Submissive/Slave Haven

[minx1]

no no! don't be quiet ... we're living vicariously through you!! *snickers*

I am basking in your glow hottie

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

no no! don't be quiet ... we're living vicariously through you!! *snickers*

as well as through cutie

 

[CutieMouse]

The whole charming-adorable-occasionally-humble-asshole thing, is really really really annoying when you are going to sleep and waking up alone. That's all I'm sayin'.

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

um yeah

 

[ShyVixen]

[Cheesy romantic hijack alert]

We were on the phone this morning, catching up, and I told him that I was really really looking forward to just hanging out in his kitchen, puttering around and making homemade tortillas while we talked about everything under the sun... and he just sighed and told me that was one of the nicest mental pictures he'd had in a really long time.

[/Cheesy romantic hijack alert]

I am so screwed.

That is one of the cutest things I've heard all day, CM

((hugs)) for everyone who is feeling the lurrrvveeee.

 

[callinectes]

The whole charming-adorable-occasionally-humble-asshole thing, is really really really annoying when you are going to sleep and waking up alone. That's all I'm sayin'.

All I'm saying is you dog-gone better post at least once while you are gone so we can get a CM and Mr. Soundsfabulous fix!

 

[HottieMama]

Fuck..i am just having a shitty day. i miss the "ex." i miss just spending hours talking on Sat. afternoons about nothing and everything. i miss the sound of his voice...the way it used to be. Part of me just wants to leave Lit, so i don't see the posts...so i don't remember. And i feel like a complete shit for even typing this...because there's wonderful possibilities with someone new...but i just hurt right now. (So please, if you're reading this..try not to hold it against me...) i'm trying to focus on the good...and move on...and salvage the friendship that we had before all this...but it's raining, and i'm lonely and down, and i miss him...and the way it used to be.

 

[littleone77]

{{{{HM...}}}}

Just a thought to consider for a moment, do you also miss what he willingly/knowingly did to you? Sometimes those moments of meloncholy are best chased away by remembering the pain and why things turned out the way they did. Maybe it is just me but when a relationship ends painfully, making a friendship out of the thing is not possible or easy for the first few months. Sometimes a clean break is the best for healing and moving on.

And no, I don't hate you for this, lol. We have all probably been there some time.

Personally I think you should go bake something involving chocolate.

 

[myinnerslut]

{{hug}} x a million for HM

i hope your feelng better. days like this are to be expected, but they will pass. promise.

 

[coyone]

*great big hugs HM*

I know the feeling ... littleone and mis hit the nail on the head.... that doesn't make it any easier though. You've got folks here who supportcha

 

[intothewoods]

Fuck..i am just having a shitty day. i miss the "ex." i miss just spending hours talking on Sat. afternoons about nothing and everything. i miss the sound of his voice...the way it used to be. Part of me just wants to leave Lit, so i don't see the posts...so i don't remember. And i feel like a complete shit for even typing this...because there's wonderful possibilities with someone new...but i just hurt right now. (So please, if you're reading this..try not to hold it against me...) i'm trying to focus on the good...and move on...and salvage the friendship that we had before all this...but it's raining, and i'm lonely and down, and i miss him...and the way it used to be.

I miss having a Master. I miss how safe I felt. It sucks right now. I know this is where I have to be, but it doesn't make it much easier.

 

[HottieMama]

I miss having a Master. I miss how safe I felt. It sucks right now. I know this is where I have to be, but it doesn't make it much easier.

ITW...i think that's a large part of it for me. i felt incredibly safe with the ex-Daddy, and i just don't now.

 

[minx1]

I miss having a Master. I miss how safe I felt. It sucks right now. I know this is where I have to be, but it doesn't make it much easier.

*hugs* Itw....I wasn't sure, though I did wonder a little. I hope you are both ok.

Yeah it does make you feel safe, I relate to that.

 

[minx1]

ITW...i think that's a large part of it for me. i felt incredibly safe with the ex-Daddy, and i just don't now.

*hugs* Hottie. I know you are finding it a bit tough at the mo.

 

[intothewoods]

ITW...i think that's a large part of it for me. i felt incredibly safe with the ex-Daddy, and i just don't now.

The sense of being cared for. Yep. I feel so lost, and like I just don't care.

 

[HottieMama]

The sense of being cared for. Yep. I feel so lost, and like I just don't care.

Ok..we're sharing a brain again...

 

[Evil_Geoff]

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I think I'll set up shop as a Depression Relief Clinician...

*hangs up sign...*

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[intothewoods]

*hugs* Itw....I wasn't sure, though I did wonder a little. I hope you are both ok.

Yeah it does make you feel safe, I relate to that.

We're both fine, thank you.

I'd be better if your dragon friend behaved himself a bit better. Maybe you can look into that for me?

 

[coyone]

I know just the thing... Those brilliant Russian psychiatrists discovered that spanking relieves depression.

I think I'll set up shop as a Depression Relief Clinician...

*hangs up sign...*

The Doctor is IN!

*looks around and gets in line*

 

[CutieMouse]

My life just keeps getting more surreal... I swear the man wasn't born on this planet.

(in a good way)

 

[littleone77]

I hated that *lost* feeling as well. It's like the rug just was pulled under you or when you get side swipped by a car. You never saw it coming and the pain reels over you rentlessly. And the recovery period is just as brutal...unsafe, unloved, unwanted and not enough ever.

I hate that place.

The more you are invested in a relationship the more that place hurts. Its like you are suddenly reduced to a small child which just learned Santa Claus never existed.

Ack.

 

[HottieMama]

I hated that *lost* feeling as well. It's like the rug just was pulled under you or when you get side swipped by a car. You never saw it coming and the pain reels over you rentlessly. And the recovery period is just as brutal...unsafe, unloved, unwanted and not enough ever.

I hate that place.

The more you are invested in a relationship the more that place hurts. Its like you are suddenly reduced to a small child which just learned Santa Claus never existed.

Ack.

Uh-huh.....Yep....Exactly....

And like i said in my earlier post...i feel like SUCH a shit for even feeling this way...because there is a "new" someone...but it's that whole learning and trusting process again, and i'm scared and guarded...and M still has a tiny little piece of my heart...

ACK...just ACK.

 

[littleone77]

Uh-huh.....Yep....Exactly....

And like i said in my earlier post...i feel like SUCH a shit for even feeling this way...because there is a "new" someone...but it's that whole learning and trusting process again, and i'm scared and guarded...and M still has a tiny little piece of my heart...

ACK...just ACK.

El_C once said that he was a bit concerned that I never paused when I jumped into his lap from Drakar's. I don't regret that decision a bit. Learning to retrust again is hard. The what ifs and scars from before are still very much there. Taking that chance of giving your heart again is scary. There are no promises with anything. Someone new could just as easily break you again. However, knowing all the beautiful, wonderful, breathless things that await you is worth the chance.

There is a great new song out you might enjoy..."You never stop loving somebody, you just start loving somebody else."

 

[minx1]

We're both fine, thank you.

I'd be better if your dragon friend behaved himself a bit better. Maybe you can look into that for me?

*sighs and shakes head* There is nothing I can do about that one. Well not on my own anyway. I mean he is a big dwagon and I a little angel *nods*

........now if there were a few of us........

 

[minx1]

Uh-huh.....Yep....Exactly....

And like i said in my earlier post...i feel like SUCH a shit for even feeling this way...because there is a "new" someone...but it's that whole learning and trusting process again, and i'm scared and guarded...and M still has a tiny little piece of my heart...

ACK...just ACK.

*hugs* I can really relate to that Hottie