Some Q&A For the Ladies - Fingering

[likes_to_purr]

oh my god....

When I was a senior in highschool, I had a guitar playing boyfriend with large elegant hands....his hands and fingers were so agile...sigh...we would sit in his car and he would rub my pussy through my underwear till it was soaked. I would then straddle him-both of us still sitting up, his back against the seat. And while kissing me, he would flick his fingers around my panties and enter me...just his first two fingers inside and his thumb rubbing my clit...gave me a wild orgasm everytime...and then I would undo his pants, mount his released cock and ride him till we both came. Haven't been fingered like that since...sigh...

 

[marksgirl]

Oh yea, fingering is great. I love it when my hubby is reading a sexy story from the Literotica story board and I come in and he asks me to disrobe and set beside him so he can finger me while hes reading. Gets us both really charged up! Try it, you will really get off doing it this way!

 

[SallyIsHere]

When I was a sophomore in college, I went to the library with by boyfriend. We sat at a table in the book stacks on the third floor.
I was wearing loose running shorts. He sat on my right and slid his fingers under the legs of my shorts and caressed my panties until I was soooooo wet. Then he slid his fingers under my panties, oh my god. He was writing with his right hand and teasing me with his left fingers. He turned his notebook to me and has written, "Your pussy is so wet and my cock is so hard. Any ideas?" I came almost immediately. Nice memory.

Sally

 

[DriveSouth]

It's been too long-

Bump

 

[calypso_21]

Fingering? Hmmm

Hmmm.

All these replies reminded me of the best fingering I'd ever had.

 

[alphacat]

vaginal orgasms

To whoever asked this way back (I'm reading this thread for the first time) - it is completely possible for a woman to orgasm from just fingering.... mmmm... I love that so much. I think it depends on the woman though - my girlfriend doesn't like being fingered - she only likes me putting my fingers (and usually just one) about a half-inch into her. But me, on the other hand.... I LOVE being fingered... anytime, anywhere, with almost anyone... And yes, there is a difference between a clitoral and vaginal orgasm. I find the first to be fun and really easy... the second takes more work (it's hard to do it to yourself) but is so worth it.... mmm. Yum. Now I'm all horny.

 

[1fiestyredhead]

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[rexfelis]

My, my what deliciously naughty memories... Absolutely nothing as sensually naughty as being at a movie or intimate restaurant and my man running his hand up past the thigh high stockings to push my panties aside and gently fingering my clit before pushing a finger or two into what has become my very wet pussy. His way of letting me know that he has plans for later ....

Oh how I enjoy doing that. Thanks for the memories.

*fondly reminiscing*

Mmmmmmmm

I miss being naughty. I miss having someone to be naughty with...

 

[TantaLiza]

Memories...

Saw this thread and had a major flashback...had a crush on a busboy at a local resturant/bar...it was my birthday and he took me to a little "hall" type room between the bar and the resturant...for my birthday "kiss" he said...we ended up gettin hot an heavy right there with people walking back and forth past us...shoved into a corner we devoured each other's mouths and he pushed my skirt up to my hips...he slipped his fingers under my thong that I was wearing with a garter and stockings ....WOW...now that was a hot Italian man! Definitely a good memory for those long lonely nights....

Also liked it when my ex and I were cuddlin under a blanket on the couch...didn't matter if there was anyone else in the room or not... ...it led to some wonderful sex shortly after that...mmmmm

Hugs to all!!

Liza

 

[gottabebi]

Fingers........

My man has the most beautiful, thick, long strong fingers!!!!!!! He knows just what to do. He gets me all worked up and then he inserts his index and middle finger in while I am on my back and he stimulates my G-Spot. I instantly drench his hands. He makes me squirts. Never misses. He is the most outstanding lover I have ever had. There is no way that I could let him do that to me in public, because I squirt so much. Now after reading one of the posts, I bare down as well and oooooooo what a hot gush. It's incredible.

I like him to finger me as he eats me, but especially during anal. It is soooooooooooo good. The feeling is indescribable.

 

[yuppietowngirl]

Absoulutely love it.

Love it when my lover fingers me while we are driving...he is driving and I am squirming. Public is always a turn on

 

[Wintermute]

My, my what deliciously naughty memories... Absolutely nothing as sensually naughty as being at a movie or intimate restaurant and my man running his hand up past the thigh high stockings to push my panties aside and gently fingering my clit before pushing a finger or two into what has become my very wet pussy. His way of letting me know that he has plans for later ....

I'll have to remember that for later.



Wintermute

 

[WickedAsianBabe]

While lover is eating me out, he cups my ass with his hand (mmm, just getting all wet thinking about it), presses his thumb against my lips all the while still licking my clit. Sometimes he'll insert his middle finger into my ass and I'll cum like you wouldn't believe.

Damn, he's outta town for a week. Ahem, could I get a volunteer here to do this to me (she asks shyly)?

