Straight- Bi- Or Lesbian

[alltherage]

I don't believe all or even most women are bi. I do think that women are in much better touch with all their emotions than men are in general. I think that allows them the possibilty of accepting there feelings as they come. Men are often in denial about feelings that they do not like having. Homophobia in men is based on this simple fact. Surveys suggest that homosexual feelings exist in the majority of people. They may be very quiet and brief in their nature but folks have em. Women just seem better able to accept them.

I am bi. Ick. I hate fucking labels. I have always had strong feelings for woman and I have no doubt that I need women in my life on a consistant basis. My ex-husband accepted this. He took a if I don't see it its ok outlook. That caused a level of dishonesty in our relationship that was unacceptable to me. I told him that and our troubles began. Long story short we evolved to a point where a threesome became the next logical thing to do. It was a disaster for the marriage. It is not really so important to know that except for this point. I don't believe that any part of our natures can truly be satisfied and healthy if we lock it away in a box. When my husband saw that part of my nature that he had fantisized about up close and in living color he changed.

I promised myself then that I would never be put in a position to have my sexuality used as entertainment or as a show. I also promised myself that I would follow my heart. It may mean that I will remain single, but I suspect that I will live with a woman one day. The funny thing is that if i were with a woman I don't think I would miss men all that much. Hmmmmm does that make me lesbian. Nope. Just sexual.

 

[sexyspank]

Society Dictates

I feel that society dictates feelings and reactions to a certain extent. It would usually be quite acceptable for two female friends to meet and greet each other in public with a hug and a kiss but would possibly be frowned upon if two male friends hugged and kissed in public.

 

[Randy]

answer

I'm definitely a lesbian.
Randy

 

[Desdemona]

Labels

I promised myself then that I would never be put in a position to have my sexuality used as entertainment or as a show. I also promised myself that I would follow my heart. It may mean that I will remain single, but I suspect that I will live with a woman one day. The funny thing is that if i were with a woman I don't think I would miss men all that much. Hmmmmm does that make me lesbian. Nope. Just sexual.

You said it very well. I like being "just sexual".

 

[sexyspank]

Just Sexual

I understand about being "just sexual" but the point is that a minority of women are disgusted by the idea of making love with another woman.The same as that a minority of us are disgusted by the thought of making love with a male. The rest of you are bisexual or "just sexual".





Wendy

 

[Sienna]

I consider myself a bi-sexual female "bi-fem" and I love it.

We are, I think very sexual indeed. We do have the best of both worlds (male/female) when it comes to sex and I think that most females are actually bi-feminist by nature.

In a way, it is about coming to terms with it and trusting your instincts. Then simply enjoying it.

Sie. xxx

 

[LoveAdvocate]

I am a full fledged Lesbian and have been all my life. Although I don't detest men as many of my lesbian friends do. I had sex with a man when I was younger and frankly I found it boring. I am always told it was the mans fault. I don't believe that to be true. I love women, the way they feel, the way they smell, the way they think and the way they express their passion.

There is nothing finer in the world than to look into a woman's eyes and see love!!!!!!!!

Merry Christmas <smiles>

 

[sexyspank]

Interesting

I find it interesting that out of 69 women who have voted in the poll,only 5 hate the thought of making love with another woman.Could it be that the women on Lit are more sexually adventurous or is this a true reflection.



Wendy

 

[GeorgiaPeach69]

Re: Interesting

I find it interesting that out of 69 women who have voted in the poll,only 5 hate the thought of making love with another woman.Could it be that the women on Lit are more sexually adventurous or is this a true reflection.



Wendy

Probably both. I know several women (not on Lit) that are VERY bi-curious, but I also know a few in the "hate the thought" category who are quite vocal about it.

They could just be in denial though....

 

[puddles38]

Bi all the way!

I have known all my life I had a special atraction to the same sex. When I had my first Bi sexual expierence I was sure I had found my calling in life. I love to have my puusy pumped hard by a man but I could not live my life honestly with out having a pussy across my lips as often as possible.

