Prostate play is my new obsession!

[tammyw]

Tammy, you are so sexy!

Thanks! I am not sure if I deserve that, but I sure enjoy sharing with and reading other's posts on this thread. I am happy that more and more people are beginning to share their experiences or desire to experience this fantastic addition to their sex lives. Reading this thread almost always makes me damp and eager for my husband and I's next round of prostate stimulation.

 

[BiTodd]

Thanks! I am not sure if I deserve that, but I sure enjoy sharing with and reading other's posts on this thread. I am happy that more and more people are beginning to share their experiences or desire to experience this fantastic addition to their sex lives. Reading this thread almost always makes me damp and eager for my husband and I's next round of prostate stimulation.

You are very welcome. Since I was in my early twenties I enjoyed teasing and fucking my own ass. I got really good at using this one very large dildo to glide across my prostate and anf fill me nicely. I got to the point of being able to fuck myself without touching my cock and get super tuned on to the point of having huge orgasms without even stimulating my cock at all.

 

[5watcher]

Wow!!!

My husband and I have been really busy lately and for a little over two weeks I have been without our regular lovemaking. Between stress at work, family committments and our ever growing social calendar, we just werent finding time to ravish each other. Thursday night we finally had a night with some substantial down time and I was more than ready to capitalize on it. I cooked my husband a delicious meal of chicken parm, ziti, green beans with mushrooms, and bought a nice bottle of red wine to compliment the food. After dinner, I told him to head upstairs to our bedroom to find a movie on Netflixs for us to watch. Naturally, when I entered the bedroom after taking care of the last bit of clean up, my husband had already selected a ridiculous documentary entitled "Eyes of the Mothman" and had it buffering up on the screen when I came in. Needless to say, I didnt have any desire to watch that or feel that it in anyway set the mood for what I had in mind, but I decided that it would be interesting to see how long it would take for my husband to get a clue and shut off the movie and fuck me. So I layed down next to him and let him start the movie. After a few moments, I got up out of bed and stood next to the end of the bed as I began to take of my clothes slowly. I took my time pretending to fumble a bit as I wanted my husband to take an interest in something that wasnt on the tv screen. It didnt take long before his eyes had strayed from the screen and were glued to me. I watched him in one of our mirrors as I removed my blouse, then my skirt. I bent over and slowly collected the skirt that had pooled around my ankles providing him with time to admire my purple thong clad ass. I then stood up straight and walked over to our laundry basket to discard my clothes. I turned towards him and took off my bra, deliberately not looking at him, but taking my time to give him ample visual stimulation. I then put on a long white camisole I have that just covers about half to 2/3 of my ass and walking towards the bed, I stopped, and pulled my thong off kicking it towards the hamper just before getting back in bed. I then asked him if he was enjoying his documentary. He said he was and surprisingly enough, he still hadnt gotten the hint. I let him watch the movie for another 5-10 minutes before I slowly began to rub my hands over my body. I slowly teased my nipples hard through the camisole and when they were as aroused as they could get, I moved my right hand lower, parting my legs and slowly teasing my pussy. He hadnt noticed me subtle movements as I teased my nipples, but the wet sounds of my hand on my pussy got his attention rather quickly. He asked me what I was doing and I told him that it had been awhile and I was really horny. I asked him if he wanted to shut the movie off and help me out as I bit my lip and pushed the middle finger of my right hand into my wet slit. He shut the movie off immediately and kissed me passionately before guiding the camisole quickly over my head. He kissed his way down my body teasing me in all the right places before licking and sucking my clit to two fantastic orgasms. Then it was my turn to play and I told him I wanted to stimulate his prostate while I sucked his cock. I went to get one of my g spot vibrators and our bottle of lube and set them beside me on the bed. Now it was my turn to teasingly kiss my way down his body before taking his hard cock into my mouth. I used my lips, tongue and hands to tease his shaft, balls and the head of his cock before reaching for the lube and using my right hand to apply a generous amount to both the toy and his waiting ass. When I was sure he was relaxed and ready, I inserted the bulbous head of the gspot vibe and watched his ass swallow it slowly as I eased it deeper inside him. Almost immediately on contact with his prostate, he began streaming precum rather steadily. I continued to suck and tease him for a while wanting to make his orgasm more and more intense from the building sensations. I asked him to tell me when he was getting close and when he did, I backed off for a bit, reducing the sensations so that he wouldnt go over the edge just yet. I then took my mouth off his hard cock and straddled him lowering my wet pussy over his hardness and slipping him into me all the way to the base. I began to ride him and he felt so good that for a few moments I was solely focused on my pleasure. Then I remembered the task at hand and reached behind me for the vibe. I pressed it up against his prostate as I continued to fuck him and asked him again to tell me when he was starting to get close. I myself could feel my own orgasm approaching and told him so. This spurred him on and he began to thrust into me harder as I fucked him faster and faster with my own need. I looked at his face and could tell he must be getting close so I asked him and he told me he was. With my right hand still on the vibe, with it still pressed up against his prostate, I spun the knob on the end, turning the vibrator on. I heard the vibrator purring away in his ass and watched his look of surprise on his face as both he and I had a tremendous orgasm. Between how wet I was and how much my husband came, we had to put down a towel so we didnt have to sleep on the wet spot on the sheets.

