Question re forced orgasms

[Conager]

I'm so envious of those women who can have multiples. I completely lose interest after my one and only and despite trying and trying, subsequent ones seem to evade me

Just like not everyone (me included) orgasms at all each session but it is still enjoyable, if the post-orgasm stimulation is pleasurable (though not orgasmically so) it's worth pursuing, I think. To me there's very little difference between chasing that second or third one and after care. Or at least there shouldn't be much difference. I have noticed with multiples that usually the second requires some change of pace. Often it requires a higher level of intensity but not always. Sometimes a slow edging tease gets the person up to that edge again. Every woman is different. There are those that can basically give you a handbook on what it takes for them to get there the first time and that same technique works over and over again. But I find that's not as usual as the need to change it up.

I have had good results by talking about the process before play and talking them through the second. What I do is encourage them to somewhat ignore the first one which of course implies that the second one is coming and tell them to Simply ride it through to the next one. As I'm telling them to do so sometimes the power of suggestion is enough. If this is something they've put some earnest effort and thought into though there are no magic words that are going to make that happen. That technique mostly works with fairly inexperienced women who have heard of the possibility but just haven't experienced it.

From a strictly mechanical standpoint if you can reach one you can reach two. The issue is that our mind decides when we have one not our bodies. The synapses tell other systems, receptors and hormone production factories when to cascade into an orgasm.

This assumes the issue is libido drop, not over-sensitivity.

As others have reported, some women experience a feeling of annoyance at not just being left to enjoy the afterglow. No one likes to be pressured to cum, me included. It is a performance demand. In those instances, tactile stimulation at their direction that compliments that afterglow is usually well received. Back, outer thighs, forearms, hands, soles of feet, neck.

For me I was always a one and done. My mind just couldn’t get around having another. After lots of experiments. I learned that a pause in clitoral stimulation for about a minute. You can still kiss me, use your fingers, mouth, dildo or vibe. Just not on my clit.

My first is always my biggest, and I need the longest break. After my first, two, three, and four come much quicker. they are less intense but easier to come by and it feels so amazing to roll from one of the next.

I might be busy for the next hour or so.. haha

For ones that are "too sensitive" after one, that has been my experience. If they can articulate specifically what localized area is too sensitive and what level of continued stimulation is tolerable, there is a reset that happens. I look at it as if it is very much analogous to my own male refractory.period, which obviously has gotten longer and longer as I age.