Some Q&A For the Ladies - Fingering

[Lovepotion69]

Mmmmm.....fingering.....

Gosh, I love it! I love it when a guy goes down on me, licking all over, and then slowly inserts one finger, waits a while, then another and I love feeling his fingers inside of me.

Personally I love getting fingered hard and fast together with the man licking me at the same time. I can go on for ever like that....mmmmm....And I cum really hard that way.

I enjoy when the guy slips his fingers in unexpectantly and starts to finger me. I'll never say no to that....

 

[foxxxyred]

Re: My, what a wonderful thread...

....to bump into on a lazy Sunday evening.

Yes, I enjoy fingering enormously....and your asking what it is I enjoy has given me ause to consider it for the first time....until now I'd never wondered "why"...

Some thoughts:

Proximity:
When fingering, I can be close to your upper body in a way I can't during intercourse. I can be sitting or lying beside you, for example, in a way that isn't otherwise possible....kissing your neck, your mouth, your breasts....far more readily and comfortably.

Location:
I can finger you almost anywhere...in the car, at the vanity while you're putting on makeup, in the theatre, at a dance, in a club, at the beach...in locations where you feel like you might be seen, or heard. I'm taking you, seducing you, it's foreplay, saying "I want to get you so hot you beg for me...so you'll demand my cock inside you." I love that transitional moment....and being able to take you to the point of orgasm...and beyond....most anywhere public or semi public without any real risk of indecency charges, yet we both feel completely indecent. Plus, after two or three Finger O's (New! From Post), you're....mine.

Control:
While fingering you, half the fun is turning you on further, faster than I'm getting....I can maintain a reasonably clear , er, head, and can not only get supreme jollies from taking you over the edge while still remaining more or less calm...far more than I can after 20 or 30 or more minutes of intercourse....but during that time I'm also able to read your responses, tease you more fully, without that urgent tingling inside me that makes me lose it and race to my own pleasure, taking me away from giving you yours if you're not there already. So that if/when I do enter you, you cum like the space shuttle off the launch pad and maybe have a couple more before I pump hot cream inside you, on you...

It's Fun:
Slipping a hand down your skirt or pants as a surprise...edging a finger under your elastic for the first time...or the glorious sensation of "No panties!"...or "No hair!"...or "Wow, she IS wet! Yay!"... hearing you gasp a little as I dip inside to spread the joy around your lips...the sheer variety of ten fingers to deploy circling and tugging outer lips, inner lips, your lower vestibule, sliding up your petals, stroking your hard little shaft, a finger slipping between your front and back doors, rimming you gently, feeling you relax, a finger in back, two inside, a thumb sliding over your button...you become my pleasure puppet, my hands getting textures, sensations and slipperyness to lick and share in a way my penis cannnot replicate...it's fun!

And highly erotic. And a little bit naughty, like a high school date, late, in dad's car.

I could go on....but I think you get the point.

That's why fingering is so enjoyable for (this) guy.

Lance "10 Fingers" Castor

Where are you and why aren't you in my bed?!!

 

[Angel9476]

Re: Re: My, what a wonderful thread...

Where are you and why aren't you in my bed?!!

DITTO!
And if you don't hurry, I'll have to start without you!

 

[psyche]

Lancecaster

After that post you're going to have to set up a "Take a number" system, even though you have ten fingers you're not going to be able to handle all of us at once. I'm third in line for this one!

And do go on, it's not like we're bored. We are all ears, well maybe not all.

 

[kentp69]

Fingering............

I too love being fingered, even more than having intercourse. It's something about the exploratory nature of using fingers rather than a cock. I mean using a cock is more about his pleasure, which leads me to wonder...what is it that guys enjoy about fingering? I've never been with a guy who hasn't been anxious to push aside my panties and slide a few digits inside of me, and sometimes I find it almost amusing. I mean, is the wetness, the warmth, the illicit-ness of where he's going, the potential of putting a cock in next...what is it guys like about fingering??

The thing I like most about fingering is being able to take her juices and put them to my lips and also to her lips to share that warm and wetness. Pleasuring her to an intense orgasms and having her return the favor without intercourse.

 

[KnightWing]

Fingering

What Lance Castor said. Ditto... very much into the intense pleasure I can cause by just manipulating you with my fingers. Love to hear what you want me to do next... Not that I will, just love to hear it! Teasing is so intense, and the release afterwards the most rewarding.
Kent has a point also... the taste,,, however I usually just use my tongue along with the fingers to create a climatic experience for her and a drink for me! If she wants a taste she can then kiss me.

Wing

 

[psyche]

Re: Fingering

What Lance Castor said. Ditto... very much into the intense pleasure I can cause by just manipulating you with my fingers. Love to hear what you want me to do next... Not that I will, just love to hear it! Teasing is so intense, and the release afterwards the most rewarding.
Kent has a point also... the taste,,, however I usually just use my tongue along with the fingers to create a climatic experience for her and a drink for me! If she wants a taste she can then kiss me.

