bashfull said:
Missed seeing it.
va_angel2u said:I think you hit on the problem to a point. Like the post from Beachgirl. She was constantly giving, w/ no return, so that may make folks suspicious when someone DOES give back. They are not used to the return, so not sure how to act w/ it, or suspicious of it, etc. just my .02 worth.
I so agree, Jim. Raunch, or any kind of intimate act, is so much better when there is more than just the physical.diamondjim said:I followed one of my favorite ladies of Lit here, wondering where she had gone
From the other "Romantic" on Lit let me offer an observation. For some reason we, our society, has tried to dimistify Romance as just the prelude to lust.
When faced with real caring, slow and passionet, who knows how to react??
I would offer that getting right to the lust it is not, as some would claim, being Honest. Both guys and girls by just geting directly to the raunch and slipping by the romance may get a temporay high, but weher then is the fond memories that keep us warm when we are yeat again, alone.
To me the openess to be down and dirty, raunchy in your lanuage, only means something when first there is a bit of romance that makes being intimate (the one to one) all the more special. You can meet, act like rabbits, OR you can meet, blend learn the color of each others eyes, the soft touch of lips first parted, then BE rabbits
Good luck on your continued thread.
Jim
ThanksBeachGurl2 said:
diamondjim said:I followed one of my favorite ladies of Lit here, wondering where she had gone
From the other "Romantic" on Lit let me offer an observation. For some reason we, our society, has tried to dimistify Romance as just the prelude to lust.
When faced with real caring, slow and passionet, who knows how to react??
I would offer that getting right to the lust it is not, as some would claim, being Honest. Both guys and girls by just geting directly to the raunch and slipping by the romance may get a temporay high, but weher then is the fond memories that keep us warm when we are yeat again, alone.
To me the openess to be down and dirty, raunchy in your lanuage, only means something when first there is a bit of romance that makes being intimate (the one to one) all the more special. You can meet, act like rabbits, OR you can meet, blend learn the color of each others eyes, the soft touch of lips first parted, then BE rabbits
Good luck on your continued thread.
Jim
va_angel2u said:Hey Hun,
You do have a point. So many in our society have a true fear of intimacy. One can "fuck" (excuse my bluntness) a piece of plastic but that is not true intimacy. Then we end up treating other humans as we treat the plastic. They leave out the communication, learning each others true reactions. They think by truly connection on that level they will lose part of who they are or what they are.
by truly taking a moment to connect.....through the senses... you can do so much more. Looking, truly at them, you can see how they carry themselves and that lets you in on secrets of them. Listening to the sound of their voice, can sense their moods, their thoughts. The feel of their skin (this is a biggy for me what w/ being a massage therapist. My clients are alway so shocked at my ability to find just the area where they are having problems) but can tell when you do something right or wrong just by the way it reacts. Even how your partners smell.... can tell you so much about them....moods, emotions, etc. By tuning into all that, and more, you connect to them on all levels, mentally, physically, emotionally, and even spiritually (all that is a big part of Tantric practices).
ok...turning the thread back over to others.
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subjules said:To answer the original question...
Yes! UnSainted looks like a "bad boy" and he has the "bad boy" coolish attitude, but with me, he's very sweet
when they changed lit the last time, it got screwed up and I don't know how to fix it. So just left as was.Honey123 said:
bashfull said:
limiwa said:If I ever become a couple...lol
maybe that's why I'm not a couple...it's a requirement
