I've avoided making a comment on this thread, but for some reason I feel I should make one now. Smoove, when you get older and look back you'll see things very differently than you've seen them up to this point, and probably very differently than you will see them over the next five or ten years, maybe more, unless I miss my guess. I think you will almost certainly look back and realize you may have made at least one big mistake regarding at least one particular girl who you know in your heart really loved you, and who you know you should have loved back. The old saying is true. We grow old too soon, and wise too late.
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I've avoided making a comment on this thread, but for some reason I feel I should make one now. Smoove, when you get older and look back you'll see things very differently than you've seen them up to this point, and probably very differently than you will see them over the next five or ten years, maybe more, unless I miss my guess. I think you will almost certainly look back and realize you may have made at least one big mistake regarding at least one particular girl who you know in your heart really loved you, and who you know you should have loved back. The old saying is true. We grow old too soon, and wise too late.
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Yeah I know that. I don't like to live with regret, but I know one day its coming. As it will come for us all. I also know it's a lot of girls that cared and still care for me. I just didn't care to much about them. I'm not the one to settle. Oh that girl love me than I should love her too, that's not me. I give myself credit for one thing, I don't lead girls on and promise them futures. I don't like to break hearts because I don't want mines to get broken. All I want is one I genuinely care for.
I gave myself credit like that also, for a lot of years. Too many years. I would never say those three little words. Even when asked to do so. I remember one exception, and since it was in German, I did it. I only realized years later I should have meant it.
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Yeah I'm not going to tell someone I love them when I don't. I just understand how much words actually means. So I'm not going to play around with a person or they heart. If I say I love you to a girl then I mines well go on a marry her. The people I love I want in my life for forever. The girls I'm dealing with could be gone tomorrow and I wouldn't care.
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But all in all I'm still young. I still got a long life to live (inshallah). So there are things I will learn and find out myself. Another thing I realized (and some for being here). That people settle down before they can enjoy their sex lives. They haven't experimented enough to be settled down. Me on the other hand, I had a hell of a sex life. And my run is still going. So when I decide to settle down, she will know that she's the only one I want.
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Why can't you create a future together?
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I understand what dolf wrote.
There's a guy I love, and I know he loves me, but we are not "in love" and we will never have a full-on relationship.
The sex is awesome. We have fun together when we are together.
But it's never going to be anything other than what it is right now.
NO !.....well.......not anymore....
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