Wing

Wing,
I can almost feel it..........MmMmMmMmMm..........oh god..........

 

[DriveSouth]

You girls -

Are the best!

Thanks for all the input, keep it coming?

Seen this thread, very erotic too, maybe you've got some input for me there too:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=14828

Thanks again ladies and message me sometime - let me hear from each of you...

 

[sophieskitty]

fingers, fingers, fingers and more fingers!

Oh yes, this thread should go on forever because we all know the beauty of roaming, strking, probing fingers!!

 

[Arden]

Mmmmmmmm, fingering!

Oh yeah, I'd yield to this.

Fingering drives me wild, especially when my SO is tonguing me at the same time. (Eyes rolling back in my head, my back arching involuntarily) Then he cleans up my wetness after I cum, with his tongue, and comes up to share some of those mind-blowing, sweetest kisses... and asks me what I would like him to do to me now...

 

[Arden]

Irrelevant post deleted

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re: Mmmmmmmm, fingering!

Oh yeah, I'd yield to this.

I've been lurking around this thread for days now, and I want more, and need more!

1. Fingering drives me wild, especially when my SO is tonguing me at the same time. (Eyes rolling back in my head, my back arching involuntarily) Then he cleans up my wetness after I cum, with his tongue, and comes up to share some of those mind-blowing, sweetest kisses... and asks me what I would like him to do to me now. Raising my legs over his shoulders for a seriously hard pounding, feeling him fill me to the depths of my soul. Oh my gawd!

2. Yeah, fingering is awesome. I'd accept a vaginal massage, too, but you'd have to use a lot of massage oil and eventually let my clit in on the action. More places to be explored, too. But, wait until I beg you for it. You'll know when the time is right, I'll be trying to take your whole hand inside me, whether it fits or not. Ok, now, please! Please!

(Well, my parents always taught me to be polite and say please)

I wish my SO was was here....

Anyone have any .jpg's of fingering that they can post directly to this board?

Arden

Hi Arden,

1. Next time for a variation try one or two fingers stroking your G-spot firmly while he eats your clit firmly. Pressure the clit between his tongue and the roof of his mouth or folded back lip. It may take a little play to get either/both of the pressures correct, but it's worth the experimentation.

2. Get over to Mr Gs thread "Try this and Report Back - you may enjoy it. One of the best bits of technique that I have tried very successfully.

 

[Arden]

Don,

<1. Next time for a variation try one or two fingers stroking your G-spot firmly while he eats your clit firmly. Pressure the clit between his tongue and the roof of his mouth or folded back lip. It may take a little play to get either/both of the pressures correct, but it's worth the experimentation.

2. Get over to Mr Gs thread "Try this and Report Back - you may enjoy it. One of the best bits of technique that I have tried very successfully. >

Wow! I'm flattered that such a handsome specimen as yourself would reply. Too bad you're in Australia, I'd love to have you as a practice partner. <grin>

I've lurked about at Mr. G's thread too. I really like the part where he says to "hold her down." Something very attractive about being pinned down, helpless, while playtime proceeds...

Today's my birthday. My birthday wish is to try out all of the above with my guy. To bad he lives out of state.

Arden

 

[psyche]

restraint

Originally posted by Arden

I've lurked about at Mr. G's thread too. I really like the part where he says to "hold her down." Something very attractive about being pinned down, helpless, while playtime proceeds...

I also noticed that statement about being held down. There is something very erotic about being held down, tied up or restrained in some way!!!!

 

[Arden]

More

Don, just curious. Do men really enjoy fingering as much as we women do, or do you guys do it just to see how far you can drive us to the brink of madness?

Fingers are so nice, sneaking in and roaming around... Especially when he doesn't know how excited I truly am...

 

[Arden]

Re: restraint

I also noticed that statement about being held down. There is something very erotic about being held down, tied up or restrained in some way!!!!

Oh my...

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re: More

Don, just curious. Do men really enjoy fingering as much as we women do, or do you guys do it just to see how far you can drive us to the brink of madness?

Fingers are sooooo nice, sneaking in and roaming around, finding out how wet I am. Especially when he doesn't know how excited I truly am. Surprise!

I can get very, very wet just by holding hands as I walk with my guy. Excitement is such a mental thing. I'm so happy I've been blessed with the gift of a lusty mind .

Hi Arden, Happy Birthday !! Oz is a fair distance, but definitely worth the trip. Thank you.

When you are receiving your birthday present from your man, just take your time to learn the pleasures. It will take time for him to learn the necessary pressures, to get the technique for flicking your clit with his tongue against the back of his teeth, and most importantly, for you to handle the rushes.

