Str8 males and bi sex

[Amazing_One]

No

I consider myself to be 100% straight, but I have had fantasies of being with other men - although the idea of actually doing anything is totally 'NO WAY' for me. The way it enters my fantasies is through my submissive side where I imagine my girlfriend bringing home a guy and forcing me to perform sexual acts with him.

 

[EarnestImp]

on the subject of str8 males and bi sex....

isn't there some saying among gay men that every straight male is just a few drinks away from being bi?

i have a good friend who says that he is attracted only to females but has recurring fantasies about being well and thoroughly buggered.

My friend wants to know if there are others like him, and if this sort of thing worked out. He also wants to know if gay men get off on doing this to str8s (see above saying).

 

[krspy2001]

I am a str8 male but lately i have been fantasizing about this bi thing quite a bit

 

[cheftell]

Cann't agree more with this thread, I've had these fantasies for a long time off and on.... It seems as though since I've gotten into my forties (44) that it has gotten stronger.... After 2 marriages and some rocky friendships with women since the last divorce that I really want to test these waters. I still love looking at and being with women but I just seem to have this need to explore this more and have lately been trying to making this happen.

 

[skinnylust]

I'm considered str8 I guess, but i've been wanting to try sucking cock. I guess i'm bi-curios.

anyway, like one of you guys mentioned, you are picky about the looks of your prospective partner, I on the other hand do not care about looks at all, the only thing i am attracted to is BIG cocks.

I suppose i'm a size queen. i have an average size cock, I dont want to suck an average size cock, i want to experience" BIG"

It would'nt have to be long, just very thick. I dont want it up my ass, or my cock sucked, I just want to cherish a fat cock.

I dont even want to look at the guy, just his big dick.

does anyone feel like this?

 

[EarnestImp]

The funny thing is that I have zero
desire for sucking cock. Absolute zilch.
In fact, it kinda grosses me out, as does the
thought of kissing a guy.

The only fantasy that does it for me is
the the thought of being thoroughly
sodomized.

Generally, the pattern seems to be
that str8 males with bi fantasies
fantasize about playing the passive role.

Is the opposite very uncommon?

 

[Thin Man]

 

[teenhustler69]

BI about to happen

Hi all,

I am about to fulfill my fantasy about sucking another guys cock on tuesday, i met this guy after posting a request on a yahoo group, not sure if i will be able to go through with it, but i am determined to hold and suck and swallow if this guy lets me...,
it will be his first time as well so it should be ok...,


my fantasy i wud like fulfilled is to have a man fuck my arse and cum in my arse,


anyway will let u all know

 

[His Whimsicality]

Then I can only hope that you´ve also got fantasies of getting nasty stds...

 

[stone3365]

Bi Curious

Several years ago I let this older dude I worked with suck my cock
a few times, and I enjoyed it very much. I never offered to suck him, he seemed perfectly content jerking himself off, while he sucked me, so things never went any further. Now after all these years, I fantasize about sucking a cock quite often. I'm not looking for a relationship, I have a lady in my life, and she is aware of my feelings. The truth is, she is very turned on by the thought of me and another guy sucking each others cock, and would like to watch if it were ever to take place. Something about a hard cock really turns me on. Whenever I watch a porno, I find myself watching the guys cock to see how hard it is, while he's getting sucked or fucking some chick. The urge to experiment with this gets stronger every day, and sucking a hard cock comes to mind when I masturbate. Maybe some day things will fall in to place and become reality instead of fantasy.

 

[Thin Man]

Stone, Great minds

 

[Claypool_84]

You are not alone on this one at all...Lately when I really get myself going the only thing on my mind is a cock in my mouth. I've tried cumming in my mouth, but for some reason just before I cum (we're talking a second or two before), I get a lil grossed out by it. I guess the only way to handle that situation is to find someone elses cock to suck!

 

[krspy2001]

I am glad i started this thread...i thought maybe i was screwed up in the head. i see that my fantasies are very common among str8 males. i will continue to check on this thread daily

 

[krspy2001]

seems like i want to try this more each day

 

[krspy2001]

looking forward to doing this

 

["angel" eve]

whoa....

little did i know there were so many bi-curious guys out there.

i think it might be something that comes about later in life, after you're done proving to your buds that yeah, you like girls, you're strait, you can fuck a girl silly if you want to... maybe more of an aquired desire?

i'm just speculating... cuz i've talked to a number of guys, good friends, guys online. they know i'm bi... they talk about their sexuality, they mention the little things that they wouldn't say if they were posing, because they're putting themself up for criticism already, and still... the idea of a cock that isn't their own seems to squick them.

do you think this might be an aquired taste? this idea fascinates me, and i'd really like to learn more about how guys feel.

 

[stone3365]

For me, I guess this desire has come with age, and exploring my sexual feelings. Years back when the guy I worked with sucked my cock, I was young, very horny, with a hardon all the time. I had no interest in anything but getting my rocks off.

I've had my share of love affairs with women over the years, some lasting longer than others. For the past 4 years I've been in a relationship with a fine lady, and we have a fantastic sex life.