What a great night. Glad you had fun. Refreshing to hear that you are into BOTH of your needs. I guess that is what makes it a great night.
Thanks

 

[5watcher]

She now knows but...

Hello,
I kept thinking about the advice of: be honest and communicate

Last weekend we both ended up being very horny. We found time for a quickie, kids were at the neighbors and they will call when the pizza arrived.

So while she was riding me, I was told her that I wanted to get out the dildo. She asked if I wanted to fuck her with it. I told her yes. Then I asked her what she wanted to do with it. She said "I know you want me to play with your ass" I told her I wanted her to message my prostate.

She kept riding me and did no give any hint of negative or positive.

Then we both came...(yes at the same time---which is nice since we were both horny)

The pizza was ready by the time we got dressed. We went over to the friends house and ate and drank.
We stayed late and I drank to much. So nothing else happened

Hopefully something will happen tonight.

At least she knows and I feel better that I opened up to her.

 

[fredgy]

Hello,
I kept thinking about the advice of: be honest and communicate

Last weekend we both ended up being very horny. We found time for a quickie, kids were at the neighbors and they will call when the pizza arrived.

So while she was riding me, I was told her that I wanted to get out the dildo. She asked if I wanted to fuck her with it. I told her yes. Then I asked her what she wanted to do with it. She said "I know you want me to play with your ass" I told her I wanted her to message my prostate.

She kept riding me and did no give any hint of negative or positive.

Then we both came...(yes at the same time---which is nice since we were both horny)

The pizza was ready by the time we got dressed. We went over to the friends house and ate and drank.
We stayed late and I drank to much. So nothing else happened

Hopefully something will happen tonight.

At least she knows and I feel better that I opened up to her.

At least its out in the open, that is further than what I have, I still have yet to open up to my girlfriend about this. She has played with my perineum alot lately which is nice, very close to what I want. But I cant bring myself to tell here what I truly crave

 

[ymmv]

...But I cant bring myself to tell here what I truly crave

It mighty really help to know what lights <her> fire. In my experience that is often hard to find out, because some women are so shy or otherwise reluctant to voice their desires. I basically end up trying numerous things to see which ones move her. It works but it seems inefficient and is sometimes a bit of a burden.

One of the best tools, at least for us, is dirty talk during sex. Sometimes I'll say something that immediately sets her off. She also learns what turns me on especially.

 

[jakereeder22]

It's Definitely Not Easy

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[tammyw]

It mighty really help to know what lights <her> fire. In my experience that is often hard to find out, because some women are so shy or otherwise reluctant to voice their desires. I basically end up trying numerous things to see which ones move her. It works but it seems inefficient and is sometimes a bit of a burden.

