Submissive/Slave Haven

intothewoods said:
This is probably the first time in my life I've really enjoyed any attention from men! I'm trying to make the most of it. :rolleyes:

Enjoy it, it;s your time! :D

I really really hope to get some male attention very soon. *sighs* :(
 
Hello

Long time lurker peeks in and is touched by the compassion shared on this thread. It feels so good to see that people care. :rose:

I only spotted this thread today and since I have read some reasonable advice on networking with more experienced submissives being a good idea, I thought I would stop by and say hello. :)

I have limited online experience with D/s, some of it good, some of it only educational but I hope to learn more in time. I am a student of life and university. Terrible at cooking, addicted to desert and the worst procrastinator in the world!

I hope to get to know people, possibly build friendships and generally have a great time and I wish you all the same. :)
 
daringdarling said:
Long time lurker peeks in and is touched by the compassion shared on this thread. It feels so good to see that people care. :rose:

I only spotted this thread today and since I have read some reasonable advice on networking with more experienced submissives being a good idea, I thought I would stop by and say hello. :)

I have limited online experience with D/s, some of it good, some of it only educational but I hope to learn more in time. I am a student of life and university. Terrible at cooking, addicted to desert and the worst procrastinator in the world!

I hope to get to know people, possibly build friendships and generally have a great time and I wish you all the same. :)

Welcome to Literotica and to this part of the world. I hope you enjoy your time, I know I do.

Like you, I am a sub with little experience, my experiences are only limited to D/s online.

So, like you I only started posting, in time, to gain advice but at the same time, making friends.

*hugz* Welcome! :rose:
 
Welcome, dd...We're a great group here if i do say so myself.

Hope everyone is doing well..

Today is an iffy day for me. It's my 5 yr. anniversary with my girlfriend, and she hasn't even acknowledged it. We have had a TON of issues in the past 6 months, but i at least expected a card or somethin'. Ya know? 5 yrs is a LONG fucking time.

i'm also considering doing an AM PIC thread over in that forum. Partly as a self-esteem thing...and partly as an "in your face, fucker" kinda thing. i'm hesitant though...so we'll see...
 
HottieMama said:
Welcome, dd...We're a great group here if i do say so myself.

Hope everyone is doing well..

Today is an iffy day for me. It's my 5 yr. anniversary with my girlfriend, and she hasn't even acknowledged it. We have had a TON of issues in the past 6 months, but i at least expected a card or somethin'. Ya know? 5 yrs is a LONG fucking time.

i'm also considering doing an AM PIC thread over in that forum. Partly as a self-esteem thing...and partly as an "in your face, fucker" kinda thing. i'm hesitant though...so we'll see...


First of all, Happy five years anniversary, even if your girlfriend doesn't acknowledged it.

Secondly, I am really sorry to hear about your issues with your girlfriend and even though I don't know you really well..yet... I sincerely hope that you will manage to sort through these issues to have the next five years happy times with your girlfriend.

Thirdly, why not? I have a picture thread and I surprised myself, when I took photos of myself, that I did enjoy myself and I enjoyed the compliments people gave me. What a good idea, and be brave. It doesn't have to be nude or anything like that. Just some nice sexy clothes does go a far way with ummm..some of the guys and some gals. AND it does boast your self-esteem at the right time, just when you really need it. :D


*hugz*

Caz :rose:
 
Thanks caz...

i just want to make sure i would be doing the pic thing for the right reasons...NOT solely to get a reaction out of someone/someones...which i know it would.

So we'll see...
 
HottieMama said:
Thanks caz...

i just want to make sure i would be doing the pic thing for the right reasons...NOT solely to get a reaction out of someone/someones...which i know it would.

So we'll see...

Yes, it is very important that you feel ready and feel confident and that you do a picture thread for YOURSELF.

Well, I wish you lotta of luck with everything you do. :rose:
 
ok ok ok, I'm here. I'm always lurking. But I'm here now.

so fill me in- catch me up so I know what is going on with everyone and keep me from having to sift thru who knows how many pages.



(ps I'm glad my little thread is a well oiled machine- putt putt puttin along.)
 
SweetGigi said:
ok ok ok, I'm here. I'm always lurking. But I'm here now.

so fill me in- catch me up so I know what is going on with everyone and keep me from having to sift thru who knows how many pages.



(ps I'm glad my little thread is a well oiled machine- putt putt puttin along.)

GiGi!!!!!!!!! MUAH...so nice to see you...

Catch-up: It was a crappy week last week, and i am just trying to move on.
 
well, I know the feeling as far as crap goes. But the biggest lesson I ever learned was that it always gets darker before it gets lighter. But also, it can't rain all the time. I know I am being a bit tongue in cheek and cliche, but honestly cliche's were born SOMEWHERE! Ya, know? You just have to learn to love yourself in your own skin and change the things you can't learn to love. Honestly, do you want to look back from the not-so-far-distant-future and find all this wasted space and energy? Get mad!! Get pissed.... then, get over it.


You are far too cool not to.





(I did.)
 
HottieMama said:
and partly as an "in your face, fucker" kinda thing. i'm hesitant though...so we'll see...


in your face fucker!

I like that one. I think I'm going to use it.
 
newbie sub

gosh after reading so many posts in this thread I feel as if I know some of ya already!

I'm a newbie I reckon... I'll be 31 in July. I was involved in the adult industry for several years about 3 years ago and I learned way more than I ever intended. I also found a side to me I never knew existed. To be honest with you I was a little scared and a little embarrassed about it. My then husband was very vanilla and laughed at me when I brought up my desires. I was crushed and hadn't spoken to anyone verbally or through text until now. For three years I thought something was wrong with me... going from his reaction to me.

I used to write stories on a regular basis, that's how I knew about this place, but it took me kickin' him out and getting on my own two feet before I had the courage to speak up. I'm still learning about myself and what it is about M/s that turns me on. I'm not sure if I should wait until I'm sure about myself before I look for a Dom or if it would be better to correspond with a Dom to help find the answers to questions.

Thank you SweetGigi for giving us a place to open up =)
 
Wow, Coy. You are welcome.


Just so you know, there is another Coy around these parts... bout the same age too... so be aware, there might be some confusion.


(*waves madly at other Coy* it was GREAT talking to you the other night)

come right in, sit right down, hunny let your hair hang down.

We are all about the newbie recruitment and training up in herrr. Ask away and feel free to corner any of us for much needed advice and queries.


WELCOME!!
 
SweetGigi said:
Cutie, what are you grinning about?

Dish, sister, dish!!

Just grinnin'.

I'll get serious and start working (I am so behind... sigh), and then I'll think of something that darling irreverent asshole said during our last conversation, and I'll start grinning and completely lose my focus again.
 
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