Spenser's Irish Pub

[Spenser41]

Sorry about your mom.

Atkins is simular in the it recommends eating and doing healthy snacking between meals.
I have a friend who has server diabeties. After reading Atkins book he deceided to do the diet. What was a real shock, was his Dr was against it until she checked his blood sugars. This man is very healthy and works out an hour every day. He is built like a body builder. Because of this diet, he is no longer taking insulin. The doctor says his blood sugar is like a normal persons.
Pretty amazing. Now he is more strick on the diet then I am but it is amazing.

The only reason I did this was because my body was major out of whack and I was looking at a major heart attack. Things are much better now.. I am healthier then I have been in years. It is funny, I have been 200 pds or more since 1986. Last year was the first time I was below 200 and have stayed at 190 for 6 months or more.

Ok enough of the diet stuff... lol....
someone get me a cinnamon roll!

 

[tonitits]

Re: Sorry about your mom.

Atkins is simular in the it recommends eating and doing healthy snacking between meals.
I have a friend who has server diabeties. After reading Atkins book he deceided to do the diet. What was a real shock, was his Dr was against it until she checked his blood sugars. This man is very healthy and works out an hour every day. He is built like a body builder. Because of this diet, he is no longer taking insulin. The doctor says his blood sugar is like a normal persons.
Pretty amazing. Now he is more strick on the diet then I am but it is amazing.

The only reason I did this was because my body was major out of whack and I was looking at a major heart attack. Things are much better now.. I am healthier then I have been in years. It is funny, I have been 200 pds or more since 1986. Last year was the first time I was below 200 and have stayed at 190 for 6 months or more.

Ok enough of the diet stuff... lol....


someone get me a cinnamon roll!

Passing you a couple of cinnamon rolls,lol. that is great. So now we have talked about movies, your love of music and diets, what's next?

 

[Spenser41]

New Topic

Ok
Ladies... here is your chance. Tell us men, just want is it that we need to do to make you feel desired. What turns you on, and what turns you off. Of course I know the stupid things some guys say like... you want to fuck? Or are you in the mood?
I am not talking about that. But if you were with someone and they wanted to have sex, what would they need to do to get you in the mood and what foreplay gets you everytime.
Tell us guys so we can do a better job of pleasing you.
(yes I know not all women are the same... but just some general ideas to help us dumb men)

 

[anniebug]

1. a meal she doesn't have to prepare or clean up

2. soft lights

3. candles

4. bubble bath

5. massage

6. champagne

7. good music

8. chocolate

9. classy perfume

10. clean sheets

11. kids out of the house

12. phone, beeper etc. turned off

13. sexy nightie (for her not you)

I know there's more...just let me think.

 

[Spenser41]

1. a meal she doesn't have to prepare or clean up

2. soft lights

3. candles

4. bubble bath

5. massage

6. champagne

7. good music

8. chocolate

9. classy perfume

10. clean sheets

11. kids out of the house

12. phone, beeper etc. turned off

13. sexy nightie (for her not you)

I know there's more...just let me think.

That is a very good start... Thank Annie! Ladies any more thoughts out there?

 

[Spenser41]

Yes that is the Real Me in the AV

That is my newer size. 190 so far and hope to be 180 in the next month or two and that is where I will stop.

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Yes that is the Real Me in the AV

That is my newer size. 190 so far and hope to be 180 in the next month or two and that is where I will stop.

Looking Good Spenser..

to add onto what annie has said

1.some toys (well hidden of course)
2.whispering in my ear ( a sucker for a soft voice)
3.a shower for 2 ( contributed by my sweety)
4.soft nibbles on my neck...
5.long ,slow sensuous kisses

 

[MindFire]

Spencer your going great guns im so pleased for you...

as to the diets hell the whole world is on one some sliming
thing or another.. Girls we are never going to be a size 4 again
settle for a nice 10 or 12 or 14.. we arent Models.
were average women Im an RN and most ladies are
12. and look quite nice..

have the cheese cake..
hugs all around
mindy

 

[Spenser41]

Spencer your going great guns im so pleased for you...

as to the diets hell the whole world is on one some sliming
thing or another.. Girls we are never going to be a size 4 again
settle for a nice 10 or 12 or 14.. we arent Models.
were average women Im an RN and most ladies are
12. and look quite nice..

