Rim jobs

Yes, rim jobs feel good. If the person's ass is clean, they will taste just fine. This shouldn't be in GLBT Chatter, though, so I'm moving it to How-To.
 
OK THIS is where I need heeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllppppppppp. lol

My bf wants me to do that for him, how would I go about doing this?
I don't mind the idea of doing it I love to play with his butt as we make love, but I'm just totally lost as to how and when to do this.
Some advice please???
 
HotAzLady69 said:
OK THIS is where I need heeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllppppppppp. lol

My bf wants me to do that for him, how would I go about doing this?
I don't mind the idea of doing it I love to play with his butt as we make love, but I'm just totally lost as to how and when to do this.
Some advice please???
While you're going down on him is a fine time to do it. Some people are squeamish about it, though - you might want to ask him first if he would mind. (Even if he's comfortable with you playing with his ass, he may not be into you licking it right away.)

Ass-licking is easier if you hold the cheeks open, I've found. As for what to do...just swirl your tongue around. Lick, poke, caress...it's pretty intutive once you're there. :)
 
Well he mentioned to me that he would like for us to try that.
He wanted to try it on me and he also said that he'd really like for me to try it on him as well so he's open to it.
I just wasn't sure how to really go about this as it's a new territory for me lol.
Thanks for the response I really appreciate it.:)
 
This is probably pretty obvious, but each of you should take a shower (or preferably a bath) and wash your anal area well right before rimming. There isn't much of any taste - if you're clean.
 
I've found shower massagers set on the stream setting are efficascious for cleaning thoroughly before doing this :D
 
James G 5 said:
I've found shower massagers set on the stream setting are efficascious for cleaning thoroughly before doing this :D

+5 points for using "efficacious;" -10 points for misspelling it.

Rimming is excellent, although I personally think of it as humiliation first, pleasure second (if at all). Moaning and humming works really well. Echo the "clean" comments.
 
I love rim jobs, giving and getting, as for advice on how to do it. Well for me I like the feel of a woman's tongue slowly exploring me, moving from the soft skin under my testicles on down, probing and circling then pushing inside.
As for giving, a perfect way to start is in a 69 position, just move your tongue up and give a slow gently lick. Pull her back gently against your mouth, your lips pressed between her cheeks, gently pushing the tip of your tongue against her resisting ass, moving gently in slow circles to relax her, to get her used to the feeling of your tongue. Move back down and tease her clit and lips more, then move back, you will feel if she is enjoying this, and wanting more. I have had some women who love it, some who tolerate it and some who pull away. I love the feel of a woman pushing back against me, wanting more of my tongue in her ass, teasing her and having her want more. If you find a woman who loves it even more you can move to other positions and methods, her on her knees on the bed, you behind her able to lick from her pussy to her ass, feeling her cum as he enjoys what she is feeling.

As for giving him a rimjob, do it, see what you think of it, feel the power of the sensation you are causing as you hear him moan and push against your mouth. Feel how hard his cock grows as you reach up and squeeze it in your hand.
One of the most pleasurable ways for me is with me on my back, my legs up and over her shoulders as she strokes my cock, moving her mouth from my ass to my testicles and up to my cock then back down, the feel of her saliva slick hands sliding up and down my shaft as I grow closer and closer, then feeling the warmth of her tongue push inside me just as I cum hard is almost more than I can bear.


Hope you both truly enjoy it.

Carnus
 
Carnus said:
I love rim jobs, giving and getting, as for advice on how to do it. Well for me I like the feel of a woman's tongue slowly exploring me, moving from the soft skin under my testicles on down, probing and circling then pushing inside.
As for giving, a perfect way to start is in a 69 position, just move your tongue up and give a slow gently lick. Pull her back gently against your mouth, your lips pressed between her cheeks, gently pushing the tip of your tongue against her resisting ass, moving gently in slow circles to relax her, to get her used to the feeling of your tongue. Move back down and tease her clit and lips more, then move back, you will feel if she is enjoying this, and wanting more. I have had some women who love it, some who tolerate it and some who pull away. I love the feel of a woman pushing back against me, wanting more of my tongue in her ass, teasing her and having her want more. If you find a woman who loves it even more you can move to other positions and methods, her on her knees on the bed, you behind her able to lick from her pussy to her ass, feeling her cum as he enjoys what she is feeling.

As for giving him a rimjob, do it, see what you think of it, feel the power of the sensation you are causing as you hear him moan and push against your mouth. Feel how hard his cock grows as you reach up and squeeze it in your hand.
One of the most pleasurable ways for me is with me on my back, my legs up and over her shoulders as she strokes my cock, moving her mouth from my ass to my testicles and up to my cock then back down, the feel of her saliva slick hands sliding up and down my shaft as I grow closer and closer, then feeling the warmth of her tongue push inside me just as I cum hard is almost more than I can bear.


Hope you both truly enjoy it.

Carnus
Another outstanding post!
 
