Straight- Bi- Or Lesbian

[sexyspank]

A lot of females have lesbian fantasies.Some act on them,others just fantasise.For others the idea of sex with another woman turns their stomach.As a gay girl myself,I wondered whether you lovely ladies consider yourself completely straight Bisexual or gay.I think there is probably a fairly high percentage of women who even if they don't act on it,do in fact fantasise about making love with another woman at some time.

 

[sabbathstorm]

I'm straight but have definitely fantasized about being with another woman!

 

[sexyspank]

Lesbian fantasies

Sabbathstorm.Do you fantasise about actually making love with another woman ? If you do, do your fantasies usually consist of you doing things to her, or her doing things to you-or both.Or do you perhaps see someone you find sexually attractive and perhaps just wonder what she would look like naked

 

[precious_petal]

Well, I for one began having fantasies about being with other women since I was about 17-18 and I got my first real experience until I was 20, It was so much more than I expected, since then I am bisexual and enjoying everything about it.

 

[sabbathstorm]

Re: Lesbian fantasies

Sabbathstorm.Do you fantasise about actually making love with another woman ? If you do, do your fantasies usually consist of you doing things to her, or her doing things to you-or both.Or do you perhaps see someone you find sexually attractive and perhaps just wonder what she would look like naked

I fantasize about making love with another woman. I find mainly when I masturbate I usually imagine that she's watching me or teasing me with her tongue and fingers.

 

[whoopsdaizy]

lesbian

women are such sexual soft creatures....i enjoy the best of both worlds!

i fantasize about "fucking" a woman, not "making love", because, emotionally i prefer men, so sex with a woman is....well....SEX....not love.

<sigh>
now i'm horny

 

[RoamingSpirit]

Lesbian...

I'm definitly a lesbian. *looks around*. Oh shit, I'm the only man in here! *slowly backs out of room*

(Well, if I were a woman, I'd definitly be a lesbian!)

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Lesbian...

I'm definitly a lesbian. *looks around*. Oh shit, I'm the only man in here! *slowly backs out of room*

(Well, if I were a woman, I'd definitly be a lesbian!)

Very cute....

 

[millman96]

Know what you meen

I know where you're coming from RoamingSpirit,,,,

I am a lesbian by definishion, at least my interpitation of what I think a lesbian is. If I were a women I know I would be found inbetween a nice creamy set of thighs all the time. I just love the taste of a nice hot wet pussy.

I've gone as far as to have several fantasies where I am a women and what it must feel like to have a hot tongue licking deep into the center of my steamy love canal. I'm sure this is one of the reasons I love oral sex sooooo much.

Sorry ladies for the intrusion, just had to let you know that some of us guys are really lesbians at heart. There have been several time that I have had oral sex with a ladie without asking for anything in return. Just the fact that she was saticfied was enough for me.

I do believe that women have a lot more intence orgasms than us guys. At least from my standpoint you seem to. I envy your ability to do the multiple thing. As for me I have to rest for 15 min. or so inbetween.

Just the thoughts of an old guy.

 

[Brandyi]

Mmmmmm

Variety is the spice of life!!

I was straight most of my life till last year when I had my first bisexual experience. I like both, a stiff cock and wet pussy

 

[GeorgiaPeach69]

Re: Mmmmmm

Variety is the spice of life!!

I was straight most of my life till last year when I had my first bisexual experience. I like both, a stiff cock and wet pussy

Ummmm, yep! Anyone for a threesome?

 

[petrel]

mmm I am bi and i believe pretty much always have been. I am in a long term relationship right now with a guy and have found that i get a lot of stick from lesbians and other bi women because of it. I might add that previously i was in a 18 month relationship with a woman and no-one said anything about that!
They seem to feel that by commiting myself to a man i have given up my bi status - i don't get this i still fantasise about men and women. My only problem with the fantasies is that there is so little written about lesbian sex that i find erotic - any recomendations anyone?

 

[sexyspank]

Bi Or Not

You shouldn't have to wear a label sayin" I,m Gay" or "I'm Bi" or "I'm straight" .The important thing is that one person loves another.Whether that be same sex or opposite sex.Have a happy relationship

 

[Lady_Kit]

Married & Bi

I'm in a very special, very secure marriage. So well protected by my husband that I can explore & experience many things. I don't just mean sexual exploration, but in all aspects of my life.

Several years ago, I told him that I fantasized about women. Wondered what it would feel like to touch another women, what she would smell like, the way she would taste. Over time, he exposed me to circumstances that made me more comfortable with the idea, and also made me want it even more. He took me to strip clubs, voyeur parties, and weekends with other couples.

Finally this year, we met the right couple. She was perfect, a little more experienced than I, and just as enthusiastic. It was everything I had imagined, and more. Soft skin, soft hands, warm lips and mouth. Familiar, like my own body, yet different, new and exciting. More than I ever dreamed.

If you have had the same experience, you understand

If you haven’t, don’t wait any longer.

Kit

 

[carrie-on]

My first sexual experience was with a girl a year younger than I. It was wonderfully forbidden at the time and I will always remember her. I have often wondered where she is now.
Not until 1992, did I have another relationship with a woman. She is marvelous. I love to watch her walk and she knows it,says I always make her smile when I tell her that.
We don't see each other but only a couple of times each year,since I moved to a different state. I love her very much and always will.
As for having these feelings for another woman besides my lady friend? I have met several women online who turn me on through the words on my monitor. (Some of whom I would love to meet in real life.) The feelings I have for them are completely different from what my lady and I have.

