Straight- Bi- Or Lesbian

[Lady_Kit]

Evening Ladies!

Well this is turning into an interesting discussion

Petrel, my nick came quite by accident. I used to pop in and out of a voyeur site that had a chat room. Everyone there that "knew me" knew that I was female. But sometimes someone new to the room would see me chatting with another poster, a female poster, and assume that I was a guy. They got pissy when they found out they were wrong. So, I decided I'd specify my gender right up front. I come by Kit honestly. My father was called Cat. My family name is Shannon. My appearance is as you see it in my av, but in the RL I am less, and I am more. ... Its a pleasure to meet you.

Thanks for the Happy Birthday(s)!!! I feel better this year than I did last, happier, more content. Its good to be me.

See ya!

Kit

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Evening Ladies!

Everyone there that "knew me" knew that I was female. But sometimes someone new to the room would see me chatting with another poster, a female poster, and assume that I was a guy. Kit

When I first came here my profile did not mention that I was female. From the first couple of posts I made, a straight lady thought I was a guy. She was not impressed at what I said back after the steamy pm she had sent me,lol. So I'm put the profile I am a sensual female

 

[asphaltangel]

Why is it that all the intelligent women live so far away? Everytime I connect with women who think as I do, they are never just down the street, or even the freeway they are either on the other side of the country, or the planet. Good grief!

Women like the ones on this thread, and Lit in general, are few and far between.

OMG its like you read my very thoughts!! The hair is standing up on the back of my neck as I type this. I have felt conected to only a couple of women in my life and have had several encounters. It is so hard to find someone who is on the same page as I am.I am fortunate enough in my life to be married to a man who would never deprive me of my sexuality. He feels to deny who you are is to keep your partner from fulfilling their full potential in life.

I hope you are successful in your quest to find that soal mate. Myself I am staying optimistic that there IS someone out there for me.

AA

 

[T.H. Oughts]

OMG its like you read my very thoughts!! The hair is standing up on the back of my neck as I type this.

Kind of freaky isn't it, lol

I hope you are successful in your quest to find that soal mate. Myself I am staying optimistic that there IS someone out there for me. AA

Here's hoping for a lot of women everywhere

 

[Smarty Pants]

Maybe you ladies can give me some advice

Okay, I've been mulling over this for a long time, so maybe you can help me with this.

I've had two experiences with women. The first I barely count... I was 21, very intoxicated and involved in a 3-some with my friend and my then boyfriend. We were both out of our mind intoxicated and neither could have cum if our lives depended on it. The second was about four years ago with a woman I met through a personal ad. I know, I know... not the best way to meet someone, but I was new to the area and very inexperienced. I ended up in a couple of 3-somes with her and my ex-b/f (not the same one from 21) and a couple of one-on-one's. The problem was she really wasn't my type... physically or mentally/emotionally. She was very fucked up and had more issues than National Geographic. Anyhow, there was one occasion where the sex was amazing. Exactly how I thought it would be, but then her psycho side came out.

Here is my dilemma. I'm dying to try this again, the "right" way. With a woman I'm attracted to and that I respect. Problem is, I really don't know how to go about it. I'm very gunshy when it comes to "hitting-on" women. It's not like people wear their sexuality on a sandwich board (that would be kinda neat, though). I would feel like a dope if I made a pass at someone who was mortified by it. I'd love to find someone more experienced to help me with this. Any suggestions?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Maybe you ladies can give me some advice

It's not like people wear their sexuality on a sandwich board (that would be kinda neat, though). I would feel like a dope if I made a pass at someone who was mortified by it.

If I had the answers I would tell you. If you find the answer can you tell me

 

[Tajay]

smarty, where upstate r u? i am in albany. maybe we can chat.

 

[Cory]

Re: Re: Mmmmmm

Ummmm, yep! Anyone for a threesome?

Hey, I have a great idea!
Being from the Buckeye state, I think you , me, and Brandyi (in that order) outta hook-up.

 

[Mystical]

A Little Upset

I find by just reading the board tonight there are a lot of ladies out there that think that age defines maturity. In most cases I would have to agree. But here is why I am upset. I am a 26yr old Bisexual female very happily married and secure in my relationship with him. I was married once before to a man that thought women being with women was very wrong and nasty, so I tried very hard to deny that side of my personality and forget it. Needless to say it hurt me more and the marraige didn't last. Now my last experience with a lovely lady was with my best friend of 8yrs and she was younger then me and straight (long story) back in June of this yr. Before that was with my ex sister in law right before my wedding day. She was an older lady and very experienced but the chemistry was not there for me. I am also very gunshy when it comes to meeting woman and it shows in my experience or some would say the lack of partners. Now I beleive that, for me anyway, age is not a matter of judging maturity in how a woman can please another or how good of a friend she will make. The one time I did put myself forward and aprouch a lady I was blown off just because of my age (22 at time) the lady was older then me and very good looking to me. But to me that showed she was not a very mature woman and it hurt to say the least. I have also been blown off on chat many times because of my age. I may not be College educated, or old enough by some standards because of my age but unless you have walked in my shoes and lived my life who is to say that I am not as mature as an older woman.

