Prostate play is my new obsession!

[raffi_sandoval]

This is so sexy to imagine a guy at my mercy dripping from my attention.

too would love to be at your mercy, and have dripped on several occasions

 

[jakereeder22]

Try It!

just starting to learn more about this. it does sound exciting tocmncndnndnndnbxbxhxbxhx

 

[9to5]

I recommend reading as much as you can on this thread and from other sources as their is a lot of great information starting to become available as more and more people become aware of this form of sexual pleasure. Make sure you use an ample amount of lubricant and take your time. Be patient and realize that your body may take time to rewire itself to this new form of stimulation. The payoffs can be huge. When experimenting with prostate stimulation, plan on an extended masturbation session. This is not something you want to rush. Stimulating the prostate along with edging yourself manually can lead to massive intense orgasms. Do you plan on trying yourself or with a partner?

thanks
so far it will be just me. I do have a small curved vibe that is supposed to be for this. maybe I just didn't hit the spot right. I must try again. edging with this might be help and sounds good.
looking forward to seeing what happens.

 

[5watcher]

Baby Steps

Tammy,

This happend about 1 month ago but had surgery soon after and I could not get to the PC to write about it. I hit the highlights that I remember.

My wife has gotten the idea that I like ass play. I asked about getting the vibrator out. She agreed. I lubed it up and I put some on my ass.
I got back in bed and kneeled beside her shoulders, kind of in a 69 position but besides her. I then reached down and used the vibrator on her while she sucked me.
I took the vibrator out of her and handed it to her. I started to lick her and finger her while kneeling over her leg. My head down, ass up....
She started rubbing the vibe across my asshole. I moaned and pushed back evry chance I got. She got the hint and started to rub the tip on my asshole. I started to finger and lick her faster, while pushing my ass back towards her.
Then it happened. The vibe went into my ass. I was loving it. I could not lick and finger her fast enough. It seemed like she just held it in position while I pumped my ass back and forth on in.

This only lasted a couple of minutes. She pulled it out and she had me get on top(which did not last very long, sorry to say.)

Nothing was said that evening and she made one sly joke about it the next day.

Wondering if I should pursue or drop it and see what she does??

 

[BiTodd]

Tammy,

This happend about 1 month ago but had surgery soon after and I could not get to the PC to write about it. I hit the highlights that I remember.

My wife has gotten the idea that I like ass play. I asked about getting the vibrator out. She agreed. I lubed it up and I put some on my ass.
I got back in bed and kneeled beside her shoulders, kind of in a 69 position but besides her. I then reached down and used the vibrator on her while she sucked me.
I took the vibrator out of her and handed it to her. I started to lick her and finger her while kneeling over her leg. My head down, ass up....
She started rubbing the vibe across my asshole. I moaned and pushed back evry chance I got. She got the hint and started to rub the tip on my asshole. I started to finger and lick her faster, while pushing my ass back towards her.
Then it happened. The vibe went into my ass. I was loving it. I could not lick and finger her fast enough. It seemed like she just held it in position while I pumped my ass back and forth on in.

This only lasted a couple of minutes. She pulled it out and she had me get on top(which did not last very long, sorry to say.)

Nothing was said that evening and she made one sly joke about it the next day.

Wondering if I should pursue or drop it and see what she does??

ISide note: I absolutely love giving oral in the position you described. It makes everything I want to do with my partner easy. And It makes my cock, balls and ass readily accessible for my lover.

 

[jakereeder22]

thanks
so far it will be just me. I do have a small curved vibe that is supposed to be for this. maybe I just didn't hit the spot right. I must try again. edging with this might be help and sounds good.
looking forward to seeing what happensGdjdjjdjdxhchx

 

[9to5]

It takes time and everyone is different. Although I found prostate stimulation enjoyable when I first began exploring this part of my sexuality, it was nowhere near as pleasureable as I find it now. Now, because my body is rewired and more aware of the pleasureable sensations that eminate from my prostate, I find myself craving the stimulation and accompanying milking effects if I have not stimulated my prostate in a while.

the more I read the more I want to try. sometime wish I could have somebody in person help me

 

[tammyw]

Tammy,

This happend about 1 month ago but had surgery soon after and I could not get to the PC to write about it. I hit the highlights that I remember.

