Seeking a sociopath

[Shrubbery]

I have to assume the next time the poor guy forces himself on a submissive woman, he's going to so traumatized by what a total cunt you were to him, that he'll be unable to exercise his Noble Right. You should be ashamed of yourself, if you even have the ability to feel shame at this point.

Magnus, I honestly thought your tongue was lodged firmly in your cheek at this point, and then I read your last post and it turns out it's lodged somewhere else entirely. Which is probably more fun I guess, so fair dos. But Jesus fucking Christ* man, 'Noble Right'? I mean really. A person's submission is earned and a d/s relationship is as mutual and consensual as any other. I hope you don't go around sticking your cock in nonconsenting strangers and insisting that it's not rape, it's your 'Noble Right' as a dom. Rapeplay is a long long way from real rape.

There's one man in particular that just does NOT understand what turns me on. He actually seems intent on going in the opposite direction. But I haven't even been able to tell him I am not interested. I don't want to hurt his feelings, or some such silly shit.

Just wanted to repsond to this quickly. I think this is fairly common. It's discussed better than I can put it here in this awesome blog post;

http://clarissethorn.com/blog/2011/...campaign=Feed:+ClarisseThorn+(Clarisse+Thorn)

I'm not sure to what extent the tendency of many women to just let things lie when they're not being satisfied has anything to do with myth about male egos being easily damaged and needing protection. Maybe it's more to do with the fact that we as a society don't talk about sex and women generally are taught to be patient rather than assertive and that their own needs come second. Who knows. Either way, someone who'd rather not hear the truth about their partner's needs is at best lazy and selfish, and at worst abusive and a failure as a lover. A d/s relationship doesn't change this. In my experience, if anything there is more focus on the submissive's needs. A sub gives up control and surrenders themselves to experience. A dom on the other hand accepts total responsibility for their sub's pleasure. They are supposed to anticipate and control their slave's needs, abusing and hurting them exactly how they need to be abused and hurt, in ways they hadn't even thought of. If someone values their ego more than your feelings, they aren't worth the time of day.

Howere, this man is likely (statistically speaking) not a lazy, selfish cock. Most men aren't (I like to believe). He's probably just clueless. I would also mention that you are likely not doing him any favours, and I don't mean in the long term 'giving him a chance to grow' sense. Relationships with feedback and communication are infinitely more rewarding. Knowing exactly when you've hit the mark and made your partner gasp and drip with arousal means having to also know when you've missed and left them cold. That process of learning each other is exactly what makes good sex. A stream of platitudes and monotonous filth is no substitute whatsoever.



*just reread this and realised that, being on a kinky sex forum, the term 'fucking Christ' probably made a few people look up hopefully, but it wasn't meant that way. Soz

 

[MagnusRex2007]

Magnus, I honestly thought your tongue was lodged firmly in your cheek at this point, and then I read your last post and it turns out it's lodged somewhere else entirely. Which is probably more fun I guess, so fair dos. But Jesus fucking Christ* man, 'Noble Right'? I mean really. A person's submission is earned and a d/s relationship is as mutual and consensual as any other. I hope you don't go around sticking your cock in nonconsenting strangers and insisting that it's not rape, it's your 'Noble Right' as a dom. Rapeplay is a long long way from real rape.

Read the OP again. She waves consent in every possible way. That's what I mean by schizophrenic submissives. They say they want no limits. they say they want all these extremes.. but when faced with extreme play that isn't exactly the way they want it scripted, they balk and are rude, snarky cunts. That's not submission.

Also, I wouldn't "stick my cock in non consenting stranger". However, I do frequent male clubs that consent is more than just implied upon entrance.. you sign a legal waiver upon entering, giving consent. The submissive men there don't talk tough about having no limits, and then rebuff the attentions of every man who approaches them. They are meat to be used. They know it. They accept and consent to it. They are treated as such. That is, I would argue, what many women claim they want, but are too hung up to actually experience and endure.

