BrendaBear
Feral Brat Princess
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nopeOkay, but on a serious note… has anyone actually gotten paranoid about the existence of ghosts/spirits and what they may or may not see you doing??
I went through a real spiral about that once following a particularly convincing podcast episode with a medium.
I’m normally SUCH a skeptic which is probably why it fucked me up so much.
The pace of this reminds me of the Can Can song from Moulin Rouge
I don't think of it like they're watching me. More like... They still love me but I can't see them and they can't see me. Sometimes I have such strong memories of my grandma it feels like she's with me.Do you think it’s comforting to think that people who have passed are “looking down” on us?
I know people love to say that when someone passes but I find the concept distressing as fuck lol
I don't think they're looking at us, but sometimes I'm not so sure, and then yes - distressing as fuck!Do you think it’s comforting to think that people who have passed are “looking down” on us?
I know people love to say that when someone passes but I find the concept distressing as fuck lol
And then some of us have the malfunction that our brains are set to convince us that the opposite of what we want to believe is trueI think our brains are powerful at convincing us what we want to believe is true.
Confirmation bias doesn't necessarily agree with what we *want* to believe. Our brains believe what we tell it... So if you're telling yourself something that disagrees with what you want to believe you gotta change the script. That's pretty hard though...And then some of us have the malfunction that our brains are set to convince us that the opposite of what we want to believe is true![]()
I do not believe in ghosts in any meaningful way. But I have had experiences I don’t have a good explanation for with all the science I know. So I absolutely ain’t gonna be that guy going into the haunted insane asylum saying “why y’all so scared? Nothing can hurt you here.”Okay, but on a serious note… has anyone actually gotten paranoid about the existence of ghosts/spirits and what they may or may not see you doing??
I went through a real spiral about that once following a particularly convincing podcast episode with a medium.
I’m normally SUCH a skeptic which is probably why it fucked me up so much.
I have never for a second thought my mom was looking down on me. I think a lot about what would make her proud and that influences me but I never think she’s anywhere being proud (or not as the case might be I guess).Do you think it’s comforting to think that people who have passed are “looking down” on us?
I know people love to say that when someone passes but I find the concept distressing as fuck lol
That’s why I’m therapist… “those who can’t do, teach”So if you're telling yourself something that disagrees with what you want to believe you gotta change the script. That's pretty hard though...
Brains are not our friends more often than I like to consider.And then some of us have the malfunction that our brains are set to convince us that the opposite of what we want to believe is true![]()
Same, girl. It's so easy to give advice to others and yet when it comes to us... Not so much.That’s why I’m therapist… “those who can’t do, teach”![]()
I knoooooow!Same, girl. It's so easy to give advice to others and yet when it comes to us... Not so much.![]()
The Tao of Lit.Boobs make everything better![]()
Still storing phone numbers from back then. I wish I could delete the files I want to, and keep the ones that float off.
Omg can you imagine?Still storing phone numbers from back then. I wish I could delete the files I want to, and keep the ones that float off.
I don't think that way (if there is a God, they have other things on Their mind), but...I’m so thankful, both for you and the rest of us, that you don’t think that way anymore!
It’s a stressful existence!!
Except in dreams, when I am back in high school and can never remember my locker combination.Here as well LOL! I even remember locker combinations from high school. Still have to occasionally look in a book to remember my login for my laptop though![]()
Yeppers... me too. Wait... did you have the locker next to mine?Except in dreams, when I am back in high school and can never remember my locker combination.
View attachment 2414538Brains are not our friends more often than I like to consider.
Yeah, I see the irony.
"Take my advice -- I'm not using it" should be tattooed on my forehead.Same, girl. It's so easy to give advice to others and yet when it comes to us... Not so much.![]()
I need a shirt with this.
Yes!!I need a shirt with this.