My wife has gotten the idea that I like ass play. I asked about getting the vibrator out. She agreed. I lubed it up and I put some on my ass.
I got back in bed and kneeled beside her shoulders, kind of in a 69 position but besides her. I then reached down and used the vibrator on her while she sucked me.
I took the vibrator out of her and handed it to her. I started to lick her and finger her while kneeling over her leg. My head down, ass up....
She started rubbing the vibe across my asshole. I moaned and pushed back evry chance I got. She got the hint and started to rub the tip on my asshole. I started to finger and lick her faster, while pushing my ass back towards her.
Then it happened. The vibe went into my ass. I was loving it. I could not lick and finger her fast enough. It seemed like she just held it in position while I pumped my ass back and forth on in.

This only lasted a couple of minutes. She pulled it out and she had me get on top(which did not last very long, sorry to say.)

Nothing was said that evening and she made one sly joke about it the next day.

Wondering if I should pursue or drop it and see what she does??

First of all, I really enjoyed your post and want to thank you for sharing with the thread. As far as advice, I would have an honest talk about it. She must know that you enjoyed it and although she might not be totally comfortable with the idea I think being honest with her about your interest is better overall for your relationship. You are lucky in some ways because you already got her to take the huge step of actually stimulating your prostate with a vibrator, so now it is just a matter of communicating with her about your interest in making prostate stimulation a regular part of your "already amazing sex life." Women need reassurance and she might be feeling like your interest in prostate stimulation is indicative of her not satisfying you or being enough for you sexually. I have felt this way in some of my previous relationships and it is not a good feeling. She needs to know how much you love having sex with her and how much you treasure each encounter and that this is something new you stumbled across that you want to share with her. We often make jokes about things we are afraid of or that make us a bit uncomfortable so I would take her "sly joke" as an indication that you need to discuss this further. I guess you could wait and see if she brings it up, but keep in mind that depending on the type of person she is, she might not be comfortable bringing prostate stimulation up in conversation with you. I have dated more than a couple women, prior to meeting my husband, who were very shy about talking about sex when it came to articulating their fantasies and desires or interest in trying something new. Either way, if you want to take things further, I think it is probably going to have to be you starting the conversation. This is also an advantage because it gives you time to think about all of the points you want to make.

Good luck and let us all know how it goes!

 

[9to5]

I got to try it a little yesterday. I used my prostate vibe. its small and curved to hit the spot. So im sitting at the computer with this vibrating in me. I think I have the spot. I start to edge myself. wow that's when I feel it. I let go and want to cum bad. I feel my legs shake and a liitle cums out. I do want to cum bad now. the feeling of being so close is great. then I stroke to cum as I start I let go and let the vibe try to do its thing. the problem I have is I cant stop from wanting to cum. then after the first squirt I want to stop.

how to you let go and just keep it going?

 

[jakereeder22]

I got to try it a little yesterday. I used my prostate vibe. its small and curved to hit the spot. So im sitting at the computer with this vibrating in me. I think I have the spot. I start to edge myself. wow that's when I feel it. I let go and want to cum bad. I feel my legs shake and a liitle cums out. I do want to cum bad now. the feeling of being so close is great. then I stroke to cum as I start I let go and let the vibe try to do its thing. the problem I have is I cant stop from wanting to cum. then after the first squirt I want to stop.

how to you let go and just keep it going?

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[denicegirl]

Tammy,

This happend about 1 month ago but had surgery soon after and I could not get to the PC to write about it. I hit the highlights that I remember.

