Serious question for Gay/Bi males and Trans females.

[CrowdedStranger]

I'm definitely more into having my ass filled but as the OP stated most are about oral only. I'm bi and can get oral from my wife. And I am absolutely not meeting a guy just to suck his cock for him. Not to say I don't like to give oral...I do...but its foreplay. Being masculine and married I don't get many offers these days to recieve anal....its making me more open minded about WHAT I'd let fill me

 

[flint9]

definety anal,love oral,but anal is at top of list

 

[CarolineGA]

Not quite on the topic, but just curious.

Do you guys who like to be fucked, do you like to be on you stomach?, on your back? or on all fours?

I like to be on my back, if possible.

How many of you go bareback? Is bareback much faster than with a condom?

I like anal sex. . . but short and sweet.

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

I've only been fucked once (I really want more...) and that wasn't quite on my stomach or all 4's my head was down and my ass was in the air. When I imagine a woman taking me with a strap-on I see myself on my back watching her tits bounce in my face while she's pounding me.

As for bareback, I'd have to really trust a guy to be able to do that. I'd love to feel hot cum being shot into my ass though, so hopefully someday...

 

[flint9]

take it any way you can get it

 

[none2_none2]

I'm definitely more into having my ass filled but as the OP stated most are about oral only. I'm bi and can get oral from my wife. And I am absolutely not meeting a guy just to suck his cock for him. Not to say I don't like to give oral...I do...but its foreplay. Being masculine and married I don't get many offers these days to recieve anal....its making me more open minded about WHAT I'd let fill me

I can understand where marriage makes it difficult. Someone may be interested, but you have to work around your personal life. Add to that if it is a secret, then you also have to come of with excuses why you are leaving your family for a while. However, that part of the equation happens whether you are doing oral or anal, or sex on the side with a man or woman.

As to masculinity being a problem, I would disagree with you. Realize that this board is a skewed representation of those men who enjoy sex with another man. Not everybody is into shemales, drag queens, twinky young boys. As plenty of gay men have told me, if they wanted to have sex with feminine creature, they would go for the real thing.

There are some that assume that masculinity means the guy also has to be the top -- getting sucked or doing the fucking. However, not everybody buys into that stereotype. Plus realize that for most people the biggest turn on in sex is the unexpected. For heterosexual examples, think of the guys who flip over the unexpected from a woman. For instance, I know plenty of straight guys who cannot imagine having sex with the woman who is EXTREMELY attractive, or the GOOD girl, or the girl who comes from a class background that you would think would otherwise snub the average joe. They don't expect to get those kinds of girls, but when they do they flip out -- like striking oil. The same holds true in man on man sex. You may be one of those bi's who claims to only have interest in cock. However, seriously, wouldn't you be a bit more turned on if the guy who chooses you is someone you would never expect to have an interest in you or for that matter man on man sex? Just like any straight man can buy a hooker, any guy looking for mansex can find someone who gets it on with anybody. Thus there are plenty of us who have a major turn on when a guy wanting to be on the receiving end is masculine because you don't expect it. I have been with my partner for 7.5 years. Sure relationships to endure have to have mroe than hot sex -- which we have. However, even do this day, every time he is naked and I see his extra large balls, his muscular body, his masculine demeanor, and especially his very hairy ass, I go ape wild even all these years later. You would never expect my guy to be gay -- let alone being the bottom. It turns me on just thinking about that and the fact that his ass is just for me. HOT!

I think the only common denominator for a go/no go on sex is that the perspective partner (str8, bi, or gay) is clean (no body odor, no bad breath, clean clothes, clean hair) somewhat decent shape (again, there are chubby chasers out there too), discrete, and stable. (You don't want someone who you think may end up being like Glen Close in the movie Fatal Attraction.).

