Submissive/Slave Haven

[wenchhh]

checking in

Hi everyone. Just checking in. I've neglected this forum of late, and thought I'd check in with my fellow subs. How's everybody doing? Gigi, are you rattling cause you're bored or is something wrong, hon? Hope you're all well. Everybody have their Christmas shopping done? Ugh, not me!
Hugs from NH

 

[SweetGigi]

.... Gigi, are you rattling cause you're bored or is something wrong, hon? Hope you're all well....
Hugs from NH

a bit of both.


just going thru a lot right now.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

.. thanks, toots.

<bows> You're quite welcome. I love making people laugh.

 

[SweetGigi]

how is everyone doing lately?

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Same as I have been. Nothing's changed really. Working on it though. You?

 

[rakess]

cheerful, but not too perky hello

I'll definitely be poking my head in to "listen" to the discussions. Pretty new to the forums, but I've started posting quite often. I'm really excited to start exploring and learning. I think I'm submissive, don't actually know until I have some r/l experiences. I don't really like the idea of online play. I can't take it seriously. Nice to meet all you ladies and gents.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

I was talking with someone earlier about the fact that I want to be spanked until I cry. He said some people "think" they want this, but when it happens they get upset. He wasn't too sure about the why part. I know this is vague, but can any of you tell me your thoughts &/or experiences on this subject? I'd appreciate it.

 

[intothewoods]

I was talking with someone earlier about the fact that I want to be spanked until I cry. He said some people "think" they want this, but when it happens they get upset. He wasn't too sure about the why part. I know this is vague, but can any of you tell me your thoughts &/or experiences on this subject? I'd appreciate it.

I have to think about this, but Mister Man has tried to push me on this, and I don't know, I just don't break easily. I will say ow, stop, before I cry.

 

[SweetGigi]

welcome! please feel free to pick the brains of all these lovely people and have a gander at all their knowledge. Peruse the libraries and ask questions if you feel the need. Most of us (ok, all of us) are pretty laid back and even if we bite you might be pleasantly surprised.

bubbles, are you workin' on the move? can I stow away?

 

[SweetGigi]

oh not me, ITO. I'll cry at the drop of a hat. I've had some experiences with this, and from my point of view its not all its cracked up to be. Then again, the concept of being spanked till I cry will bring tears to my eyes before I even present.

you know i'm gonna start a new thread on what i just posted here instead.

 

[nh23]

I was talking with someone earlier about the fact that I want to be spanked until I cry. He said some people "think" they want this, but when it happens they get upset. He wasn't too sure about the why part. I know this is vague, but can any of you tell me your thoughts &/or experiences on this subject? I'd appreciate it.

I get that way frequently. And I not only "think" I want to be spanked until I cry, I do. I've found nothing else that can calm the inner storm like outer pain, it that makes sense at all. He spanks/hits..etc.. until I am at the point of tears, and I feel a release. I can't really explain it. It could be in part because I'm not the type of person who cries easily, and I tend to push things that bother me into the back of my mind. So being spanked until I cry lets me release those emotions. I hope this helps a little bit.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Thanks, guys. I appreciate the comments. Please don't stop now. And, yes, Gigi, we're working on the move. Don't stow away too soon, you might run out of food & stuff. LOL Is that you in your avatar?

 

[SweetGigi]

Da, darling. that is me in all my silly glory

You wouldn't pack some cheese and crackers for me? *whimpers*

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Of course, darling! And some chocolate chip granola bars & protein water too.

 

[intothewoods]

I get that way frequently. And I not only "think" I want to be spanked until I cry, I do. I've found nothing else that can calm the inner storm like outer pain, it that makes sense at all. He spanks/hits..etc.. until I am at the point of tears, and I feel a release. I can't really explain it. It could be in part because I'm not the type of person who cries easily, and I tend to push things that bother me into the back of my mind. So being spanked until I cry lets me release those emotions. I hope this helps a little bit.

I don't know the exact nature of your relationship with your Dom, but he's not your primary relationship. Do you think this helps create the edge necessary to cry? I guess I just feel like anyone I'm friends with or really in a relaitonship with can't easily make me cry, because I don't really believe they want me to cry.

 

[SweetGigi]

oh good. will the clone be ready by then?

 

[nh23]

I don't know the exact nature of your relationship with your Dom, but he's not your primary relationship. Do you think this helps create the edge necessary to cry? I guess I just feel like anyone I'm friends with or really in a relaitonship with can't easily make me cry, because I don't really believe they want me to cry.

I'm not sure if I'm answering this to fit what you're asking..but I'll try. I have a D/s dynamic with my Dom. A lot of S&M is involved in our relationship. Although my Dom isn't really considered my primary relationship, I love him very much, he feels the same about me. It's a romantic relationship as much as it is a D/s relationship. Neither my Dom, or my husband can make me cry easily..lol. It's not an emotion that comes easy to me. It takes a lot for me to cry. That being said..when I need that pain, that release, they understand that. (My husband has been learning to Top me, and has spanked me to tears on a few occasions when I needed it.) They know that the outer pain helps me to cope with inner pain/turmoil. So there's no reason for them to feel bad if I do cry..it's kinda the point. My hubby is umm..well mainly vanilla, maybe soft core kink, so at first the tears, or me wanting to be spanked to the point of tears bothered him a lot. I had him talk with a very experienced Dom, and Domme, and He's doing a lot better with it. My Dom..well he's a sadist so tears don't really affect him that much. I have a safeword, I'll use it if I need it and he knows that. Believe it or not..a lot of sadists like tears, and are in fact turned on by them.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

LOL SweetGigi, you're so cute. That hair sample was for YOU to make the clone with.

 

[SweetGigi]

OH!!! damb.

what am I supposed to do now? I don't have that kinda money.

Can't we just pack you and Gabe and one of his amazing friends up and bring you all to ATL? then we could be a big happy family. YAY!!!

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

LOL I'm trying to convince him to go to D*C this year. Laurell K. Hamilton's going to be there. It's that whole money issue though ...

 

[SweetGigi]

oh that would be uuber fun!!

i hope it comes together!!

 

[Homburg]

a lot of sadists like tears, and are in fact turned on by them.

Did someone need a sadist?

Tears are just appreciation and gratitude leaking out of your eyes.

 

[SweetGigi]

You need to go to the girl A thread, Homburg.

... please?

 

[nh23]

Did someone need a sadist?

Tears are just appreciation and gratitude leaking out of your eyes.

*giggles* I've been told that before.

 

[Homburg]

You need to go to the girl A thread, Homburg.

... please?

I do? Where is it? And why do I need to go there?

ETA: Never mind, I found it.

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*giggles* I've been told that before.

LOL, I guess we Domly types really are all alike