have the cheese cake..
hugs all around
mindy

Mind, I have never been a man that likes thin women. I perfer a more natural woman. And you are right... women are normally 12-18 size. And I am just happy with that. For many years I was a size 28-32 waist. Then after I hit late 30s I went to 38-44 and was a 44 for many years. Now that I a 40 again and getting closer to 38, I am a happy camper. For one, clothes are cheaper... lol

 

[Spenser41]

Re: Re: Yes that is the Real Me in the AV

Looking Good Spenser..

to add onto what annie has said

1.some toys (well hidden of course)
2.whispering in my ear ( a sucker for a soft voice)
3.a shower for 2 ( contributed by my sweety)
4.soft nibbles on my neck...
5.long ,slow sensuous kisses

Dream... those sound very nice and thanks again so much for adding to the list. I hope the guys are taking notes. I know I am!

 

[tonitits]

Spencer your going great guns im so pleased for you...

as to the diets hell the whole world is on one some sliming
thing or another.. Girls we are never going to be a size 4 again
settle for a nice 10 or 12 or 14.. we arent Models.
were average women Im an RN and most ladies are
12. and look quite nice..

have the cheese cake..
hugs all around
mindy

glad to hear that! I need to lose some weight and tone up. Would love to have a tummy tuck. But I used to want to get back down to 100 lbs. my mom told me you will never be like that again and if you happen to get your weight down that small, you still would not be the same, because you have had a child and your body is different now. I would like to get back into a 12, my real goal is a size 10. I don't think I need to be smaller than that.
I, and most men I have talked to(with the exception of a few), like a woman with a little meat on their bones.

 

[tonitits]

Mind, I have never been a man that likes thin women. I perfer a more natural woman. And you are right... women are normally 12-18 size. And I am just happy with that. For many years I was a size 28-32 waist. Then after I hit late 30s I went to 38-44 and was a 44 for many years. Now that I a 40 again and getting closer to 38, I am a happy camper. For one, clothes are cheaper... lol

well according to yours I am normal, yeah! I am probably a 14/16
somewhere in between.

 

[tonitits]

Annie and Dream have come up with alot of great ideas. I like a nice quite dinner, candlelit, flowers or potpourri and candles to scent the air. A man paying attention to me, I get embarassed real easy and don't like everyone looking at me (that kind of attention) but to have a man show he cares about me, what I am saying...major brownie points. Then him nibbling on my ear, soft kisses on the neck and making me feel that I am the most beautiful woman in the world. I love to shower with him and then have a nice whole body massage and slow and tender love making. Sometimes both are needing it so bad that you want to "fuck my brains out" sex but then slow,tender, love making is the best. I love to please him and love a man who wants to please and puts my desires first. Of course, I am going to make sure that his are met!

 

[Spenser41]

glad to hear that! I need to lose some weight and tone up. Would love to have a tummy tuck. But I used to want to get back down to 100 lbs. my mom told me you will never be like that again and if you happen to get your weight down that small, you still would not be the same, because you have had a child and your body is different now. I would like to get back into a 12, my real goal is a size 10. I don't think I need to be smaller than that.
I, and most men I have talked to(with the exception of a few), like a woman with a little meat on their bones.

Toni, I agree... we will never have the bodies we had as in our 20s. However, I do not want the body I had back then... LOL I was way too skinny. And your right I perfer a woman with meat on her.

 

[SweetBrie]

Hello Spense, Toni, Mindy, Dream and Annie.

On the current topic, right now I have no ideas to add but if I think of something I will come back and add it.

 

[~Dream~]

glad to hear that! I need to lose some weight and tone up. Would love to have a tummy tuck. But I used to want to get back down to 100 lbs. my mom told me you will never be like that again and if you happen to get your weight down that small, you still would not be the same, because you have had a child and your body is different now. I would like to get back into a 12, my real goal is a size 10. I don't think I need to be smaller than that.
I, and most men I have talked to(with the exception of a few), like a woman with a little meat on their bones.

I used to be able to get in 7/8 size pants but no more ..esp AFTER having 4 children so ...ya know ..

however i amstill guess at like 27-30 when ppl 1st meet me and that makes me feel really good cause i think your attitude makes you feel and look healthy as well

 

[tonitits]

Hello Spense, Toni, Mindy, Dream and Annie.

On the current topic, right now I have no ideas to add but if I think of something I will come back and add it.