Finally, as I have stated in other messages, I agree on oral. When I was single and on the prowl, it seamed cock suckers were a dime a dozen. If they were still o interest to me, I would try to make a deal. I would let them suck for 15 or 20 minutes as long as no teeth no hickeys, & no hands. If after that time I still hadn't cum, I would at least get to stick a finger up their ass (with the hope that I might get to put my cock up there too eventually). It worked quite a bit to get what I wanted. Some guys really think they are great at cock sucking, so it was like a challenge for them. Of course, I can get off maybe once every 15 years by a cock sucker. So in the end, they got to try what they thought I'd like. Plus, I typically got to do what I KNEW for sure that I would like. (Plus, I think in the end most of it liked getting fucked too as I was always a considerate top. That is to say that a top's job isn't done until the bottom has an orgasm.) So it was a win-win for everybody.

 

[infinity706]

I'm not totally sure, but it could have something to do with the fact that most people don't seem to realize you need artificial lube for good anal. Out of all the guys I've had that wanted to try anal, exactly one brought any form of lubrication. That sort of presents a problem, especially since the guys that want to try it tend to have some of the biggest dicks.

 

[none2_none2]

I'm not totally sure, but it could have something to do with the fact that most people don't seem to realize you need artificial lube for good anal. Out of all the guys I've had that wanted to try anal, exactly one brought any form of lubrication. That sort of presents a problem, especially since the guys that want to try it tend to have some of the biggest dicks.

That may be true for hung tops, but some of us regular tops can do just fine with good old fashioned spit -- lube of the common man for eons. It isn't something I would do on a regular basis, but it isn't practical to have lube on your person at all times when the opportunity strikes itself. Note that I do keep a jar of petroleum jelly near the bed.

I remember when the opportunity arose when my guy picked me up from the airport. We went out to the country and spit was it. I suppose I could have tried motor oil, but I don't know if that is safe for mucus membranes -- I am careful on just using anything. I remember years ago in my first relationship where the guy was in the mood. We hadn't had sex in a while, so I especially wanted him to be comfortable. All I could find was shampoo. I learned my lesson the hard way. (I should add that it was dandruff shampoo which was really an even BIGGER no no for BOTH of us. I might as well have rubbed my cock and his hole with hot peppers.)

I do wonder what could be used for lube if it wasn't for modern science. I do know that one time I was boiling okra. The fluid that came off of it was very slimy and had the look and feel of pre-cum. One of these days I'm going to try it again and let it cool down and see what I end up with. Who knows, it could turn out to be a "green" lube.

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

Maybe you could call it Cajun Butt Balm...

 

[girlyboyalexa]

Not quite on the topic, but just curious.

Do you guys who like to be fucked, do you like to be on you stomach?, on your back? or on all fours?

I like to be on my back, if possible.

How many of you go bareback? Is bareback much faster than with a condom?

I like anal sex. . . but short and sweet.

I prefer to be on all fours when I am taking a cock, I only bareback if I'm in a long-term relationship and it goes quicker when he is bare.

I want him to be in me a long time, I hate when a guy pulls out. Of course, that leaves me begging for more.

 

[none2_none2]

Maybe you could call it Cajun Butt Balm...

I'd have to ask a marketing expert if such a name would encourage the potential consumer market: fuckable, masculine men.

I figured that I should research a bit more. Here is from wiki on the subject okra (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Okra):

"...The greenish yellow edible oil has a pleasant taste and odor, and is high in unsaturated fats such as oleic acid and linoleic acid.[9] The oil content of the seed is quite high at about 40%. Oil yields from okra crops are also high. At 794 kg/ha, the yield was exceeded only by that of sunflower oil in one trial...

The products of the plant are mucilaginous, resulting in the characteristic "goo" when the seed pods are cooked. In order to avoid this effect, okra pods are often stir fried, so the moisture is cooked away, or paired with slightly acidic ingredients, such as citrus or tomatoes.The mucilage effect can also be much lessened when simmering the pods by adding vinegar.The mucilage contains a usable form of soluble fiber. "

Thus it has several positives including plesant taste & odor as well as VERY oily (lubricating) and also a healthy source of soluble fibre.

Don't get me wrong. It isn't ready for the market yet. In interest of truth in reporting, there were the following negatives on that same webpage:


"...Unspecified parts of the plant reportedly possess diuretic properties. Okra is also reported to contain the male contraceptive gossypol..."