Wow thank you Carnus thats great advise. Thank you so much, I know I enjoy it when he does it to me and I expressed that I wanted to share the same enjoyment and do the same with him and he's totally open to it.
I just wasn't sure how to go about it but thank you so much for your post on it, I really appreciate it.
Awsome post.
 
I've found shower massagers set on the stream setting are efficascious for cleaning thoroughly before doing this
Really? And does it help to hmmmm get things aroused?
If so maybe I should suggest this to him?
 
Quint said:
+5 points for using "efficacious;" -10 points for misspelling it.

Rimming is excellent, although I personally think of it as humiliation first, pleasure second (if at all). Moaning and humming works really well. Echo the "clean" comments.

It was a TYPO
I hit the as keys at the same time...I am on an antique keyboard with buttons that stick & letters that have worn off :p
that's my story and I'm sticking too it

As for humiliation, unless being directed that way in a scene I see no intrinsic (HA!) humiliation in rimming
 
HotAzLady69 said:
Really? And does it help to hmmmm get things aroused?
If so maybe I should suggest this to him?


Arousal always helps, through most means
I've rearely leapt straight for the ass, I usually started further north & worked my way down ;)
 
I was trying to take a nap today when I started to think about rim jobs and how much I love giving them.

I am lucky enough to be married to a woman who loves getting them.

It was kind of weird because I was thinking about why I like it so much.

My wife on her knees with her face buried in the pillow and her ass in the air.

Sometimes she is wearing a thong.

I get real close and rest my hand on one cheek and my face on the other and I just look at how the thong just barely covers her parts. I then sit back a little but I keep my face really close and I'll take my index finger and slowly run it along the fabric of the thong, feeling for the heat, listening to her breathing, taking notice of how the fabric is tightly streached throughout her crack and spliting her labia. By this time I simply have to tast. I just have to.

I'll wrap my arms around her hips so that my forarms are tandem with her thighs and my hands rest on her sacral area. I will then pull her towards my face and work my tongue around the thong, rolling it back and forth, licking up and down. At times, I will start at her taint and work up. Other times I will start at the very top and slowly work down. Either way my licks get progressivly heavier, longer, and more intently. When she is not wearing a thong I think I tend to look at her longer, and feel with my fingers more and feel her with my lips a little more than with my tongue.


As for how I came about doing it, I don't know. One day while I was going down on her I decided to go down a little further. Paying very close attention to her reactions I continued my journey untill I was ultimately there. I wasn't even sure how I would like it. The whole event wasn't really premeditated, it was something I decided to do on the spot.

Now I just can't get enough of it. I think its on my mind more then actual sex. During my nap I was pondering how this came to be. I couldn't think of any reason. Before any of this happened I didn't think twice about it, but now Im crazy about it.

And there you have it, a small peek into my life.
 
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We have found rimming to be an excellent foreplay to anal penetration. For small penetrators (fingers or very small toys) the saliva is usually enough lubrication.
 
Carnus said:

One of the most pleasurable ways for me is with me on my back, my legs up and over her shoulders as she strokes my cock, moving her mouth from my ass to my testicles and up to my cock then back down, the feel of her saliva slick hands sliding up and down my shaft as I grow closer and closer, then feeling the warmth of her tongue push inside me just as I cum hard is almost more than I can bear.

*whimpering*

Oh, have mercy...

On second thought...don't....

*sigh*

S.
 
Carnus said:
I love rim jobs, giving and getting, as for advice on how to do it. Well for me I like the feel of a woman's tongue slowly exploring me, moving from the soft skin under my testicles on down, probing and circling then pushing inside.
As for giving, a perfect way to start is in a 69 position, just move your tongue up and give a slow gently lick. Pull her back gently against your mouth, your lips pressed between her cheeks, gently pushing the tip of your tongue against her resisting ass, moving gently in slow circles to relax her, to get her used to the feeling of your tongue. Move back down and tease her clit and lips more, then move back, you will feel if she is enjoying this, and wanting more. I have had some women who love it, some who tolerate it and some who pull away. I love the feel of a woman pushing back against me, wanting more of my tongue in her ass, teasing her and having her want more. If you find a woman who loves it even more you can move to other positions and methods, her on her knees on the bed, you behind her able to lick from her pussy to her ass, feeling her cum as he enjoys what she is feeling.

As for giving him a rimjob, do it, see what you think of it, feel the power of the sensation you are causing as you hear him moan and push against your mouth. Feel how hard his cock grows as you reach up and squeeze it in your hand.
One of the most pleasurable ways for me is with me on my back, my legs up and over her shoulders as she strokes my cock, moving her mouth from my ass to my testicles and up to my cock then back down, the feel of her saliva slick hands sliding up and down my shaft as I grow closer and closer, then feeling the warmth of her tongue push inside me just as I cum hard is almost more than I can bear.


Hope you both truly enjoy it.

Carnus

And when might you be going back to Iowa? ;)
 
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