Sexual Insights :)

[MysticFlight_69]

Oh Wow!

I have never been focused on receiving oral from a partner, however, I generally love to perform for her. There have been two occasions when I've been comfortable/relaxed enough with a woman thus enabling me to climax thoroughly and with absolute abandon strictly from her oral stimulation's. I attribute this to a mutually established feeling of safety between us as both friends and lovers...or, a commonly shared psycho sexual awareness of one and other stemming from a genuine appreciation and compassion.

me: 21st birthday, & nothing to write home about.

Age 18 on my honeymoon......not so good and after he went to sleep I sat on the bathroom floor and cried. It was never that bad again but it was 2 months before it was good. It was not his fault tho. I had to learn to relax and to trust him and to let him know what I felt, liked, and didn't like. After almost 30 years it was so good that we would cum at the same time almost every time and, really, there's nothing as good as that. At least not for me.

I am So glad you had a Happy ending! I almost started to cry for you at the begining!

 

[andrewgoogle]

For me, it was age 23 with my fiancee. It was wonderful. We've been married for 25 years and never have had bad sex.

Dru

 

[noboywonder]

I am reticent to consider any of my experiences, other than two I'd mentioned previously, negative because while they may not have yielded measurable physical pleasure, I was always humbled by a lover's willingness to do such a thing in order to afford me with gratification. I suspect that I am just very, if not overly sensitive. On both occasions, that were so very delightful, my partners were conscientious and patient with me...applying slow, very soft pressures and touch consistently.

 

[kcwordsmith]

First time was a joke. I had no idea what to do. The condom came off with no negative consequences thank goodness. Second time was much better. Abut 20 yrs old, a week before leaving for military service, me and a buddy picked up two girls in a bar. We ended up in a park at about 1 a.m., dew on the grass, and it really was very enjoyable.

I have a hard time remembering the first time I did or received oral. I know I like giving more than having sex. Love making my partner cum. I could go down on a lady almost indefinitely...it's that good for me. I love the smell, love taking her clit in my mouth and gently sucking...mmm, it's getting my hard thinking about it.

 

[IARainman]

I have heard this before. I cannot imagine why a woman wouldn't let her mate go down on her. On the same note: I have never known a man not to want oral! LOL!

A lot of it comes from her image of herself. She doesn't feel pretty or desireable, so she can't imagine why I'd want her, then by extension why I'd want to go down on her. It's something we're working through. It's funny, I want oral, but haven't had all that great of luck. Any time I've gotten it, it's paled compared to the expectation. Guess I haven't been in the right place at the right time yet.

 

[pedicur8her]

A lot of it comes from her image of herself. She doesn't feel pretty or desireable, so she can't imagine why I'd want her, then by extension why I'd want to go down on her. It's something we're working through. It's funny, I want oral, but haven't had all that great of luck. Any time I've gotten it, it's paled compared to the expectation. Guess I haven't been in the right place at the right time yet.

I have found some women to be extremely shy about such an intimate act. Others were told that it was dirty and not appropriate. Still others believed it was just to get them to reciprocate or as a token gesture. Fortunately, I was able to convince them otherwise.

I too have found oral sex mostly below my expectations, as did some of the women I have known. The first time I ever came in a woman's mouth she promptly ran off to the bathroom and threw up. It was terrible, as she had been so eager to try it and worked so hard to please me. I had a mental block over that experience for many years ...

 

[IARainman]

I think that's probably part of my problem receiving. The few times she's tried, she's approached me like she's handling 4 day old tuna or something (okay, that was the wrong sex for the analogy, but you get the idea.) so I have a hard time just kicking back and receiving (not that I've had lots of opportunities

 

[pedicur8her]

I think that's probably part of my problem receiving. The few times she's tried, she's approached me like she's handling 4 day old tuna or something (okay, that was the wrong sex for the analogy, but you get the idea.) so I have a hard time just kicking back and receiving (not that I've had lots of opportunities

I understand very well. I only got over my mental block when I met a woman who absolutely loved pleasuring me. She insisted that I just lie back and enjoy her ministrations and happily did things to me that I never thought possible. I still had my hangups though and it always took her quite a while to get the results she wanted ...