See what I want in a female is someone to share life with and I don't mean like my husband and I do. What I mean is I have children and I am very proud of them. My oldest is in school and my youngest is still in diapers. I enjoy spending time with my lady friends when I can but I do not have very many where I live now because of hubbies occupation we move a lot. For me before I can get itiment with anyone there has to be a foundation of friendship first. Frienship is where you can share anything with that person and they can share anything with you and know without a doubt it will stay between you. I have always enjoyed knowing that if my friends need me they know I will be there for them without them having to ask. Now with the sexual part of my Bisexuality I am not experienced as I have said but I do know that if given the chance to be with a woman again she would know she was special because as clich`e as it sounds I do aim to please. And I do not want her to feel she has to do anything in return. Maybe that sounds like I am submissive but I am not I just don't want any female or male for that matter to ever have to feel what I have felt in my past and hope to never feel again.

I am sorry if this offends anyone it was not ment to I just wanted to say what was in my heart and how it made me feel.

"If I could hold a star for every time I think of you, I would be holding the whole universe in the palm of my hand."

 

[Mystical]

Bi and Miss it

Hello lovely ladies,
26 here and very Bi. Been that way since I could remember but haven't had a lot of experience. My excuse is I am very shy and do not ask and look. Would love to hear experiences and maybe find a new friend or two.
This is my first time putting out a personal and am still blushing.
I can say why I am Bi and tell you what makes me beleive that it will never change. I know there are a lot of mature ladies out there that are looking for more mature ladies to hold and cuddle with. Me I would like to experience a mature woman that can help make me feel something I have never had the pleasure with a female before.

I love all women, well built, slender, tall, short, older to younger. I feel a woman needs more then most men and I would like to be the one to show a lady just what they want and need.

Mystical
"If I could hold a star for every time I think of you, I would be holding the whole universe in the palm of my hand."

 

[Tajay]

u know mys...
too bad u are so far away. u seem like someone i could really get to know.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

i'd have 2 go with

having the best of both worlds!

 

[WhisperingWinds]

bi and still discovering

Hello Ladies. I've enjoyed reading the comments here. I don't post much myself yet. I have always had attractions to women as well as men. My first brief experience in high school was a direct result of truth or dare and I relished it and still treasure the memory. It took until I was 29 before I had my first real exploration of an honest and caring relationship. While it only included the physical aspect a handful of times and lasted a matter of months, it to this day remains something I would like to find with another lovely soul someday. The feelings I felt for her far outweighed the later experiences I had with 2 other women in passing. I am currently on my second marriage, but I find that there is a definite part of myself lacking without the caring companionship of a woman.

I consider myself a definite bisexual because to me the attraction is decidedly more than the physical. It is strong, it is connected, and it remains a part of my every day soul regardless of whether or not I am lucky enough to express it.

I hope that all of you will have a joyous and bi-blessed 2002. Thank you for making me feel less alone.

 

[Wiggles]

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[sexyspank]

Interesting

Going by the poll results so far it seems that most women have had, or fantasise about making love with another woman.Less than 10% are turned off by the idea.Keep the results coming.


Wendy

 

[Guest]

im a lesbian. i wake up in the morning and think about chicks. but sometimes by the afternoon a cute guy walks by and smiles then im bi. and then i go home and i walk in on my girlfriend masturbating and im definitely a lesbian again. but then i think of high school and being fucked by a hard stiff cock. then im straight. moral of the story: fuck who you want. dont be intimidated by gender. and if i need a label, forget bi or lesbian. im just a slut.

 

[alltherage]

Labels in general offend me. They are fine on cereal boxes but on people they are just counter productive. I am a sexual being. By the standards of the definitions we live by I am bi.

 

[Mystical]

alltherage

And a lovely one at that. I thank my lucky stars everyday that I have found a friend in you and higher being willing I will one day be able to meet you in person and give you a great big hig and KISS.

 

[SLAM]

there seems that some are very serious about this....I really believe age does not play in this as Mystical says....but experience is very important

 

[Mystical]

I agree with slam about experience but each of us in our own did not have experience the first time out. I know I didn't have a clue as to what I was doing when I made love to my first and I am still learning new things everyday. And I beleive that the new Bi's or Lesbians don't know much about it either but without someone being with them and showing them they will not learn and gain experience.

 

[Kandi]

bi

personally i think we're all bi, and we differentiate by certain preferences and experiences. but i doubt that any of us could say we absolutely positively wouldn't go both ways, eh? come one fess up!

 

[Guest]

Every girlfriend I've ever had....and my wife.....when they get turned on love to fantasize about other girls. They'd never admit it to anyone....but when they get hot....if the right opportunity presented itself....they would do another girl!!

When I lick my wife....nothing turns her (and me) on more than to lick her pussy juices off my face.

I wonder if it's the same with girls....I'm a guy, and consider myself a tad bi-curious...but there are only certain acts I would consider doing with a guy.....like I would think going down on another guy would be hot....but kissing a guy? yuk. know what I mean? are there similar limitations with girls who are bi-curious?

I would love to just watch two girls make love. that's hot.
(Me & every other guy on the planet, right?)

 

[sexyspank]

Kandi

Kandi: I agree that most women have bisexual tendencies but think the poll results so far are probanly pretty acurate.Just under 9% of women hate the thought of sex with another woman andj ust under 9% hate the thought of sex with a male. That leaves just over 82% with bisexual tendencies.


Wendy

 

[Desdemona]

Re: Interesting

Going by the poll results so far it seems that most women have had, or fantasise about making love with another woman.Less than 10% are turned off by the idea.Keep the results coming.


Wendy

Maybe its just us "Lit women" that feel this way. All but one of my RL friends tell me that there is absolutely nothing that another woman could offer them. Of course they still love me "in spite" of the fact that I'm bi.

They just don't know what they're missing!

 

[talulah]

Hmm... there should be a "just sexual in general" category. I find men and women attractive, and love to be with both. Especially at the same time... *purrr*