 

[StrayKat]

Read the OP again. She waves consent in every possible way. That's what I mean by schizophrenic submissives. They say they want no limits. they say they want all these extremes.. but when faced with extreme play that isn't exactly the way they want it scripted, they balk and are rude, snarky cunts. That's not submission.

They still have every right to be whatever they want on their own terms.
So who are you to tell her what she is and isnt and who she has to pick for a partner? Apparently she has a mind of her own and a good one and can perfectly well decide for herself who she wants to do all the extremes with.
Obviously not just every wannabe cyber dom

You should read OP again and tell me where did she say she is going to do it all with every single idiot who sends her PM?

 

[MagnusRex2007]

They still have every right to be whatever they want on their own terms.

But, promise arousal's point was that her terms were she was a total, no limit whore, looking for someone to exploit that. And he maintains that he is a powerful, twisted and literate Dom, so there really is no good reason for her not to fuck him. Hard to argue with logic, Stray

So who are you to tell her what she is and isnt and who she has to pick for a partner?

Oh stray, you're an intelligent woman. I bet if you think REALLY hard you can figure out who I am..

Apparently she has a mind of her own and a good one and can perfectly well decide for herself who she wants to do all the extremes with.
Obviously not just every wannabe cyber dom

You should read OP again and tell me where did she say she is going to do it all with every single idiot who sends her PM?

But that's who whole point. You're assuming that Promise arousal is an idiot. He clearly isn't. He has an extremely strong and sexy grasp of syntax and grammar, and frankly I don't know what else you really need in a partner.

 

[Pandorica]

Latent? I'm sorry that I gave the impression that my homosexuality is anything but overt. I have long past given up on trying to figure out or deal with the schizophrenia that is submissive post feminist females. This twisted cunts who claim they want Total Domination, and then when you exert it have the audacity to cry rape and abuse.

Schizophrenia can be a lot of fun, as can crying rape and abuse. Don't knock everything that doesn't fit within promisearousal's insecure need to overpower women that are way out of his league (i.e. all of 'em). Stick your own Noble Right up his tightly clenched sphincter and you'll have a tiny appendage made of pure diamond when you pull out.

For me submission is just a means to masochism. If a guy with whom I'm involved in some way tells me to fetch him a beer I'll do it but it'll be because I know violence will ensue otherwise, not because I have an ardent desire to wait on him. Get me into the right abjectly terrified headspace however and I'm a highly motivated girl.

I have found submissive males are much more enlightened about what true submission entails, about what rights one does and does not have as a submissive ( well, lets be clear.. they have no rights what so ever).

I'm sure the rent boy kneeling beneath your desk concurs. Payable by the hour doesn't actually equal servile however.

Unfortunately it seems that me and promise arousal are on the same side of the Dominance spectrum, and we would have a difficult time being compatible. I have found him to be quite literate and witty, however, which you may not value but I find quite attractive. If he has any desire to swear off your crazy ilk as I have, and wishes to discover the beautiful bond that develops when a submissive is sodomized, violated, degraded and owned by the cock of a True Dominant, I would be more than happy to lead him down that path. I'm positive he would be much happier with the outcome than he would be having "submissives" spit in his face over and over when he attempts to exert control over them.

Just make sure you get the net rights first, cause I'd pay to watch that.

 

[Pandorica]

But, promise arousal's point was that her terms were she was a total, no limit whore, looking for someone to exploit that. And he maintains that he is a powerful, twisted and literate Dom, so there really is no good reason for her not to fuck him. Hard to argue with logic, Stray

Did you really just voluntarily present a woman with logic? And here I thought I was the masochist. There's no real logic to what I crave and I seek to impose logic on my shattered world as little as possible.

When in doubt offer money. Cash is always hard to argue with.

Oh stray, you're an intelligent woman. I bet if you think REALLY hard you can figure out who I am..

*falls to knees Bill & Ted style*

In the presence of promisearousal's Noble Right Hand, none of us are worthy.

