ready. Yeah they don't put on makeup but most guys seem to take forever in the shower.

 

[Noor]

Men don't seem to take as much time to prepare for sex though.

 

[SovereignShe]

Yes, love has always been a part of the best-sex-ever equation.

 

[jomar]

It's more like peaches and bananas.

What I was thinking and didn't bother posting. Glad you got there.

 

[jomar]

The best sex I ever had was with a man I was desperately in love with but refused to allow myself to be fully loved by. Young and naive and fearful, but he will always be the bar to which every other experience is measured in that regard. Try as I may not to....

That sounds exactly like the inspiration for this poem. Things were great, then she pulled away and went back to school and three years later I get a letter. We're still friends although states away.

http://www.literotica.com/p/for-awhile

Hope you like it if you read it.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Men seem to take a huge amount of time showering and getting ready. Yeah they don't put on makeup but most guys seem to take forever in the shower.

The military cures slow showers.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Men seem to take a huge amount of time showering and getting ready. Yeah they don't put on makeup but most guys seem to take forever in the shower.

Any man that takes long in the shower is playing with his self.

 

[Noor]

Any man that takes long in the shower is playing with his self.

Don't they all? just kidding, nah I have seen them spend time grooming but I am traditionally a very fast shower taker.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Don't they all? just kidding, nah I have seen them spend time grooming but I am traditionally a very fast shower taker.

Yeah I'm a fast shower taker too. But when I know I'm about to go have sex I take a little longer. For some reason I wash my privates about 10 times.

 

[LadyVer]

The best sex you ever had, do you love the person that gave it to you?

I probably could have, given the opportunity. BTW, how old are you? And I mean no offense.

 

[smoothg103rd]

I probably could have, given the opportunity. BTW, how old are you? And I mean no offense.

None taken. But may I know why you asked?

 

[CandiCame]

Nah men are way more simpler than women. You got to be a mind reader to truly understand women. They all are so different. Majority of men are the same.

No. To all that. I probably have more experience getting mind fucked by both genders than you do and I can attest that this is not the case. There are psyche studies on it too, and the major difference in the states is that men tend to have more simplistic thinking that women INTERPRET as stupidity, and women tend to have more abstract and varied thinking that men INTERPRET as... fucking insanity. Strait up. Not gonna lie. But we're socialized to think that way to compliment each other, to solve different kinds of problems that our society throws at us. Men tend to get straightforward, practical problems like, "My dryer is on fire, I need to fix it" and women tend to get more complex problems like, "I just got custody of the kids because of sexist custody laws and I need to make sure it doesn't grow up to be a psychopath while I'm shopping- oh shit where did it go. I swear to god it was right here. How fast can a fucking toddler run. Oh, there it is. Eating the dog food. I'm not buying that, I'll just kinda shove it back into the shelf with my foot. Back to the cart with you, young lady."

Men aren't used to having to think about all that shit at the same time so we don't read into shit. We tend to be more straitforward. Women tend to bombard folk with information, much of which just leaves you going, "Why are you telling me this?" And sometimes it's literally... no reason. But that doesn't mean that they're difficult to understand. They say what they mean, just loudly... and repeatedly... and verbosely. Women can hit a word count like nothing. They're just better at it. But again, not more complex, just more... just more, man. So much more.

All this is my experience. I'm sure there are some concise-ass bitches out there. And I know there are rambly men, my man is one, and I'm one, but that's not really representative of the heterosexual dating pool, so I didn't really think about it. Also I'm really tired and I ramble more when I'm tired.

 

[LadyVer]

None taken. But may I know why you asked?

Usually, when one reaches a certain age, sex and love have a lot of nuances. I guess what I'm saying is that someone my age isn't going to be asking this kind of question. But I could be wrong, and everyone has a different opinion.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Usually, when one reaches a certain age, sex and love have a lot of nuances. I guess what I'm saying is that someone my age isn't going to be asking this kind of question. But I could be wrong, and everyone has a different opinion.

Nah you are spot on. I'm only 21, a 21 year old who never really been in love. I only know sex. So I just in a weird way I wanted to know do others fall in love with the person they had the best sex with. I fucked a lot of girls but still haven't found one I want to be with. I know when you are this young sex is supposed to be just that, sex. But I been having just sex for years and a lot of females but still didn't progress to anything else. I guess I'm just trying to paint a picture to help me put the puzzle together.