My wife has gotten the idea that I like ass play. I asked about getting the vibrator out. She agreed. I lubed it up and I put some on my ass.
I got back in bed and kneeled beside her shoulders, kind of in a 69 position but besides her. I then reached down and used the vibrator on her while she sucked me.
I took the vibrator out of her and handed it to her. I started to lick her and finger her while kneeling over her leg. My head down, ass up....
She started rubbing the vibe across my asshole. I moaned and pushed back evry chance I got. She got the hint and started to rub the tip on my asshole. I started to finger and lick her faster, while pushing my ass back towards her.
Then it happened. The vibe went into my ass. I was loving it. I could not lick and finger her fast enough. It seemed like she just held it in position while I pumped my ass back and forth on in.

This only lasted a couple of minutes. She pulled it out and she had me get on top(which did not last very long, sorry to say.)

Nothing was said that evening and she made one sly joke about it the next day.

Wondering if I should pursue or drop it and see what she does??

Hot story! Next time tell her not to pull it out and tell her that you want her to ride you. Have her climb aboard and stroke your cock in and out of her lovely wet pussy while that vibrating toy hums away on your prostate. I love riding my husband while he has a toy stimulating his prostate. I love watching his face as he tries to hold back but cannot help but lose control from all the pleasure he is receiving. It makes me so hot seeing him so turned on that I usually cannot help but have an orgasm along with him. Now that you got me thinking about this, it has been awhile since my husband has and prostate play, perhaps he is overdue for a thorough draining. Good luck with your wife. I agree with Tammy, you need to talk to her about it. I learned through experimentation and frank conversation with my husband. It seemed like he liked me teasing around his ass so I asked him if he wanted me to insert my finger sometime. This lead to him telling me that he sometimes rubs his perineum and asshole when he masturbates and eventually lead to us discovering the hidden gem of his prostate. That was definitely a game changer for us and I love pleasing him that way. His orgasms are so intense that its a huge turnon.

 

[5watcher]

Thank you Tami and Denicegirl. When I work up the courage to outright ask, I will let you know. I guess I am afraid of what she will think.

Thanks again for the words of encouragement

 

[denicegirl]

Prostate playtime for my husband and I...

