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[soflabbwlvr]

Oral

I have never had a partner who solely wanted to perform oral on me. I have had one partner who did not want it performed on her, and insisted on nothing but intercourse. One time, after ignoring her protestations, I found out the reason. She could only cum one time per session, and did not want that reach her climax through oral stimulation. After I licked her to an orgasm she totally shut down and would not engage in any sexual activity whatsoever for several hours.
That was the last time that I did not listen to a woman's explanation of her preferences.

 

[Guest]

all
i want to relate this that happened to me at 35ish, after a divorce. I was working for a company in the IT department doing my thing. Meet a new secretary/admin assist whatever these young ladies are calling themsleves nowdays, and we hit it off immediatey.
Ended up going to nice dinner and she came home with me, on the way she unzipped my pants and decided she was going to suck on ole 'george', yes he has a name. This was the start of the one sexual experience that was over 30 yrs ago and I havent forgotten it, she
was the type not to wear panties or bra and go to the movies so I could finger her while we watched the movie. Also introduced me to anal intercourse, god she was hot.....

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Mosquito Bites

My first time occurred when I was 14. It was the first day of summer vacation. I met my girlfriend at the tennis courts, we played a set, and then walked into the woods behind the tennis courts to do what we were really there to do. Truthfully, it was not that great, as we were both inexperienced. The mosquitoes were horrendous. Both of us probably still bear mosquito bites on our asses to commemorate losing our virginity.

LOL @ the mosquito bites!

 

[allysin]

I personally enjoy pleasuring a partner orally. Since I am limited to the number of orgasms I can enjoy in an evening and women are not; treating a lover to as many as she can bear is very exciting and enjoyable to me. Having a woman beg me to stop because she can't cum anymore - before we have sex - is a delightful thing ...

i have to say, pedicur8her, you were brought up right! mmhmm amen!

 

[pedicur8her]

i have to say, pedicur8her, you were brought up right! mmhmm amen!

Thank you, Dear Lady. I've always put my lover's pleasure first and I do love to give pleasure ...

 

[allysin]

What about your 1st time?

How old? Positive experience? Etc.

me: 15 & yes

mind if I join in this topic, MysticFlight 69?

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Absolutely!

mind if I join in this topic, MysticFlight 69?

Welcome! Jump right in!

 

[Size13]

I am thinking this is a great place to talk about it......

 

[MysticFlight_69]

????

I am thinking this is a great place to talk about it......

talk about....??

 

[kaycee217]

talk about....??

I figured Size13 was encouraging allysin.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

I figured Size13 was encouraging allysin.

Oh! LOL! I bet you're right!

 

[kaycee217]

Oh! LOL! I bet you're right!

Care to extrapolate as to why your first time at 15 was a positive experience?

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Sure!

Care to extrapolate as to why your first time at 15 was a positive experience?

It was a summer romance type thing. I was spending the summer in Virginia. Yes, I lost my virginity in Virginia! We had dated all summer, he didn't rush me at all, & he made me feel very special.

When it came to it - he was very good as far as helping me to not be nervous, helping me through that 1st pain... Afterwards- I didn't know about the blood & he helped me with that too!

I still have the ring he gave me

 

[Guest]

Mystic it seems the first real good romantic/sexual experience is difficult to forget ....

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Care to extrapolate as to why your first time at 15 was a positive experience?

Mystic it seems the first real good romantic/sexual experience is difficult to forget ....

I wish everybody could have a positive experience. Especially females. I have met some ladies who had hideous 1st experiences & it broke my heart!

 

[kentjay]

You are very insightful

My first experience was at 25 with my now seperated wife it is funny because when you speak of oral i love giving the most. kent

 

[kentjay]

positive experiences are very important

I wish everybody could have a positive experience. Especially females. I have met some ladies who had hideous 1st experiences & it broke my heart!

it is hard to hear of so many bad experiences, I have to agree.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

I'm sorry

My first experience was at 25 with my now seperated wife it is funny because when you speak of oral i love giving the most. kent

Sorry to hear about the seperation! May I ask - did you meet her early on & decide to wait til marriage? I am just curious!

 

[kaycee217]

It was a summer romance type thing. I was spending the summer in Virginia. Yes, I lost my virginity in Virginia! We had dated all summer, he didn't rush me at all, & he made me feel very special.

When it came to it - he was very good as far as helping me to not be nervous, helping me through that 1st pain... Afterwards- I didn't know about the blood & he helped me with that too!

I still have the ring he gave me

Awww, cute! I'm sentimental myself.

I wish everybody could have a positive experience. Especially females. I have met some ladies who had hideous 1st experiences & it broke my heart!

Many of the women I've spoken with have told me their first time was regrettable or "ehhhh."

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Experiences

Awww, cute! I'm sentimental myself.




Many of the women I've spoken with have told me their first time was regrettable or "ehhhh."

Most females let their sexuality rely on the experience & preferences of their mates. Usually very random & not thought out very well. I really wish we didn't send so many mixed signals about sex in our society. It creates so many avoidable issues!

 

[kaycee217]

Most females let their sexuality rely on the experience & preferences of their mates. Usually very random & not thought out very well. I really wish we didn't send so many mixed signals about sex in our society. It creates so many avoidable issues!

Mixed signals? What mixed signals? I think the signal is pretty clear: women are not suppose to enjoy sex, pursue sex, or have sex outside of marriage.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

True Story

Side note to my 1st time:

When I was sitting at lunch one day, I was trying to decide if I should - or shouldn't. I was really focusing on it. I dipped my spoon down into my bowl of alphabet soup... When I brought my spoon up it had three letters in it.. S-E-X! Guess that was the answer to my qustion! No lie.

 

[kaycee217]

Side note to my 1st time:

When I was sitting at lunch one day, I was trying to decide if I should - or shouldn't. I was really focusing on it. I dipped my spoon down into my bowl of alphabet soup... When I brought my spoon up it had three letters in it.. S-E-X! Guess that was the answer to my qustion! No lie.

Wow, eerie!

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Depressing...

Mixed signals? What mixed signals? I think the signal is pretty clear: women are not suppose to enjoy sex, pursue sex, or have sex outside of marriage.

Blocked sexual energy creates so many other problems!

 

[MysticFlight_69]

No

Wow, eerie!

Par for the course in my life it seems!