Prostate play is my new obsession!

[tammyw]

Aneros Update!

My husband and I have introduced the Aneros Helix I bought him into our sex lives and are really enjoying it thus far. My husband has yet to experiment with it solo, but I have used it on him while sucking his cock and using the handle to change the angle and intensity of pressure on his prostate as well as when we have penetrative sex. So far I love it when I am riding him while he has the toy inserted or we both really enjoyed it when he fucks me from behind. My husband said the toy seems to move and stimulate his prostate a little better when we are in that position, but so far I would say that introducing the toy has been a big hit. One thing I noticed is that my husband seems to be getting more sensitive to prostate stimulation and he is getting much more aroused upon my application of lube or the initial penetration of the toy. I think that with time men begin to develop positive associations with the prostate stimulation and become more and more aroused by the thought and or actions leading up to it. While we both really like the Aneros, I still prefer to stimulate him with my fingers during hand jobs/blowjobs as it just feels more intimate and I love to feel his internal contractions as he cums for me. I really want my husband to let me watch him use it solo and for him to read up on some of the muscle exercises he can do to increase his pleasure. Maybe the next thing we will try is mutual masturbation where he puts on a show for me while I put on a show for him. Perhaps we will challenge each other to see how long we can last, haha. Knowing how much prostate stimulation turns me on, he might have the advantage there though.

 

[Harley55]

My husband and I have introduced the Aneros Helix I bought him into our sex lives and are really enjoying it thus far. My husband has yet to experiment with it solo, but I have used it on him while sucking his cock and using the handle to change the angle and intensity of pressure on his prostate as well as when we have penetrative sex. So far I love it when I am riding him while he has the toy inserted or we both really enjoyed it when he fucks me from behind. My husband said the toy seems to move and stimulate his prostate a little better when we are in that position, but so far I would say that introducing the toy has been a big hit. One thing I noticed is that my husband seems to be getting more sensitive to prostate stimulation and he is getting much more aroused upon my application of lube or the initial penetration of the toy. I think that with time men begin to develop positive associations with the prostate stimulation and become more and more aroused by the thought and or actions leading up to it. While we both really like the Aneros, I still prefer to stimulate him with my fingers during hand jobs/blowjobs as it just feels more intimate and I love to feel his internal contractions as he cums for me. I really want my husband to let me watch him use it solo and for him to read up on some of the muscle exercises he can do to increase his pleasure. Maybe the next thing we will try is mutual masturbation where he puts on a show for me while I put on a show for him. Perhaps we will challenge each other to see how long we can last, haha. Knowing how much prostate stimulation turns me on, he might have the advantage there though.

I have also used the Aneros helix and progasm solo. I've learned how to work the muscles to enjoy the hands free prostrate orgasm. It's wonderful. I love the sensation of messaging the prostrate so much that I've started to also use 8 inch realistic cock dildos. Also amazing. Now I think I need a real cock to stimulate my prostrate. I'm married guy that has never had sex with a man, but my prostrate tells me that we need some cock. We'll see if I get that lucky.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

I have also used the Aneros helix and progasm solo. I've learned how to work the muscles to enjoy the hands free prostrate orgasm. It's wonderful. I love the sensation of messaging the prostrate so much that I've started to also use 8 inch realistic cock dildos. Also amazing. Now I think I need a real cock to stimulate my prostrate. I'm married guy that has never had sex with a man, but my prostrate tells me that we need some cock. We'll see if I get that lucky.

Lol sounds like we're on exact identical boats
I have the best times with my progasm.

 

[tammyw]

I have also used the Aneros helix and progasm solo. I've learned how to work the muscles to enjoy the hands free prostrate orgasm. It's wonderful. I love the sensation of messaging the prostrate so much that I've started to also use 8 inch realistic cock dildos. Also amazing. Now I think I need a real cock to stimulate my prostrate. I'm married guy that has never had sex with a man, but my prostrate tells me that we need some cock. We'll see if I get that lucky.

How do you use your muscles to stimulate your prostate and how long did it take you to learn how to have a hands free orgasm? I am really interested in learning more about this so that I can give my husband some tips and hopefully get the chance to watch him while he works. The idea of watching him have a hands free orgasm from prostate stimulation using the Aneros is so hot!