But that's who whole point. You're assuming that Promise arousal is an idiot. He clearly isn't. He has an extremely strong and sexy grasp of syntax and grammar, and frankly I don't know what else you really need in a partner.

If I wanted my cunt licked out I'd agree with you. But there's just a little more to sadism than literate forums posts. And now his right hand has finally decided against RSI and sought to carve its own path, surely his sexy syntax is going to suffer?

 

[StrayKat]

But, promise arousal's point was that her terms were she was a total, no limit whore, looking for someone to exploit that. And he maintains that he is a powerful, twisted and literate Dom, so there really is no good reason for her not to fuck him. Hard to argue with logic, Stray

She was looking for someone. Not everyone.
What he maintains has nothing to do with what he is. I can maintain that I am Merilyn Monroe incarnate, but the truth is I am not even blonde.
There are tons of reasons why she wouldnt fuck him and even I, who am not even alike her in my interests, can see some of them clearly.

Logic? *puts her glasses on* I see no logic.
*gets magnifying glass and checks again* Nope, no logic here.

Oh stray, you're an intelligent woman. I bet if you think REALLY hard you can figure out who I am..

Why would I? Why do you think someone who feels the need to hide his true identity behind an alt with 3 posts to argue on internet board is worth any effort?

But that's who whole point. You're assuming that Promise arousal is an idiot. He clearly isn't. He has an extremely strong and sexy grasp of syntax and grammar, and frankly I don't know what else you really need in a partner.

I dont have to assume anything to conclude that someone whining about being rejected like this is a wuss. Because he clearly is.
And if you think a woman only needs grasp of syntax and grammar in a partner... I am sorry but that *thud* you just heard was me falling off my chair laughing my ass off.

 

[Shrubbery]

That's what I mean by schizophrenic submissives.

Side point, but you're misusing the term schizophrenia. I think you mean split personality.

 

[promisearousal]

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[MagnusRex2007]

Side point, but you're misusing the term schizophrenia. I think you mean split personality.

I think you mean dissociative identity disorder. I wasn't making a clinical diagnosis, chumly.

 

[MagnusRex2007]

edit: nevermind.

I've been sitting here, defending you and you just edit and leave me to get abused? Maybe I was wrong about you after all

 

[MagnusRex2007]

Logic? *puts her glasses on* I see no logic.
*gets magnifying glass and checks again* Nope, no logic here.

You don't say.

Why would I? Why do you think someone who feels the need to hide his true identity behind an alt with 3 posts to argue on internet board is worth any effort?

yeah, I made this alt in 2007 with the clever plan of putting it on ice for 4 years, for when I needed I needed it the most. Which was, apparently, to defend a True Dominant with under 15 posts. Great theory. Perhaps I was mistaken about your intelligence.

I dont have to assume anything to conclude that someone whining about being rejected like this is a wuss. Because he clearly is.
And if you think a woman only needs grasp of syntax and grammar in a partner... I am sorry but that *thud* you just heard was me falling off my chair laughing my ass off.

Oh, I'm not naive, I know syntax and grammar aren't all women seek. As Pandorica so elegantly put it, a bloke having a lot of cash certainly assists his chances in attracting a partner. Or, in failing that, a big black cock.

 

[MagnusRex2007]

Schizophrenia can be a lot of fun,

Well, on that we can certainly both agree.

I'm sure the rent boy kneeling beneath your desk concurs. Payable by the hour doesn't actually equal servile however.

It does when you're in the service industry...

Just make sure you get the net rights first, cause I'd pay to watch that.

Someone on literotica willing to pay for porn? you're a fucking unicorn.

Did you really just voluntarily present a woman with logic? And here I thought I was the masochist.

When you're right, you're right.