 

[Wintermute]

While lover is eating me out, he cups my ass with his hand (mmm, just getting all wet thinking about it), presses his thumb against my lips all the while still licking my clit. Sometimes he'll insert his middle finger into my ass and I'll cum like you wouldn't believe.

Damn, he's outta town for a week. Ahem, could I get a volunteer here to do this to me (she asks shyly)?

Wow! How ironic! That's *exactly* how I like to eat pussy.

Yummmy. I love the taste of a women's jucies running over my tongue and covering my face and running down my neck and chest. I get hard just thinking about it.



Wintermute

 

[liloleme]

Mmmm. Memories......

Wow does this thread ever bring back memories....

A few summers ago, my friend organized a camping trip for his birthday, about twenty of us sitting around a campfire all night.

His older brother kindly got me a blanket to sit under. After sharing it with me for a while, he slipped his hand underneath my shorts and began fingering me. God that man had great fingers....

All the while sitting back having a conversation with his brother... I don't know how he did it, there was no way I could concentrate on anything else...

*sigh*

I just may have to try to track him down.....


Also... nothing is more of a turn on than my man fingering me and rubbing my gspot while I play with my clit...

Mmmm...

 

[mtnwriter]

I like it done in a slow, naughty, way. To have his fingers pull my panties aside and play with my clit. Then to feel his finger(s) sink deep in my pussy. I prefer it in a public place where only he and I know what's taking place.

How about going out minus your panties and then spreading your legs so the guy at the next table can get a good look?

 

[BustyImp]

fingering - the more the better

lay me on my back, spread me eagle, and start ramming those fingers in one by one until you can't get anymore in.

Then I like it hard and fast.

Then take a little ky and start on my ass....

 

[Pdxmwm]

Inspiration and Memories..

Here's a first draft glimpse; after a bit more polishing, I'll post this story.

There you were, sitting next to me in an open white carriage, being pulled by a single horse with a gleaming black coat. The horseman was dressed quite formally, and was seated forward, leaving us to enjoy the scenery and each other.

The sun had set, and an evening chill was in the air; you had a shawl around your shoulders, and we shared a lap blanket. As we rode through the park we could see the city lights reflecting on the river, and hear music flowing from an unseen source.

You were snuggled close, and I could feel the warmth radiating from your thigh to mine. There was a grin on your face, and a glint in your eyes, as I realized you were unfettered by undergarments of any type. My hand was between your legs, and you were so very warm; I relished touching you, feeling your warmth and moisture that slowly formed. I held my hand there, rubbing you gently as the horse walked along. You closed your eyes, and let your head fall to my shoulder.

Your smile grew wider, and I could feel moisture flow as your lips became swollen; slowly I parted your lips and let my finger explore the valley in between. You sighed as I brushed your clitoris, and held it gently between my fingers.

The smoothly paved pathway gave way to the cobble stone streets of Old Town; the carriage bounced and vibrated as the steel rimmed wheels rolled from cobble to cobble. Though I held my hand still, the vibrations from the wheels reverberated through my arm, and through my hand, and through my fingers, and into the delightful nub I was holding.

From block to block we moved along, some streets being a bit smoother, others a bit rougher. I could see the muscles near your jaw tighten on the rougher stretches, and then relax slightly when the carriage stopped, or rolled along a smoother street.

The look on your face was priceless as you struggled to maintain control; I wanted you at that moment and you wanted me, and yet we were in the middle of the city, in an open carriage, with dozens of people on the streets and sidewalks nearby.

Old Town gave way to China Town, with lanterns dangling and dragons reaching for us as we passed beneath.

The cobbles became larger and the vibrations more intense. I could feel the folds of your lips surround my finger and a little shudder ripple through your body. No longer was I still, my finger pulsating and lightly flicking your clitoris; another ripple and then a third, and then with a groan, your thighs tightened, locking my hand in place, forcing it to be still.

By now we were headed back to the park; you had relaxed some, regained your composure, and were snuggled very close. It was darker now and peaceful as we rode along the river. The gentle sounds of moving water, mixed with the rhythmic clomp of the horse’s hooves. You bent close and whispered in my ear “I’ll get even with you for tonight, when you least expect it, I’ll get even.”
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[DriveSouth]

past time -

to bump this hot threead...

 

[Angel9476]

Such a naughty idea. Such naughty memories of sneaking a feel, sneaking fingers into panties. Sneaking legs apart, sneaking, probing ...

Ladies, do you like to be fingered? If so, how? When? While being licked and sucked and tongued? Or from behind as he has you pinned against the bed, pinned against a wall.

So ladies - your feelings, wants, desires, fantasies involving fingering?

Great thread and it should be kept going!

Fingering is about my favorite thing, maybe because that's where my sexual experiences started. Just Love to have fingers running circles around my clit, or being finger fucked while the gentlemen licks and suck my clit. Even when being fucked from behind I love being fingered, and my nipples played with. My most favorite is in a public but discreet area (club, restaurant, movies etc.) He reaches under my skirt and just runs a finger up and down my wet and hungry slit, occasionally dipping a finger inside, drives me wild. And there were times where I'd have to start the play by reaching into his pants, and you know he never did complain.

