Submissive/Slave Haven

[intothewoods]

Paddling with a paddle, right? That works better on me too. I tend to like paddles.

And yeah, I am just not a masochist, at least not physically. I say that with no judgment. Sometimes I think it would be great to just say, rawr, go to town. I've also found that I almost feel like my brain is going in about 12 different directions at once - ow, hurts, stop, but wait maybe, no, fuck, just wait hang on -- brain explosion.

 

[intothewoods]

I should maybe add, for clarification, that we're both fairly light players. Me and Mister Man, that is.

 

[Netzach]

Paddling with a paddle, right? That works better on me too. I tend to like paddles.

And yeah, I am just not a masochist, at least not physically. I say that with no judgment. Sometimes I think it would be great to just say, rawr, go to town. I've also found that I almost feel like my brain is going in about 12 different directions at once - ow, hurts, stop, but wait maybe, no, fuck, just wait hang on -- brain explosion.

I'd been spanked and paddled by her. They were amazingly similar, she had a hard, heavy hand.

 

[ShyVixen]

I'm feeling very vulnerable today, and have an intense need to serve a Dom and be told what a 'good girl' I am

 

[CurlyKat]

I'm feeling very vulnerable today, and have an intense need to serve a Dom and be told what a 'good girl' I am

Me too, me too! I haven't talked to him in a couple of days, so I'm really hoping timing works out for us to. Hearing that "good girl" from him is always so calming and reassuring.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

.. Hearing that "good girl" from him is always so calming and reassuring.

Odd this should be mentioned, because I was just telling (my) Him about this a couple days ago! It's like it calms something inside that would be bouncing off the walls otherwise.

 

[CurlyKat]

Odd this should be mentioned, because I was just telling (my) Him about this a couple days ago! It's like it calms something inside that would be bouncing off the walls otherwise.

Yes! Those words, coupled with that certain tone of voice, just have that "be still now, there's absolutely nothing in the world to worry about because he's in control" quality. I love it!

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Yes! Those words, coupled with that certain tone of voice, just have that "be still now, there's absolutely nothing in the world to worry about because he's in control" quality. I love it!

<nods> Yup. Exactly right.

 

[ShyVixen]

Yes! Those words, coupled with that certain tone of voice, just have that "be still now, there's absolutely nothing in the world to worry about because he's in control" quality. I love it!

Exactly. *nods in agreement* It's all about calming and reassuring.

 

[minx1]

Exactly. *nods in agreement* It's all about calming and reassuring.

*cuddles* hope you are doing ok chick.

Ps. IOU a pm.....yes, another one. I am crap at this at the moment.....sorry.

pps. look if it helps......I could try and domme you, *nods* yup......I could do it..yup me.....I mean um, Me! rawr...... Now bend over....... Good girl and all that

 

[rida]

dropping in to say hi!

done reading the whole thread ... lot of good life stories ... thank you for sharing

... need a place to heal my subbie-self ...

 

[ShyVixen]

*cuddles* hope you are doing ok chick.

Ps. IOU a pm.....yes, another one. I am crap at this at the moment.....sorry.

pps. look if it helps......I could try and domme you, *nods* yup......I could do it..yup me.....I mean um, Me! rawr...... Now bend over....... Good girl and all that

*laughs* Oh Minx, Yup, I feel much more...reassured now *sighs*

PS, take your time with the PMs, hon. I know how things are at the moment *huggles*

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Today would be one of those days that I thank God so fervently that I have Him in my life. I had a major bad depression episode this afternoon (that a couple little turd people I know caused). Sir Winston and Homburg were there for me too. Such good friends they are. <kisses SW's cheek & hands Homburg a bearded iris> But it's my wonderful Gabe who is the keystone that holds me up through everything. I'm still really stressed out about the situation. Just keep your fingers crossed that it gets resolved ok tomorrow, please? (And I'm seriously hoping won't have any bad repercussions at all.) I really don't want to go into details right now, it'll just set me off again. I just really need lots of hugs. Thanks, guys.