 

[erosthenes]

Hello Again Tammy

How do you use your muscles to stimulate your prostate and how long did it take you to learn how to have a hands free orgasm? I am really interested in learning more about this so that I can give my husband some tips and hopefully get the chance to watch him while he works. The idea of watching him have a hands free orgasm from prostate stimulation using the Aneros is so hot!

I saw a very long and detailed write-up linked from Lit (just tried to find it again, but no luck) that had LOTS of good information on the aneros line of prostate massagers, and on all things related to attaining success in their use. If you were following this and other similar threads (and I am sure you were!), you likely did see it a few weeks back; it prompted me to start using mine again more regularly and I am sure would be useful information to anyone in the same boat. Did you and your husband see, or read through that?

I practice ‘kegel’ exercises on a regular basis, to strengthen those muscles (they’re the same ones you flex or tighten to stop the flow of urine, and to ‘shoot’ when you are ejaculating). I try to incorporate those exercises with my others (sit-ups, weight training, etc.) in a routine to try to fight off the ravages of the aging process. (I am late fifties, so very important for those of us at this age to keep moving if we want to continue to have a fun and healthy sex life!)

Since I renewed acquaintances with my aneros helix (long ago I removed the back curled handle for comfort, so now it only has the perineum tab sticking out); I’ve grown curious enough about the newer silicone massagers to just go ahead and order one. I sent for the narrower Eupho Syn model, and eagerly await its arrival.

I have yet to try making love to my wife with my aneros inserted, thinking it might distract me from focusing on her. My preference has been to use it when all is quiet and I am alone - and when I have lots of time (at least an hour) for such leisurely indulgence. Perhaps one of these days, as I gain more experience, I will give it a try with it in - just for fun!

Once, my love was gracious enough to use her fingers to massage my prostate while lavishing oral affection on my engorged cock; bringing me to a thunderous orgasm that produced an even greater volume of man cream than I normally provide. I shall treasure that memory for all time.

 

[erosthenes]

Another thought I had . .

My wife and I can get each other very excited just by reading our fantasies to each other. I have written many, and some are published here.

One of the keys to success in attaining hands-free total body orgasms with the aneros (model of your choice) is what is in your head at the time and your state of arousal. If you are not aroused, and thinking naughty thoughts, and instead are thinking about that garden that’s not getting weeded or that transmission that needs to be fixed, you are not likely going anywhere.

One of the things that really gets us focused is very sexy stories. Especially if she or I have written them. And especially if she or I, or both of us, are characters in them.

Do you have any fantasies that you can tell your husband about, a story about, while he lays there and lets the aneros gently do it’s work on his prostate? Perhaps a fantasy or experience that you have never told him about before . . or how something very innocent happened, but you wished it went a whole lot further. Then explain, in delicious, dirty detail.

Also - there are plenty of good stories right here in Lit - you could find one that best reflected a fantasy of yours (whether or not you would ever REALLY do it or not) that you could read to him as he lays there, and writhes away - maybe into a totally delicious hands-free whole body orgasm right before your eyes!

 

[awired50]

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[erosthenes]

Great Blog

My wife and I have recently entered the prostate play world. It has electrified our sex life ! Read our blog here: http://awired50.net . Aneros makes the best products we have discovered so far. The Aneros forums and site are very helpful and educational ! I own a Vice and the Progasm from Aneros.

Great Blog AW . . we will definitely be following your progress!

 

[tammyw]

Thank you for sharing!

My wife and I have recently entered the prostate play world. It has electrified our sex life ! Read our blog here: http://awired50.net . Aneros makes the best products we have discovered so far. The Aneros forums and site are very helpful and educational ! I own a Vice and the Progasm from Aneros.

I loved reading your blog and wanted to thank you so much for sharing it with the thread. My husband and I are also exploring this fantastic form of pleasure and are both truly enjoying the journey. It was a warm day this morning, but reading about you and your wife's adventure had me quite hot and bothered. Please share more with the thread anytime.

Tammy

 

[kelloveslit]

hotttt

So glad I found this topic! I've enjoyed learning how to add pleasure thru prostate play, and its been amazing to get explosive results! Reading all of your perspectives makes me so happy bc men should be open to the amazing pleasure that awaits. I'm also more curious about getting toys for this. I've used my fingers for a long time, but Aneros looks intriguing. Might have to order one soon...

Cheers to all my prostate players out there!