*falls to knees Bill & Ted style*

See, I knew there was a true submissive underneath all that bluster. Also, I think you mean Wayne and Garth style. They were the ones that prostrate themselves and cry out "we're not worthy" Bill and Ted were the Wyld Stallions, the object of worship not the worshipers. I know it's easy to get fictional 80's american Hesher tandems confused though, so I understand the mistake.

If I wanted my cunt licked out I'd agree with you. But there's just a little more to sadism than literate forums posts. And now his right hand has finally decided against RSI and sought to carve its own path, surely his sexy syntax is going to suffer?

Since he has denied me his sexy syntax and has ejected from this thread, refusing to defend himself, I will no longer attempt to defend him. I will concede that perhaps I was wrong about him after all. If he slinks off cowardly to let others defend him from your attacks, perhaps his Dominance wasn't as true as I thought. Maybe there is more to life than syntax and rape. Learn something new every day.

 

[Shrubbery]

I think you mean dissociative identity disorder. I wasn't making a clinical diagnosis, chumly.

Haha, touche sir, touche.

For the record I use the term split or multiple personality rather than DID as it more accurately describes the condition in question. DID is term that was put into use to escape the associations and social stigma of MP. Personally I don't think you can escape these by changing the word, hence I stick with the old term.

But I was just being pedantic for the sheer thrill, not making any real criticism

 

[Thisansthat2632]

From the galllery.....
I truly am enjoying this, some of the best use of irony and literary humor I've read in a long time certainly ever on LIT. That said, the thread started with....
" I am an experienced submissive with no current real-life outlet. I am seeking a dominant/sadistic man to email and IM with, possibly progressing to phone if location allows. Someone in a European time zone would be preferred."

As a person who has spent quite a long time in the practice of reading "between the lines" I noticed the DOMS who are posting here with really wonderful writing skills (I do not claim this) may have been more concerned with wit and grammar than the two main points of the post.. Which for the record followed two very important rules of instructive commentary. The first being "BLUF" (bottom line up front) and "WIFM", (what's in it for me) [what the writer wants].
That said she was pretty clear. "I am seeking "A" dominant/sadistic man" (One, not plural, implying her choice. Regardless of what she chooses to give up or give into in regards to her submission once said choice has been made). She was additionally clear about her preference in location, so how one can be shocked at not making the cut living nowhere near her requested Time Zone makes me question whether you actually have the intellect to type the way you do or if you are using a thesaurus. Just because your Websters enhanced ability to imply she's a worthless cunt (may) have briefly soiled her underoos to illicet an initial response doesn't mean you are the gift that's going to flood them. Even the desert sometimes has dew in the morning but it isnt enough to lube up and get anyone to fuck a rat hole.
P.S. I fucking hate you dime store fucktards, you are the reason the Greeks did anal, back then people had respect for their society and they knew better than to sully up the gene pool. Your parents must have skipped history and sex ed while they were fucking in the back seat of Grandpas Buick before heading off six months pregnant and stoned to their future careers as a traveling vacuum salesman and a stay at home door mat providing you with absentee father issues and lack of respect for women because mommy folded your clothes, kissed your ass and breast fed you. Only after you allowed her in your locked basement door, that is until the cops burst it down and took your "action figure" collection and child porn stash.
Piece's of shit like you guys who whine about why the world isn't going your way.... Goddamnit you know why I know there is no God? Because the entire world is praying for ass hats like you to be a ball of syphillus infested anal seepage or spend eternity as a genital wart on Rosanne Barr!
Leave the bitch in piece to love and to serve who she pleases. If you want a thread of your own to request subs who like your brand then do it but dont't fuck over other peoples wishes wants and desires. Your rambling reminds me of Corey Haims rant in "Goonies". "this is my wish, this is my dream". The moral of the story, make your wish (Pitch) hope it comes true but don't go crawling through the gutter trying to get your quarter back. Cause in the end if your hopeless impotent little wish didn't come true now all you have are wet saggy jeans, a hideous retard friend, and a story where you and your buddies crawled through the sewer to tell mommy after you make bail and she opens her moomoo to pop dinner in between your ever flapping man pleasers.