 

[minx1]

Today would be one of those days that I thank God so fervently that I have Him in my life. I had a major bad depression episode this afternoon (that a couple little turd people I know caused). Sir Winston and Homburg were there for me too. Such good friends they are. <kisses SW's cheek & hands Homburg a bearded iris> But it's my wonderful Gabe who is the keystone that holds me up through everything. I'm still really stressed out about the situation. Just keep your fingers crossed that it gets resolved ok tomorrow, please? (And I'm seriously hoping won't have any bad repercussions at all.) I really don't want to go into details right now, it'll just set me off again. I just really need lots of hugs. Thanks, guys.

*huge hugs* hon and as many as you can manage!

Hope you are ok. And whatever it is i hope that it gets resolved tomorrow chick....everything crossed for you xx

 

[minx1]

*laughs* Oh Minx, Yup, I feel much more...reassured now *sighs*

PS, take your time with the PMs, hon. I know how things are at the moment *huggles*

Thanks chick......we are very similar! *laugh* your pm really helped

 

[SweetGigi]

bubs, you know i'm here for you any time you need me. let me now if i can do anything for you.

*huggles and snuggles*

 

[smotherman]

I'd like to give praises to "Mistress Flame", for not only being an incredible Domme but the best writer on LIT.

Just my humble opinion!

 

[minx1]

I'd like to give praises to "Mistress Flame", for not only being an incredible Domme but the best writer on LIT.

Just my humble opinion!

*giggles* do you work on commission.........?

 

[CurlyKat]

Just peeking in to say hi and see how y'all are doing.

I know I kind of jumped into this thread with no intro or anything, so here's how I came across all of this. I was in bed sick all last week, and figured I'd do something to pass the time, so I started doing a bit more research and learning about other people's perspectives on Dom/sub relationships. I came across this thread and read it all the way through. To those of you who have posted thus far: your experiences that you've related have been amazing teaching tools! Thanks so much. The references posted have been wonderful, too. Most of it has done nothing more than reassure me what I already knew.... I have a very wonderful Dom, and am in a good place with him, even if it isn't in real life yet.

All that just to say hey and make myself a little less of a stranger around here.

 

[ShyVixen]

Just peeking in to say hi and see how y'all are doing.

I know I kind of jumped into this thread with no intro or anything, so here's how I came across all of this. I was in bed sick all last week, and figured I'd do something to pass the time, so I started doing a bit more research and learning about other people's perspectives on Dom/sub relationships. I came across this thread and read it all the way through. To those of you who have posted thus far: your experiences that you've related have been amazing teaching tools! Thanks so much. The references posted have been wonderful, too. Most of it has done nothing more than reassure me what I already knew.... I have a very wonderful Dom, and am in a good place with him, even if it isn't in real life yet.

All that just to say hey and make myself a little less of a stranger around here.

Hey back CK

I find this a very useful thread. It's nice to have a 'haven'

 

[SweetGigi]

my thread is a haven to all those in need of comfort and release. no need for formalities (to a degree- we'd like to know who you are though.) so please make yourselves welcome.

who wants some tea and cookies. *looks for grace*

and btw, has anyone seen CuiteMouse lately? am I out of the loop?

 

[BiBunny]

my thread is a haven to all those in need of comfort and release. no need for formalities (to a degree- we'd like to know who you are though.) so please make yourselves welcome.

who wants some tea and cookies. *looks for grace*

and btw, has anyone seen CuiteMouse lately? am I out of the loop?

The Mouse is MIA at the moment.

 

[HottieMama]

i'll take some tea if you have a straw... i have a HORRIBLE tooth/jaw ache and can't even open my mouth all the way.

 

[SweetGigi]

oh no!!!! that is no good.

I hope your jaw gets to feeling better soon. I understand what its like to feel poorly.

 

[SweetGigi]

tea and cookies for all!!! I am feeling generous.