One of the best tools, at least for us, is dirty talk during sex. Sometimes I'll say something that immediately sets her off. She also learns what turns me on especially.

I agree with a lot of what you said. I think we women often do ourselves a disservice by not speaking up and being more vocal and or demonstrative with our partners. I know that in previous relationships, I often wasnt fully comfortable talking about what was working or not working in the bedroom, but my husband has been supportive and really inquisitive about what drives me wild and the frank conversations we had about sex earlier in our relationship and the ones we continue to have as we evolve as a couple have really helped us to stay in tune with each other's desires. I cannot put enough emphasis on the importance of conversation. Whereas in many of my previous relationships I was a bit submissive and always concerned about pleasing my partner first and foremost, I have no problem telling my husband exactly what I want to do to him or I want him to do to me. I like when my husband experiments and tries new things with me, but if he really wants to know what is going to drive me wild, he will just ask me or if I am really craving something in particular, I will tell, ask, or beg him for it. I don't know if dirty talk will work for everyone, but regular open communication about sex is really important in a relationship in my opinion.

 

[5watcher]

talked

Well, today I found out that she is OK with me wanting prostate play but she is uncomfortable playing around my ass. She also said she liked me rimming her but also was very uncomfortable and does not think she could enjoy it fully.

So my next thought is try to bring up enema's to help her get comfortable.

Any other thoughts

 

[Riley69]

Ass play

My first wife was against all forms of anal play for years, but I would sneak a finger down to rub her asshole now and then after she came, especially if I got my finger wet with our combined juices first. After some time, I could tell she was starting to enjoy it. One night, I talked her into letting me lick her asshole and I think it freaked her out at first, but I could tell she enjoyed it quite a bit.
Eventually, she would let me slide a finger inside her, especially if I was licking her pussy at the same time. We progressed in our anal play until I was able to fuck her ass and she even used a dildo in my ass.

For some women, it just takes time and patience to go all the way!

 

[Doctorboy]

Cleanliness is next to Godliness

I suspect that for many people, they worry about their own cleanliness or their lover's cleanliness. Enemas definitely make me feel more free around anal play, but you don't need to take a 2 quart enema.
The bulb with the squirt nozzle is sufficient to clean out the rectum. 2 bulbfulls of soapy water followed by 1 of clear water should be fine. Then, showering before sex should have you and your partner feeling more comfortable.

Nina Hartley has some informative instructional videos about anal play. I've downloaded them. Lack of accurate information can be a real roadblock to getting a partner to accept anal stimulation of any kind. But, all this is easy to say...some people just refuse to engage in a discussion of what they think is too kinky.

 

[jakereeder22]

No time like the present for prostate stimulation

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[denicegirl]

