Sexless Marriages

I feel bad for people who are in a sexless marriage, it's very sad, and i don't mean to sound judgmental. I was kinda sorta joking, but it is true that some guys "i'm in a sexless marraige" as a come-on. Or yeah, to convince themselves it's ok to cheat, or at least to explain why they're hitting on me even though married
I didn't feel you being judgmental in any way. I feel for people in sexless marriages too, since I'm in that category. But I know how sleazy some guys are to use that line as a tactic to increase the possibility of them getting sex from someone else, when they probably aren't in a sexless marriage.
 
I feel bad for people who are in a sexless marriage, it's very sad, and i don't mean to sound judgmental. I was kinda sorta joking, but it is true that some guys "i'm in a sexless marraige" as a come-on. Or yeah, to convince themselves it's ok to cheat, or at least to explain why they're hitting on me even though married
Two years and three months thus far. It was sparse before. I understand that some may be skeptical of a gentleman's motives. Her reasons are health related and physical in nature. It isn't something we argue over. She simply can't. I understand this. But it doesn't grant me much in the way of relief. It is her belief that "if she can't, I won't and shouldn't out of respect."
 
It is definitely a epidemic unfortunately...
I will say this. I'd rather have a guy tell me he's in a sexless marriage than not tell me he's married lol.

And now I feel a little guilty about bring this up because, let me just get this out there, I have a couple of times had sex with guys I knew were married. But usually I don't.
 
I will say this. I'd rather have a guy tell me he's in a sexless marriage than not tell me he's married lol.

And now I feel a little guilty about bring this up because, let me just get this out there, I have a couple of times had sex with guys I knew were married. But usually I don't.
Unfortunately many people are disingenuous when it comes to manners of intimacy. They're more worried about what's in it for themselves and will lie through their teeth to get what they want. And for what it's worth this married guy appreciate your honesty!
 
Unfortunately many people are disingenuous when it comes to manners of intimacy. They're more worried about what's in it for themselves and will lie through their teeth to get what they want. And for what it's worth this married guy appreciate your honesty!
I love my wife. I have for forty six years. I still desire her, but it is not reciprocated.
 
I love my wife. I have for forty six years. I still desire her, but it is not reciprocated.
I hear you completely. I'm only on year 20 and there is little to no intimacy. Even holding hands is a challenge let alone getting to the sex. It's extremely maddening to feel completely invisible
 
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