 

[Sabineteas]

Bi, I guess

I am usually with a man, when I am having sex, but 3 times I have been with a girl/woman. Once at 14 in a tent in her backyard at 2AM, twice after way too long nights out in the clubs. First time for the last two I was sort of shocked at how things went, but went with the flow. The second time was better, more relaxed.

My absolute first time at 14 was more "How are we different" and "Do I feel the same as you do" type things. Ended up with me buck-naked out in her yard on a dare, and even a little more<laughing>. Ah that was a night to remember! I was scared and excited and after had trouble sleeping.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I consider myself bisexual... thoughts of being with another woman along with men have been with me since the year dot.

I long to be able to say out loud... "Yes, I've known the actual taste and touch of another woman, but after 38 years it still hasn't happened.

My man of 15 years knows of my thoughts and has told me that if the right woman comes along he would not mind me being with her to make my sensual life more complete. He has even role played to make me happy.

Yes, I could go into some bi bar and pick up some woman, but I want the first time to be just more than shagging for the sake of it. Even though I know I want a full time relationship with a man and what he has to offer. I want to share a cup of coffee with a woman as well as her...... not just wam bam thank you mam. Someone with the same thought that when the mood strikes we can have fun.

Also becasue of my work I'm quite known internationaly, the media would have a field day where I live and that would hurt my parents, so I just can't place a wanted ad in a paper and go meet for coffee somewhere, who knows, she could make a few extra bucks from telling the Sunday papers about what might of happened.

I've tryed the bi-chat rooms, but when they find you are 38, they consider you old or a couple of times I have got their rocks off and then they left, leaving me hanging.... never been back.

You girls that can go out and find what you like in public are so lucky.

Maybe I should make this post a wanted ad.

Frustration with a capital *F*............ *sigh*

 

[Lady_Kit]

reply to T.H. Oughts

No one said it was easy...just do-able.

My first time was just this past summer, and I turned 39 today. The experience was a long time in the making, believe me! I suppose it could have happened sooner, but I'm picky.

I have never been a one-night-stand kind of girl with men, and I see no reason to start with women. Like you, I want to be able to have coffee and a conversation with any intimate partner. I consider myself fortunate that my husband is so understanding, and that I found a friend who had the same bi-sexual desires as do I. It helps too that she is in a secure marriage. She and I see our friendship as a special one that just happens to accomodate our other desires.

Although my behavior wouldn't show up on CNN or even make my local paper I too have to be discrete. I have my own business and its success lies depends on my reputation. Not to mention that my family would be horrified and embarassed.

You're right about the chat rooms. Some of the very young are alot like puppies; you rub them just right and they soil your couch and then go to sleep. Leaving you hanging. Been there done that.

Just keep yourself "tuned in" to the women around you. There may be someone in your future that will have the same desires, and the same need for friendship first.

Good Luck!

Kit

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Happy Birthday Kit

I hope I can find what you have one day.

A secure marriage is what is needed for sure when you bring another person into the picture. I know mine is rock solid, I would not be here writing this if I didn't think it was.

Yes a friendship included is the thing. I don't want to live in their home full time, but if I wanted to go 'female shopping' they might come with me or if I have good news in my day I could share it with them over a phone call. And that they can acccept there is a man I go home too. Just like they might go home to their accepting partner.

All good things come to those that wait they say

Or is this called "having your cake and eating it too", lol

Thanks for taking the time to answer

 

[Lady_Kit]

Why is it that all the intelligent women live so far away? Everytime I connect with women who think as I do, they are never just down the street, or even the freeway they are either on the other side of the country, or the planet. Good grief!

Women like the ones on this thread, and Lit in general, are few and far between.

We'd best stick together.

Night Ladies!

 

[sexyspank]

Happy Birthday

Happy Birthday Kit



Wendy x

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Why is it that all the intelligent women live so far away? Women like the ones on this thread, and Lit in general, are few and far between. We'd best stick together. Night Ladies!

I think becasue we have entered the board area, not just read stories about women/women and leave, but posted and not just lurked to read the posts, we 'know' what we want for sure and are not to afraid to say it.

A board like this where no real names are given, gives a freedom that can not be found chatting to your hairdresser or drycleaner.

If people's thoughts are true in threads like this, an intelligence of understanding has to show through........

Night Kit.. sweet dreams

 

[T.H. Oughts]

mmm I am bi and i believe pretty much always have been. My only problem with the fantasies is that there is so little written about lesbian sex that i find erotic - any recomendations anyone?

I could make recomendations, but what turns you on with ladies and you consider an 'extra' good time might be dif from others. Any particular sensual thing you like we can alert you too?

 

[petrel]

what a lovely thread this is turning out to be, all the bi women on lit please congregate here. I would love to explore my Bi side more i am in a relationship (hopefully marriage next year) whihc is very stable;
our rules are simple, cyber is fine, realllife flirting and the odd kiss is fine but anything more in real life is out.

i would like to chat with other women who i can share experiences with, kinda like girly friends but a bit of flirting there too.

lady Kit - love the nick, what inspired it?

sexyspank - you start the coolest threads

T.H.oughts, thanks for the PM

 

[T.H. Oughts]

what a lovely thread this is turning out to be, all the bi women on lit please congregate here. I would love to explore my Bi side more

Yep, i've been feeling good the last 24 hours since the posting here. I've told my man all about the openess I have found here and he thinks it's cool

But now it's 10.30am and I should be working here in my studio by myself... but I some wicked thoughts and it seems a waste to just be by myself having them *blushes*