Basically I love to be kissed passionately while feeling my lovers fingers teasing, and pleasing my pussy. Makes me so wet and hot!

Dammmn! just thinking about it makes me so HOT mmmmmmmmmm

 

[GlitterJezebel]

I LOVE to be fingered. It feels amazing. The guy I'm with now is an awful tease, though. We'll lay there in bed. He'll start to kiss me. Pretty soon I'll notice that he is lightly rubbing my pussy through my panties. He'll start to kiss me all the way down to my pussy, and then stop. He spreads my legs, and traces the outside of my lips with one of his fingers. That gets me SO wet. Knowing that it's so close, but not there yet. Then, he'll stick one fingertip in my pussy, and slowly glide up until he gets to my clit. This drives me nuts. He keeps getting that one finger in deeper and deeper until I'm soaking wet. He usually fingers me with 3 of his fingers, and plays with my clit with his other hand or his mouth. I've never been able to cum with just fingers. Whether they are my own or someone elses. It gets to the point where I'm screaming "Fuck me already!!!" Sometimes he does when I ask, but sometimes he teases me some more. It's so amazing, but so frustrating at the same time.

Whew, I'm making myself all hot.

 

[ariatemple]

I love it when I'm least expecting it. When I'm getting dressed to go out and he comes up behind me and starts to rub through my panties until I get a bit wet, which never takes long, and then he slides a finger or two up my cunt just to tease me. This way I always feel turned on and ready for anything.

 

[peggylynn]

I too love being fingered, even more than having intercourse. It's something about the exploratory nature of using fingers rather than a cock. I mean using a cock is more about his pleasure, which leads me to wonder...what is it that guys enjoy about fingering? I've never been with a guy who hasn't been anxious to push aside my panties and slide a few digits inside of me, and sometimes I find it almost amusing. I mean, is the wetness, the warmth, the illicit-ness of where he's going, the potential of putting a cock in next...what is it guys like about fingering??

 

[Lancecastor]

My, what a wonderful thread...

....to bump into on a lazy Sunday evening.

Yes, I enjoy fingering enormously....and your asking what it is I enjoy has given me ause to consider it for the first time....until now I'd never wondered "why"...

Some thoughts:

Proximity:
When fingering, I can be close to your upper body in a way I can't during intercourse. I can be sitting or lying beside you, for example, in a way that isn't otherwise possible....kissing your neck, your mouth, your breasts....far more readily and comfortably.

Location:
I can finger you almost anywhere...in the car, at the vanity while you're putting on makeup, in the theatre, at a dance, in a club, at the beach...in locations where you feel like you might be seen, or heard. I'm taking you, seducing you, it's foreplay, saying "I want to get you so hot you beg for me...so you'll demand my cock inside you." I love that transitional moment....and being able to take you to the point of orgasm...and beyond....most anywhere public or semi public without any real risk of indecency charges, yet we both feel completely indecent. Plus, after two or three Finger O's (New! From Post), you're....mine.

Control:
While fingering you, half the fun is turning you on further, faster than I'm getting....I can maintain a reasonably clear , er, head, and can not only get supreme jollies from taking you over the edge while still remaining more or less calm...far more than I can after 20 or 30 or more minutes of intercourse....but during that time I'm also able to read your responses, tease you more fully, without that urgent tingling inside me that makes me lose it and race to my own pleasure, taking me away from giving you yours if you're not there already. So that if/when I do enter you, you cum like the space shuttle off the launch pad and maybe have a couple more before I pump hot cream inside you, on you...

It's Fun:
Slipping a hand down your skirt or pants as a surprise...edging a finger under your elastic for the first time...or the glorious sensation of "No panties!"...or "No hair!"...or "Wow, she IS wet! Yay!"... hearing you gasp a little as I dip inside to spread the joy around your lips...the sheer variety of ten fingers to deploy circling and tugging outer lips, inner lips, your lower vestibule, sliding up your petals, stroking your hard little shaft, a finger slipping between your front and back doors, rimming you gently, feeling you relax, a finger in back, two inside, a thumb sliding over your button...you become my pleasure puppet, my hands getting textures, sensations and slipperyness to lick and share in a way my penis cannnot replicate...it's fun!

And highly erotic. And a little bit naughty, like a high school date, late, in dad's car.

I could go on....but I think you get the point.

That's why fingering is so enjoyable for (this) guy.

Lance "10 Fingers" Castor

 

[psyche]

fingers!!

There have been some great posts on this thread. In addition to agreeing with most of them and the wonderful pleasure of fingers, I also associate fingering with a non-consent fantasy. The guy (usually a cop for me) touches and gropes me, and then reaches into my panties, slips his fingers into me and finds me drenched to the point that he could fuck me right there and then. I have no resistance and when he sticks his fingers into me he knows.