I have been craving prostate stimulation for the past few weeks, but with work, my significant other, and various other committments, I have been struggling to find the time for prostate play. I dont believe in rushing when I stimulate my prostate and so today, I when my boss told me that I didnt need to come into work until later this afternoon for a meeting, I seized both the day and my prostate stimulator. I woke up ate a lovely breakfast and began to peruse some of the sex stories on literotica as I slowly teased my swelling cock. When I was feeling good and horny, I began to edge myself while reading and picturing in my mind the sexy scenes I was reading. I envisioned myself in the role of the male characters of the stories and my partner and or women I interact with in my life and am attracted to in the roles of the sexy leading ladies. I brought myself close two times before reaching for my Aneros to increase the intensity of my session. I lubed both the toy and myself before slowly inserting it. My body had been craving some prostate play for a while and the toy slipped in quick and deep applying a lovely pressure against my waiting and eager prostate. Within moments of its entry, my cock was dripping precum all over my stomach. When I have abstained from prostate play for a while, my body wants it badly and I will precum large amounts quick and steadily as I edge. I continued reading stories and occassionally stroking my cock to maintain my arousal as I used my anal and pc muscles to move to the toy against my prostate. A warmth radiated through my body as my prostate became more and more aroused by my actions and I began to feel involuntary muscle contractions around the toy as I continued to edge while using my muscles to self stimulate my prostate. I then lost interest in the stories I was reading and began to visualize my current partner kneeling between my legs and licking and sucking my cock as she used her finger to massage my prostate. As I thought about this, I brought myself close 2 more times, the second of which was extremely tempting and difficult to hold back my tremendous urge to give in to the sweet pleasure of release. I reduced my sensations for a moment, taking my hand of my cock and focusing solely on prostate stimulation for around 10 minutes. Looking at the clock, I knew I had to wrap things up soon and my body was more than eager to assist me. I pictured my partner licking my cock with her warm wet tongue as her finger rubber my prostate and her hand stroked my cock. While I thought about this, I began to stroke myself. I started slowly stroking myself in time with the contractions I was making which bring the toy firm against my prostate for massage. I gradually increased my speed, my strokes and contractions locked in rhythm. I could feel my muscles hot with fatigue, but continued faster and faster. Lost in my fantasy, it was almost as if the fantasy had taken over and the hand stroking me and toy stimulating me were not my own. I was breathing heavier and could feel myself getting closer and closer to cumming. Tension built in my body and I could feel my whole body tightening as my breath caught and my orgasm exploded through me. I felt my ass hungrily contracting on the toy as my prostate was milked by it over and over again and watched as my cock shot arc after arc of cum over my hand stomach and chest. It took me about 5 minutes to recover afterwards and then all I wanted to do was sleep, but once I got myself up I hit the shower. The only thing better than a nap after a draining prostate stimulation session is a nice hot shower. I will warn you though, prostate stimulation + hot shower= unbelievably relaxed. I sometimes feel like I took sleeping pills or was sedated after the two.

I LOVE THIS THREAD AND I LOVE YOUR POSTS!!!

 

[SensualMtnMan]

Prostate massage and stimulation is an absolute "must have" to me. It seems like every two weeks I have a very strong need for this and nothing will satisfy it except for two fingers slid deep inside massaging me.

 

[downforce]

I love prostate stimulation. I can cum so hard and so fast when my prostate is played with. My wife has figured out a way to rub a knuckle into my perineum to stimulate my prostate when she doesnt feel like doing it from inside with a finger or toy. She can have me whimpering from stimulating my prostate...I love it!

 

[tammyw]

I love prostate stimulation. I can cum so hard and so fast when my prostate is played with. My wife has figured out a way to rub a knuckle into my perineum to stimulate my prostate when she doesnt feel like doing it from inside with a finger or toy. She can have me whimpering from stimulating my prostate...I love it!

How hard do you like your perineum massaged to try to stimulate the prostate externally? Before we took the big jump into full on prostate play, I used to rub and massage my husbands perineum occassionally during blowjobs and sex when I we were in positions granting me easy access. Sometimes my husband seemed to like it, other times it just felt awkward and like I was being to light or too firm with my touch. How is your wife using that knuckle of hers to make you whimper? Give us other wives some tips! Also as far as positioning, where on the perineum feels best? Do we want to be higher up near his balls or lower towards his ass hole? I feel like I have abandoned perineum massage now that we have moved on to full on internal prostate stimulation, but I would still love to know what works for my sexaul bag of tricks.

 

[jakereeder22]

Thank You

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[tammyw]

Aneros Advice?

I ordered my husband an Aneros Helix prostate stimulator this weekend as a surprise. We have been talking about branching out into toys after experiencing so much success with prostate stimulation from my fingers. We, well mostly me, have been searching the internet for a variety of introductory toys and based on my conversations with him and some of what I read, this looked like a good safe bet. I really wanted to get him the Progasm, but after reading more, it seemed like this might be too large/intense for beginners. I must admit that I am really excited to try sex with him while he has the Aneros massager inserted. In any case, I just thought I would ask for any advice or tips from Aneros user that I can pass along to my husband or can incorporate when I use the toy with him. You were all so helpful last time around, I figured there is no harm in asking as many of you have more experience with this than I do.

