Should I settle down with a nice guy

[LadyFunkenstein]

How soon do you see it happening? Would fucking him "seal the deal?"

I don't know, won't see him again until next week as he is busy. I think it's more like, bad sex would be a deal breaker.

 

[smoothg103rd]

And what if the sex is awful the first time? Does he get another chance?

The first time you have to make a statement. If you put it down the first time it leaves room for error the other times. If it's awful the first time you might not get another chance.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

And what if the sex is awful the first time? Does he get another chance?

I don't know, won't see him again until next week as he is busy. I think it's more like, bad sex would be a deal breaker.

Hmmmm.

If the first uglies bumping is not up to snuff, maybe adopt the "three strikes" rule?

 

[Lancecastor]

This is kind of like a Warrior Queen thread, except with less cancer and more sex.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Sure there is a surplus of nice guys. Depends if you can find one that hasn't given up yet

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

That is interesting. I don't see you as overly reticent about taking things physical.

Have you maintained your interest in that with your stable, or is your interest there waning? I ask because that would be diagnostic, I think.

Nah we just haven't fucked yet. Just hasn't happened.
My stable - though my favorite has left - still remains and in fact I saw two last night. I banged a replacement for the favorite a week ago, but then it turned out that he knows Hustler Dan. Oops. (I need to hang out in a new neighborhood, I think I am about played out where I currently am)

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Hmmmm.

If the first uglies bumping is not up to snuff, maybe adopt the "three strikes" rule?

If he is a shitty lay I would probably bail. That's my guess anyway. But I doubt he is a shitty lay, or at least that would surprise me. (Will PM)

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

This is kind of like a Warrior Queen thread, except with less cancer and more sex.

Which means it is more awesome.

 

[Que]

Nah we just haven't fucked yet. Just hasn't happened.
My stable - though my favorite has left - still remains and in fact I saw two last night. I banged a replacement for the favorite a week ago, but then it turned out that he knows Hustler Dan. Oops. (I need to hang out in a new neighborhood, I think I am about played out where I currently am)

I have made that mistake. You find a productive fishing hole, you have the layout and the staff on your side, you get a bit of a positive reputation for being interesting, then you overplay your hand.

I've done that twice now.

The second place I have been hanging on to, and it is a waste of time.

Time to move on.

Funny, when I venture away because of awkwardness between who happens to be there at the same time, I find I do OK in new places, but I like knowing an environment in every detail.

 

[Lancecastor]

Which means it is more awesome.

You re always awesome.

i was being facetious/ afeces.