Candy

 

[duana]

Bisexual Survey

i am definately bisexual. i am married (10 yrs) and happily i might add. i have had sexual realtionships with women before and during my marriage. my ex-lover and still best friend Krista was my Maidn of Honor at my wedding.

i still fantasise about having sex with women, although i'm not terribly promiscuous, most likely because i have not had the right opportunity lately or found the right person. i don't go looking for it.

my husband is very ok with my having sex with other women, but not with other men, which is
natural i guess.

please take a moment to fill out my survey on bisexuality

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60835

duana

 

[Athena_e19]

Definitions

The definition of "Lesbian" bothered me. Lesbians do not hate the idea of having sex with men as has been expressed by self-declared lesbians. I am one and on occasion (a rare one) I will have sex with a man just because that is what my body was made to do, and for me it is very enjoyable. I do not believe that the majority of "lesbians" hate sleeping with men, but rather hate the differences in character, personality, and all the other things that are brought along with a sexual partner. Just thought I would throw my thoughts in.

 

[sexyspank]

Not sure I understand

I'm not sure I understand what you are saying.I would have thought that if you enjoy lovemaking with males as well as females albeit on a rare occasion that would make you bi-sexual.I am not a manhater at all but I just don't like the idea of sex with a male.I do understand what you are saying about personalities etc. I do think that a woman can interreact with another woman in a way that she could never do with a man.

wendy

 

[prettygrneyes]

Re: Lesbian fantasies

Sabbathstorm.Do you fantasise about actually making love with another woman ? If you do, do your fantasies usually consist of you doing things to her, or her doing things to you-or both.Or do you perhaps see someone you find sexually attractive and perhaps just wonder what she would look like naked

hey I am bringing up some old GOOD threads....Wooooohoooooooo

 

[sexyspank]

Re: Re: Lesbian fantasies

hey I am bringing up some old GOOD threads....Wooooohoooooooo

Hi Greeneyes where did you find this one?






Wendy

 

[ReBeLBeLLe]

I don't care where it was found but it's right up my alley!!

 

[sexyspank]

I don't care where it was found but it's right up my alley!!

Right up your alley?






Wendy

 

[ReBeLBeLLe]

Right up your alley?






Wendy

I have always been fascinated with people's opinion on their choice of partners.

 

[prettygrneyes]

Re: Re: Re: Lesbian fantasies

Hi Greeneyes where did you find this one?






Wendy

hey wendy I found it as I was doing some searching for some new/old threads that were interesting about these topics that I am more interested in,I hope it was ok to bump it up .......



I agree with FinestSilk.....good thread!!!!!!!!

 

[krazychick]

I think I am bisexual but never had an actual sexual experience yet........ So what does that make me??? A wanna be??? LOL I have so many bisexual feelings. I have had the opportunity but not with anyone I was attracted to. I have very strong feelings for one of my very close friends and have had some little things happen But not enough! I want more damnit!

Carly

 

[1sexylady]

Well....

I consider myself straight....I love men and what comes with them..... I don't know if I could or would be with a woman...I have had a three sum but I didn't go down on the girl...but she did on me...hey it was good too.. I didn't have a problem with that at all...but I really don't know to be very honest...I have seen very attractive women and admired them...and if my s/o wanted to do a three sum I think I could...I have girls I love to death and would jump in front of a car for but to make love to them...??????? I would have to think more on that....so what does that make me???? Straight and Stupid???

 

[whspr]

I have been with one woman in my life. She was so sweet, gentle, loving, and took me to places only she could take me.
She was a wonderful lover. She didn't care if I ever pleasured her. I cared. I made love to her but was so afraid I would not be good. That first orgasm almost made me cum with her. It was so exciting. I spent the weekend with her and I'll never forget one minute of it. She still is very special to me.

I'm not sure I could have this relationship with just anyone. I love my man but maybe just maybe I'll enjoy the touch of a woman again....hmmmmm...could be with her.....

whspr

 

[ReBeLBeLLe]

Whspr!!! Kisses Beautiful! I hope you had a great day! *giggles* fancy seeing you over here and yanno what I say...if the dream is worth it to you, go for it! Love ya babe. Kisses and hugs!!

 

[sexyspank]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Lesbian fantasies

hey wendy I found it as I was doing some searching for some new/old threads that were interesting about these topics that I am more interested in,I hope it was ok to bump it up .......



I agree with FinestSilk.....good thread!!!!!!!!

Of course it's ok to bump it up...Iwas just surprised to find it re-appearing hugs to you green eyes





Wendy

 

[sexyspank]

I think I am bisexual but never had an actual sexual experience yet........ So what does that make me??? A wanna be??? LOL I have so many bisexual feelings. I have had the opportunity but not with anyone I was attracted to. I have very strong feelings for one of my very close friends and have had some little things happen But not enough! I want more damnit!

Carly

Give it time Carly...I'm sure it'll happen sometime.



hugs and kisses Carly



Wendy