My husband and I have been really busy lately and for a little over two weeks I have been without our regular lovemaking. Between stress at work, family committments and our ever growing social calendar, we just werent finding time to ravish each other. Thursday night we finally had a night with some substantial down time and I was more than ready to capitalize on it. I cooked my husband a delicious meal of chicken parm, ziti, green beans with mushrooms, and bought a nice bottle of red wine to compliment the food. After dinner, I told him to head upstairs to our bedroom to find a movie on Netflixs for us to watch. Naturally, when I entered the bedroom after taking care of the last bit of clean up, my husband had already selected a ridiculous documentary entitled "Eyes of the Mothman" and had it buffering up on the screen when I came in. Needless to say, I didnt have any desire to watch that or feel that it in anyway set the mood for what I had in mind, but I decided that it would be interesting to see how long it would take for my husband to get a clue and shut off the movie and fuck me. So I layed down next to him and let him start the movie. After a few moments, I got up out of bed and stood next to the end of the bed as I began to take of my clothes slowly. I took my time pretending to fumble a bit as I wanted my husband to take an interest in something that wasnt on the tv screen. It didnt take long before his eyes had strayed from the screen and were glued to me. I watched him in one of our mirrors as I removed my blouse, then my skirt. I bent over and slowly collected the skirt that had pooled around my ankles providing him with time to admire my purple thong clad ass. I then stood up straight and walked over to our laundry basket to discard my clothes. I turned towards him and took off my bra, deliberately not looking at him, but taking my time to give him ample visual stimulation. I then put on a long white camisole I have that just covers about half to 2/3 of my ass and walking towards the bed, I stopped, and pulled my thong off kicking it towards the hamper just before getting back in bed. I then asked him if he was enjoying his documentary. He said he was and surprisingly enough, he still hadnt gotten the hint. I let him watch the movie for another 5-10 minutes before I slowly began to rub my hands over my body. I slowly teased my nipples hard through the camisole and when they were as aroused as they could get, I moved my right hand lower, parting my legs and slowly teasing my pussy. He hadnt noticed me subtle movements as I teased my nipples, but the wet sounds of my hand on my pussy got his attention rather quickly. He asked me what I was doing and I told him that it had been awhile and I was really horny. I asked him if he wanted to shut the movie off and help me out as I bit my lip and pushed the middle finger of my right hand into my wet slit. He shut the movie off immediately and kissed me passionately before guiding the camisole quickly over my head. He kissed his way down my body teasing me in all the right places before licking and sucking my clit to two fantastic orgasms. Then it was my turn to play and I told him I wanted to stimulate his prostate while I sucked his cock. I went to get one of my g spot vibrators and our bottle of lube and set them beside me on the bed. Now it was my turn to teasingly kiss my way down his body before taking his hard cock into my mouth. I used my lips, tongue and hands to tease his shaft, balls and the head of his cock before reaching for the lube and using my right hand to apply a generous amount to both the toy and his waiting ass. When I was sure he was relaxed and ready, I inserted the bulbous head of the gspot vibe and watched his ass swallow it slowly as I eased it deeper inside him. Almost immediately on contact with his prostate, he began streaming precum rather steadily. I continued to suck and tease him for a while wanting to make his orgasm more and more intense from the building sensations. I asked him to tell me when he was getting close and when he did, I backed off for a bit, reducing the sensations so that he wouldnt go over the edge just yet. I then took my mouth off his hard cock and straddled him lowering my wet pussy over his hardness and slipping him into me all the way to the base. I began to ride him and he felt so good that for a few moments I was solely focused on my pleasure. Then I remembered the task at hand and reached behind me for the vibe. I pressed it up against his prostate as I continued to fuck him and asked him again to tell me when he was starting to get close. I myself could feel my own orgasm approaching and told him so. This spurred him on and he began to thrust into me harder as I fucked him faster and faster with my own need. I looked at his face and could tell he must be getting close so I asked him and he told me he was. With my right hand still on the vibe, with it still pressed up against his prostate, I spun the knob on the end, turning the vibrator on. I heard the vibrator purring away in his ass and watched his look of surprise on his face as both he and I had a tremendous orgasm. Between how wet I was and how much my husband came, we had to put down a towel so we didnt have to sleep on the wet spot on the sheets.

 

[ymmv]

I tried two Aneros products and got about half-way to orgasm. Then I bought an (expensive) Lelo Billy from the Literotica store. I've only tried it twice so far but it seems to be more effective than the Aneros units. It's powered and has a pretty good selection of movements.

I almost got off last time I used it but not quite; I was trying so hard not to stroke myself that I lost the thread of what I was doing. I guess that's a good sign.

I wrap it in a condom when I use it, for obvious reasons.

 

[BiTodd]

Some really hot posts, thanks. This makes me crave a long session of mutual ass play. yum!

 

[nicknude]

I would love to be milked just by having my prostate massaged.....haven't experienced that yet.

Someday, hopefully.

 

[ymmv]

Meant to mention that a good strap-on dildo you should look at is the Tantus Silicone Feeldoe Stout. It's at the Literotica store. It's costly but the Tantus stuff is really good. What we like about this one is that it has a bulb that goes in the woman's vagina, so she gets some vaginal action, plus clit rubbing, while she's banging your butt. Also it's fun for me to put it in. It's big but it wasn't a problem. I think men tend to have more rectal room than the ladies. It goes in pretty far so it doesn't miss much.

