Should I settle down with a nice guy

[Lancecastor]

If you never find someone who fits the bill, no worries.

Funk fucks ducks ?!?

 

[Laurel]

Funk fucks ducks ?!?

No, no - she's a Bill collector.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I think I am falling for this guy who is over weight and dresses like a slob. What the fuck is happening to me?

Opposites attract for sure, but just don't make him a "project" to makeover into your image. If you start going out with him seriously, you'll influence him gradually and subconsciously, without actually having to lift a finger. Dunno how long it'll take, but people do change.

 

[Lancecastor]

No, no - she's a Bill collector.

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[Que]

I think I am falling for this guy who is over weight and dresses like a slob. What the fuck is happening to me?

Maybe that's why they call it falling. Maybe it's like tripping over someone.

One never gets that I'm falling in love feeling with someone who is instantly attractive. They're just attractive. I mean if the inevitable finally happens no one's going to say I can't believe Query fell for Heather Locklear!

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Opposites attract for sure, but just don't make him a "project" to makeover into your image. If you start going out with him seriously, you'll influence him gradually and subconsciously, without actually having to lift a finger. Dunno how long it'll take, but people do change.

As I noted earlier I don't see any point in trying to change people. I sure as fuck ain't gonna change for anyone!

I am quite certain we will start dating pretty seriously. Since it is something I don't do all that often, I can tell. He's into some pretty cool shit you would think is pretty cool too. Can't say because it is too easy to google and I don't need some Lit weirdo causing me any trouble.

 

[Noor]

I think I am falling for this guy who is over weight and dresses like a slob. What the fuck is happening to me?

You are looking beyond the superficial? Maybe he smells right?

 

[Noor]

I am quite certain we will start dating pretty seriously. Since it is something I don't do all that often, I can tell. He's into some pretty cool shit you would think is pretty cool too. Can't say because it is too easy to google and I don't need some Lit weirdo causing me any trouble.

This sounds very promising! I hope it works out well.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

You are looking beyond the superficial?

That can't be it.

 

[Noor]

That can't be it.

 

[smoothg103rd]

NOOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Que]

That can't be it.

Given that, in my view anyway, your self assessments are as brutal as the assessments you make of others, I doubt you are as superficial as you claim to be.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Given that, in my view anyway, your self assessments are as brutal as the assessments you make of others, I doubt you are as superficial as you claim to be.

I am superficial because I am shitty at relationships, in part because I am not very good at emotional bonding (might have something to do with child abuse, who knows, no point in pondering it at this stage of my life) so I always figure if it isn't going to last I may as well go for the bang and make it hot. This is turning out to be a different deal

 

[Noor]

I am superficial because I am shitty at relationships, in part because I am not very good at emotional bonding (might have something to do with child abuse, who knows, no point in pondering it at this stage of my life) so I always figure if it isn't going to last I may as well go for the bang and make it hot. This is turning out to be a different deal

Some people do that to others, somehow things turn out differently.
Or rather some combinations of people cause changes that don't happen usually.
Best of luck!

 

[Noor]

NOOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Smooth!

 

[smoothg103rd]

Hey Smooth!

How are you?

 

[Que]

I am superficial because I am shitty at relationships, in part because I am not very good at emotional bonding (might have something to do with child abuse, who knows, no point in pondering it at this stage of my life) so I always figure if it isn't going to last I may as well go for the bang and make it hot. This is turning out to be a different deal

Perhaps this is different because some aspect of his persona makes emotional bonding feel safe.

Whatever it is, I am happy that you are exploring something that sounds like growth to me.

 

[Lancecastor]

I am superficial because I am shitty at relationships, in part because I am not very good at emotional bonding (might have something to do with child abuse, who knows, no point in pondering it at this stage of my life) so I always figure if it isn't going to last I may as well go for the bang and make it hot. This is turning out to be a different deal

translation: he has a big wiener.

 

[Noor]

How are you?

Just getting over being sick for the past 10 days, but otherwise ok. How are you?

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

translation: he has a big wiener.

Wouldn't know, haven't fucked him.

 

[Noor]

Lady F, play it out even if there are some bumps, he sounds like a good guy.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Wouldn't know, haven't fucked him.

How soon do you see it happening? Would fucking him "seal the deal?"

 

[smoothg103rd]

Just getting over being sick for the past 10 days, but otherwise ok. How are you?

I'm good. Same shit different air freshener

 

[Jennifer]

How soon do you see it happening? Would fucking him "seal the deal?"

And what if the sex is awful the first time? Does he get another chance?

 

[Que]

Wouldn't know, haven't fucked him.

That is interesting. I don't see you as overly reticent about taking things physical.

Have you maintained your interest in that with your stable, or is your interest there waning? I ask because that would be diagnostic, I think.