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[MysticFlight_69]

No, not old!

It was very exciting at first. After a while though, it just became a frustration and it really made me lose respect for my folks too. i mean, how stupid were they that they didn't know what we were doing all that time, alone, in the dark, in the wee hours, not talking...

Having said that, I should really thank them, because it did make us ramp the risk factor up again by taking our sessions elsewhere which opened up a whole world of deliciously risky possibilities, out-of-doors...

heheh... it's the youth that has gone, not the experimentation... *proud to be old and experimental* no, scratch that... *proud to be MATURE and experimental!*

I don't know how old you are - chronologically, but, I don't think that matters

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Yes

I have often wondered how men really feel about a woman doing this... sure, it's all the rage to watch it done in a porno, but are there many guys who strive for this, other than those to whom it is a fetish?
just wonderin'...

Yes. I also have to think that porn women are way desensitzed. Beyond that, about ummm... Female ejaculate? How many women actually do this or have ever done it?

 

[kaycee217]

lol kaycee217, it's hard sometimes, isn't it? resisting, I mean...

I think whoever is doing the resisting can make things hard...

 

[WTB_1]

No, I have not bought the book. I just am wondering about it quite a bit. I have had several orgasms just being fingered, but, nothing like those women describe. It sounds amazing, but, at the same time almost scary. I know that sounds strange maybe. I think you would have to be able to give up total control though...

I don't know about total control, maybe a release of inhibitions, after which another release, obviously.

I do think there should be a sincere willingness to share and trust , to give as well as to receive. I think it also has a lot to do with the mind and body and spirit being totally invloved. I agree it would be amazing. Maybe scary the first time, but I think any fear would be overcome by the orgasmic thunder.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Yes

I don't know about total control, maybe a release of inhibitions, after which another release, obviously.

I do think there should be a sincere willingness to share and trust , to give as well as to receive. I think it also has a lot to do with the mind and body and spirit being totally invloved. I agree it would be amazing. Maybe scary the first time, but I think any fear would be overcome by the orgasmic thunder.

Yes, well, it would have to be @ the right place & time, with the right person - and, clearly depending on state-of-mind!

 

[WTB_1]

Absolutely!

Yes, well, it would have to be @ the right place & time, with the right person - and, clearly depending on state-of-mind!

Absolutely! I agree with all the 'rights' you list.

Wouldn't it be interesting, fascinating and erotic to find all that?

 

[HeatedWand]

I strive for this!

Yes. I also have to think that porn women are way desensitzed. Beyond that, about ummm... Female ejaculate? How many women actually do this or have ever done it?

Its considered a challenge for me, I strive to make a lady ejaculate. It is an extremely intense orgasm for the lady. Once I am able to do that, they are (most of the time) puddy in my hands.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Yes

Absolutely! I agree with all the 'rights' you list.

Wouldn't it be interesting, fascinating and erotic to find all that?

Yes, yes it would!

 

[MysticFlight_69]

I am curious

Its considered a challenge for me, I strive to make a lady ejaculate. It is an extremely intense orgasm for the lady. Once I am able to do that, they are (most of the time) puddy in my hands.

May I ask what you think the avg rate of success is? I honestly don't think all females can do this. It's one thing to get wet & have a clitoral orgasm or vaginal orgasm, but...

 

[MrRetro]

I am copying this thread from another post I made. Just looking for feedback!

In the interests of exploring my own experiences vs. My deepest desires, I thought I would start this thread.

this can be about anything really, but, just to get it going...

In my life I have had one male & three females want to give me oral and that's all they wanted to do. Anybody else experience this? Or is this a preference for anybody here? Just curious!

Well, being a man, it may change the scenario somewhat... But I've always had a passion for cunnilingus and have asked several woman for this alone... Though only one wanted cunnilingus alone... I absolutely love eating a woman without any sexual intercourse repercussions, it makes the cunnilingus that much more meaningful, which it should be....
I have had several woman want to go down on me only, though....

 

[nodoubt1964]

Mystic...avg rate for success - that's a question and a half! I'm with 'Wand' on this, don't think there's any reason why all ladies can't achieve this, but in the same way that there's guys out there that pop their cork after a few mins and others that manage to last - everyone is built a little different! Time, patience, mood, confidence, going with the flow - are all contributory factors. What might 'work' one day with one person might not the next if one of the above is out of synch....IMHO ( experience)

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Yes that is tru

Mystic...avg rate for success - that's a question and a half! I'm with 'Wand' on this, don't think there's any reason why all ladies can't achieve this, but in the same way that there's guys out there that pop their cork after a few mins and others that manage to last - everyone is built a little different! Time, patience, mood, confidence, going with the flow - are all contributory factors. What might 'work' one day with one person might not the next if one of the above is out of synch....IMHO ( experience)

Yes, I guess that is all true I just wondered what his personal experince was with it. I am sure it varies from person to person, however, some people who know how to do it... Well, some just seem much more knowledgeable I guess?