Xoxo
Kel

 

[awired50]

I loved reading your blog and wanted to thank you so much for sharing it with the thread. My husband and I are also exploring this fantastic form of pleasure and are both truly enjoying the journey. It was a warm day this morning, but reading about you and your wife's adventure had me quite hot and bothered. Please share more with the thread anytime.

Tammy

Thanks tammyw. It has certainly been an adventure for us so far. Please refresh the page and visit often as I update it allot. There is a ton of information at the aneros.com website as well.
Good luck !

 

[tammyw]

Thanks for sharing your interest!

So glad I found this topic! I've enjoyed learning how to add pleasure thru prostate play, and its been amazing to get explosive results! Reading all of your perspectives makes me so happy bc men should be open to the amazing pleasure that awaits. I'm also more curious about getting toys for this. I've used my fingers for a long time, but Aneros looks intriguing. Might have to order one soon...

Cheers to all my prostate players out there!

Xoxo
Kel

We have been really happy with our Aneros so far and would highly recommend it. I am still trying to get my husband to use it solo and work to learn to use his PC and sphincter muscles to self-stimulate himself to a hands free orgasm or a Super-O. I wont claim that they will work for everyone, but we really like having sex with it inserted. I get really excited putting in our Helix and then bending over on the bed to let my husband fuck me from behind. I also love to look down between my legs and sometimes catch glimpses of the handle or toy tucked inside him. Lately, I have been really turned on by asking him to tell me how the toy feels or is stimulating him. Something about his descriptions can trigger massive orgasms for me. Now he knows the effect it has and has been getting more and more descriptive when I ask for details.

 

[jakereeder22]

We have been really happy with our Aneros so far and would highly recommend it. I am still trying to get my husband to use it solo and work to learn to use his PC and sphincter muscles to self-stimulate himself to a hands free orgasm or a Super-O. I wont claim that they will work for everyone, but we really like having sex with it inserted. I get really excited putting in our Helix and then bending over on the bed to let my husband fuck me from behind. I also love to look down between my legs and sometimes catch glimpses of the handle or toy tucked inside him. Lately, I have been really turned on by asking him to tell me how the toy feels or is stimulating him. Something about his descriptions can trigger massive orgasms for me. Now he knows the effect it has and has been getting more and more descriptive when I ask for details.[dhdndncnxnx

 

[Snipers_Girl]

Glancing through the posts I saw one from a man hoping to get his wife on board the *ahem* train

When hubby and I married (second time for both of us) I introduced him to prostate play. I will say it shocked the ever living daylights out of him at first, until he realized how good it felt. Unfortunately for him his ex never tried it, but fortunate for me, because I became a goddess (not that I already wasn't) for showing it to him.

Hey, I warned him I was a freak in bed before we married.

 

[msub50some]

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[fredgy]

Finally told my girlfriend about my adventures, we are going to try it together tonight, I will elaborate on how I let the cat out of the bag tomorrow! And will report on how the night went, wish me luck!

 

[adambom]

Good luck, fredgy!

 

[priapusone]

yumm is my play!

 

[tammyw]

What happened?

Finally told my girlfriend about my adventures, we are going to try it together tonight, I will elaborate on how I let the cat out of the bag tomorrow! And will report on how the night went, wish me luck!

You have me dying of curiousity! I have checked the thread on and off for a couple days waiting to hear your update and hoping that things went smoothly for you. This thread needs more people like you willing to share their successes and failures with prostate stimulation. Cant wait for the details!

 

[awired50]

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[awired50]

The forum on the Aneros site makes me so hot! It seems like an awesome community for men and women looking to explore prostate play with their partners and at least for me, the reading makes for very wet panties, haha.

You should join the Aneros forums and share your journey with your husband. It is a way to shout it from the digital mountaintops , share & learn. Allot of great people there.

I think those of us who are blessed with a partner that is supportive of their husband experiencing euphoria, that trust you that much ..both partners I mean, is pretty freakin awesome ! JMHO

 

[eroticspank]

Great!

Wow great thread Tammy! Thanks for starting this one!


ES

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

I very much enjoy this. Led to my love of strap on play too

 

[tammyw]

Wow great thread Tammy! Thanks for starting this one!


ES

Thank you for sharing your interest! As far as the thread being great, I couldn't agree more, but it would be wrong of me to take all the credit. There are many other great people like yourself sharing their experiences and interest in prostate pleasure on the thread and they deserve just as much credit as I do.

 

[awired50]

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