Happy Holidays....Free hookers and blow to all and may all have an STD free new year.

 

[StrayKat]

Oh wow ^^^

 

[MagnusRex2007]

As a person who has spent quite a long time in the practice of reading "between the lines" I noticed the DOMS who are posting here with really wonderful writing skills (I do not claim this) may have been more concerned with wit and grammar than the two main points of the post.. Which for the record followed two very important rules of instructive commentary. The first being "BLUF" (bottom line up front) and "WIFM", (what's in it for me) [what the writer wants].

I perhaps have given the impression that I value grammar highly. I don't. In fact, I'm radically in favor of the merits of a descriptive rather than a prescriptive outlook to grammar. That I write in a grammatically orthodox way is an aesthetic choice born of my education and culture, that's it. But I am 100 percent concerned with wit. It permeates everything I do, every relationship, everything I write. I make value judgement of people based on their wit and their ability to recognize it. And my judgment of many in this thread is harsh, indeed.

She was additionally clear about her preference in location, so how one can be shocked at not making the cut living nowhere near her requested Time Zone makes me question whether you actually have the intellect to type the way you do or if you are using a thesaurus.

This is a really fair point, and has perhaps been glossed over. promisearousal was probably taking the rejection too personally, since he didn't meet the minimum requirements to be her Sociopath. However, I am curious about something. The OP has announced that her search is over and the Sociopath has been found. I, for one, am curious.. is this mental patient European? Or, perhaps african? Did he meet the rigorous European Time Zone requirement?

Just because your Websters enhanced ability to imply she's a worthless cunt (may) have briefly soiled her underoos to illicet an initial response doesn't mean you are the gift that's going to flood them.

Underoos? Paging Dr Freud. Nothing like a sexualization-of-the-underage reference to get a party started.

Even the desert sometimes has dew in the morning but it isnt enough to lube up and get anyone to fuck a rat hole.

So wait.... are you calling the OP's cunt an arid desert rat hole? That's... that's just beautiful..

.

P.S. I fucking hate you dime store fucktards, you are the reason the Greeks did anal, back then people had respect for their society and they new better than to sully up the gene pool. Your parents must have skipped history and sex ed while they were fucking in the back seat of Grandpas Buick before heading off six months pregnant and stoned to their future careers as a traveling vacuum salesman and a stay at home door mat providing you with absentee father issues and lack of respect for women because mommy folded your clothes, kissed your ass and breast fed you but only after you allowed her in your locked basement door. That is until the cops burst it down and took your "action figure" collection and child porn stash.
Piece's of shit like you guys who whine about why the world wasn't going your way.... Goddamnit you know why I know there is no God? Because the entire world is praying for ass hats like you to be a ball of syphillus infested anal seepage or spend eternity as a genital wart on Rosanne Barr!

See, this is what I was saying about wit. Though you have dressed it fancily, your ad hominiem attack is, at it's core, the same recycled internet insult that everyone uses when they have nothing to say. IE Since you disagree with someone, they must live their mommy's basement so disregard their opinion. I've rarely seen a metaphor so tortured, but it still doesn't make it any more clever.

Leave the bitch in piece to love and to serve who she pleases. If you want a thread of your own to request subs who like your brand then do it but dont't fuck over other peoples wishes wants and desires.

You're really sending out a mixed message w/r/t respect for women.

Your rambling reminds me of Corey Haims rant in "Goonies". "this is my wish, this is my dream". The moral of the story, make your wish (Pitch) hope it comes true but don't go crawling through the gutter trying to get your quarter back. Cause in the end if your hopeless impotent little wish didn't come true now all you havee are wet saggy jeans, a hideous retard friend, and a story where you and your buddies crawled through the sewer to tell mommy after you make bail and she opens her moomoo to pops dinner in between your ever flapping man pleasers.

Um... if you say so.

Happy Holidays....Free hookers and blow to all and may all have an STD free new year.