Hopefully those parts with runs isn't in the seed pod. I also definitely want it to be used as a male contraception. The world needs more men who enjoy getting fucked. I seriously believe if more men enjoyed getting fucked, there would be world peace. Plus as the little girl said in the movie Its a wonderful life: "Every time a masculine, muscular, hairy man gets fucked, an angel earns his wings."

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PS: I wonder if another potential name would be GooBER (Goo + Butt Enhanced Recreation). It has kind of both a masculine positive word "goo", plus a sportive emphasis with the word recreation. I could see the commercials similar to those for Enzite except instead of ladies in the commercial have just a group of guys saying thing like: "Good buddy, is that okra that I'm smelling on you?". This followed by a little wink... We could even get Al Gore to put in a little blurb to approve it since it is green.

 

[bundybiguy]

I'm a cock sucker and enjoy sucking but love to have my rear filled as well

 

[kingkhan1]

Damn, reading the posts of the men who like to get fucked turns me on so much. I really really want to fuck a man now. I have been on the fence about it but, I love the feel of a mans body next to mine I want to take the next step and feel his asshole on my cock.

 

[scargt2001]

Bi guy total sub

Personally i love to have my ass filled, been passed around once or twice and that was awesome because no to dicks feel the exact same. Of course head is always fun but all involved need to be really into it.

 

[blue532]

i definitely prefer anal, especially receiving it. although i've done it all, theres something about being filled by another man...

 

[Bluestreak363]

Do you guys who like to be fucked, do you like to be on you stomach?, on your back? or on all fours?

I think I prefer when my boyfriends do me while I'm laying on my stomach. I can relax more, and I it hits my prostate perfectly. The gay couple I play with know how to trigger multiples for me.

How many of you go bareback? Is bareback much faster than with a condom?

My boyfriends and I are exclusive, so we go bareback. It feels worlds different - and better - when you can go bare. If I'm with anyone else, condoms are the rule.

 

[none2_none2]

I think I prefer when my boyfriends do me while I'm laying on my stomach. I can relax more, and I it hits my prostate perfectly. The gay couple I play with know how to trigger multiples for me.

It is strange that you would say that on your stomach it would hit your prostate perfectly. Perhaps you want only a little pressure on it. Realize that your prostate is between the bladder and the rectum -- not the rectum and your butt muscles. So if you did like the pressure on your prostate -- standard doggy or belly gives the least amount of pressure on the prostate. You don't say the age of the gay couple you mess with, but the younger a man is the more his cock tries to hit his belly. Thus of the traditional m2m anal positions, face 2 face tends to put the most pressure on the prostate -- especially with younger tops as his erection still tries to hit his belly. The main problem with face to face is of course the back of the legs being so high up for some bottom men can cause cramps if the fucking continues for a long time.

One thing I have tried now and then (just to give some variety) is to fuck my guy in an inverted stacked belly, head to foot position. Imagine starting in a 69 position with the lower man on his back. Flip the lower man on his belly at which point the upper guy's cock and balls are at the nape of the lower man's neck, and the lower mans asshole is staring at the upper man's face. The upper man should make sure the lower man's ass is nice and wet. If not lubed, at least the upper man should slobber all over the lower man's ass. Then the upper man crawls downward toward's the lower man's heals. When in position, the lower man's back of the ears is around the upper man's toes, and the upper man's face is near the back of the lower man's heals. the upper man's cock is resting in the crack of the lower man's ass. The upper man can then rub down and up over the lower man's crack to get him in the mood. Then the upper man grabs his own cock and bends it downward until he can penetrate the lower man's hole. Once it is in, it puts a lot of pressure on the lower man's prostate since the cock is desperately trying to spring back to the normal position. The lower man has no stress on his legs like in face to face fucking as he is simply on his belly.

I don't recommend this position for a real young top and or a hung top. For the young man, the cock is probably going to feel like it is breaking. For the hung top it may just have to bend too far down to be able to get in. (It is kind of a torque issues. For instance, a man with long arms would be less likely to be a gymnast who does the iron cross because of the stress on the shoulders...)