Good morning Brie! Hope all is well with you. (((((((((Brie)))))))))

 

[tonitits]

I used to be able to get in 7/8 size pants but no more ..esp AFTER having 4 children so ...ya know ..

however i amstill guess at like 27-30 when ppl 1st meet me and that makes me feel really good cause i think your attitude makes you feel and look healthy as well

Well I am going to be 45 shortly and most of the time ppl guess my age to be in my 30's. I think I have aged alot since my mom died and too tired, having some health problems and don't really bother putting on makeup, except when going somewhere special. But when I put the makeup on, I have always preferred the natural look even with makeup, and rinse out the gray hairs that want to pop up way too much, then I think I still look younger than my age. I run into ppl I went to school with and they look so much older than me! lol. But one thing I like about AA, is that he doesn't care what this outside body looks like. He loves the woman inside. I sent him a pic right after we met here and he has it on his visor of his truck, so wherever he goes I am right there with him. He thinks I am beautiful. I don't think so but like the old saying goes "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

 

[Spenser41]

Hello Spense, Toni, Mindy, Dream and Annie.

On the current topic, right now I have no ideas to add but if I think of something I will come back and add it.

Brie
Thanks for popping in and thanks for the post. I am sure you will think of something good..

 

[Spenser41]

I used to be able to get in 7/8 size pants but no more ..esp AFTER having 4 children so ...ya know ..

however i amstill guess at like 27-30 when ppl 1st meet me and that makes me feel really good cause i think your attitude makes you feel and look healthy as well

Dream I so agree with you about attitude. I have meet some women who are large but have the best attitudes and can be very sexy at times as well.... it is all attitude!

 

[Spenser41]

Well I am going to be 45 shortly and most of the time ppl guess my age to be in my 30's. I think I have aged alot since my mom died and too tired, having some health problems and don't really bother putting on makeup, except when going somewhere special. But when I put the makeup on, I have always preferred the natural look even with makeup, and rinse out the gray hairs that want to pop up way too much, then I think I still look younger than my age. I run into ppl I went to school with and they look so much older than me! lol. But one thing I like about AA, is that he doesn't care what this outside body looks like. He loves the woman inside. I sent him a pic right after we met here and he has it on his visor of his truck, so wherever he goes I am right there with him. He thinks I am beautiful. I don't think so but like the old saying goes "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

Toni,
You know I don't think I have ever seen you but I have seen your heart. And I know that your heart is one of the sweetiest on line.
I am sure to your guy you are sweet, cariing, sexy and beautiful.
Somehow the heart makes the outside beautiful and if he has seen what mean have seen on here... then he is looking at a very beautiful woman. And again... happy birthday.

 

[Spenser41]

My daughter

Well Ladies now I need some help in an area I am not to sure how to respond.
My middle one is getting married..(both 22 yrs old) later this month. He is alright and nice guy, but they are both dreamers and not very well planted in the realities of life. She has had a better record of holding down a job and being the together one. Since she has meet this guy and fallen in love, her common sense has kind of gone out the window. He can not seem to keep a job. (what is it with most of the kids today? They do not feel a job is that big a deal or tend to not be very responsible.) She is and has had her job for some time until for health reasons she had to quit. Carpile Tunnel (sorry for the bad spelling).
To show you how wishy they have been, the wedding is the end of this month and they finally found a place to have it last week. And they have been planning this for a year!
Anyway... I know there is not much I can say or do, and I will be on the best of my behavior.
I love my girl and adore her to pieces. I am just praying I will keep my mouth shut and just let this be her day and be there for her the best I can. This is her choice and she has to learn from her mistakes. Both of them do... But as a dad... I just want to hold her and protect her and I guess that is not going to be my job anymore...
She and I have a great realtionship and she even wrote to me in an email last year and said I was her hero...
So.... ladies, if you were my princess... what would you want from your dad on that day. (Yes I know.. No lectures from Dad... LOL)
And how do I keep from crying like a baby....

 

[Missingmeds]

You cry like a baby and just be there. If she needs you, you will be the first to know.

 

[MindFire]

missing meds is right

get your self good and drunk.. cry of course.. real loud..
make a right fool of your self and then
the next day recant it all..

she will never be out of your life shes your daughter..
and no one will match you.. ever..

 

[Missingmeds]

I'm a daddy's girl, I know these things...