I wish no one free hookers. I always pay for my hookers and tip them well. Why should they get ripped off just because it's christmas?

 

[StrayKat]

Oh, I'm not naive, I know syntax and grammar aren't all women seek. As Pandorica so elegantly put it, a bloke having a lot of cash certainly assists his chances in attracting a partner. Or, in failing that, a big black cock.

I must be doing something wrong then, neither of my men got Pulitzer, they usually have even less money than I do and I havent even seen a big black cock for real yet

 

[AllTorment]

I must be doing something wrong then, neither of my men got Pulitzer, they usually have even less money than I do and I havent even seen a big black cock for real yet

Well it is nearly Christmas. Maybe if you wish really hard.

 

[StrayKat]

Well it is nearly Christmas. Maybe if you wish really hard.

For what?
Syntax and grammar perfectionist?
A guy loaded on cash?
Or big black cock?

Even I dont believe it can all come in one package

 

[AllTorment]

For what?
Syntax and grammar perfectionist?
A guy loaded on cash?
Or big black cock?

Even I dont believe it can all come in one package

If there's one thing I've learnt from this thread it's that women can't resist a grammar guru. Or have I read it wrong.

 

[StrayKat]

If there's one thing I've learnt from this thread it's that women can't resist a grammar guru. Or have I read it wrong.

There are a few things I cant resist but grammar is sure not one of them...

 

[AllTorment]

There are a few things I cant resist but grammar is sure not one of them...

... and with that, another Dom wept in front of his computer screen.

 

[Thisansthat2632]

I perhaps have given the impression that I value grammar highly. I don't. In fact, I'm radically in favor of the merits of a descriptive rather than a prescriptive outlook to grammar. That I write in a grammatically orthodox way is an aesthetic choice born of my education and culture, that's it. But I am 100 percent concerned with wit. It permeates everything I do, every relationship, everything I write. I make value judgement of people based on their wit and their ability to recognize it. And my judgment of many in this thread is harsh, indeed.

K


This is a really fair point, and has perhaps been glossed over. promisearousal was probably taking the rejection too personally, since he didn't meet the minimum requirements to be her Sociopath. However, I am curious about something. The OP has announced that her search is over and the Sociopath has been found. I, for one, am curious.. is this mental patient European? Or, perhaps african? Did he meet the rigorous European Time Zone requirement?

not our choice, or business

Underoos? Paging Dr Freud. Nothing like a sexualization-of-the-underage reference to get a party started.

As intended great catch!

So wait.... are you calling the OP's cunt an arid desert rat hole? That's... that's just beautiful..

Perhaps, though I have no experience with the subject. The OP not arid desert ratholes or cunts, I have plenty of time in both. One a single body part the other the entire body. But again I can see where that could be open to ridicule (your mom was an arid desert rathole? ) I spent a lot of time in the desert.


See, this is what I was saying about wit. Though you have dressed it fancily, your ad hominiem attack is, at it's core, the same recycled internet insult that everyone uses when they have nothing to say. IE Since you disagree with someone, they must live their mommy's basement so disregard their opinion. I've rarely seen a metaphor so tortured, but it still doesn't make it any more clever.

Point taken...I disagreed with stereotyping this submissive or any submissive against the choice of granting submission and it's been a long day, week, year I guess I ran out of gas. My apologies I will reach deeper next time.



You're really sending out a mixed message w/r/t respect for women.

Only IRT assuming people don't have a choice to give up their choice. If a submissive (male or female) chooses to submit game on. Until then get out of my uterous you Über-Christian....(example only)

Um... if you say so.



I wish no one free hookers. I always pay for my hookers and tip them well. Why should they get ripped off just because it's christmas?

Who's to say I'm not buying for everyone perhaps the OP would allow me to pay her to do us all..,.but again that's her choice right

 

[StrayKat]

... and with that, another Dom wept in front of his computer screen.

If any "Dom" was after me they must be very confused, poor things