Sex & Shenanigans

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🎵🎶You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave🎵🎶
So you don't like Wings but you like Eagles!?

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Oops…been so preoccupied with other stuff, I didn’t realize my (re)join date passed 3 days ago too!
Happy lit-day to you too :love:
 
You know I am very interested in BDSM, but have never found someone to play with (most likely because I hate people and going to social events and God hasn't sent a trustworthy Dom to knock on my front door). But...that doesn't sound terrible, just slightly terrifying. You are braver than me, I don't think I could do it.
This is why I get so irritated at the people who make out like they're Dom's but clearly aren't as they have no patience or interest in providing a good experience for the sub. Good BDSM comes from lots of getting to know a sub, finding out what they do and don't want to experience. What are their soft and hard limits, establishing safe words, it's a collaborative process.

Faux Dom's don't want to do the work and just leap into whatever cutlery gets them off. They see being a Dom as a golden ticket to be an abusive arsehole and call it BDSM.
 
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Faux Dom's don't want to do the work and just leap into whatever cutlery gets them off. They see being a Dom as a golden ticket to be an abusive arsehole and call it BDSM.
Lit is full of these - especially in the erotic chat rooms.
And you know what?
Everyone of them is really insecure and they throw tantrums and flounce at the slightest bit of mockery.
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
You and I have the same join date 😱

Happy Lit Day, gorgeous 😍💛 I’m happy to know you
 
This is why I get so irritated at the people who make out like they're Dom's but clearly aren't as they have no patience or interest in providing a good experience for the sub. Good BDSM comes from lots of getting to know a sub, finding out what they do and don't want to experience. What are their soft and hard limits, establishing safe words, it's a collaborative process.

Faux Dom's don't want to do the work and just leap into whatever cutlery gets them off. They see being a Dom as a golden ticket to be an abusive arsehole and call it BDSM.
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Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
Happy One Year Anniversary!
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
I wasn't paying attention to that... but mine was 3 years ago on the 16th. What fun!
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
One year! Woohoo! Happy Cake Day🎂!

It has been a joy and a trip to get to know you, time traveler. I love you like a scary little sister.
 
Oh would you look at that! The cosmos works in mysterious ways 💕 Considering my insomnia, and the time zones, chances are that we joined at the same time :love: wouldn't that be something!

And you as well!!
Insomnia definitely opens your world up, quite literally. Being awake at odd hours, I encounter people I never would have otherwise
 
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