Probably best to get warmed up before starting the new technique, and fingers are excellent, especially when they find the hidden treasures of the G-spot and A-spot. Contrary to many of the textbooks, there are other pleasure spots and places, probably created by stimulation of other nerves through the vagina wall. One example is the front vaginal wall.

As for fingering, I can only speak from personal experience, and I get a real charge when my lady is thrashing about, groaning repeatedly, thrusting her hips wildly and cumming gallons. She has an almost limitless capacity and appetite for this foreplay. The consequence is that when she slows down to catch her breath she is very, VERY HORNY - and THAT leads to all sorts of male orientated pleasures. So there is reciprocal pleasuring.

As a male I really appreciate knowing how a woman is feeling during pleasure. The are many distractions from the necessary focus for ecstasy and while a male becomes attuned to his lady's responses, I believe nothing beats a vocal response appropriate to the intensity of stimulation. If he is pleasuring you correctly, let him know with your aural responses. Similarly, if he is doing it wrong, tell him, otherwise the technique will not improve.

Enjoy your birthday present, your man is very lucky to have a lady who ignores the social inhibitions and ventures forward wanting to explore the potential hidden away in her body. Teach him what works for you and together you will achieve your goal. Sensuality is a fun thing, so enjoy it.

Don

 

[Arden]

It sounds like...

your lady is very lucky to have you, Don.

Looking forward to celebrating my birthday at the end of next month, with my most favorite gentleman friend...

In the mean time, would you mind if I sat on your lap for a minute or two?

Arden

 

[Arden]

Fingering Scenario

I just posted a reply to ScottyBGood, who asked about how to have penetrative sex with his girl for the first time, on another thread. Scotty was concerned because of his size, and I thought instantly of a wonderful fingering scenario that he might follow. Go figure. <wink>

Anyone who enjoys the pleasures of fingering might like the lengthy post I left for him.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=93100

I didn't get into g spots with him, on purpose, since his goal was to simply give her _her_ wish of being filled for the first time.

Hope you all enjoy it.

 

[psyche]

Re: restraint

Oh yeah! I've always wanted to try out my fantasy of being tied, spread-eagled to the bed, a pillow under my butt. Blindfolded would be nice, too. Combine these with fingering my g-spot while having my clit tantalized by an experienced tongue would surely give me a glimpse of heaven!

You should try it, for me it is one of the best sexual experiences. There is something about not having any control that drives me wild, although my lover has no problem doing that anyway! Any type of restraints work, I have used old ties and bath robe belts both of which are nice and soft. By the time we are done my wrists are sore and my shoulders ache from the trashing around - every bit worth the wonderful experience. The negative side is that you can't touch him while he is driving you wild, but you can always do it without the restraints another time.

 

[Arden]

Re: Re: restraint

You should try it, for me it is one of the best sexual experiences. There is something about not having any control that drives me wild, although my lover has no problem doing that anyway! Any type of restraints work, I have used old ties and bath robe belts both of which are nice and soft. By the time we are done my wrists are sore and my shoulders ache from the trashing around - every bit worth the wonderful experience. The negative side is that you can't touch him while he is driving you wild, but you can always do it without the restraints another time.

Psyche, I'm so jealous! <grin>

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re: Re: restraint

You should try it, for me it is one of the best sexual experiences. There is something about not having any control that drives me wild, although my lover has no problem doing that anyway! Any type of restraints work, I have used old ties and bath robe belts both of which are nice and soft. By the time we are done my wrists are sore and my shoulders ache from the trashing around - every bit worth the wonderful experience. The negative side is that you can't touch him while he is driving you wild, but you can always do it without the restraints another time.

Think I need a real life demo, Psyche. I always have trouble getting the straps right. Last girlfriend got them untied and being very excited, ripped my back like a set of farm harrows until she was satisfied - some time later heheheheheh

 

[Don K Dyck]

Re: It sounds like...

your lady is very lucky to have you, Don.

Looking forward to celebrating my birthday at the end of next month, with my most favorite gentleman friend...

In the mean time, would you mind if I sat on your lap for a minute or two?

Arden

I'd be pleasured, Arden heheheheheh

 

[Arden]

Re: Re: It sounds like...

In the mean time, would you mind if I sat on your lap for a minute or two?

I'd be pleasured, Arden heheheheheh

Thanks for the warm thoughts, Don. Such a pleasant way to start the day.

 

[psyche]

Re: restraint

Think I need a real life demo, Psyche. I always have trouble getting the straps right. Last girlfriend got them untied and being very excited, ripped my back like a set of farm harrows until she was satisfied - some time later heheheheheh

Anytime, Don! It might just take some practice though to get it just right! Not too tight, not too loose, and you're right you better hope that I don't get loose when you have me tied up. I won't be responsible for my behavior!