 

[MrRetro]

Yes. I also have to think that porn women are way desensitzed. Beyond that, about ummm... Female ejaculate? How many women actually do this or have ever done it?

I've only been with one woman that ejaculated, and not from cunnilingus unfortunately... She generally only ejaculated from deep penetration...

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Thank you

Well, being a man, it may change the scenario somewhat... But I've always had a passion for cunnilingus and have asked several woman for this alone... Though only one wanted cunnilingus alone... I absolutely love eating a woman without any sexual intercourse repercussions, it makes the cunnilingus that much more meaningful, which it should be....
I have had several woman want to go down on me only, though....

I appreciate you sharing your experience! I think it is a rare man who would be fulfilled by doing this alone. Do you really feel satisfied just giving oral though? Doesn't it lead to frustration?

 

[nodoubt1964]

yep guess you're right Mystic - that knowledge goes for both parties

 

[MrRetro]

I appreciate you sharing your experience! I think it is a rare man who would be fulfilled by doing this alone. Do you really feel satisfied just giving oral though? Doesn't it lead to frustration?

Yes, absolutely I do feel satisfied, as long as the woman concerned is satisfied... No, it doesn't lead to frustration, just because I didn't have intercourse with the woman there and then, doesn't mean I never will... just not while I'm enjoying her orally... I think sometimes it's so important to have a dedicated oral session to really appreciate your woman, show her that you worship her beautiful body and that her writhing orgasm is the most visually stunning event a man can witness... and what better view than from between her thighs...

 

[allysin]

Yes. I also have to think that porn women are way desensitzed. Beyond that, about ummm... Female ejaculate? How many women actually do this or have ever done it?

I'm sure the majority of older women, didn't even know it was a possibility...

 

[TallMan60]

I'm sure the majority of older women, didn't even know it was a possibility...

There are a lot of older women who know about this A lot. And a lot who do it. Including some I know on here.

 

[allysin]

I think whoever is doing the resisting can make things hard...

hmmm... what sort of "things", kaycee? *resisting the urge to giggle*

 

[allysin]

There are a lot of older women who know about this A lot. And a lot who do it. Including some I know on here.

when I said older, I meant women older than.... well, me...LOL

 

[TallMan60]

when I said older, I meant women older than.... well, me...LOL

You are not older. You are the perfect age.

 

[allysin]

No, I have not bought the book. I just am wondering about it quite a bit. I have had several orgasms just being fingered, but, nothing like those women describe. It sounds amazing, but, at the same time almost scary. I know that sounds strange maybe. I think you would have to be able to give up total control though...

if you've never done it before, you definitely have to be willing (and able) to relax, completely, or it wont happen, MysticFlight. Some people say it's best for you to try doing it yourself first, allowing yourself to get comfortable with the sensation without any fear of being embarrassed... Once you are use to the feeling and can relax, it's really nothing but a pleasurable experience. Oh. and messy! Make sure you have a towel handy!!!

 

[allysin]

I don't know how old you are - chronologically, but, I don't think that matters

old enough to know better, MysticFlight_69...

Yes. I also have to think that porn women are way desensitzed. Beyond that, about ummm... Female ejaculate? How many women actually do this or have ever done it?

maybe they should add this question to the 2010 census so we can find out?

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Sigh....

if you've never done it before, you definitely have to be willing (and able) to relax, completely, or it wont happen, MysticFlight. Some people say it's best for you to try doing it yourself first, allowing yourself to get comfortable with the sensation without any fear of being embarrassed... Once you are use to the feeling and can relax, it's really nothing but a pleasurable experience. Oh. and messy! Make sure you have a towel handy!!!

Well, I read about that too - but, I can't really do it to myself. I can't reach that spot - or it would be awkward & I couldn't relax. I don't use toys so - that's out.

 

[MysticFlight_69]

Brilliant!

old enough to know better, MysticFlight_69...


maybe they should add this question to the 2010 census so we can find out?

ROTFLMAO!! That would be Awesome!