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i was thinking that same thing.

if all the doms in your area are so awesome, you need to send a few down here, Hommie... fo' reals.
 
ALL awesome? Umm, ... :rolleyes:

Well, I was being sarcatic, thus the tongue thing...

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i was thinking that same thing.

if all the doms in your area are so awesome, you need to send a few down here, Hommie... fo' reals.

The ones I would send would be the ones I want to get rid of. That won't work for this problem.

And I thought that you'd met someone cool?
 
<hands Homburg a tinfoil cap & puts one on herself> Ok, they can't see us now. Shhh.

I'm talking about the women in the thread. Have you seen the Pussy Worship thread? It's like a feeding frenzy whenever Twisted posts...
 
I'm talking about the women in the thread. Have you seen the Pussy Worship thread? It's like a feeding frenzy whenever Twisted posts...

*giggles* I must be immune.:p
 
possibly. i've been alone for a long while in this department, and i have gone a little crazy i think.

You are lovely and sweet. I am sure some Dominant chap will notice this and do something about it.

In the interim, come on up here. I'll tie you up, and make you feel safe and secure and hawt :D
 
*curls up in the corner...as I don't fit either extreme but I needed a haven*
 
I'm talking about the women in the thread. Have you seen the Pussy Worship thread? It's like a feeding frenzy whenever Twisted posts...
Umm, no, is there really such a thread? It sounds a little silly. And who's Twisted?
 
*pats luna*

there there.... all are welcome here, toots. make yourself at home. what troubles, love?
 
I'm not sure if I'm answering this to fit what you're asking..but I'll try. I have a D/s dynamic with my Dom. A lot of S&M is involved in our relationship. Although my Dom isn't really considered my primary relationship, I love him very much, he feels the same about me. It's a romantic relationship as much as it is a D/s relationship. Neither my Dom, or my husband can make me cry easily..lol. It's not an emotion that comes easy to me. It takes a lot for me to cry. That being said..when I need that pain, that release, they understand that. (My husband has been learning to Top me, and has spanked me to tears on a few occasions when I needed it.) They know that the outer pain helps me to cope with inner pain/turmoil. So there's no reason for them to feel bad if I do cry..it's kinda the point. My hubby is umm..well mainly vanilla, maybe soft core kink, so at first the tears, or me wanting to be spanked to the point of tears bothered him a lot. I had him talk with a very experienced Dom, and Domme, and He's doing a lot better with it. My Dom..well he's a sadist so tears don't really affect him that much. I have a safeword, I'll use it if I need it and he knows that. Believe it or not..a lot of sadists like tears, and are in fact turned on by them.


That does answer my question, thank you. It might be a me thing that I just can't let go and cry. I don't know that I really want that.

What I come back to again and again is that I love the feeling the next day of oooh, I can feel where I was smacked. Love that. Adore that. Crave that. Getting the smacks - the hard enough smacks - that will result in those lingering bruises/sore spots? Yeah, me no like.
 
That does answer my question, thank you. It might be a me thing that I just can't let go and cry. I don't know that I really want that.
As hard as it is for me to let go and cry...when taking enough pain there is a breaking point, when even if I didn't want to cry, those tears are going to come..lol Like I said though when I get that way I need the release so it doesn't bother me, but D has made me cry before when I wasn't in one of those odd moods and didn't intend to cry. Gotta love a sadist.:devil:

TWhat I come back to again and again is that I love the feeling the next day of oooh, I can feel where I was smacked. Love that. Adore that. Crave that. Getting the smacks - the hard enough smacks - that will result in those lingering bruises/sore spots? Yeah, me no like.

See we differ in that area. I've never not had marks/bruises. Light smacks..etc would do nothing for me. I need it to be intense. Now if D choose to be easy on me I wouldn't have a choice..lol. Luckily his sadism matches my masochism..lol
 
That does answer my question, thank you. It might be a me thing that I just can't let go and cry. I don't know that I really want that.

What I come back to again and again is that I love the feeling the next day of oooh, I can feel where I was smacked. Love that. Adore that. Crave that. Getting the smacks - the hard enough smacks - that will result in those lingering bruises/sore spots? Yeah, me no like.

Paddling was like that for me. I remember getting paddled by J, the headmistress at the Dungeon I worked at, and she really delivered a paddling that felt SO good when it stopped that the whole miserable business was worth it. It was really neat.
 
Paddling was like that for me. I remember getting paddled by J, the headmistress at the Dungeon I worked at, and she really delivered a paddling that felt SO good when it stopped that the whole miserable business was worth it. It was really neat.

What was different about it? If you don't mind me asking.
 
What was different about it? If you don't mind me asking.

I don't know exactly, wish I did. She had really hard and insistant hands, and she had about 20 years as a professional Domme behind her, I think just being amazingly talented at reading people, and was able to push just a little harder but not too hard on my tolerances, whereas most people would always fall to one side or the other, hard enough that I don't want to play or soft enough that I wasn't challenged. She was known to be in the cups at times, but I'd play with her drunk before I'd play with most people sober.
 
I don't know exactly, wish I did. She had really hard and insistant hands, and she had about 20 years as a professional Domme behind her, I think just being amazingly talented at reading people, and was able to push just a little harder but not too hard on my tolerances, whereas most people would always fall to one side or the other, hard enough that I don't want to play or soft enough that I wasn't challenged. She was known to be in the cups at times, but I'd play with her drunk before I'd play with most people sober.

It makes me want to watch someone like that. There are nuances to how it is done, and I'm interested in that sort of thing. I have my own style to spanking, and have been complimented on it many times, but I always wonder if it is technique, or just large hands...

Thank you.
 
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