Sometimes when she's doing my ass I'll reach back and pull on the harness to make her slam into me harder. The impact and stroke are fun and you definitely know you're getting fucked. (I've tried to put my fingers in her ass but my reach isn't long enough.) I think this could be the basis for an MFM anal threesome but we haven't tried at all. (I need to be <at least> more comfortable with being pegged.) I think for the woman in the middle it would be almost like being DP'd.

We were a little reserved at first but it was silly. My wife was always a step ahead of me and ready to go with whatever I suggested. Various types of anal play probably make up half of our sex these days, and it's great. That said, I'm still not nearly ready for a threesome.

 

[fredgy]

after about a month with my aneros, I had my first "dry orgasm". It was full of pre cum building up and I had an intense peak of pleasure. It felt like an overwhelming wave, my body was shaking and it had a peak and a release. Well worth the wait, woke up this morning and started playing again

 

[jakereeder22]

I tried two Aneros products and got about half-way to orgasm. Then I bought an (expensive) Lelo Billy from the Literotica store. I've only tried it twice so far but it seems to be more effective than the Aneros units. It's powered and has a pretty good selection of movements.

I almost got off last time I used it but not quite; I was trying so hard not to stroke myself that I lost the thread of what I was doing. I guess that's a good sign.

I wrap it in a condom when I use it, for obvious reasons.

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[jakereeder22]

after about a month with my aneros, I had my first "dry orgasm". It was full of pre cum building up and I had an intense peak of pleasure. It felt like an overwhelming wave, my body was shaking and it had a peak and a release. Well worth the wait, woke up this morning and started playing againXjdjxnznxnxnjznnnnz

 

[ymmv]

Just a helpful tip. Certain toys will work better for certain people depending on the size and location of the prostate...

Thank you for the comments. I also noted your earlier suggestion that it's easy to expect too much of a vibrator. You've pretty much nailed me: I'm impatient and don't give enough attention to the long haul. I'll try to take your advice to heart (though I've been this way for a long time). I'd really like to get more out of prostate play.

 

[fredgy]

Congratulations! It takes some people a very long time to get to that point. Care to share your method? Did you do anything differently that particular session? What kind of contractions or motions were you making with the toy that lead to the dry orgasm?

I just took a dive and went the lube in route. You buy a kids medicine syringe (sounds terrible). I used that to lube my rectum, they come in 2tsp sizes which is all you need. This allows the massager to move freely inside you. I also watched my favorite porn (feel doe girl on girl) and moved my hips along with the girl that had the strap on on. As I would thrust I would flex my sphincter muscles into my p muscles (the one that stops you from pissing yourself) you can practice this motion with no toy and it feels really good. The main thing though is lube inside your rectum, also cleaning before. It was one of the most intense things I have ever experienced and have just hit the tip of the iceberg. Hope that helps

 

[hardcollege4]

I just took a dive and went the lube in route. You buy a kids medicine syringe (sounds terrible). I used that to lube my rectum, they come in 2tsp sizes which is all you need. This allows the massager to move freely inside you. I also watched my favorite porn (feel doe girl on girl) and moved my hips along with the girl that had the strap on on. As I would thrust I would flex my sphincter muscles into my p muscles (the one that stops you from pissing yourself) you can practice this motion with no toy and it feels really good. The main thing though is lube inside your rectum, also cleaning before. It was one of the most intense things I have ever experienced and have just hit the tip of the iceberg. Hope that helps

That sounds really nice and makes me very curious to try something like that

 

[tammyw]

I am the husband dying for some prostate massage. We have tried with the Aneros and my wife's finger to no avail. I just bought a harness and am looking for a strap on dildo to go with the harness. I want to experience one of those massive orgasms I keep reading about. Can someone tell me a good site to view these videos?

You can find the videos all over the place, but for starters you could check out any one of the following sites and simply type aneros or prostate stimulation into the search field. Enjoy! I know I do, haha.

www.tubetrooper.com
www.******.com
www.xhamster.com
www.nudevista.com

 

[BiTodd]

Tammy, you are so sexy!