I guess maybe the desire to suck a cock has been in the back of my head for some time, but I didn't let it surface. These past 4 years, I have learned more about myself and my sexual feelings than I ever have in my life. In past relationships I wasn't able to open up and express my true feelings. I was afraid if I said anything about wanting to suck a cock, I'd be labeled as a gay. That was then.

In my relationship now, my lover and I are deeply bonded, and I'm not afraid to tell her anything. She knows of my desire to suck a hard cock, and she is very much turned on by the idea. She knows I'm not looking for a relationship with some guy, she simply understands that I'm turned on by a hard cock, and that my desire to give head gets stronger all the time. She has never had a bi experience, but she is very curious herself. We both think it would be a turn on to watch each other in a m/m f/f situation, but she has no desire to see me with another woman, just as I have no desire to see her with a man.

 

[His Whimsicality]

You are not alone on this one at all...Lately when I really get myself going the only thing on my mind is a cock in my mouth. I've tried cumming in my mouth, but for some reason just before I cum (we're talking a second or two before), I get a lil grossed out by it. I guess the only way to handle that situation is to find someone elses cock to suck!

Claypool, I´ve been exactly at where you are now about 2 years ago - a few seconds before orgasm what seemed like a horny idea became an "uh, maybe not". What helps is doing things step by step: come like on your hand and slowly get yourself to swallow, and when you´ve overcome those inhibitions, cumming in your mouth no longer is much of a problem (be sure to aim well however, it burns if you get it into your eyes *g*)

 

[Guest]

BI CURIOUS SENIOR

I've always considered myself Str8, having a beautiful wife of 35 years. It is just within the last year or so that I've started thinking about having simple fun with another guy.

I've been in a couple of chats and can have a cyber j/o session, but I haven't found a relatively close person, or a nutural location where I might pursue something.

I do a lot of fantasizing about watching a porno flick with another guy, then watching him jack himself, while I do the same, then finally, for the FIRST time touching another cock. Even typing this gets me breathing...

Sure wish I could find someone that shares the same fealings and fears here in N. TX

 

[Claypool_84]

Claypool, I´ve been exactly at where you are now about 2 years ago - a few seconds before orgasm what seemed like a horny idea became an "uh, maybe not". What helps is doing things step by step: come like on your hand and slowly get yourself to swallow, and when you´ve overcome those inhibitions, cumming in your mouth no longer is much of a problem (be sure to aim well however, it burns if you get it into your eyes *g*)

Yeah, that seems like the only way to do it. I've tried saving a cumshot then waiting until i get hard again for it. Its just not the same tho, its gotta be warm and fresh!
And now I know why so many porn stars close their eyes before taking a facial

 

[cheftell]

I think it must be true that this curiousity comes with age. For me it has been something thats been in the back of my mind for a while also, I've always considered myself str8, I've been married twice and have been with many women through the years. My thoughts have kept coming back to exploring this as something new for if I never do than how will I ever know if I like or dislike it. So for now I look for a way to have my first experience....

 

[krspy2001]

a few years ago i would have said no freakin way....but i find myself thinking and fantasizing about it daily

 

[digdat]

This thread comes as a suprise, as well as a little excitement. I too have this fantasy.

I have a fantasy of sucking a hard cock, while a beautiful woman is there, teaching me what to do and what not to do. The thought of a rock hard cock in and out of my mouth, in my hands ... it gets me going like nothing else. This is something I've yet to tell my girlfriend, but everytime she goes down on me, I'm thinking about what it would be like to have that cock in MY mouth, in MY hands ... to have that load flow down MY throat ...

I love to have my GF snowball me ... I love to have my ass fucked ... but I'm not 'attracted' to men. I am not quite sure why this is, but I'm not attracted to em, just wanna suck, touch and maybe fuck HIM ... this doesn't seem to be normal, but getting more and more constant with men.

Can anyone help me figure the best way to let my GF in on this secret and see about making it happen? I think I've been prevented, as I don't want to be labeled gay or have her think less of me.

 

[krspy2001]

my lady just today mentioned that she had a dream that i was having sex with another guy....this opened up some communication on the subject that we will talk about more when she gets home......i am not attrackted to men either....no interest in kissing etc....just want to use a cock to see what it is like to give a BJ

 

[curious_hubby]

more on bi-curiousity

I intermittently contribute to these discussions--if I am repeating myself, please be nice...

My "curiousity" (ahem, now "desire") has been building gradually over the past 5-6 years.

I have always known a lot of gay men, but never been very interested in a gay lifestyle--I am definitely mostly interested in women. I also was available during the height of the AIDS crisis (not that it isn't still going on), so I was less inclined to experiment when I knew my thing was basically women.

Anyway, ... My wife started to tease me about wanting to see me with a man. She wants the full on butt action, I think, which weirds me out because of the chance of both pain and disease. (I think she wants to see me at the mercy of somebody--ooh! so dirty!) What I think about is everything BUT the anal sex (including kissing--as long as he is really cute).

I think my fantasies started because I fantasized about new sex partners (doesn't every man), but I wanted some sort of fantasy that would be OK with her. As I looked at porn, I told myself that it would at least be the kind of kinky stuff she would like, as opposed to my cheating on her, for example.

Now, I finally had a dream about sucking a guy. And I had a first crush.

Whoops, gotta run