 

[WTB_1]

turn ons - slow foreplay and talking nasty

turn offs - voluntary ignorance and arrogance

 

[IARainman]

turn ons: bare shoulders, and when a woman stretches her arms over her head (among many man other things

turn offs: that stale smoke smell

 

[Guest]

Gibberish

 

[Georgexnxx]

Throwing my 2 cents in, I love hands... feeling touching, being touched... Being able to focus all my attention in watching the Beautiful Agony on a womans face... (Yes, I stole the phrase, but it describes it perfectly)

 

[Nightcharm]

I find sucking a man a turn on. It's a great feeling, there is something really sexy about being able to make a man moan with pleasure just by using my mouth

 

[Georgexnxx]

Don't get me wrong. I enjoy a good sucking myself, both giving and receiving. The mouth is one of the most erotic organs on the body.

 

[Size13]

I want to make the OP feel amazing... Just saying.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

I want to make the OP feel amazing... Just saying.

I love what you have written in your sig!

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Whew!

aww didn't mean to make you sad.

I'm just glad you had a Happy Ending!

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Lovely!

I just want to say ~ Wow! I all of the positive, open posts on this thread!

What about the most kinky thing you ever did? Was it a positive or negative experience?

For me, it was a ffm threesome & although it was highly erotic - ultimately it ended badly.

 

[kcwordsmith]

What about Tantric Sex? Anybody experience this IRL?

I've done a lot of research on tantric sex but have not experienced it...yet. What I have read is very intriguing. Seems like you do need some special skills to do it properly. But with the right person giving, and with the right preparation on the part of the receiver, I'm sure it's a mind blowing experience.

 

[Guest]

Mystic i have read through the posts and I am confused...I am an older guy been with several women who loved oral and penetration..I have had several that have been less than satifying, because of the lack of feelings. She just went through the motions. I am dating someone now, who is older more self-aware , which i think matters, and we are literally on the same page. Physically, emotionally, intelligently. I hope this helps you with your quest.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Tantric Sex

I've done a lot of research on tantric sex but have not experienced it...yet. What I have read is very intriguing. Seems like you do need some special skills to do it properly. But with the right person giving, and with the right preparation on the part of the receiver, I'm sure it's a mind blowing experience.

I came across this:

http://www.bodyofthegoddess.com/oldsite/WomanGSpot.htm

and found it fascinating. Worth a read. It makes me wish all women could know this.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Mystic i have read through the posts and I am confused...I am an older guy been with several women who loved oral and penetration..I have had several that have been less than satifying, because of the lack of feelings. She just went through the motions. I am dating someone now, who is older more self-aware , which i think matters, and we are literally on the same page. Physically, emotionally, intelligently. I hope this helps you with your quest.

Hi there!

I'm sorry, but, what are you confused about? I just wanted to start a thread & see if could lead to some interesting feedback. I am curious about other people's experiences, thoughts, feelings.

 

[2TryAnything]

I just want to say ~ Wow! I all of the positive, open posts on this thread!

What about the most kinky thing you ever did? Was it a positive or negative experience?

For me, it was a ffm threesome & although it was highly erotic - ultimately it ended badly.

Sadly, all the really kinky things are still fantasies that have yet to be fulfilled. However, to tie in to your first question about oral: I love giving a woman pleasure in any way possible but with oral I really like to tongue her ass as well as her beautiful pussy!

Thankfully, the "woman" with whom I've enjoyed this the most has been my lovely wife for nearly 15 years now and she goes wild with delight when I lick her gorgeous ass!

 

[Guest]

mystic, great, super ......my experiences have been mostly good, had a gf , after my late wife died, who was older(60), came on like a sex goddess and turned into a real serious problem. Wanted to get in my house, on on on it went, until i kicked her out. I was weak after a death ofmy second wife of 20+ yrs , she had a sudden massive heart attack at 49 ....but ...then 6 mths later meet a wonderful lady...she is older and very very sexy

 

[soflabbwlvr]

First time

My first time occurred when I was 14. It was the first day of summer vacation. I met my girlfriend at the tennis courts, we played a set, and then walked into the woods behind the tennis courts to do what we were really there to do. Truthfully, it was not that great, as we were both inexperienced. The mosquitoes were horrendous. Both of us probably still bear mosquito bites on our asses to commemorate losing our virginity.