 

[Mike4fun]

Lube, slow, lube.

On a side note, this is for you tammyw

http://24.media.tumblr.com/e332bba9e812ec24defee2c4be69cd6e/tumblr_mho7xjtlG71ql9k9zo1_400.gif

Mike

 

[tammyw]

Lube, slow, lube.

On a side note, this is for you tammyw

http://24.media.tumblr.com/e332bba9e812ec24defee2c4be69cd6e/tumblr_mho7xjtlG71ql9k9zo1_400.gif

Mike

Very sexy! Thanks Mike! Its like you were reading my dirty mind haha.

 

[Mike4fun]

Very sexy! Thanks Mike! Its like you were reading my dirty mind haha.

Ha! Dirty minds think alike ;-)

I think i'll have some of that later tonight!

 

[JackVettriano]

Switch things round use mind games

Ok so I am no Dom but I know that if a lady feels kinky and has the desire to try new ideas and stimulation, she may struggle with the actuall act itself then I take that away from her as well as the guilt and maybe a little shame.

So what I would do if I was a girl is have lots of good hatred sexual fun with your guy. Tease him and make love, then blindfold him and tease his cock with your mouth, only tease mind. Then when he is thinking with his cock and nothing else gently tie his hands. Now suck his co k and tease all his erogenous zones.

Now is the time to touch his ass, he wi be putty in your hands and tease his ass with rubbing only then go back to his cock. Do this three or four times. He will associate the pleasure with getting his ass touched. Then probe a little and gauge his reactions. If your not sure go back to his cock and suck him off until he cums hard and leave his ass for another day.
If his reaction is favourable prob a little more with your finger or tongue and maybe use a little lub. Keep going back to his cock and keep him on the boil. Just keep going until you feel you have pushed it to far or you find his prostate and then you can give him the pleasure you want until he cums.

I would not use a toy on him and not when he's tied up. But once he has experienced an orgasm from prostate stimulation he will want more the next time.

Now I think this is important, don't make the next time the next day, leave it a week so he has a long time to think about it and want more! Then when you do touch his ass tease it lots but don't go for the prostate, leave him wanting more and bucking rocking back and forth wanting and needing your touch. Then stop and go onto something else, now after patience and along time you have him begging for it.

The blindfold and ties are important they are physiological, this will ensure that he feels it's your doing elevating any guilt or feeling that it's wrong. Ensuring he comes back for more.

So this works on ladies and I hope swapping it round gets you results with the guys. Good luck girls and I would love to hear about the results?

 

[JackVettriano]

Check this out, great information and very comprehensive

http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Getting_Started

The things you learn ;-)

Enjoy everyone

 

[5watcher]

Still nothing

Well, things are still status quo. Nothing has been tried. I asked her to read more sex stories, which she has. I have not mentioned this site to her. I am looking for an opportunity since the stories are great....yes I am a closet LIT person!!!

Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences. I hope one day I will share mine..

 

[tammyw]

Show her this thread!

Well, things are still status quo. Nothing has been tried. I asked her to read more sex stories, which she has. I have not mentioned this site to her. I am looking for an opportunity since the stories are great....yes I am a closet LIT person!!!

Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences. I hope one day I will share mine..

Maybe if she read the posts on this thread and other sections of the board she would feel a bit more comfortable with the new developments in your relationship. I could see how some women might be shocked by their partner's new interest in prostate stimulation and worry that it might be a reflection on their inability to please their partner sexually. She probably needs reassurances and it might be better if she got it from other men or women on literotica. It's a safe place for her to ask questions and get information on the subject. I would pitch it to her and help her set up an account if she seems interested. I would think that her reading sex stories is a good start and wish you luck.