It isn't a position to fuck like a jack rabbit, but then I'm not into that kind of sex. It is more like sex on a boat at sea -- rocking downward and upward. I can grab my guy's ankles and force my cock down further into him, then slowly back up just by releasing his ankles Anyway, my guy is able to do face to face just fine. I just vary our positions from time to time to keep the sex from getting too routine.

 

[God of Threads]

Hooooooray for head.

 

[gagginforit]

Ok so probably a silly question but how do you know you are all about being fucked?

I mean if you have never been fucked how do you know? I always was into guys, dreamt of doing things with them, women not so much that came later, but it was always general thingys, like kissing and feeling, I never knew what I wanted was to have a guy atop me pumping away until well I did have one. Granted porn wasn't so incredibly easy to find then but well I mean seriously, how come you have such an indepth knowledge of exactly you want?

Granted it's possible I don't get it cause I'm a woman but darnit I wanna know.

I take your point. I've done neither so I don't know for sure whether or not I'd actually enjoy it, but I fantasise about getting my ass pounded every day. Sucking as well, but mostly ass pounding.

But it's not just bi guys is it? Everyone must have some idea of what they might like to do before they've actually tried it.

 

[BiDrew42]

I love having my ass filled. I have been fortunate to have had dozens of male sex partners over the past 30 years and I have tried just about everything males can do together. By far my favorite is having a hard cock in my ass, the bigger the better. I like fucking a guy but I prefer to be fucked. I also love giving and receiving oral sex.

Drew

 

[Hitchiker69]

Which do I like best? I enjoy it all! For me, a night with a man isn't complete without doing it all. We both need to get all the sucking we want give and get, especially 69ing each other. Then fucking each other. There is nothing as fine as taking a man in the ass, unless it's giving up my ass for him.
When I started having sex with men it was a learning experience. I saw how much they enjoyed being fucked, so eventually curiosity got the best of me, and I had to try it. I gave it up to a guy I trused, was comfortable with, and was hot for. What I found was: 1. It didn't hurt. 2. It was a new, good feeling being plundered. I'd never had anything in my ass before. 3. It brought out the animal in my man...he went nuts with lust, unlike anything else we'd done. He was grabbbing my ass, humping and pumping like crazy. I wanted to make it as good for him as I could, so I was humping along with him,and squeezing my sphincter on his cock as he dove in.
Then, of course, I enjoyed his tight ass later.
I'd love to try combinations...sucking one guy while being fucked by another, or being sucked and fucked at the same time.

 

[39Donna]

bi curious CD Dreaming

Hi, I don't post much. Bi Curious CD, married. I love it when wife uses the strapon with me. I would love to try a real penis up my ass, and i would love to try and suck a penis but I would not know how to go about arranging it as we live in a small town.

As time goes on I find I need it more and more.

 

[longneckbottle3]

I am so jelous of all you guys on here who have gotten the chance to either be fucked or suck a cock. I know that once I give in to my urges...I'll go crazy. I get so turned on when I use toys to mimic situations or think about it in the shower.

 

[smooth-boy]

I'm submissive, and I'm all about anal. There's always something in my ass when I'm getting off. I even asked my current girl if we can just have anal sex when we do fuck. I almost would rather just service her orally and have her abuse my body.

I've been fucked by strap ons, so I know I like it. Prior to that, I was always fingering my ass, so I figured being fucked would be fun. I'm looking forward to the real thing. Given the choice of sucking or taking it in the ass, I'd take getting ass fucked every time. I'm interest in cock sucking though, as part of my (self) training to be a full service submissive.

 

[girlyboyalexa]

I'm submissive, and I'm all about anal. There's always something in my ass when I'm getting off. I even asked my current girl if we can just have anal sex when we do fuck. I almost would rather just service her orally and have her abuse my body.

I've been fucked by strap ons, so I know I like it. Prior to that, I was always fingering my ass, so I figured being fucked would be fun. I'm looking forward to the real thing. Given the choice of sucking or taking it in the ass, I'd take getting ass fucked every time. I'm interest in cock sucking though, as part of my (self) training to be a full service submissive.

If you haven't taken a load in your mouth, you don't know what you are missing! When he puts you on your knees and fucks your mouth then shoots his load in you, you'll feel just like a slut, that he owns you completely, trust me